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aquaguy91
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posted December 15, 2012 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
or people who flirt for the heck of it... what are some indicators of this in a chart?

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posted December 15, 2012 01:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not for the heck of it...

Libra.

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posted December 15, 2012 01:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mercury-Venus or a mix of Gemini-Libra.

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posted December 15, 2012 01:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Not for the heck of it...

Libra.


haha well you know what i mean. flirting when you have no romantic or sexual intent. i have never understood why people do that, dont rub the lamp unless you want the genie to come out, thats the way i see it. lol

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posted December 15, 2012 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^

Since, you've already seen my chart~

Nuff said.

*rubslamp* I get 3 wishes after this, right???



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posted December 15, 2012 02:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm pretty sure guys mistake my friendliness for interest 90% of the time. I have Gem ASC, Sun conjunct Venus, in the 11H. I have Mercury conjunct Venus there too. Sometimes I can flirt for the heck of it, sometimes I can't, it depends. I also have Uranus in the 7H but it's not heavily aspected though. I mention all of that though because it's a lot of air influence despite my Aries stellium.

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posted December 15, 2012 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StacyLewis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nah, Libra just likes to make people feel good, and when we notice something about someone that they find pleasing (Venus), we'll usually comment on it. It's not done to yank someone's chain like that.

Gemini could be classified as a tease, but I think that even that isn't necessarily accurate, because really Geminis change their minds so much that it's probably be more accurate to say that at the moment they said it, they meant it, and then their ADD kicked in...

I think intentionally leading people on is more of a Pluto (manipulation) thing, probably working in tandem with the sun (will/ego) and maybe Jupiter...or even Saturn. Jupiter in the mix would make the person have a huge ego and exaggerated, inflated sense of themselves and do stuff like that to people as a way of going, "See? Aren't I hot? Everybody wants me."

Saturn in the mix would probably do it because of self-esteem issues, the person who thinks they suck so they lead other folks on to try and give themselves a sense of self-worth, "This person wants me, I must be hot."

In terms of placements, I've seen Venus in Leo folks who do stuff like that - because they need the constant attention and adoration.

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posted December 16, 2012 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BBMonroe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aries, because they like to chase and flirt as a sport. Problem is they may really want the person they are flirting with until someone hotter walks by and then they'll chase that one. Once the object is caught it gets too boring for them, the chase is back on.

Aries people constantly have to have a crush, even if it's someone they know they will never get.

Moon or Venus in Aries are notorious for that behavior.

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posted December 16, 2012 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I'm pretty sure guys mistake my friendliness for interest 90% of the time. I have Gem ASC, Sun conjunct Venus, in the 11H. I have Mercury conjunct Venus there too. Sometimes I can flirt for the heck of it, sometimes I can't, it depends. I also have Uranus in the 7H but it's not heavily aspected though. I mention all of that though because it's a lot of air influence despite my Aries stellium.

lol maybe. but i hear girls say that alot and i rarely buy it. i've had girls just be friendly and i dont get a flirtatious vibe.

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posted December 17, 2012 12:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for JLyn ~     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For the heck of it.

Now give me a kiss for answering your question

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posted December 17, 2012 12:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe Sun/Venus...?

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posted December 17, 2012 01:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by hannaramaa:
[b]I'm pretty sure guys mistake my friendliness for interest 90% of the time. I have Gem ASC, Sun conjunct Venus, in the 11H. I have Mercury conjunct Venus there too. Sometimes I can flirt for the heck of it, sometimes I can't, it depends. I also have Uranus in the 7H but it's not heavily aspected though. I mention all of that though because it's a lot of air influence despite my Aries stellium.


lol maybe. but i hear girls say that alot and i rarely buy it. i've had girls just be friendly and i dont get a flirtatious vibe. [/B][/QUOTE]

Sometimes I'm not sexually or romantically interested, it's true. When a guy carries on a conversation with me, I don't assume he wants me. It's a conversation. When he gives me his number, or asks me "date" questions ("What's your 'boyfriend' think?") then I start being more alert. Sometimes guys are really cool to be around and you want to be their friend, but because I don't have a penis it makes things weird. Or they won't be my friend because I just have the cool personality going on, not the looks.

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posted December 17, 2012 01:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Sometimes I'm [b]not sexually or romantically interested, it's true. When a guy carries on a conversation with me, I don't assume he wants me. It's a conversation. When he gives me his number, or asks me "date" questions ("What's your 'boyfriend' think?") then I start being more alert. Sometimes guys are really cool to be around and you want to be their friend, but because I don't have a penis it makes things weird. Or they won't be my friend because I just have the cool personality going on, not the looks.[/B]

Works both ways though, sometimes a female will think b/c you are chatting with them, and interested in their lives then of course you want to ask them out etc

Saggies are huge flirts/teases/social butterflies

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posted December 17, 2012 03:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by BBMonroe:
Aries, because they like to chase and flirt as a sport. Problem is they may really want the person they are flirting with until someone hotter walks by and then they'll chase that one. Once the object is caught it gets too boring for them, the chase is back on.

Aries people constantly have to have a crush, even if it's someone they know they will never get.

Moon or Venus in Aries are notorious for that behavior.


It's not that it's boring once they're caught just that the chase is so much fun.

I have Venus in Aries and I do this. I can't turn it off.

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posted December 17, 2012 05:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meyray     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I personally think Leo placements exhibit this behaviour. Especially Venus in Leo but also Mars in Leo. Maybe people with Sun conjunct Venus too.

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posted December 17, 2012 06:09 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sag moon in 5th house as chart ruler? *bats eyelashes*

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posted December 17, 2012 07:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Padre35:
Works both ways though, sometimes a female will think b/c you are chatting with them, and interested in their lives then of course you want to ask them out etc

Saggies are huge flirts/teases/social butterflies



true. i have experienced this, but they are usually right lol. but it is annoying when you really are just trying to be friendly.

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posted December 17, 2012 07:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Sag moon in 5th house as chart ruler? *bats eyelashes*

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I do that!!! Sometimes I don't realize I do it, I'm just very friendly. I often later realize I was flirting with someone I had no interest in.

Mercury and venus conjunct asc in gemini.

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posted January 06, 2013 02:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah... another Sag moon here. I have Leo rising too so yeah. When I am single, it's ridiculous. I'll flirt with old men too just to make them smile ear to ear.

Thankfully, I don't drink alcohol or I probably would have ended up in many potentially bad situations. I thank my Virgo sun for saving my arse. =D

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posted January 06, 2013 03:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Geeky:
Yeah... another Sag moon here. I have Leo rising too so yeah. When I am single, it's ridiculous. I'll flirt with old men too just to make them smile ear to ear.

Thankfully, I don't drink alcohol or I probably would have ended up in many potentially bad situations. I thank my Virgo sun for saving my arse. =D


Ewww...and yet I admire that in you (about flirting with old men and it not bothering you). I can't flirt with them because then I can just sense their lusty essence all over my lamby self. I can't. It grosses me out from ear to ear and I feel physically disgusted.

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posted January 06, 2013 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Ewww...and yet I admire that in you (about flirting with old men and it not bothering you). I can't flirt with them because then I can just sense their lusty essence all over my lamby self. I can't. It grosses me out from ear to ear and I feel physically disgusted.

well thats good, people should only flirt with people they like or are attracted to imo, otherwise its very deceptive and can cause huge misunderstandings. quiet honestly it makes me angry and i know alot of other men who feel the same way

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posted January 06, 2013 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lunae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Padre35:
Works both ways though, sometimes a female will think b/c you are chatting with them, and interested in their lives then of course you want to ask them out etc

Saggies are huge flirts/teases/social butterflies


Yeah, I agree with Saggies. I have a guy friend who has a Sadge sun and Gemini ascendant and he's so touchy-feely with all her female friends.

And, I also agree with all those who mentioned Sun-venus aspects. Their friendliness is always misunderstood.

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posted January 06, 2013 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's a total waste of time. Get on with it. Decide what you want now. You have three seconds. Time's up. So, we gonna get busy or what? Lol. Just kidding.

The last one who played those games got mad with me because I refused to play those "chasing" games. You acted like you weren't interested so I just moved on. I like people who are decisive and directed.

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posted January 06, 2013 05:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You guys nailed it.

Gemini/Libra
Sun/Venus/Mercury combos.

I don't mind some flirting as long as it doesn't lead to super ambiguous situations.

Usually even if someone's flirting with you, you'll know if they're truly interested or not by looking at the consistency of their actions, and if they act in a similar fashion with other people (of the opposite sex).

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