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anost
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posted December 19, 2012 01:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anost     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why do you do it? What have you done? Does it create closure? I'm a bit of a vengeful Scorpio myself, planning on getting my cheating ex a pair of slashed tires for Christmas, but I was wondering about other Scorpion thoughts/anecdotes/stories/advice on the topic.

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Haplesschild*
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posted December 19, 2012 01:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha
I think the best revenge is moving on, cutting them off and being happy. Success and silence makes for the best revenge! Indifference makes a bigger impact than anything else (I dumped a cheating ex 2 and half years ago, this guy STILL tries to get in touch with me these days. I've changed my number and blocked him on everything but the guy still persists every few months. I got over him a year ago so now it's indifference and amusement).

I'm not a Scorpio, but I'm quite Plutonian.

Revenge is a waste of energy imho and I refuse to lower myself to their level. I won't dignify them with a response either (no contact is the way to go), I choose the high road. Now it might be a harder road to take initially but it leaves a deeper impression.

The slashed tyres thing would make him just think 'she's alittle psycho, it's no wonder I cheated'... Do you really want that?

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Desiring Shadows
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posted December 19, 2012 02:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My moon is Scorpio, via a less popular system and I can tell you revenge is never the way.

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Padre35
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posted December 19, 2012 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by anost:
Why do you do it? What have you done? Does it create closure? I'm a bit of a vengeful Scorpio myself, planning on getting my cheating ex a pair of slashed tires for Christmas, but I was wondering about other Scorpion thoughts/anecdotes/stories/advice on the topic.

Why Mr Anderson, why why do you persist!

Because we choose to, the thing with the Scorpion is not outright revenge, we are far more likely to smile and act as if it never happened.

Better believe the daggers are out, not to cut tires per se..just waiting for those who wronged us to fall, perhaps with a bit of a push...just sayin'

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sweet-scorpion
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posted December 19, 2012 06:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Scorpionic... we are the ones who get revenge by:

Laughing to ourselves with cold smiles when you come running back to us after you left us first and changed your mind or cheated on us and had your new relationship fall apart

Feel a sweet satisfaction when we find our some gossip or blackmail to use against you, or a deep secret you told to us when we were once on good terms we could think to use against you

Have a skill at finding out little ways to cut you up and cut you down, but never through physical acts like bullying, vandalism, etc. Always keen, sly ways. Like talking to a friend of a friend. Or just keeping our eyes peeled for a vulnerable moment...

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bridgetostars23
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posted December 19, 2012 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bridgetostars23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is there anyway to turn it off? (That's only said half jokingly.)
Scorpio Moon/Venus/Pluto

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starmoon
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posted December 19, 2012 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i'm a scorpio rising and definitely enjoy revenge. i find it a very productive use of my time - all that plotting and planning makes me quite happy. i usually enact revenge when they think i've forgotten - it's more effective to catch people off guard; they never see it coming. depending on who/what my revenge takes various forms, and i take my time personalizing it for them especially - i'm thoughtful that way

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Haplesschild*
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posted December 19, 2012 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But revenge doesn't change the past so why use that time and energy on somebody that never deserved any of yours?

Imo that's not satisfying at all. Moving on and having them pine after you is more sweet. Also seeking revenge will only give you the label as the psycho ex. It's adding fuel to the fire; there's no point.

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greatquincunx
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posted December 19, 2012 07:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for greatquincunx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Silly t*t for tat
Or passive aggressiveness ..

It's funny to ignore it.

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Haplesschild*
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posted December 19, 2012 07:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ What do you mean? You advocate getting revenge?

I had an ex spread nasty rumours about me because he really didn't want to break up. I stayed silent, moved on and he was still texting and trying to get me back after 10 months...In the end he was the one that looked bad and couldn't let go. Now if I responded back to all that, it would have made me look just as bad.

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Padre35
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posted December 19, 2012 07:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bridgetostars23:
Is there anyway to turn it off? (That's only said half jokingly.)
Scorpio Moon/Venus/Pluto

There is, as much as Scorpios seem to horde revenge..on the flip side

We never forget a kindness usually.

So used to the world being a dark cynical place, when kindness is shown, we soak it up.

Distract the Scorpion with kindness and we will literally eat out of ones hand.


Allow me to add that it must be genuine, Scorpios are very very suspicious by nature, we can spot a fake a mile away.

Turn on ones better nature and we vibe off it.

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Desiring Shadows
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posted December 19, 2012 08:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Turn on ones better nature and we vibe off it."
I make people I don't like miserable when they're happy, because it makes me sad.>.<

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bridgetostars23
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posted December 19, 2012 10:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bridgetostars23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Padre35:
There is, as much as Scorpios seem to horde revenge..on the flip side

We never forget a kindness usually.

So used to the world being a dark cynical place, when kindness is shown, we soak it up.

Distract the Scorpion with kindness and we will literally eat out of ones hand.


Allow me to add that it must be genuine, Scorpios are very very suspicious by nature, we can spot a fake a mile away.

Turn on ones better nature and we vibe off it.


Ha. How about a way to turn mine off?

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charlie
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posted December 20, 2012 12:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have only Scorpionic pseudo-tendencies in that all my water placements are in the 2nd decan of Cancer, I have a sun and moon sq pluto and my mom is a full fledged, insane triple Scorp (sun, moon, venus).

I will plot a revenge during the span of YEARS!! I might fool you into believing that we are still friends or lovers but OH NO!! That is not the case, at all...

During my plotting I will have gathered enough info about the person in question so that when revenge is executed, there will be maximum, emotional effect.

Cancer Sun, Cap Moon.

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PixieJane
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posted December 20, 2012 04:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just out of curiosity, what do vengeful Scorpios generally think of people getting revenge against them? Grudgingly sympathetic? Frightened? Outraged? Excited?

And what if someone refuses to seek vengeance against them? Are they inclined to see it as weakness and view the person with contempt for taking the high road or what?

Finally, how scared are they of revenge? Are the vengeful types able to understand that not everyone holds grudges forever (and thus don't need to live in fear)?

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sand
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posted December 20, 2012 04:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sure then when my long elaborate plot doesn't work out I go ape sh1t, which probably means I just should have went ape sh1t in the first place!

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RedScorp
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posted December 20, 2012 04:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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just waiting for those who wronged us to fall, perhaps with a bit of a push...

LOL! Love this!!!!

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RedScorp
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posted December 20, 2012 04:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm water dominant...pluto dominant...AND Scorpio dominant...

But ehhhh, I'm not much for plotting and scheming and seething. Naw, I just like to remember it and bring it up later. The most revengeful I usually get is just bringing something up when we're in company. Then I sit back and laugh while the person gets all embarrassed. And I'm like...they don't even care omg but they get mad at me and I'm like,

I'm confrontational damn it not passive aggressive!

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Padre35
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posted December 20, 2012 05:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bridgetostars23:
Ha. How about a way to turn mine off?


Apologize, be the same day after day, no hippocracy at all.

As for shutting it off personally, that sort of hording wrongs

Old Chinese proverb:

"If one goes looking for revenge, dig two graves, one for them and one for you"

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ScorpDon
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posted December 20, 2012 07:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpDon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was born with Sun conjunct Mars and Neptune in Scorpio (along with Mercury at a much later degree. I will go to extremes to seek revenge (especially with family members. I'm often called ruthless or evil due to this.I am sure this all stems from a sense of insecurity and frustration in my life.Nevertheless, I am so good at being so bad!

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Doux Rêve
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posted December 20, 2012 12:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Revenge *is* weakness, in my opinion.
Because it means that you're so bu**hurt over something that you feel the "need" to act on it and get even. How is that not pathetic? Not trying to be offensive, at all. Just stating my point of view.

The best revenge is ignorance.
It works even better if you appear (and actually work on being) genuinely happy in spite of what the person did to you. Trust me, they'll seethe without you doing anything.


That's strength. Rise above; Let it go.

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Desiring Shadows
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posted December 20, 2012 04:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
[b]Revenge *is* weakness, in my opinion.
Because it means that you're so bu**hurt over something that you feel the "need" to act on it and get even. How is that not pathetic? Not trying to be offensive, at all. Just stating my point of view.

The best revenge is ignorance.
It works even better if you appear (and actually work on being) genuinely happy in spite of what the person did to you. Trust me, they'll seethe without you doing anything.


That's strength. Rise above; Let it go.[/B]



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anost
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posted December 20, 2012 05:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anost     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess the thing for me is that I don't want to be recognized for the act, it's more than that. I want to be behind the scenes, pulling the strings that influence my victims life. I want to silently create a series of unfortunate events for my ex, things that can't be traced back to me, things I don't even need to see. I felt that water in the gas tank during finals week for her masters degree would be just subtle enough. My ex and I were planning on getting married before she suddenly left me to chase, and finally date my co-worker (whom I have to see everyday). It's not something I'm capable of letting go of.

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VenusDiSirius
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posted December 20, 2012 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
The best revenge is ignorance.

Or living well?

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Haplesschild*
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posted December 20, 2012 06:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My cheating ex from awhile ago emotionally and verbally abused me, sexually assaulted me a couple of times (rape) emotionally manipulated, lied and blackmailed me, cheated through the whole relationship, owes me over 2 grand in money and single handedly screwed up my heart ( now I still have emotional fears) but I didn't do anything. I iced him out (gotta love my plutonian side Seriously, it's not worth it. Move on.

I know certain things I could use to fck him up, if I wanted to, but nah.
I also believe in Karma, I don't want it to bite me in the ass too.

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Originally posted by anost:
I guess the thing for me is that I don't want to be recognized for the act, it's more than that. I want to be behind the scenes, pulling the strings that influence my victims life. I want to silently create a series of unfortunate events for my ex, things that can't be traced back to me, things I don't even need to see. I felt that water in the gas tank during finals week for her masters degree would be just subtle enough. My ex and I were planning on getting married before she suddenly left me to chase, and finally date my co-worker (whom I have to see everyday). It's not something I'm capable of letting go of.

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