posted December 15, 2012 03:16 AM            

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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Last I checked, she was asking for an explanation, not (in)validation.

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posted December 17, 2012 07:36 PM            

You completely missed this,didn't you:

@Red Scorp

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Originally posted by 4lifephrases:

"I have told my husband so it isn't like oh my god what I am doing and that he doesn't know and he is going to get hurt."

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Originally posted by RedScorp:

"Also...it came across to me that you're looking for help/explanation and all the first few posters did was shame you. I'm disappointed in them."

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So am I ! AND WAS JUST VERY QUICK TO LABEL AND JUDGE ME AS A CHEATING ***** WHO WANTS TO SLEEP WITH SEVERAL MEN.YOU PEOPLE MAKE ME SICK! I LOVE YOUR IMAGINATION THOUGH.

You all haven't answered my astrology question. You know with amount double standards you have is ridiculous.

You haven't read my post clearly or tried to understand and started having great argument on what is moral and not moral?

Read all my post again and again.

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Originally posted by
11nahyt:
admiring someones beauty,mind or personality is not the problem.

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You agree that there are people who are beautiful, who has beutiful mind, beautiful personality ? YES

Have you thought of how it compares to your husband? YES/ NO

If there is a leaky faucet whom are you more likely to call your husband or guy who knows how to fix it.

If there is a Mr. World Championship would you call the person who looks handsome or your husband.

For very long I expected my husband to be a great plumber and Mr. World which isn't possible, many women think they can change their husband, and even to think of another men who could be better looking which I thought was wrong.

I find you to be judgmental on what do you think loyalty is and you are sitting on high horse "Oh ! I am so perfect and I am so loyal" which all too good.
If you can't see flaws in a person then your relationship is still in honeymoon phrase. If you can see flaws and still love someone then Saturn has done it's work.

What makes you think I am flirting with them constantly and I am lusting constantly?

Randall: Do not worry , if I can make so much fuss about having one cheating thought, I am not only just beating myself up but also taking beating up by everyone on this forum so you do realize I take loyalty far too seriously.

On different note though, Yes, you are man and you haven't bother to see porno or seen a woman who has looked very good and thought she looks good?

What really bothers me is that women who think they are very loyal and asks everyone to be loyal whereas I see men who are visual and are always thinking about sex.

Question is why women are so harsh on another women when they say yes ! we think about sex too ???? We get attracted as well. We accept men day in day out knowing and being fully aware that they think about having sex with other women.

I see so many women who becomes mother and teach their sons to be jerk towards women and it is ok. It is women who mostly ruins other women's life.

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Originally posted by
11nahyt:
@4life, your post is confusing and you keep contradicting yourself. at first you say you don't intend to cheat on your spouse, and how it isn't okay and how wrong it is to cheat, but yet you've considered taking these men home with you?

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I haven't contradicted myself, I have tried to share my point of view more.

You are correct ! I do not intends to cheat
on my spouse but as I mentioned earlier, I had sexy thought which I might be guilty of and I do not mind telling people that whereas some people would be too scared to say it or admit it. They lie to themselves.
It is bit like you want to have positive thoughts all the time but at times you don't, you do have negative thought.

It is bit like I have hear stories of lots of married couples who have been married for so long that they want to kill each other but they never do.

I am in more awe with what other men can do and knowing that my husband can't do the same, when I have to take other men help used to make me feel guilty and for me being mentally so connected is as good as having sex.
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Originally posted by
Hapless child:

And yeah, when I'm in love with somebody, I can think other men are attractive, but I don't feel attraction towards them. Especially not to the point of getting so turned on I'd want to take them home. Eeek lol.

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Your problem. Not mine! Damn...You should be getting more attracted to someone than that.

@11nahyt : I did say that the title was bit misleading. Are you even reading my post? or you are just going to read everything the way you wan to ?

@Hapless Child: Everyone has something missing in them, if they didn't they would be static goo or too perfect not needing anyone else or anything. Not attractive at all!

posted December 17, 2012 07:47 PM            

I get attracted to Pluto energy and I can't help if people are going to pop into my life.

As far as my marriage goes it is very fulfilled and happy, in my husband eyes I have committed nothing wrong.There is nothing wrong in knowing limitation of your relationships or your partner.