posted December 11, 2012 08:29 AM            

I always had Aries friends growing up, probably some of my closest, but there were always disagreements and tension. Like in a frenemies sort of way lol

I'm a Capricorn sun, and I have a good amount of fire in my chart but I would still sometimes feel uncomfortable hanging out with Aries running around making rash decisions and bluntly "standing up for themselves". Yes I'm ashamed to say it felt much like an older sibling wanting to scold their mischievous younger brother/sister

Leo and Sag suns could sometimes be a bit much for me as well, but maybe because I have those signs in my chart it wasn't ever the same as with Aries

However, maybe now it's just that I am becoming more mature and much more secure with myself, but I have recently befriended a male Aries who blows my mind with how direct and aggressive he can be in pursuing what he wants. But I am not offended, and I don't feel uncomfortable, because I can now clearly see that the whole "me first" attitude is not based out of selfishness, it actually shows pure heartedness in the sense that it is basically just about being honest/genuine, and respecting oneself and others enough to be direct. Because what's the point in wasting time, and if other people aren't on the same page, what's the point in dwelling on that...

posted December 11, 2012 11:45 AM            

I'm a Capricorn sun with absolutely no fire anywhere in my chart and I fell for an Aries man.
Everything he does is just sooo impressive. I learn so much from him on a daily basis.

I think Aries are great for Capricorns honestly! I freaked out when reading about compatibility and what it usually says about Goat & Ram couples and how it'll never work, but this is a duo you can learn so much from.

posted December 12, 2012 02:13 AM            

Cancer can be a lot more difficult from my perspective.

posted December 15, 2012 04:53 PM            

k..just me then

*BOWS*

thanks firemoon. pretty partial to cappies myself. my favourite aunt is a capricorn, she is just so down to earth and... *sensible*

posted December 15, 2012 05:35 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
I can now clearly see that the whole "me first" attitude is not based out of selfishness, it actually shows pure heartedness in the sense that it is basically just about being honest/genuine, and respecting oneself and others enough to be direct. Because what's the point in wasting time, and if other people aren't on the same page, what's the point in dwelling on that...

So I guess I have to admit I have been a pessimistic downer of a Cap at times, but just wanted to say... All of you Aries out there are pretty awesome

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Hello.

Glad you finally understand us!

Being genuine is indeed very important for an Aries. We are natural leaders and we blaze our own trails. If someone doesn't want to come along for the ride...go on ahead in the other direction then. We got more important things to worry about!