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posted December 19, 2012 01:34 AM            

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And don't be disappointed for it bothering you were all human beings. I know I would be feeling a multitude of emotions if I'd been asked that by one of my girls. I just don't like the position shes putting you in, I wouldn't even think going there, no matter how hot the guy is. Seems a bit desperate IMO seeing as she just got out of a relationship.

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posted December 19, 2012 02:09 AM            

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I actually never hoped she would fail in the beginning, and I still don't hope she "fails." Do I hope that they just kind of part ways? A little. But since I brought this topic up im the beginning I've gotten more used to the fact it is what it is. They have more similar interests than me and him which was why I encouraged it at first. I didn't know I was going to respond to it in this manner, but its not that serious now and I realize it never was. I was just confused about the way I was feeling about the both of them.

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posted December 19, 2012 02:49 AM            

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I'm sorry did I offend you? Idk maybe I take things too serious but I'm a very sensitive person and I was just reacting to the situation had it been me. It really would have hurt me. Your cool with it, that's all that matters.

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posted December 19, 2012 03:52 AM            

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asked me if she could start talking to someone I briefly dated

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He was not even her boyfriend, and she barely even met him. These are the OPs words. This is not someone stealing an ex.

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posted December 19, 2012 10:46 AM            

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Originally posted by blugrey:
He was not even her boyfriend, and she barely even met him. These are the OPs words. This is not someone stealing an ex.

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No he wasn't my boyfriend, but I did whole-heartedly meet him in person not just barely, haha. Five times in fact, and I knew him from high school.

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posted December 19, 2012 10:48 AM            

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Originally posted by AriesKat:
I'm sorry did I offend you? Idk maybe I take things too serious but I'm a very sensitive person and I was just reacting to the situation had it been me. It really would have hurt me. Your cool with it, that's all that matters.

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No you didn't. I am just tired of talking about it on here now (not that you were supposed to magically know that.)

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posted December 19, 2012 10:50 AM            

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AND I appreciate everyone's responses, thanks for hearing me out and giving me feedback! You guys were really nice about it.

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posted December 19, 2012 01:14 PM            

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Not that it matters 'cause this topic is over and done with BUT I just noticed I have t.Saturn transiting in my 5th house, conj. n.Pluto in Scorpio that is in there as well which ALSO opp. my n.Moon in the 11H (house of friends.) My first instinct about Saturn was learning a lesson, especially in 5th house matters (light love affairs) When I browsed meanings of it it indicates having issues with power and control, and it makes total sense since n.Pluto is opposing my n.Moon in the house of friends. I've never had my transits make sense before, this is awesome!

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