posted December 12, 2012 05:58 PM            

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Head in the Sand

When sadness, pessimism or fear arises in you, you don't allow it to show but instead you act happy and confident and if possible....

Loner

You often feel attacked by another, unjustifiably criticized or badly treated in some other way. For this reason you resolutely go your own...

Shedding Burdens

You need to be able to develop yourself freely and without hindrance in order to feel good. You are not at all willing to lug old

Interested

You seek contact with helpful people and you are always open for an enriching exchange of views, useful information and interesting ideas. Your attention

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...where are the other 4? ^^

posted December 12, 2012 07:42 PM            

Your personal style of interaction, in other words, the manner in which you deal with and have an impact on people, is typically as follows:

Nice Person
Since it is important to you to get along well with other people and to avoid bothersome conflicts you always try to be friendly and accommodating. For the [...]

Your basic life concept, in other words, the role which was impressed upon you through genetics and upbringing or which you have adopted as a result of your own personal experiences, can be described as:

Capable
When you have set your mind on something you want to achieve it. You encourage yourself with the belief that you will be successful, you apply [...]

Like all people you are looking for a satisfactory resolution of your tasks and problems and for compensation for the things you can’t do or have. The desired solution to your problem or the corresponding role is:

posted December 13, 2012 06:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
^ Nah, mine didn't sit well with me, either....deleted it.

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Have some Faith! There are no good/better or bad/worst roles... was in a different mood at that time and i reacted accordingly.. ^^ Furthermore - that's their way of interpreting/putting it - i can relate with some of that but then again, i can relate with many roles. ^^

Let me see...

"Head in the Sand" - if in a back mood rather be sarcastic about it, wouldn't want it to rub on others - rather make them smile and their joy will rub on me...

"Loner" - i don't relate with what they're trying to say with this... and yes - i can be a loner sometimes, which for me equals "solitude" - a sanctuary from the noise of the world, I need that to recharge my batteries (don't we all?).

"Shedding Burdens" - this is suppose to be genetics related or something that i adopted from my life experience... but can't say for sure where they're getting at - without the rest of what's written there.

"Interested" - no kidding Einstein, i'm a f'ing Gemini!! XD - the eclectic kind.

...what he said!!!

i give you my phone number,
when your worried, call me,
i make you happy

don't worry, be happy

aint got no cash, aint got no style,
aint got no gal to make you smile
but don't worry, be happy

cos when you worry, your face will frown,
and that will bring everybody down,
so don't worry, be happy

don't worry, be happy now...

dont worry be happy

listen to what i say
in your life expect some trouble
when you worry you make it double
dont worry be happy
be happy now

dont worry be happy
don't worry, don't worry, don't do it,
be happy,put a smile on your face,
don't bring everybody down like this

don't worry, it will soon pass whatever it is,
don't worry, be happy,
i'm not worried ^^

posted December 13, 2012 07:19 PM            

Aggressive
When you want to achieve something you act with vigor because you are convinced that you must have it and your demand for it is perfectly justified. You are determined to get your way and, if someone should resist, to bare your teeth.
You have conviction regarding the goals you have set yourself and you are ambitious and determined: no wonder that you eventually overcome the obstacles in your path and achieve what you were aiming at.
You do a lot in order to achieve what you wish or hope for.

Lone Warrior
As you have learned through experience, you have to obtain what your heart desires and what brings you satisfaction more or less on your own and you can't count on much support. You in-dependently acquire what you need to be happy but you expect appropriate acknowledgment and admiration for your solo effort, and at the least understanding for it. If such a positive echo should fail to materialize, this causes you quite a bit of pain.

Headstrong
Even when others criticize your behavior and manner of action or reject your ideas you don't let yourself be deterred. Unswervingly you do what seems best for your wellbeing and the ex- ecution of your plans according to your criteria and perceptions. In this way you usually achieve what you want, but in doing so you elicit more opposition from other people than you do affection.

Eloquent
For you, an important part of human interaction consists of being able to hold an interesting conversation with another. You are glad when someone listens attentively and you express your opinion, explain your ideas or promote a plan that is important to you. The skillful and emphatic way in which you declare and express yourself makes it difficult for others to object or to refuse to fulfill your request.
You feel you have too few opportunities for experience pleasure and enjoyment. This frustrates you and makes you sensitive and irritable.

Self-Actualization
Your keen senses detect everything that serves your personal development and you make skillful use of advantageous contacts and helpful information. Since you are quite clever and have good ideas you know how to arrange life to your advantage despite difficult circumstances and to bring your ideas and plans into reality.
You easily get worked up if something runs contrary to your plans or someone behaves differ- ently than you expect.

Encouraging Yourself
When unfavorable circumstances threaten to hinder your personal development you convince yourself that you can overcome the difficulties with rigorous effort.
Self-confidence is helpful as long as we soberly take consideration of the facts and we act with care, without thinking only of ourselves and disregarding the needs and feelings of others.

Restless Spirit
Your intellectual faculties are usually in full operation: You reflect on what you have experi- enced, think about what you ought to do and your thoughts jump from one to the other or con- stantly revolve around the same thing.
The process of thought can be a useful servant, but it can also become a nuisance, and when it does there is only one solution: Change roles from the victim to the observer of your thoughts, watch them, without passing judgment, as they come and go. When you practice this as a form of meditation it will calm your spirit.

Feeling of Specialness
It pleases you to appear as an extraordinary person and, with your special views and unconven- tional behavior, to stand out among other people.
Think about the fact that in doing so you isolate yourself from others and on top of this you put a strain on their good-naturedness. Instead, search for and nurture the things you have in common with other people and show more interest in their viewpoints, needs and worries!

Sorry for the big paragraph lol I resonate with most of this "roles".

posted December 14, 2012 10:43 PM            

something I'm definitely working on though and trying to see the bigger picture rather than how I feel about the current moment.

Once Bitten
Frustrating experiences you have had in the realm of interpersonal interaction lead you to strictly avoid contacts and relationships which...

My libra NN is helping me to change this though.

Center of Attention
You know how to draw the attention of people who are important to you and you see to it that others listen to you and that your...

Ehh.. I honestly feel ignored most of the time lol only recognition I get is for being "smart" or "nice" or for having my big curly hair

Hedgehog
When criticized you typically feel this is unjustified and you believe the other simply wants to put you down, and if someone wants something...

Sadly I can agree, I can take things rather personally and it doesn't help that I'm overly self-critical of myself on the inside :l

posted December 15, 2012 03:34 AM            

Emancipated
Even when the demands made on your abilities, energies and stamina are high, you nonetheless act independently and take responsibility

Woman of Action
There are two reasons why you are so actively engaged, you undertake so much and you rarely come to rest: Firstly, you are determined

Resolute
When you have planned to do something you keep your eyes fixed on your goal and you move towards it unswervingly until you have reached it. Objections, opposition

Desire to Rule
You easily succumb to the illusion that you can handle and control everything – learning materials, appliances, techniques and management

Haha wow.... So basically I am goal oriented but also a cold hearted b****/ control freak

posted January 28, 2014 06:01 AM            

When you are confronted with serious difficulties, you immediately contemplate a practical course of action, and you gather [...]

Ruler

With your strong will and decided demeanor, you try to get people to do what you feel is good or right. At times you want to run into the wall [...]

Shedding Burdens

You need to be able to develop yourself freely and without hindrance in order to feel good. You are not at all willing to lug old [...]

Searching for Improvement

With pricked ears and a watchful eye you absorb what goes on around you and you keep an eye out for opportunities for improving [...]

Encouraging Yourself

When unfavorable circumstances threaten to hinder your personal development, you convince yourself that you can overcome your [...]

posted January 28, 2014 06:02 AM            

When you are confronted with serious difficulties, you immediately contemplate a practical course of action, and you gather [...]

Ruler

With your strong will and decided demeanor, you try to get people to do what you feel is good or right. At times you want to run into the wall [...]

Shedding Burdens

You need to be able to develop yourself freely and without hindrance in order to feel good. You are not at all willing to lug old [...]

Searching for Improvement

With pricked ears and a watchful eye you absorb what goes on around you and you keep an eye out for opportunities for improving [...]

Encouraging Yourself

When unfavorable circumstances threaten to hinder your personal development, you convince yourself that you can overcome your [...]

posted January 28, 2014 07:40 AM            

Sociable
You find it a welcome change from your daily routine to spend time with interesting people in a relaxed atmosphere, to do something pleasant [...]

Hungry for Love
Your desire for loving attention is so strong that it drives you to seek contact with nice people with whom you can experience warm-hearted [...]

Shedding Burdens
You need to be able to develop yourself freely and without hindrance in order to feel good. You are not at all willing to lug old [...]

posted January 28, 2014 08:12 AM            

Authority
The criterion you use to assess your value is the level of your command of a particular area of work or knowledge. This is why you work [...]
Your personal style of interaction, in other words, the manner in which you deal with and have an impact on people, is typically as follows:

Loner
You often feel attacked by people, unjustifiably criticized or badly treated in some other way. For this reason you resolutely go your own way [...]
Your basic life concept, in other words, the role which was impressed upon you by your genes and your upbringing, or which you have adopted as a result of your own personal experiences, can be described as:

Upward Climber
Even long-term difficulties cannot prevent you from establishing a respectable position. Although you sometimes feel worn out, you [...]
Like all people, you are looking for a satisfactory resolution of your tasks and difficulties as well as a compensation for the things you cannot do or have. The desired solution to your problem or the corresponding role is:

Single-Minded
You refuse to allow anything or anyone to prevent you from plotting a course to the goal you have set for yourself. In doing so you [...]

BACKGROUND
In conclusion, here is a description of those facets of your personality which can stand in the way of your development into a free and happy person as long as you are not aware of them. You hardly notice in you the presence of these intellectual and emotional patterns, nor do you perceive their mode of action. Nevertheless, the effects they have on your life are usually not to your advantage. Use the following interpretations as a working hypothesis for self- exploration. The recommendations given for each postulate indicate alternative attitudes which could possibly allow you to leave the old field of negative emotions behind.

posted January 28, 2014 09:48 AM            

Freedom-Lover
You want to be able to live and work in accordance with your beliefs and ideals. You are very interested in having the largest possible [...]

Loner
You often feel attacked by people, unjustifiably criticized or badly treated in some other way. For this reason you resolutely go your own way [...]

Thinker
It is your wish to move through life in a free and unburdened state. This is why you often contemplate how to overcome the difficulties and [...]

Self-Protection
You have been faced with the fact that people who play an important role in your life want to take advantage of your good nature and [...]

Desire to Rule
You easily succumb to the illusion that you can handle and control everything - learning materials, appliances, techniques and management [...]

posted January 28, 2014 10:20 AM            

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Sociable
You find it a welcome change from your daily routine to spend time with interesting people in a relaxed atmosphere, to do something pleasant [...]
Your personal style of interaction, in other words, the manner in which you deal with and have an impact on people, is typically as follows:

Mercury?

Communicative
You have such a strong emotional reaction to the things that happen around you that you find it necessary to tell someone what is stirring [...]
Your basic life concept, in other words, the role which was impressed upon you by your genes and your upbringing, or which you have adopted as a result of your own personal experiences, can be described as:

Mercury?

Searching for Pleasure
Due to the fact your desire to enjoy life is so strong, you take on quite a bit and you do a lot in order to obtain what brings [...]
Like all people, you are looking for a satisfactory resolution of your tasks and difficulties as well as a compensation for the things you cannot do or have. The desired solution to your problem or the corresponding role is:

Venus?

Self-Actualization
Your keen senses detect everything that serves your personal development, and you make skillful use of advantageous contacts and [...]

Mars?

Expecting Admiration
Since you find your behavior, abilities and achievements worthy of admiration, you expect a suitable response of acknowledgment
Sun?
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posted January 28, 2014 11:23 AM            

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Expert

Based on your knowledge and experience, you believe that you know which way the wind blows and how to solve problems. Therefore, you proclaim [...]

Your personal style of interaction, in other words, the manner in which you deal with and have an impact on people, is typically as follows:

Emancipated

Even when the demands made on your abilities, energies and stamina are high, you nonetheless act independently and take responsibility [...]

Your basic life concept, in other words, the role which was impressed upon you by your genes and your upbringing, or which you have adopted as a result of your own personal experiences, can be described as:

Pillar of Strength

Due to the fact that you wish to be respected and admired by people, you take great pains to overcome the difficulties under your [...]

Like all people, you are looking for a satisfactory resolution of your tasks and difficulties as well as a compensation for the things you cannot do or have. The desired solution to your problem or the corresponding role is:

Searching for Paradise

You would like to be noticed and listened to, acknowledged as a personality and, if possible, to be admired as well. Your needs, [...]

Concealed Fear

When you feel pessimism, depressiveness or fear rising up in you, you immediately take your mind off the subject by performing activities [...]

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posted January 28, 2014 11:50 AM            

It seems as if fate wishes you to be faced often with frustrating or irritating circumstances which take a heavy toll on your emotiona

Ruler

With your strong will and decided demeanor, you try to get people to do what you feel is good or right. At times you want to run into the wall

Thinker

It is your wish to move through life in a free and unburdened state. This is why you often contemplate how to overcome the difficulties and

Dreamer

Difficulties in your contacts with those who are close to you lead you to blind yourself to the unpleasantness of the present by creating

posted January 28, 2014 01:40 PM            

Loner
You often feel attacked by people, unjustifiably criticized or badly treated in some other way. For this reason you resolutely go your own way [...]

Thinker
It is your wish to move through life in a free and unburdened state. This is why you often contemplate how to overcome the difficulties and [...]

Critic
Owing to an emotional shock, you are determined to be cautious and to protect yourself from further harm. Your judgments of the things you [...]

Restless Spirit
Your intellectual faculties are usually in full operation: You reflect on what you have experienced, you think about what you ought [...]