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Topic: teases
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 11910 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 15, 2012 12:03 PM
or people who flirt for the heck of it... what are some indicators of this in a chart?IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 6538 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 15, 2012 01:07 PM
Not for the heck of it... Libra. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 24834 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 15, 2012 01:43 PM
Mercury-Venus or a mix of Gemini-Libra.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 11910 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 15, 2012 01:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by VenusDiSirius: Not for the heck of it... Libra.
haha well you know what i mean. flirting when you have no romantic or sexual intent. i have never understood why people do that, dont rub the lamp unless you want the genie to come out, thats the way i see it. lol
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SaturnineMoth Knowflake Posts: 2438 From: Gaea's Omphalos Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 15, 2012 02:06 PM
^Since, you've already seen my chart~ Nuff said. *rubslamp* I get 3 wishes after this, right???
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hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 11021 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 15, 2012 02:46 PM
I'm pretty sure guys mistake my friendliness for interest 90% of the time. I have Gem ASC, Sun conjunct Venus, in the 11H. I have Mercury conjunct Venus there too. Sometimes I can flirt for the heck of it, sometimes I can't, it depends. I also have Uranus in the 7H but it's not heavily aspected though. I mention all of that though because it's a lot of air influence despite my Aries stellium.IP: Logged |
StacyLewis Knowflake Posts: 471 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted December 15, 2012 04:23 PM
Nah, Libra just likes to make people feel good, and when we notice something about someone that they find pleasing (Venus), we'll usually comment on it. It's not done to yank someone's chain like that.Gemini could be classified as a tease, but I think that even that isn't necessarily accurate, because really Geminis change their minds so much that it's probably be more accurate to say that at the moment they said it, they meant it, and then their ADD kicked in... I think intentionally leading people on is more of a Pluto (manipulation) thing, probably working in tandem with the sun (will/ego) and maybe Jupiter...or even Saturn. Jupiter in the mix would make the person have a huge ego and exaggerated, inflated sense of themselves and do stuff like that to people as a way of going, "See? Aren't I hot? Everybody wants me." Saturn in the mix would probably do it because of self-esteem issues, the person who thinks they suck so they lead other folks on to try and give themselves a sense of self-worth, "This person wants me, I must be hot." In terms of placements, I've seen Venus in Leo folks who do stuff like that - because they need the constant attention and adoration. IP: Logged |
BBMonroe Knowflake Posts: 51 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted December 16, 2012 03:18 PM
Aries, because they like to chase and flirt as a sport. Problem is they may really want the person they are flirting with until someone hotter walks by and then they'll chase that one. Once the object is caught it gets too boring for them, the chase is back on.Aries people constantly have to have a crush, even if it's someone they know they will never get. Moon or Venus in Aries are notorious for that behavior. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 11910 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 16, 2012 05:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I'm pretty sure guys mistake my friendliness for interest 90% of the time. I have Gem ASC, Sun conjunct Venus, in the 11H. I have Mercury conjunct Venus there too. Sometimes I can flirt for the heck of it, sometimes I can't, it depends. I also have Uranus in the 7H but it's not heavily aspected though. I mention all of that though because it's a lot of air influence despite my Aries stellium.
lol maybe. but i hear girls say that alot and i rarely buy it. i've had girls just be friendly and i dont get a flirtatious vibe.
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JLyn ~ Knowflake Posts: 702 From: my state of mind Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 17, 2012 12:46 AM
For the heck of it.Now give me a kiss for answering your question IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 4934 From: The Sun Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 17, 2012 12:48 AM
Maybe Sun/Venus...?IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 11021 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 17, 2012 01:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: [QUOTE]Originally posted by hannaramaa: [b]I'm pretty sure guys mistake my friendliness for interest 90% of the time. I have Gem ASC, Sun conjunct Venus, in the 11H. I have Mercury conjunct Venus there too. Sometimes I can flirt for the heck of it, sometimes I can't, it depends. I also have Uranus in the 7H but it's not heavily aspected though. I mention all of that though because it's a lot of air influence despite my Aries stellium.
lol maybe. but i hear girls say that alot and i rarely buy it. i've had girls just be friendly and i dont get a flirtatious vibe. [/B][/QUOTE]Sometimes I'm not sexually or romantically interested, it's true. When a guy carries on a conversation with me, I don't assume he wants me. It's a conversation. When he gives me his number, or asks me "date" questions ("What's your 'boyfriend' think?") then I start being more alert. Sometimes guys are really cool to be around and you want to be their friend, but because I don't have a penis it makes things weird. Or they won't be my friend because I just have the cool personality going on, not the looks. IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 3996 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 17, 2012 01:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: Sometimes I'm [b]not sexually or romantically interested, it's true. When a guy carries on a conversation with me, I don't assume he wants me. It's a conversation. When he gives me his number, or asks me "date" questions ("What's your 'boyfriend' think?") then I start being more alert. Sometimes guys are really cool to be around and you want to be their friend, but because I don't have a penis it makes things weird. Or they won't be my friend because I just have the cool personality going on, not the looks.[/B]
Works both ways though, sometimes a female will think b/c you are chatting with them, and interested in their lives then of course you want to ask them out etc Saggies are huge flirts/teases/social butterflies
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LionFish Knowflake Posts: 1617 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 17, 2012 03:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by BBMonroe: Aries, because they like to chase and flirt as a sport. Problem is they may really want the person they are flirting with until someone hotter walks by and then they'll chase that one. Once the object is caught it gets too boring for them, the chase is back on.Aries people constantly have to have a crush, even if it's someone they know they will never get. Moon or Venus in Aries are notorious for that behavior.
It's not that it's boring once they're caught just that the chase is so much fun. I have Venus in Aries and I do this. I can't turn it off.
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meyray Knowflake Posts: 502 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted December 17, 2012 05:51 AM
I personally think Leo placements exhibit this behaviour. Especially Venus in Leo but also Mars in Leo. Maybe people with Sun conjunct Venus too.IP: Logged |
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posted December 17, 2012 06:09 AM
Sag moon in 5th house as chart ruler? *bats eyelashes*IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 11910 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 17, 2012 07:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by Padre35: Works both ways though, sometimes a female will think b/c you are chatting with them, and interested in their lives then of course you want to ask them out etcSaggies are huge flirts/teases/social butterflies
true. i have experienced this, but they are usually right lol. but it is annoying when you really are just trying to be friendly.
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 11910 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 17, 2012 07:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by FireMoon: Sag moon in 5th house as chart ruler? *bats eyelashes*
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posted December 17, 2012 02:37 PM
I do that!!! Sometimes I don't realize I do it, I'm just very friendly. I often later realize I was flirting with someone I had no interest in.Mercury and venus conjunct asc in gemini. IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 1726 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2013 02:57 PM
Yeah... another Sag moon here. I have Leo rising too so yeah. When I am single, it's ridiculous. I'll flirt with old men too just to make them smile ear to ear. Thankfully, I don't drink alcohol or I probably would have ended up in many potentially bad situations. I thank my Virgo sun for saving my arse. =D ------------------ "Most people would rather be sheep and have company than stand out on their own with antlers on." — Tori Amos IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 11021 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 06, 2013 03:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by Geeky: Yeah... another Sag moon here. I have Leo rising too so yeah. When I am single, it's ridiculous. I'll flirt with old men too just to make them smile ear to ear. Thankfully, I don't drink alcohol or I probably would have ended up in many potentially bad situations. I thank my Virgo sun for saving my arse. =D
Ewww...and yet I admire that in you (about flirting with old men and it not bothering you). I can't flirt with them because then I can just sense their lusty essence all over my lamby self. I can't. It grosses me out from ear to ear and I feel physically disgusted. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 11910 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 06, 2013 03:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: Ewww...and yet I admire that in you (about flirting with old men and it not bothering you). I can't flirt with them because then I can just sense their lusty essence all over my lamby self. I can't. It grosses me out from ear to ear and I feel physically disgusted.
well thats good, people should only flirt with people they like or are attracted to imo, otherwise its very deceptive and can cause huge misunderstandings. quiet honestly it makes me angry and i know alot of other men who feel the same wayIP: Logged |
Lunae Knowflake Posts: 2251 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2013 03:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Padre35: Works both ways though, sometimes a female will think b/c you are chatting with them, and interested in their lives then of course you want to ask them out etcSaggies are huge flirts/teases/social butterflies
Yeah, I agree with Saggies. I have a guy friend who has a Sadge sun and Gemini ascendant and he's so touchy-feely with all her female friends. And, I also agree with all those who mentioned Sun-venus aspects. Their friendliness is always misunderstood.
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 7196 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted January 06, 2013 05:02 PM
It's a total waste of time. Get on with it. Decide what you want now. You have three seconds. Time's up. So, we gonna get busy or what? Lol. Just kidding. The last one who played those games got mad with me because I refused to play those "chasing" games. You acted like you weren't interested so I just moved on. I like people who are decisive and directed. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9709 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 06, 2013 05:39 PM
You guys nailed it.Gemini/Libra Sun/Venus/Mercury combos. I don't mind some flirting as long as it doesn't lead to super ambiguous situations. Usually even if someone's flirting with you, you'll know if they're truly interested or not by looking at the consistency of their actions, and if they act in a similar fashion with other people (of the opposite sex).
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