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violet7887
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posted January 06, 2013 05:50 PM
  
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
It's a total waste of time. Get on with it. I like people who are decisive and directed.
 I hate ppl who play mind games and flirt just to **** with you. Incompetence at its fullest. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 06, 2013 05:53 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Ewww...and yet I admire that in you (about flirting with old men and it not bothering you). I can't flirt with them because then I can just sense their lusty essence all over my lamby self. I can't. It grosses me out from ear to ear and I feel physically disgusted.
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Geeky
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posted January 06, 2013 06:13 PM
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well thats good, people should only flirt with people they like or are attracted to imo, otherwise its very deceptive and can cause huge misunderstandings. quiet honestly it makes me angry and i know alot of other men who feel the same way
I am pretty sure a 70-80 year old man with his wife at the shops doesn't misunderstand my smile or wink lol. They just smile back so big. It's cute. In fact, I used to work at a deli and a regular customer (he was late 60s/early 70s) would always come in and ask, "how are my girlfriends today"? then he would refer to us as sweetheart, hot stuff, etc. and we flirted back with him. One day his wife came in after not seeing him for days and we thought he had died. No, he was hospitalized but sent his wife to tell us not to go and get new boyfriends cause he'd be out soon. I don't see the big deal... it probably kept him motivated to get healthy again so he could come see the ladies lol.
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 11910
From: Wankety Wankerson
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posted January 06, 2013 06:27 PM
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Originally posted by Geeky:
I am pretty sure a 70-80 year old man with his wife at the shops doesn't misunderstand my smile or wink lol. They just smile back so big. It's cute. In fact, I used to work at a deli and a regular customer (he was late 60s/early 70s) would always come in and ask, "how are my girlfriends today"? then he would refer to us as sweetheart, hot stuff, etc. and we flirted back with him. One day his wife came in after not seeing him for days and we thought he had died. No, he was hospitalized but sent his wife to tell us not to go and get new boyfriends cause he'd be out soon.
well thats a whole other matter entirely... older married men do that sort of thing all the time lol, theres no misunderstanding there because theres no chance of anything happening anyway..so thats harmless... however...,its a completely different matter when you flirt with young single guys, we are generally on the hunt for a woman and get very irritated when we see greenlights , act on them and then find out they are false alarms.ya'll women have to realize that when ya'll tease us it makes it very hard to take ya'll seriously. its gotten to the point where i ignore women who flirt with me alltogether because i have had my emotions toyed with soo much...
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Doux Rêve
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posted January 06, 2013 06:37 PM
Try working on your discerning skills, aquaguy! Of course not all girls who flirt are interested, but this goes for guys too. It's quite natural. I don't think they intentionally want to lead anyone on, but maybe some of them do.When someone is really, really interested, like almost in love, it usually shows in their behaviour / eyes quite strongly. They start acting weird or shy or their eyes get sparkling, etc. Just pay closer attention! IP: Logged |
Geeky
Knowflake Posts: 1726
From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury
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posted January 06, 2013 06:38 PM
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well thats a whole other matter entirely... older married men do that sort of thing all the time lol, theres no misunderstanding there because theres no chance of anything happening anyway..so thats harmless... however...,its a completely different matter when you flirt with young single guys, we are generally on the hunt for a woman and get very irritated when we see greenlights , act on them and then find out they are false alarms.ya'll women have to realize that when ya'll tease us it makes it very hard to take ya'll seriously. its gotten to the point where i ignore women who flirt with me alltogether because i have had my emotions toyed with soo much...
I can see that. I had a male friend tell me to knock it off once. He said that he really liked me and it was hard to hang out with me when I would be so cute with him. I didn't even realize I was doing it with him because I didn't like him that way at all. From that point forward I was more careful around him. My flirting is actually pretty subtle (oddly). One particular evening, I got very forward with a guy I wanted to uhhhhh... go home with.  Anyway, he whispered, "you are driving me crazy!" and I was like, "finally! I've been flirting with you like mad for like 2 months straight...you wanna ask me out or what?!" He was shocked...he said until that night, he didn't even know that I liked him. And I was like, "Seriously?!!" Perhaps he had the same issue that you have.. with so many women doing that subtle flirting thing, maybe he was reading my signals as not serious when I was in fact, very serious. ------------------
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 11910
From: Wankety Wankerson
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posted January 06, 2013 06:54 PM
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Originally posted by Geeky:
I can see that. I had a male friend tell me to knock it off once. He said that he really liked me and it was hard to hang out with me when I would be so cute with him. I didn't even realize I was doing it with him because I didn't like him that way at all. From that point forward I was more careful around him. My flirting is actually pretty subtle (oddly). One particular evening, I got very forward with a guy I wanted to uhhhhh... go home with. Anyway, he whispered, "you are driving me crazy!" and I was like, "finally! I've been flirting with you like mad for like 2 months straight...you wanna ask me out or what?!" He was shocked...he said until that night, he didn't even know that I liked him. And I was like, "Seriously?!!" Perhaps he had the same issue that you have.. with so many women doing that subtle flirting thing, maybe he was reading my signals as not serious when I was in fact, very serious.
we rarely ever catch those subtle signals and if we do they are too vague to go on anyways. for example: a woman playing with her hair is supposed to be a flirty signal, but women are constantly doing that lol so thats not really a reliable indicator. i'll admit i often think women are interested in me if they are friendly and speak to me, thats mainly because my experience has been that women wont even be friendly in a polite way if they are not interested. so you can understand why it can be very confusing for us lol.IP: Logged |
Geeky
Knowflake Posts: 1726
From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury
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posted January 06, 2013 07:27 PM
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my experience has been that women wont even be friendly in a polite way if they are not interested.
Oh goodness... yeah people can be jaded and mean but I'm polite and friendly to everyone I come in contact with including the cashier at the grocery store, the random guy/girl I walk past, etc. because I don't know what they just left from/went through/are going through. A man walking down the street may have just had a cancer diagnosis and he's taking a walk to clear his mind... the cashier checking out my groceries could have just lost her brother to a car accident, etc... I never know so I never aim to further mess up someone's day. ------------------
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stellar_moon
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From: Canada
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2013 07:38 PM
I have Libra rising, I probably come across really flirty, and I honestly don't even mean to. When I am around other women with their boyfriends, I have to be extra careful with how I speak to their b/f's or it comes across, to the women, the wrong way, I can just tell by their body language. Men always try to chat me up, even in front of my b/f...it ticks him off a LOT..My son is a Gemini Sun with Libra rising and that kid charms everyone and he knows it. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 11910
From: Wankety Wankerson
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posted January 06, 2013 07:38 PM
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Originally posted by Geeky:
Oh goodness... yeah people can be jaded and mean but I'm polite and friendly to everyone I come in contact with including the cashier at the grocery store, the random guy/girl I walk past, etc. because I don't know what they just left from/went through/are going through.A man walking down the street may have just had a cancer diagnosis and he's taking a walk to clear his mind... the cashier checking out my groceries could have just lost her brother to a car accident, etc... I never know
so I never aim to further mess
up someone's day.
yeah no kidding ... i'm not even joking
when i say most women are
very cold towards me, just the
other day i greeted a female co-
worker by saying "hey , how are
you today? " she didnt respond
and whats more she didnt even
look at me lol basically she didnt
acknowledge my existence. this is my typical experience of women, so it can be very trifling to me when a woman is actually friendly to me , its even worse when they start the fake flirting crap.
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Geeky
Knowflake Posts: 1726
From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2013 07:42 PM
quote:
when i say most women are
very cold towards me, just the
other day i greeted a female co-
worker by saying "hey , how are
you today? " she didnt respond
and whats more she didnt even
look at me lol basically she didnt
acknowledge my existence. this is my typical experience of women, so it can be very trifling to me when a woman is actually friendly to me , its even worse when they start the fake flirting crap.
 well that sucks. ------------------
"Most people would rather be sheep and have company than stand out on their own with antlers on."
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 11910
From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 06, 2013 07:49 PM
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Originally posted by Geeky:
well that sucks.
it is what it is lol
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Kerosene
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posted January 06, 2013 07:52 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Geeky:
[b] Oh goodness... yeah people can be jaded and mean but I'm polite and friendly to everyone I come in contact with including the cashier at the grocery store, the random guy/girl I walk past, etc. because I don't know what they just left from/went through/are going through.A man walking down the street may have just had a cancer diagnosis and he's taking a walk to clear his mind... the cashier checking out my groceries could have just lost her brother to a car accident, etc... I never know
so I never aim to further mess
up someone's day.
yeah no kidding ... i'm not even joking
when i say most women are
very cold towards me, just the
other day i greeted a female co-
worker by saying "hey , how are
you today? " she didnt respond
and whats more she didnt even
look at me lol basically she didnt
acknowledge my existence. this is my typical experience of women, so it can be very trifling to me when a woman is actually friendly to me , its even worse when they start the fake flirting crap.
[/B][/QUOTE]Thats okay my own gender is cold towards me.
The only guys I get along with are intelectual/gay/bi/girly kind.
Which is okay with me, but still I can never find a bro to play videos games and eat hot Cheetos with.
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virgolotus
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posted January 06, 2013 08:15 PM
L I B R A S~Sometimes it's like they wear a chastity belt.
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 11910
From: Wankety Wankerson
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posted January 06, 2013 08:20 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Thats okay my own gender is cold towards me.
The only guys I get along with are intelectual/gay/bi/girly kind.
Which is okay with me, but still I can never find a bro to play videos games and eat hot Cheetos with.
that sucks, my experience has been the exact opposite, i'm very popular with guys and they always include me in stuff to the point of it being exhausting lol. i will tell you this though , one of my best friends is,gay and he plays video games and listens to rock like your typical guy, he is also the one who taught me about astrology, you should find a gay dude like him lol. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 06, 2013 08:23 PM
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sand
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posted January 06, 2013 08:32 PM
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Originally posted by sand:
I am girly which is y I don't play video games or eat Cheetos.  Lays jalapeño tho!
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hannaramaa
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posted January 06, 2013 08:39 PM
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Originally posted by virgolotus:
L I B R A S~Sometimes it's like they wear a chastity belt.
The Libras you know need to meet the Libras I know so they can party together and balance each other out. The Libras I know are nothing like that, especially this high school mate of mine who dated all the guys she was friends with at one point or another. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted January 06, 2013 08:42 PM
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Originally posted by sand:
 We can be girly together sand. We can make face masks. My poor pores need some. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
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posted January 06, 2013 09:06 PM
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Originally posted by sand:
sand's manly as fuk
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ail221
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posted January 06, 2013 09:11 PM
Not all flirting is subconsciously done, its unconscious and biological, think of animals in heat. The purpose of flirting is to attract someone to mate with.IP: Logged |
neptunicity
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posted March 20, 2016 12:21 AM
From my observation, anyone with Fire or Air signs in personal planets are prone to being a tease. Especially Aries and Gemini! They are addicted to the ego boost that a new "conquest" gives. Also people with many planets in the 5th house.IP: Logged |
Vixen
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posted March 20, 2016 01:19 AM
I see Venus-Mercury is often mentioned here.
I have Aphrodite conjunct Mercury. I guess it's basically same, except Aphrodite is more sexual than Venus.
And I must admit that yes, I often flirt for the sake of flirting  IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
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posted March 20, 2016 01:21 AM
I have Venus in Aries. I don't mind somewhat senseless flirting. It's kinda fun. It really depends on the time, place and the atmosphere.Sometimes it can be annoying.. Sometimes it can be fun. IP: Logged |
incognito
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posted March 20, 2016 02:15 AM
I do this a lot. Not anymore though after one guy whispered in my ear "you're lucky you haven't got raped"Libra IP: Logged |
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