posted December 30, 2012 02:02 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
the test is a push. something harder than that. both of them do this?

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Harder like what?? Tell me. See...you Scorps like to make me dig for answers! lol

And yes...*if* I ever decide to have sex with one of them and the tension gets released...

posted December 30, 2012 02:09 AM            

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we are going to rip each other to pieces in a very serious & DEEP way

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Do you have squares happening?
Sun square Mars maybe?

This particular aspect -Mars (Cap) sextile Mars (Sco) - won't lead to ripping each other to pieces.

posted December 30, 2012 02:14 AM            

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They enjoy scenarios in which the "other" is giving in to them, wants them completely, and will do absolutely anything for them.

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These people constantly test themselves, and, often, others. They make all kinds of rules and goals, just for the personal satisfaction that comes from achieving or mastering them.

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posted December 30, 2012 02:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:

Do you have squares happening?
Sun square Mars maybe?

This particular aspect -Mars (Cap) sextile Mars (Sco) - won't lead to ripping each other to pieces.

Can you post the synastry?

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Link to GUY #1: http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f?d1day=15&d1month=4&d1year=1986&d2day=28&d2month=2&d2year=1984

Link to GUY #2: http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f?d1day=15&d1month=4&d1year=1986&d2day=31&d2month=5&d2year=1984

posted December 30, 2012 02:21 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
idk.. but whatever it is u just have to show them this whether u feel it or not. (i mean if u just want great sex outta either of them lol!) or hell maybe even how to bag one!

do u like to be tied up? bondage? just a question.. u don't have to answer.

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Do I like bondage? LOL...no not really my thing. I don't want to be a "slave" nor do I desire to experience "misery" or any crazy sh!t like some of the descriptions I've heard.

I do like a strong, masculine man though. I don't do pushovers and I love a man to take control. Yeah...he can smack my ass and pound me when it gets good to him LOL. Just don't spit on me or try to hurt me!!

So...you're saying that these Mars-Scorp fellas are doubting that I'd let them lead, maybe?

I'm an Aries, so I know how to tell you to STFU and that I'm taking back over if you start dropping the ball. Haha.

I am not a casual sex person. I'd want something deeper with them if we take things to another level...

posted December 30, 2012 02:26 AM            

gosh i love that word.. pound. seriously.

posted December 30, 2012 02:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
You can tie me up any time sand!

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damn you don't tease me!

nonononononononononononononononononononononono!

i have to go now!

posted December 30, 2012 02:35 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
uhh. maybe just tying up is what i meant.. nevermind.. was just a curiousity from someone i knew..

gosh i love that word.. pound. seriously.

no maybe doubting your feelings.. there are 2 we don't like to share.

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Well yeah...I know you guys don't like to share. Which I totally respect! However, Guy #1 is Venus in Aquarius and I honestly hate that placement lmao. It makes him sometimes distant and detached. But then the Scorpio Mars side kicks in and he's back to being intense and possessive again. Smh lol

So since his Venus wants a chase...I give it to him. Plus, he'll brag about "women who like him" also so we just keep playing this silly game of who can get more ATTN. I'm over it...I just want to be REAL. I think we are both hesitant to bare our souls (although we are DYING to)...which is part of what our Mars Signs share.

posted December 30, 2012 02:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
I can't open the charts for some reason. I'll try on my iphone!

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I'll try again shortly.

posted December 30, 2012 02:30 PM            

*****

posted December 30, 2012 03:52 PM            

I prefer your compatibility with the Gemini.
Pisces men sometimes have sexual issues - so if he does seem to be playing games (and he's young) and he is not making a move sexually - this is not a good sign.

The only way to be with a Pisces who has issues - is to pretend you have bigger issues than he does.. and you are more afraid of sex than he is.

I would go for the Gemini. That would be a nicer and more fun connection overall. The Pisces might depress you.
Your Venus is opposite his Mars/Saturn conj as well - which I really don't like. Instead of being supportive - he'll undermine you in passive aggressive ways.
Bad news.

With Gemini you have a Mercury/Venus conj in Taurus. I like that he has BOTH Scorpio and Taurus in his chart.. whereas Pisces does not have Taurus there.
Taurus is important for you since your North Node is there.
Even though Gemini has the Mars/Saturn conj as well -- due to his Mercury and also the fact that he is an air sign which is supportive of your fiery Sun - (it makes it shine brighter) --- he would be a better choice.

You are most likely *more* sexually attracted to Pisces - but he can be toxic and nasty.
If you value yourself -- don't go there.

I'm guessing that when you mentioned playing games - it was more so about Pisces - not about Gemini..?

posted December 30, 2012 03:57 PM            

Do you feel happy - good about yourself? Or do you feel drained?

If you feel drained or in some way 'put down' after you spend time with Pisces - then he is not worth it.

The right guy would make you feel like a stronger person - like the best version of yourself.. and he would make you feel *happy*.

So does Pisces make you happy?

posted December 30, 2012 04:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Ok! I saw both now.

I prefer your compatibility with the Gemini.
Pisces men sometimes have sexual issues - so if he does seem to be playing games (and he's young) and he is not making a move sexually - this is not a good sign.

The only way to be with a Pisces who has issues - is to pretend you have bigger issues than he does.. and you are more afraid of sex than he is.

I would go for the Gemini. That would be a nicer and more fun connection overall. The Pisces might depress you.
Your Venus is opposite his Mars/Saturn conj as well - which I really don't like. Instead of being supportive - he'll undermine you in passive aggressive ways.
Bad news.

With Gemini you have a Mercury/Venus conj in Taurus. I like that he has BOTH Scorpio and Taurus in his chart.. whereas Pisces does not have Taurus there.
Taurus is important for you since your North Node is there.
Even though Gemini has the Mars/Saturn conj as well -- due to his Mercury and also the fact that he is an air sign which is supportive of your fiery Sun - (it makes it shine brighter) --- he would be a better choice.

You are most likely *more* sexually attracted to Pisces - but he can be toxic and nasty.
If you value yourself -- don't go there.

I'm guessing that when you mentioned playing games - it was more so about Pisces - not about Gemini..?

Anyway I do not know them personally so it's your call.... but a Pisces who seems even *slightly* shifty is a BIG FAT problem in my experience.

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Wow this is deep! I appreciate your feedback Odette.

The Gemini guy is HILARIOUS...he just has me dying laughing all the time and he seems very open. I've told him though that I feel Geminis are are crazy LMAO. To me, they are BEST as friends instead of husbands. I could be wrong though?

posted December 30, 2012 04:25 PM            

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Here is the *real* question... How do YOU feel after you spend time with them?

Do you feel happy - good about yourself? Or do you feel drained?

If you feel drained or in some way 'put down' after you spend time with Pisces - then he is not worth it.

The right guy would make you feel like a stronger person - like the best version of yourself.. and he would make you feel *happy*.

So does Pisces make you happy?

Or does Gemini make you happier?

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Great questions!

I don't feel 'put down' by either of them. However, the Pisces guy does drain me at times and we're not even in a relationship yet!! He isn't always CLEAR about what he truly wants...and trying to figure that out mentally exhausts me sometimes. So it's like...do you *really* not know what you want? Or are you *acting* like you don't so that you can keep yourself one step removed?

We have chemistry and THAT is what has kept him around. I've told him that if we end up together it would be down the road and once he's evolved just a little more. I NEVER jump into relationships with men no matter how impressed I may be with them.

Lastly, I do have fun with the Pisces guy many times. But because of his Aquarius elements, he doesn't always know how to treat you "special" or he isn't always capable of distinguishing your bond with him from his bond with (random people in) humanity. My relationship with you IS NOT the same one you share with a friendly stranger on the street! Dude come on! It's like he'll be crushing on you and desiring you deeply...but doesn't want you to know. Oh please. I like a man that SHOWS his desire!

He will "gently" flirt with me the more that I "ignore" him.

posted December 30, 2012 06:27 PM            

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sand -

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really now?

u know i do recall u owing me a picture a long time ago.

mine. scroll down..
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum32/HTML/000185-7.html

do u like red?

posted December 28, 2014 03:42 PM            

Just taking a trip down memory lane. This was one of the very first threads I made here!