posted December 26, 2012 02:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
I'm only kiddin' because it sounds like you're on an ego trip.....

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posted December 26, 2012 06:46 AM            

As for emotions, inside I feel that I'm a very emotional person, but I do often try to hide it out of fear of being judged for my emotions and looked at as weak.

posted December 26, 2012 07:01 AM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
On the other hand, I personally feel like I'm able to withstand any coldness Cap moons dish out. I have Cap Mars, so I never feel as if I've drawn the short stick. My Mars is at 14 degrees Cap, and with most astrologers allowing a 10 degree orb with synastry conjunctions, I cover most Cap placements. A Cap moon tries to sever ties? Frankly, I smile with amusement because their cold shoulder toward me doesn't last long.

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There is a huge difference between slightly angering a cap moon and really ******* them off. If you anger them, they'll maybe give you a cold shoulder for a few days or weeks so they can think about the situation logically, but they'll forgive. However, if you did something truly egregious and unforgivable by that particular cap moon's standards, then they will cut you out of their life without a second thought. It seems to me that while you may have angered some cap moons, you haven't truly crossed the line. Trust me, you'll know if you do.

I stopped speaking to my own father when I was still in elementary school. To this day, I still refuse to speak to him. He hurt me in the worst way possible and I find it impossible to trust him. If I can cut out my own father from my life, then believe me, I can cut out anyone else whom are toxic.

posted December 26, 2012 07:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
There is a huge difference between slightly angering a cap moon and really ******* them off. If you anger them, they'll maybe give you a cold shoulder for a few days or weeks so they can think about the situation logically, but they'll forgive. However, if you did something truly egregious and unforgivable by that particular cap moon's standards, then they will cut you out of their life without a second thought. It seems to me that while you may have angered some cap moons, you haven't truly crossed the line. Trust me, you'll know if you do.

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Yes, but it also depends on aspects to those Cap moons, signs on house cusps, etc.. I've just found the Cap moons I've known tend to have difficulty processing and expressing emotions.

posted December 26, 2012 07:39 AM            

I used to be just like you actually.. waaay back in HS ^
But time changes things.. and now I don't give a F**k.

posted December 26, 2012 09:15 AM            

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Hard time expressing emotions?My ex has a cap moon.One of the reasons I fell for him is because he writes poetry.He has venus in the third squaring neptune,and his moon is in the seventh.So he's pretty comfortable with his emotions,unless he gets angry,that's when he turns cold.

As for crossing the line with him,idk.He seemed alot more upset with me than he was at his ex for cheating on him,and a bunch of other horrible things.I came nowhere near the things she did,we argued alot,thats about it.He stood with her longer than he stood with me.Idk where that dudes line is.

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posted December 26, 2012 10:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Gemmy:
Hard time expressing emotions?My ex has a cap moon.One of the reasons I fell for him is because he writes poetry.He has venus in the third squaring neptune,and his moon is in the seventh.So he's pretty comfortable with his emotions,unless he gets angry,that's when he turns cold.

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posted December 26, 2012 01:44 PM            

He acts more like his Sun sign around his friends. But with me, he is very serious.

Do Cap moons test people they are interested in? He seems a bit insecure. I have reassured him and am trying to be patient, but it is frustrating!

posted December 26, 2012 05:13 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
This might offend some but I don't mean it to...all of the girls I've ever met with a Capricorn moon acted dumb. I'm not sure if they were really even "acting," but I hope they were. The ones I knew were two Aries, and a Scorpio and they didn't seem to have a lick of common sense. I don't believe I know any men with Capricorn moon.

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I haven't seen that in my experience. Maybe those girls were trying to appear "softer." The capricorn moon can easily make someone come across as very cold and calculating. Acting "dumb" makes someone appear less threatening.

posted December 26, 2012 06:00 PM            

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I haven't seen that in my experience. Maybe those girls were trying to appear "softer." The capricorn moon can easily make someone come across as very cold and calculating. Acting "dumb" makes someone appear less threatening.

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I realize that, and maybe they were (I never would've considered that. A lot of things people do for the sake of fitting in go right over my head because I'm pretty accepting of myself and think of everyone as this way until it's otherwise pointed out- maybe it's my Sun, Merc, and Venus in Aries. :P) I think you're right, except for the Aries one. I think she was just ...y'know.

posted December 26, 2012 06:21 PM            

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I realize that, and maybe they were (I never would've considered that. A lot of things people do for the sake of fitting in go right over my head because I'm pretty accepting of myself and think of everyone as this way until it's otherwise pointed out- maybe it's my Sun, Merc, and Venus in Aries. :P) I think you're right, except for the Aries one. I think she was just ...y'know.

Then the question is ... how do you make a Capricorn even more comfortable to be themselves? I know the sign Capricorn is generally hesitant in social situations because they harbor this "Gollum" like voice that tells them they're not good enough, or could be better (this is me paraphrasing of things I've read) I do see the calculating side in Capricorn, but they've never come off cold in my opinion. They're not very Queen of Swords-y, just a little bit stiff in their interactions with people.

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Don't you dare pinnin' this on us That's Cancer,not Capricorn.(Astro has spoken!) Think Voldemort,okay
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posted December 27, 2012 11:34 AM            

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I realize that, and maybe they were (I never would've considered that. A lot of things people do for the sake of fitting in go right over my head because I'm pretty accepting of myself and think of everyone as this way until it's otherwise pointed out- maybe it's my Sun, Merc, and Venus in Aries. :P) I think you're right, except for the Aries one. I think she was just ...y'know.

Then the question is ... how do you make a Capricorn even more comfortable to be themselves? I know the sign Capricorn is generally hesitant in social situations because they harbor this "Gollum" like voice that tells them they're not good enough, or could be better (this is me paraphrasing of things I've read) I do see the calculating side in Capricorn, but they've never come off cold in my opinion. They're not very Queen of Swords-y, just a little bit stiff in their interactions with people.

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Two things people have done that have made me lower my guard: show signs of trustworthiness and be friendly.

To show some indication that you are trustworthy, make sure you keep any promises you make. If you say you are going to meet a cappie moon at 7pm at a restaurant, then make sure you are there at 7pm. Of course, things beyond your control can happen that would cause you to be late. Any decent person would be understanding of this. However, if you consistently flake out on a cappie moon, then your word will mean nothing to them. They won't take you seriously and lose respect for you. At best you'll be an acquaintance, but never a close friend.

If you really want to build a strong rapport with a cappie moon, help them when they are in a bind. If you notice a cappie moon slamming their head against a table or sighing heavily, then chances are they are stressed about something. Just casually say something like "Hey, you seem stressed about something. Is there anything I can do to help?" A cappie moon may briefly tell you what's bothering them, but they'll usually decline your offer for help. At this point just say "Okay. Well if you change your mind, just give me a call or send me an email, and I'll be happy to help." Just make sure that you mean it if you tell them this, and that you don't have something important to do. If the cappie moon contacts you for help, then you want to make sure you are available to help them. Basically, don't promise anything or offer them anything that you can't deliver. If you help them, they will be forever grateful. Even if they don't take you up on your offer of help, they'll remember that you at least were kind enough to offer help, which is just as appreciated.

Basically, if you keep your promises, show that you are helpful and are reliable, then they will trust you.

posted December 27, 2012 05:34 PM            

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Two things people have done that have made me lower my guard: show signs of trustworthiness and be friendly.

To show some indication that you are trustworthy, make sure you keep any promises you make. If you say you are going to meet a cappie moon at 7pm at a restaurant, then make sure you are there at 7pm. Of course, things beyond your control can happen that would cause you to be late. Any decent person would be understanding of this. However, if you consistently flake out on a cappie moon, then your word will mean nothing to them. They won't take you seriously and lose respect for you. At best you'll be an acquaintance, but never a close friend.

If you really want to build a strong rapport with a cappie moon, help them when they are in a bind. If you notice a cappie moon slamming their head against a table or sighing heavily, then chances are they are stressed about something. Just casually say something like "Hey, you seem stressed about something. Is there anything I can do to help?" A cappie moon may briefly tell you what's bothering them, but they'll usually decline your offer for help. At this point just say "Okay. Well if you change your mind, just give me a call or send me an email, and I'll be happy to help." Just make sure that you mean it if you tell them this, and that you don't have something important to do. If the cappie moon contacts you for help, then you want to make sure you are available to help them. Basically, don't promise anything or offer them anything that you can't deliver. If you help them, they will be forever grateful. Even if they don't take you up on your offer of help, they'll remember that you at least were kind enough to offer help, which is just as appreciated.

Basically, if you keep your promises, show that you are helpful and are reliable, then they will trust you.

Another thing you can do is be friendly (not stick-your-tongue-down-their-throat friendly). Smile. Tell a joke. Cappie moons have a dry sense of humor and love to laugh. If you can make them laugh, then they'll let their guard down. They take themselves too seriously, so if you help them see the brighter side of a bad situation, then you'll be seen as an asset.

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couldn't agree more.