posted January 06, 2013 11:24 AM            

whenever they are cold (be they Sadge, Aries, or Leo Moon) it always has something to do with their pride being wounded... ime

fire signs are very proud creatures, the fire moons in particular... wonderful creatures... but when they're confidence is shaken, they can be bitter... though again, in my experience... it's often misplaced resentment - and they will, especially the lions... take it out on whoever is before them, hurtfully and wrongfully so sometimes... (this is usually when there's inner turmoil with a Lion, because they are inclined to noble actions, when they feel they've done wrong somehow, in some way against their natural desire to be best, and do the best; within themselves they will pick at their own wounds, at the why, and how, what if scenarios... things like that...)

thankfully, i've found they are a forgiving-forgetting lot... and although the least likely to say they are/were (god forbid) wrong... they are very quick to resume relations, though maybe sparse in cordiality, at first. (it reflects what is going on internally, not so much their feelings toward another...) fire moon women are more heated in this than the males that I've known, although they seem consistent in the key areas... not wanting to admit wrong, not being able to handle self-loathing/self-wrong, and not fond of having their flaws mocked or thrown back at them.... --- i guess these are universal fire sign traits, really... (others as well as fire signs though, right?) but, the fire in them makes it all the more noticeable when they go from heated and filled with passion to frozen, empty shells....

Leo Moons are all heart... so much so that I don't think anyone ever sets out to hurt them, or wish to receive their animosity, end never too often, so to go so far, as to make them turn cold... x.x

then again... ya... I have huge biases in this arena... (my fire Venus, relates best to fire Moons.) ^^;

I've known a lot of fire moons, thankfully... and still do, even after weathering cold-storms... esp with those lunar leonine ladies... <3 (gentlemen too I think.) ^^; it's just they're so proud!! X_X pride - a double-edged sword of damocles~

posted January 06, 2013 11:48 AM            

Leo moon here in 7th house.

Am I cold? Yes if feel wounded, taken advantage, was accused of thinking the world revolved around me! (at the time perhaps..). I like to be centre of attention but not obviously so, my cappie asc can make me feel little shy with a new group but with my job I need to charm and communicate so find my moon comes out then when I need to "perform".

Am I cold towards someone? if I don't like you, I tend not to change my mind easily. If I like/love you then I will for a long time, and am sunny, honest and accomadating.

posted January 06, 2013 03:03 PM              

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Megan Fox has a Leo moon. She looks so unhappy all the time. I think her career falling apart definitely effected her confidence, even resorting to all that unnecessary surgery . She does not seem as spunky and fiery anymore.

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posted January 06, 2013 03:26 PM            

Look, the *only* time a Leo-prominent person will ice you out is if you managed to p1ss them off or offend the hell out of them. Then we go all 'royal king or queen' on you and start snubbing you, we turn to ice water on you.

So if you have one treating you that way, you did something to anger them. Even if it wasn't your intent, it was perceived as a slight, so they went into that "We are not amused", mode.

Good news is that most Leos don't really hold grudges and aren't really capable of it...so as long as you say you're sorry and you genuinely mean it, and as long as what you did wasn't *that* bad, it'll be forgiven and forgotten pretty quickly.

posted January 06, 2013 04:55 PM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
i have this moon (trining my MC)..and it doesn't help that i have pluto squaring it(venus too). i can be very very cold. betray me, even in the slightest "pettiest" way, and that's the side of me that you will only get from then on. this guy i used to talk to some years ago, got large cup of "cold" from me. for some sh!t he did (something he did, before me and him even got to know each other well). ever since then, i act as if he doesn't even exist. and when in those rare occasions that he has the balls to speak to me, i respond in such a way, that he just gives up and walks away.this guy pretty much has never seen my "sunny" social side. and he's NEVER seen me smile or laugh (which btw, i am KNOWN for my laugh, and for ALWAYS laughing and smiling lol).im sure he thought i must be some grinch. well about two weeks ago, i was having lunch with a friend, and he see's me and stops in front of me, mouth open, with this incredulous look on his stupid derp face. and he tells me "wow i've never ever seen you smile. or ever be in a good mood". lol. well, that's because around him, i NEVER am. he even tried to call me fake or something that day, because my behavior with the friend i was with (sunny,chatty,great mood), is the extreme opposite, of my behavior when i'm around him.LOL. my family too(whom i just don't care for), always say how cold and detached i am, or appear to be. yet when they see me around people i like, they're always like "how come you're never like that around us. you treat us like enemies or strangers..yada yada". there have even been times, when i end up disliking someone i used to be cool with, and to avoid confronting them about it, i just don't even acknowledge them anymore at all. i don't care if this person gets offended or not..and i make it obvious that i'm doing that on purpose (paired with my infamous mean face) ,because i dislike them.

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posted January 06, 2013 05:02 PM              

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I didn't know her career fell apart. Maybe if she wasn't a prima donna on set that wouldn't have happened...

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posted January 06, 2013 06:02 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What's considered "that bad" though? I always get ****** off after a Leo gets ****** off at me because they're mean about it. I'm not mean when I get mad... hmph.

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Trust me - Leos are generally pretty easy-going and big-hearted with people, and we give folks a *lot* of leeway, generally. We only get like that if you've done something really awful. Like, have been totally disrespectful or offensive, or totally neglect or ignore us if we care about you...pretty much the types of things that would be huge offenses to any other sign.

You'll probably have to think back over it and go over what you did if you seriously have no idea where you messed up. Even better, if you and the other person are even still speaking it makes far more sense to just go up to them and ask them what they're mad about. Because we're pretty forthcoming and if you ask us we'll usually blurt out the answer LOL.

posted January 06, 2013 10:31 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:

you admit you get mad and act cold/mean towards people for petty reasons,so why do you do it? that would be something i would want to change about myself.

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nah i wrote petty like this -"pettiest". with the " ". Because i have cut people off for doing things that to me were significantly disrespectful, but to THEM was "petty". I can list soo many examples of things some people have considered as "slightly petty" or insignificant, that Isn't to me.

for example with the guy i mentioned, he thought i was being petty for cutting him off for lying to his friends about me and him messing around- which was a lie. we never even got to our first kiss lol. he was saying these things BEFORE me and him even started to speak to each other. once i found out, i confronted him..he had the audacity to say that he said these things to his friends to keep a certain guy from trying to make his move on me . he even said "but why do you care soo much what my friends think about you?, i'm sure they know i was lying anyway" -i swear he said exactly that. he felt totally justified with what he did to me. and when i altogether stopped talking to him for that, he used to try and speak to me like i'm SUPPOSED to get over it. he called me petty for not speaking to him lol. i never cut people off for something I feel is petty to me. if you show signs of fakeness, betray my trust, liars, anything along those lines, you're getting cut off period.

and just this past saturday, someone i was friends with did some fake **** . and because i cut her off for that, i'm being "petty and dramatic"....me and her were friends for about 2 yrs. i saw her a weekend ago, clubbing with a female she "despised". And whom i actually fought FOR HER. and little did i know was that she became friends with that female behind my back for some months now. she would even make fun of her all the time when she was with me. but behind my back, she was being two faced about the whole thing.
fake is fake, and i don't associate myself with such types. regardless if you are being fake to me, or someone else.

posted January 06, 2013 10:45 PM              

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
people have their own definitions of petty, but i would not cut someone off for something i felt was petty. that's immature to me. and i ain't that sensitive lol.

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