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Topic: Scorpio and revenge
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anost Knowflake Posts: 31 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 19, 2012 01:05 PM
Why do you do it? What have you done? Does it create closure? I'm a bit of a vengeful Scorpio myself, planning on getting my cheating ex a pair of slashed tires for Christmas, but I was wondering about other Scorpion thoughts/anecdotes/stories/advice on the topic.IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 212 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 19, 2012 01:56 PM
Haha I think the best revenge is moving on, cutting them off and being happy. Success and silence makes for the best revenge! Indifference makes a bigger impact than anything else (I dumped a cheating ex 2 and half years ago, this guy STILL tries to get in touch with me these days. I've changed my number and blocked him on everything but the guy still persists every few months. I got over him a year ago so now it's indifference and amusement).I'm not a Scorpio, but I'm quite Plutonian. Revenge is a waste of energy imho and I refuse to lower myself to their level. I won't dignify them with a response either (no contact is the way to go), I choose the high road. Now it might be a harder road to take initially but it leaves a deeper impression. The slashed tyres thing would make him just think 'she's alittle psycho, it's no wonder I cheated'... Do you really want that? IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Moderator Posts: 1961 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 19, 2012 02:45 PM
My moon is Scorpio, via a less popular system and I can tell you revenge is never the way.
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Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 683 From: charlotte, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 19, 2012 03:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by anost: Why do you do it? What have you done? Does it create closure? I'm a bit of a vengeful Scorpio myself, planning on getting my cheating ex a pair of slashed tires for Christmas, but I was wondering about other Scorpion thoughts/anecdotes/stories/advice on the topic.
Why Mr Anderson, why why do you persist! Because we choose to, the thing with the Scorpion is not outright revenge, we are far more likely to smile and act as if it never happened. Better believe the daggers are out, not to cut tires per se..just waiting for those who wronged us to fall, perhaps with a bit of a push...just sayin' IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 1183 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted December 19, 2012 06:07 PM
The Scorpionic... we are the ones who get revenge by:Laughing to ourselves with cold smiles when you come running back to us after you left us first and changed your mind or cheated on us and had your new relationship fall apart Feel a sweet satisfaction when we find our some gossip or blackmail to use against you, or a deep secret you told to us when we were once on good terms we could think to use against you Have a skill at finding out little ways to cut you up and cut you down, but never through physical acts like bullying, vandalism, etc. Always keen, sly ways. Like talking to a friend of a friend. Or just keeping our eyes peeled for a vulnerable moment... IP: Logged |
bridgetostars23 Knowflake Posts: 86 From: virginia, usa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 19, 2012 06:14 PM
Is there anyway to turn it off? (That's only said half jokingly.) Scorpio Moon/Venus/PlutoIP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 19, 2012 06:14 PM
i'm a scorpio rising and definitely enjoy revenge. i find it a very productive use of my time - all that plotting and planning makes me quite happy. i usually enact revenge when they think i've forgotten - it's more effective to catch people off guard; they never see it coming. depending on who/what my revenge takes various forms, and i take my time personalizing it for them especially - i'm thoughtful that wayIP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 212 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 19, 2012 07:10 PM
But revenge doesn't change the past so why use that time and energy on somebody that never deserved any of yours?Imo that's not satisfying at all. Moving on and having them pine after you is more sweet. Also seeking revenge will only give you the label as the psycho ex. It's adding fuel to the fire; there's no point. IP: Logged |
greatquincunx Knowflake Posts: 75 From: Houston Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 19, 2012 07:22 PM
Silly t*t for tat Or passive aggressiveness ..It's funny to ignore it. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 212 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 19, 2012 07:24 PM
^ What do you mean? You advocate getting revenge?I had an ex spread nasty rumours about me because he really didn't want to break up. I stayed silent, moved on and he was still texting and trying to get me back after 10 months...In the end he was the one that looked bad and couldn't let go. Now if I responded back to all that, it would have made me look just as bad. IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 683 From: charlotte, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 19, 2012 07:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by bridgetostars23: Is there anyway to turn it off? (That's only said half jokingly.) Scorpio Moon/Venus/Pluto
There is, as much as Scorpios seem to horde revenge..on the flip side We never forget a kindness usually. So used to the world being a dark cynical place, when kindness is shown, we soak it up. Distract the Scorpion with kindness and we will literally eat out of ones hand. Allow me to add that it must be genuine, Scorpios are very very suspicious by nature, we can spot a fake a mile away.
Turn on ones better nature and we vibe off it.
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Desiring Shadows Moderator Posts: 1961 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 19, 2012 08:16 PM
"Turn on ones better nature and we vibe off it." I make people I don't like miserable when they're happy, because it makes me sad.>.<IP: Logged |
bridgetostars23 Knowflake Posts: 86 From: virginia, usa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 19, 2012 10:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by Padre35: There is, as much as Scorpios seem to horde revenge..on the flip sideWe never forget a kindness usually. So used to the world being a dark cynical place, when kindness is shown, we soak it up. Distract the Scorpion with kindness and we will literally eat out of ones hand. Allow me to add that it must be genuine, Scorpios are very very suspicious by nature, we can spot a fake a mile away.
Turn on ones better nature and we vibe off it.
Ha. How about a way to turn mine off? IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 104 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 20, 2012 12:08 AM
I have only Scorpionic pseudo-tendencies in that all my water placements are in the 2nd decan of Cancer, I have a sun and moon sq pluto and my mom is a full fledged, insane triple Scorp (sun, moon, venus).I will plot a revenge during the span of YEARS!! I might fool you into believing that we are still friends or lovers but OH NO!! That is not the case, at all... During my plotting I will have gathered enough info about the person in question so that when revenge is executed, there will be maximum, emotional effect. Cancer Sun, Cap Moon. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 1365 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 20, 2012 04:15 AM
Just out of curiosity, what do vengeful Scorpios generally think of people getting revenge against them? Grudgingly sympathetic? Frightened? Outraged? Excited? And what if someone refuses to seek vengeance against them? Are they inclined to see it as weakness and view the person with contempt for taking the high road or what? Finally, how scared are they of revenge? Are the vengeful types able to understand that not everyone holds grudges forever (and thus don't need to live in fear)? IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 8160 From: Lake Como next to George Clooney's House Registered: May 2011
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posted December 20, 2012 04:25 AM
Sure then when my long elaborate plot doesn't work out I go ape sh1t, which probably means I just should have went ape sh1t in the first place! IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 4410 From: The Sun Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 20, 2012 04:38 AM
quote: just waiting for those who wronged us to fall, perhaps with a bit of a push...
LOL! Love this!!!! IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 4410 From: The Sun Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 20, 2012 04:45 AM
I'm water dominant...pluto dominant...AND Scorpio dominant...But ehhhh, I'm not much for plotting and scheming and seething. Naw, I just like to remember it and bring it up later. The most revengeful I usually get is just bringing something up when we're in company. Then I sit back and laugh while the person gets all embarrassed. And I'm like...they don't even care omg but they get mad at me and I'm like, I'm confrontational damn it not passive aggressive! IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 683 From: charlotte, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 20, 2012 05:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by bridgetostars23: Ha. How about a way to turn mine off?
Apologize, be the same day after day, no hippocracy at all. As for shutting it off personally, that sort of hording wrongs Old Chinese proverb: "If one goes looking for revenge, dig two graves, one for them and one for you" IP: Logged |
ScorpDon Newflake Posts: 9 From: Ridgefield, CT USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 20, 2012 07:48 AM
I was born with Sun conjunct Mars and Neptune in Scorpio (along with Mercury at a much later degree. I will go to extremes to seek revenge (especially with family members. I'm often called ruthless or evil due to this.I am sure this all stems from a sense of insecurity and frustration in my life.Nevertheless, I am so good at being so bad!IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 2267 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted December 20, 2012 12:14 PM
Revenge *is* weakness, in my opinion. Because it means that you're so bu**hurt over something that you feel the "need" to act on it and get even. How is that not pathetic? Not trying to be offensive, at all. Just stating my point of view. The best revenge is ignorance. It works even better if you appear (and actually work on being) genuinely happy in spite of what the person did to you. Trust me, they'll seethe without you doing anything. That's strength. Rise above; Let it go.
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Desiring Shadows Moderator Posts: 1961 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 20, 2012 04:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: [b]Revenge *is* weakness, in my opinion. Because it means that you're so bu**hurt over something that you feel the "need" to act on it and get even. How is that not pathetic? Not trying to be offensive, at all. Just stating my point of view. The best revenge is ignorance. It works even better if you appear (and actually work on being) genuinely happy in spite of what the person did to you. Trust me, they'll seethe without you doing anything. That's strength. Rise above; Let it go.[/B]
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anost Knowflake Posts: 31 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 20, 2012 05:21 PM
I guess the thing for me is that I don't want to be recognized for the act, it's more than that. I want to be behind the scenes, pulling the strings that influence my victims life. I want to silently create a series of unfortunate events for my ex, things that can't be traced back to me, things I don't even need to see. I felt that water in the gas tank during finals week for her masters degree would be just subtle enough. My ex and I were planning on getting married before she suddenly left me to chase, and finally date my co-worker (whom I have to see everyday). It's not something I'm capable of letting go of.IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 4594 From: Surfing Kite. Seriously. Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 20, 2012 05:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: The best revenge is ignorance.
Or living well? IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 212 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 20, 2012 06:17 PM
My cheating ex from awhile ago emotionally and verbally abused me, sexually assaulted me a couple of times (rape) emotionally manipulated, lied and blackmailed me, cheated through the whole relationship, owes me over 2 grand in money and single handedly screwed up my heart ( now I still have emotional fears) but I didn't do anything. I iced him out (gotta love my plutonian side Seriously, it's not worth it. Move on.I know certain things I could use to fck him up, if I wanted to, but nah. I also believe in Karma, I don't want it to bite me in the ass too. quote: Originally posted by anost: I guess the thing for me is that I don't want to be recognized for the act, it's more than that. I want to be behind the scenes, pulling the strings that influence my victims life. I want to silently create a series of unfortunate events for my ex, things that can't be traced back to me, things I don't even need to see. I felt that water in the gas tank during finals week for her masters degree would be just subtle enough. My ex and I were planning on getting married before she suddenly left me to chase, and finally date my co-worker (whom I have to see everyday). It's not something I'm capable of letting go of.
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