posted December 26, 2012 02:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
8th from venus shows what qualities make us sexually attractive to others, it also shows our sexual energy. Its strictly sexual because lets face it as humans we don't need to be in love to have sex and reproduce.
5th house your romantic life , 8th house shows what kinks your into and the act of sex its self.
7th from moon shows your ideal partner.

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posted December 26, 2012 02:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
8th from venus shows what qualities make us sexually attractive to others, it also shows our level of sensuality. Its strictly sexual because lets face it as humans we don't need to be in love to have sex and reproduce.
5th house your romantic life , 8th house shows what kinks your into and the act of sex its self.
7th from moon shows your ideal partner.

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8th house is sex with feelings and intimacy attached. Fifth is recreational and casual sex that isn't done for bonding or reproductive purposes, where the parties involved don't have feelings for each other.

posted December 26, 2012 02:30 PM            

8th house as well, but this one is more emotional.

Of course it depends on the overall picture of your chart. If everything else contradicts your 5th house, then you might not be as drawn to the sign of your 5th house, but maybe the rulers, depending how he interconnects with the rest.

I am not drawn to my 5th house (Taurus),but very drawn to Capricorn, which is where my 5th house rulers sits.

posted December 26, 2012 02:33 PM            

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Originally posted by StacyLewis:

8th house is sex with feelings and intimacy attached. Fifth is recreational and casual sex that isn't done for bonding or reproductive purposes, where the parties involved don't have feelings for each other.

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posted December 26, 2012 02:39 PM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
I've heard it's the sign where your 8H cusp is

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posted December 26, 2012 06:28 PM            

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Originally posted by StacyLewis:

8th house is sex with feelings and intimacy attached. Fifth is recreational and casual sex that isn't done for bonding or reproductive purposes, where the parties involved don't have feelings for each other.

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This is very true but let me add:

8th house- deep intimacy(feelings) Moon, Mars and Pluto the pull is strongest.
5th house-casual sex, strong sexual animal lust if the other persons Mars is in your 5th.
Mars/Venus synsatry
Mars/Sun synsatry
Mars/Pluto synsatry
Uranus/Venus synsatry

posted December 26, 2012 06:29 PM            

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Originally posted by StacyLewis:

8th house is sex with feelings and intimacy attached. Fifth is recreational and casual sex that isn't done for bonding or reproductive purposes, where the parties involved don't have feelings for each other.

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This is very true but let me add:

8th house- deep intimacy(feelings) Moon, Mars and Pluto the pull is strongest.
5th house-casual sex, strong sexual animal lust if the other persons Mars is in your 5th.
Mars/Venus synsatry
Mars/Sun synsatry
Mars/Pluto synsatry
Uranus/Venus synsatry

posted December 26, 2012 06:37 PM            

Which is that people tend to flip out over folks whose planets land on their vertex, the most. Coming in second would be a synastry aspect between one persons inner planets or luminaries, and the other person's Pluto.

I've seen this with my own eyes. I tend to go bat5h1t crazy over anybody who has anything in their chart land anywhere near my Vertex, or if their Pluto touches my inner planets. If both happens? I go bonkers. I feel reeled in, and I have to be around them, or I can only go so long without being around them before I need to touch base somehow.

It's the same thing in terms of who I attract also - I've noticed that the people who seem to hover around me most, usually I touch/activate their vertex, or there's some kinda Pluto aspects going on. Even if they don't want to 'boink' me, per se, or even insist they dislike me, there's some kind of weird 'pull' there that makes them feel the need to drop by or circle around me on a regular basis, almost like a compulsion type of thing that they do on autopilot.

It has nothing to do with my (or their) fifth, seventh, eighth, twelfth, or any other houses I realized, once I thought about it.

Then again this might be colored by the fact that my Venus-Mars midpoint lands on my sun, and my Sun Moon midpoint lands in the exact same area as my Venus and Vertex.

Or it could just mean that they all play a factor - the Venus-Mars midpoint (people you get the hots for), the sun-moon midpoint (the people you feel make you whole or integrated), and the Vertex (that electric zing you feel when you first lay eyes on someone you wind up nuts about), or Pluto (for the compulsive, intense fascination and 'pull').

But it seems pretty consistent, because people whose planets land in those houses, but have no placements that connect to my Vertex, or there's no triggering involving Pluto...I might like them in a general sense, but it's usually a light-hearted, very temporary thing where I forget about them pretty fast.

posted December 26, 2012 06:54 PM            

I don't know if I necessarily attract other Sagittarians necessarily, although the only guy who has been rather explicit about being interested in me romantically was a Sagittarius. (It turned out he was actually born the day before me! Eerie!)

posted December 26, 2012 06:56 PM            

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Originally posted by JLyn ~:
This is very true but let me add:

8th house- deep intimacy(feelings) Moon, Mars and Pluto the pull is strongest.
5th house-casual sex, strong sexual animal lust if the other persons Mars is in your 5th.
Mars/Venus synsatry
Mars/Sun synsatry
Mars/Pluto synsatry
Uranus/Venus synsatry

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Ah my boyfriends Mars AND Venus falls into my 5th house and his Venus trines my Uranus. -.- He has Venus-Uranus natally too. Guess how fun that is!

posted December 26, 2012 07:11 PM            

There is absolutely no denying that the strongest attractions I've experienced as the one attracted to or attracting of, has included some major aspect being made to A) my Vertex or B) My North-South Nodal axes!

It does make a huge difference if it's on my South Node that there is contact... my Venus sits exact on that node! 15° Sagittarius IV~ there's never been a stronger aspect made than when (his) Moon made a cnj to my Venus exact here... it was phenomenal and mutual, and in every way undeniable.

I do not attract, it seems anyone with dominant Pisces (my Dsc) placements. I have only had one strong attraction with someone who had planets in my 8h (Aries), and that was the one with Moon cnj my SN and Venus. And his Vertex on my North/South Node axis! so~ there you have it.

I've gotten the most advances from those with placements in my 4th, 5th, and 6th house... but, looking at this I can't deny that that is most likely because they had something in cnj to my axes here, and the Aquarians were probably (mostly) carrying something in their chart that fell in the early degrees of that sign, which falls in my 5th and on my vertex... As a 5th house Cap Sun, I get attracted to other Capricorns and likewise from time to time, they to me... but we all tend to have those Sadge/Aqua components, and there's bound to be an aspect to either node or planetary bodies there (which is where the majority of mine lay, Sadge).

The only exceptions to this rule are with attraction coming from Leos ~ being 5th Sun, and Leo in the 12th, these are fleeting attractions for the most part... Same goes for my where my Moon is tenant... Tauruses are often lose interest or I find them too uncompromising~ and other Earth combinations/dominant partners always tend to feel like business partnerships instead of romantic liaisons. ^^;

I stick with those in houses 4-6 as being my status quo suitor signs. ~

I'm inconsistent in my affections and attentions with others, Juno in Tauro, but Psyche-Merc & Sun in Capricorn, Mars-Pluto & Eros/Saturn in Scorp, and Venus-Uranus & Jup/Nep in Sadge.... ideally, I'm not looking for anything in my 5th (Cap), or 7th (Psc), 9th (Tau), or 12th (Leo)... I take better to/admire 3rd (Scorp), 4th (Sag), and even 8th (Aries) over all the others~

~_~; --wrote too much again-- /sigh sawwy!

posted December 26, 2012 09:30 PM            

Really, I noted Stacey's take about Vertex and Pluto. I believe 7th and 8th are houses we see our ideal partner in overall. 4th through 6th houses seem to be hotspots for attraction to you. I wish I had a better memory to take into account my crushes, and those who liked me!

I have Virgo ruling my 4th, Libra 5th, Scorpio 6th. I also have Vertex in Scorpio. Sagittarius 7th, Capricorn 8th. and then I heard 9th is supposed to be our second marriage? I do tend to really enjoy Aquarius guys! I just get them. I don't get Leos though even though I have Juno in Leo in my 3rd house.

I don't seem to attract any one sign, but certain combinations! For instance there was a period where a lot of people I met were Scorpio/Sagittariuses or the other way around. Then it was Capricorn/Scorpio or the other way around. Then Aquarius/Pisces. or Libra Scorpio.