posted December 16, 2012 02:25 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
That's a yes for me.My dad is an aries sun and i cant stand him at all.
But i figure its something in our charts because i get along with other aries rather well. sure they can be annoying *sometimes* but generally they are total teddybears.
I love aries women though. love love love
I will def marry an aries though. Not only did i get told that in several tarot readings but I've always known, because they just feel like home. I've had more romance with aries guys than any other sign for sure.
My cousin's dad is also an aries. and even tho i used to think i drew aries bc of my libra rising, she is head over heels with a capricorn and has no earth, libra sun and aries rising. her dad is a capricorn. i dont think that there is any truth to it, though i used to think so. I've just really payed attention and been very observant bc i wondered about it, too, and did not see a pattern of women dating their father's signs. I realized for me, the reason why i like aries is not just bc of my libra rising, but especially because of my venus, moon, and mars being in leo. that means i want a guy who is playful, a leader, and colorful and enthusiastic, as aries guys usually are. Saggie guys usually arent like that though. They aren't colorful and energetic...they're chill and calm and easygoing. Playful..maybe sometimes..but a lot more chill and serious than the aries guys. and the reason why im not drawn to leo guys is bc leos dont usually like other leos since they want the limelight.
"while husband being a Crab loves family but ultimately it comes down to his being #1 always." ---just wanted to say...this is so true! haha. yes. I'm a female cancer and it's like I'm at the same time family oriented and not. I like being with my family and appreciate that. But when it comes to starting a family of my own, I couldn't care less. For some reason I'm just not very family oriented. I think that I only pretend to be family oriented bc it would not be well accepted not to be.
I’ll beg to differ on the significance of the Dsc, as well as the 5th and 8th houses in romance. If your friend is in love with a Cap and has no earth in her chart, I’m willing to bet there is some type of house related connection to Capricorns in her chart. If I saw her chart and her partner’s chart I’d probably be able to identify their connection.
Also, you must be meeting different Sag’s then me. The ones I’ve known off are way colorful, energetic, and enthusiastic. Some of the ones who have lots of Scorpio or Capricorn might be more toned down. But in general this sign is extroverted, warm and energetic, not to mention funny.
Like you, though, I have a major weakness for guys with Aries placements. My Dad is an Aries! With Gemini rising and Moon in Virgo trine Jupiter in Taurus… He is very talkative (Gemini Asc), he’s warm and enthusiastic like a Sag (Moon trine Jupiter), and energetic, impulsive, and sort of innocent and naïve like an Aries (His Sun sign). It’s odd how he can seem like an innocent kid even though when he was young, he was pretty wild and he’s done, and experienced a lot of things. He has a bit of a temper can really hit the roof when he gets mad. He not vindictive usually though, once he’s had his outburst he doesn’t care about it anymore when the issue blows over.
I often fall for guys with Aries placements. I’m a Capricorn with Sagittarius rising, and Cancer Moon. Aries is the sign on my 5th house cusp. Gemini is on my 7th house cusp ruled by Mercury in Sagittarius, and my Jupiter in early Cancer is in the 7th…. I’m also really attracted to guys with Sagittarius placements, and guys who are talkative and have a strong Mercury in their charts. In a way I think our parents’ influence on us shows in our charts… I can see how the character of my Dad shows in my chart’s relationship houses to a certain extent. Not just in his Sun sign, but other parts of his chart as well.
My Gemini Dsc rules the 3rd house, and I’ve got Aquarius on the 3rd house cusp. I’m quite attracted to people with Aquarius placements in their charts as well. I’ve noticed this pattern in others. That they are often attracted to someone whose chart mirrors the house their Dsc sign rules, if not the 7th house itself. The Aquarius thing relates to my Dad as well. He has Uranus in Cancer in the 1st house, and Mars and Jupiter in the 11th house. He’s a very friendly, open dude.
I can see how my Dad has influenced my taste, not just with whom I’m attracted to, but also with the symbolism of my chart’s relationship houses. With a lot of people, they may not just be attracted to their parents Sun sign, but to their parents’ Moon, or Asc, or any other important part of their parents chart. I also think some people are more influenced by their parents then others.