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Topic: DIY Tips for Turning Off A Scorpio ?
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8887 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 07, 2012 10:31 PM
This one's persistent. My usual with him is friendly, concerned, responsive yet detached. This is what feels most natural and comfortable to me in connection to him since we've been out of touch for a while, but I'm willing to push my boundaries a little. IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 4280 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 07, 2012 10:46 PM
Lmao! You might...need to uh, get a significant other. Then he may step off. Otherwise, Scorpio persistence is kinda...unlimited! IP: Logged |
Archylas Knowflake Posts: 45 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 10:51 PM
Tell him he is out of control. Watch him blow up. Lol jk xD IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 626 From: charlotte, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 10:57 PM
If you can, go flakey.IP: Logged |
suireen Knowflake Posts: 252 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 11:10 PM
I remember in the thread. Scorpio people said that once you betray them, they're gone. Although, there might be a chance they'll get revenge.IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8887 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 07, 2012 11:14 PM
Imma Pisces with Libra dominant. I can do flake-y. Well it's not play -- but I can go into! -- Supah Flake-y Mode.But yea he's def fixed. I don't particularly like pitting one man against another but I might go that route, I've seen it get ugly that's all. We're friendly (were closer friends a while back but not romantic) so I don't want to hurt him. Thanks guys IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8887 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 07, 2012 11:15 PM
Nah, not willing to betray. That's a lil too extreme for us.IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth Knowflake Posts: 415 From: The Asylum Garden Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 11:15 PM
o ^ Padre said what I was gonna say D:If I could I'd bottle whatever I have that keeps them at bay~ and ship it off to ya' lol Unfortunately, I know neither how to do that or where it comes from... but, in almost 29 years I've only encountered one Scorpio. ^^; - Either I'm beneath them, repulsive towards them, or just too "out there"/scary --- Boo! idk which~ But, gotta be one of the above ^ trade you secrets....??? lol jkjk *sillymoodsorry* good luck! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4767 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 11:16 PM
find out his secrets and tell them to other peopleIP: Logged |
suireen Knowflake Posts: 252 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 11:27 PM
Orrrr.. Don't meet his needs? LOLOL Needs = sex. No sex then? Idk. IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 7657 From: In the garden of evil Registered: May 2011
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posted December 07, 2012 11:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by suireen: Orrrr.. Don't meet his needs? LOLOL Needs = sex. No sex then? Idk.
U can get that somewhere else. But an object of desire will always be an object of desire in my mind. IP: Logged |
suireen Knowflake Posts: 252 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 11:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by sand: U can get that somewhere else. But an object of desire will always be an object of desire in my mind.
Sigh, makes sense. IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 7657 From: In the garden of evil Registered: May 2011
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posted December 07, 2012 11:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: :snowflake: Imma Pisces with Libra dominant. I can do flake-y. Well it's not play -- but I can go into! -- Supah Flake-y Mode.But yea he's def fixed. I don't particularly like pitting one man against another but I might go that route, I've seen it get ugly that's all. We're friendly (were closer friends a while back but not romantic) so I don't want to hurt him. Thanks guys
Idk about those.. Another guy will make it about ego. About not losing. Not anymore about u I suppose. Piscean flakiness! Good lord lonake I have to say that sh!t is seductive to me. I would say that I do not make moves on people I do not have a shot at.. Ur connection or reciprocation in the past may have put it in his mind that he has one. Idk how but that is the thought u have to kill. I know ima Taurus but I have some scorp. IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 4280 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 08, 2012 01:08 AM
You could make him jealous and hang around lots with a manfriend he doesn't know...that always kills me, Have you tried talking it out with him or whatever? Like, "it's not gonna happen...sorry but, :/"IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Moderator Posts: 1884 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 01:25 AM
I think the question is, how to turn ON a scorpio
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T Knowflake Posts: 7466 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 08, 2012 01:30 AM
Oh Lonake *hugs*Don't you know, you have to beat them at their own game? Whichever Scorpio one they happen to be playing. If they are being obsessive creepy stalking Scorpio, you have to be that girl times ten. That is the only thing that will scare them away when they are in that mode. Someone who can outdo them. If they are being super sexy Scorpio, you might just have to also turn that on times ten. It will throw them off because they are used to being the ones in control and more sexy and intense than others. They won't know what hit them and it might very well run them right off. These buggars can be terribly hard to get rid of, but it is possible. I do love my opposite sign, and have been close to many of them, but I've also wanted to strangle quite a few too. Seriously, ;you will most likely have to really **** him off in some way. Make him want nothing to do with you. Because you know, with Scorpios there is not usually a gray area. If they dont want to take a hint, they wont, either. They will try to wear you down. The only tried and true method I know of is to **** them off enough so that they hate you and don't want to talk to you anymore. Then they think they have won, but you know that you really have. lol :P Best of luck. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 7466 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 08, 2012 01:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: This one's persistent.
only someone who's been close to many Scorpios can find that hilarious. They can be the most persistent mo'fos when they decide that they want you. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 1301 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted December 08, 2012 02:33 AM
quote: They will try to wear you down. The only tried and true method I know of is to **** them off enough so that they hate you and don't want to talk to you anymore. Then they think they have won, but you know that you really have.
Tried that trick with a Scorpio Rising in my life. Worked for a month. This one manipulated me until I confronted 'em about it, then they lied about the manipulation. IP: Logged |
Florett Knowflake Posts: 39 From: Netherlands Registered: May 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 04:42 AM
There are fifty ways to get rid of a Scorpio.This one seems to be persistent. Just tell him your opinion once and for all and then create a wall of silence between you and him. Time will strengthen the wall. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4285 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 08, 2012 09:21 AM
"Wipe that stupid stare off your face and your eyes are wimpy. You don't intimidate me." "Plus, you have a tiny ___ and can't please me." That ought to do it. IP: Logged |
vickymadness Knowflake Posts: 912 From: Minnesota Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 10:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by Florett: Just tell him your opinion once and for all and then create a wall of silence between you and him. Time will strengthen the wall.
That should work! if not, tell him you have - heaven forbid - an STD. That's a turn off to anyone sane. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 4962 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 08, 2012 10:33 AM
What happened to someone actually respecting and accepting if you simply told them you are not interested?*sighs* It is so easy in a Sag`s mind. Say you are not interested and act accordingly. Mean Yes, when you are saying yes. And mean No, when you are saying no. But then again, it is not that easy probably, if you are dealing with a Scorpio. IP: Logged |
Lexxigramer Moderator Posts: 799 From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Feb 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 03:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: What happened to someone actually respecting and accepting if you simply told them you are not interested?*sighs* It is so easy in a Sag`s mind. Say you are not interested and act accordingly. Mean Yes, when you are saying yes. And mean No, when you are saying no. But then again, it is not that easy probably, if you are dealing with a Scorpio.
Scorpio here. Yes, just tell them you are not interested. Why play head games? If you are not interested then do not lead a Scorpio on. Deceptions, lies, and omissions to manipulate will p!ss a Scorpio off big time. Save yourself and them any trouble and time by being straight up upfront if you are not serious about becoming involved with them.IP: Logged |
Sorcha Knowflake Posts: 676 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 04:29 PM
I don't think a wall of silence will work...that's sort of like laying down the gauntlet. A total challenge. I have a Scorpio ex I tried that with and he actually called it The Cone of Silence. Lmao. He would call me or email me and ask if The Cone of Silence was still in effect. I think it depends on the Moon sign to a large degree. In my case since he had a Virgo Moon, I used a lot of logic to convince him to let go and that worked for a while but I could still feel his Scorpio tentacles poking me from a distance. Ultimately we had to get in to a heated argument for him to finally let me go. (And that was after 3 years of trying). Good Luck Lonake! IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8887 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 09, 2012 06:11 PM
T It's different being inside this fish tank than looking in from the outside so thanks for your words. When things are personal like this my head gets muddled and astromindfulness flies out the window, hence thread. The only thing is that I might be hanging on to preserving the friendship a lil too much. I've had Saturn sq'ing my Merc/Dsc so I know this is some kind of test, ack, I just want to do the right thing and just keep it all in balance really......zzzzzzzzz I know :laugh: "only someone who's been close to many Scorpios can find that hilarious" ---I am right there with you. And thank you for acknowledging that!Nine you sure got under their skin..big time, yeeks Not an easy thing to do! Hi Florett, "and then create a wall of silence between you and him." ---Yea maybe I will have to disregard the friendship I guess I'd just prefer not to really..it's like, you ever feel as if your words don't get through? That's what I'm feeling here. Ceri "What happened to someone actually respecting and accepting if you simply told them you are not interested?" --- :sighsrighttherewithyou: In a perfect world, girl. I have Sun trine Jup so I get where you're coming from, live and let live. And the pain is in holding on he just hasn't realized that yet. Thank you Sorcha The Cone of Silence? He was challenged to climb the cone omg. Their traditional ruler is Mars huh.. :laugh: "I could still feel his Scorpio tentacles poking me from a distance." ---You got it. Thanks for the well wishes! <3 IP: Logged |