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chocogold
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posted January 15, 2013 05:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chocogold     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Lots of Scorpio people cheat so no, 'loyalty until death' isn't really likely.

Lots of Scorpios are deceitful and lack morals, so you shouldn't generalise because it really depends on an individual's chart.


You sound very jaded.
For someone who acts more like a libra, you sure have jumped into conclusions about this story instead of taking both sides of the issue into account.

So which one is it? We shouldn't generalize but lots of scorpio are cheaters and deceitful? Sounds like a contradiction to me.
I can say the same for all signs and people at a particular age period, especially, teenagers to young adults.


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posted January 15, 2013 05:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I said lots, I didn't say all, so what's the problem? I did say it depends on placements, as obviously one's character depends on their specific chart (as already mentioned in my previous post -_-).

I've had bad experiences, so I've learnt from them, I'm just drawing conclusions from what the OP has told us. The other member said Scorpio's are loyal to death, and I'm just saying that's not exactly true because alot of them DO cheat and it really all comes down to their Venus and Mars signs and aspects to determine loyalty. It's like when people say Sags like to cheat, that's not true either. Alot of Sags are very faithful and it's again down to placements.

Anyway, I think it's pretty clear he should back off. The girl seems to play games and is confused, she's also taken according to him so he shouldn't bother.
It's pretty much a no brainer.
If you think I'm being partial, what exactly IS the other side of the issue?

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posted January 15, 2013 05:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chocogold     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I said lots, I didn't say all, so what's the problem? I did say it depends on placements, as obviously one's character depends on their specific chart (as already mentioned in my previous post -_-).

I've had bad experiences, so I learnt from them, I'm just drawing conclusions from what the OP has told us. I think it's pretty clear he should back off. The girl seems to play games and seems confused, she's also taken according to him.
It's pretty much a no brainer.
If you think I'm being partial, what exactly IS the other side of the issue?


Well, if according to your argument, we are more than our sun signs, and our sun signs alone don't account for everything, then, it does not make sense to state 'lots of scorpio/gemini/cancerians...etc" because you are basing this judgment on their sun signs, which again, according to you, don't account for everything. See the fallacy?

So yes, it would be certain aspects, and also, placements regarding venus/mars and moon that would allow for cheating and immoral behavior. I reminisce of Jodie Foster, a scorpio and the way she stood for Mel Gibson in spite of being a very unsavory character, according to some.


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posted January 15, 2013 05:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Because obviously we're still known by our sun signs despite the fact our personalities aren't primarily sun sign based. And it's easier to refer to someone by their sun sign as opposed to listing all their placements because that would be quite ridiculous.

I don't see why you're getting somewhat defensive when essentially you and I are saying the same thing.

And since you think I'm not being objective, what are the other issues I'm failing to take into account in this situation?

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posted January 15, 2013 07:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Baizzatbari     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You see chocogold you cant win in an argument with a virgo (acc. to Linda Goodman). All I was saying was quoted was from Linda Goodman's Sun Signs in a passive manner not word by word. But on this page dedicated to Linda only a virgo can argue till hell freezes over without regard for the topic or Linda till hell freezes. Being a virgo I joined this forum only for my curiosity on Vulcan and its effect on Virgo because Linda has not detailed what effect it will have in any of her books nor has any other astrologer. But now I see the difference between my self before 2009 and now. I also used to be like this pecking like a woodpecker constantly on other people's emotions while they begged and cried for me to stop. This due to affliction of rulership of Mercury on Virgo. I have posted a topic to discuss it but nobody wants to honour the late Linda Goodman's memory. They just want to argue to satisfy their ego. So I surrender HaplessChild please dont hurt me and have mercy on me and dont criticize me or argue with me. (But he will he will, he will!!!!!!!!)

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posted January 15, 2013 07:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chocogold     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Baizzatbari:
You see chocogold you cant win in an argument with a virgo (acc. to Linda Goodman). All I was saying was quoted was from Linda Goodman's Sun Signs in a passive manner not word by word. But on this page dedicated to Linda only a virgo can argue till hell freezes over without regard for the topic or Linda till hell freezes. Being a virgo I joined this forum only for my curiosity on Vulcan and its effect on Virgo because Linda has not detailed what effect it will have in any of her books nor has any other astrologer. But now I see the difference between my self before 2009 and now. I also used to be like this pecking like a woodpecker constantly on other people's emotions while they begged and cried for me to stop.

HAHAHA, hence the old adage of not being able to see the forest for the trees.
It is a lovely thing to see a virgo, or any person for the matter, being able to take a critical look at their selves, and wanting to be a better person.
Cool.
This is the reason I think the op is not sufficient enough to make certain 'stereotypical judgments', because knowing the virgo energy myself, they can often either be blind or see things that are just not there.

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posted January 15, 2013 12:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kennedy80     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How long were you two "seeing" one another before she came out with the "I'm seeing someone else" bit? Honestly, sounds like a lie to me - maybe you came on too strong and she didn't know how to tell you she wasn't interested?
She honestly sounds very unevolved and immature. I'm a Scorpio as well - not sure I understand her actions. But then again, I have Gemini Rising, I so I'm always very verbal, honest and up front with how I feel.

My advice to you would be to back off from her. See if she comes back around - if not, there's your answer.

What's the rest of her chart?

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posted January 15, 2013 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kennedy80     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, and btw - ANYONE can cheat. I have never and would never. I do believe this to be a moral issue, of how one was raised. I have Gemini friends with both Venus & Mars in Gemini who have been loyal and faithful to their significant other. Just depends on the person and their ethical upbringing in my opinion.

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posted January 15, 2013 01:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 15, 2013 02:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Baizzatbari:
You see chocogold you cant win in an argument with a virgo (acc. to Linda Goodman). All I was saying was quoted was from Linda Goodman's Sun Signs in a passive manner not word by word. But on this page dedicated to Linda only a virgo can argue till hell freezes over without regard for the topic or Linda till hell freezes. Being a virgo I joined this forum only for my curiosity on Vulcan and its effect on Virgo because Linda has not detailed what effect it will have in any of her books nor has any other astrologer. But now I see the difference between my self before 2009 and now. I also used to be like this pecking like a woodpecker constantly on other people's emotions while they begged and cried for me to stop. This due to affliction of rulership of Mercury on Virgo. I have posted a topic to discuss it but nobody wants to honour the late Linda Goodman's memory. They just want to argue to satisfy their ego. So I surrender HaplessChild please dont hurt me and have mercy on me and dont criticize me or argue with me. (But he will he will, he will!!!!!!!!)

I wasn't arguing with you. I just thought your assertation that we're mostly sun sign based wasn't correct. As Kerosene mentioned earlier, we're a mixture of our main 3 plus some extras depending on what's strong in our chart.
But think whatever you want, I just took slight offense to what Chocogold said.

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posted January 15, 2013 02:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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HAHAHA, hence the old adage of not being able to see the forest for the trees.
It is a lovely thing to see a virgo, or any person for the matter, being able to take a critical look at their selves, and wanting to be a better person.
Cool.
This is the reason I think the op is not sufficient enough to make certain 'stereotypical judgments', because knowing the virgo energy myself, they can often either be blind or see things that are just not there.


I'm curious, what are your placements?

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posted January 15, 2013 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Oh, and btw - ANYONE can cheat. I have never and would never. I do believe this to be a moral issue, of how one was raised. I have Gemini friends with both Venus & Mars in Gemini who have been loyal and faithful to their significant other. Just depends on the person and their ethical upbringing in my opinion.

I think Venus conjunct Mars either makes someone a big nympho or really intensely loyal lol. It swings both ways!

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posted January 15, 2013 02:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SDragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can't it be both?

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posted January 15, 2013 03:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kennedy80     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Can't it be both?

haha, touche!

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posted January 15, 2013 11:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Baizzatbari     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
See he did not stop. Touché

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posted January 16, 2013 07:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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See he did not stop. Touché

I'm a chick sweetie. And I don't like it when someone makes certain claims when they have no ability to back it up. Especially when someone gets semi personal and gets alittle worked up when they clearly never even read my post properly.

Anyway, I'm not here to argue, but you really rubbed me the wrong way with your post.

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posted January 16, 2013 08:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chocogold     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I'm a chick sweetie. And I don't like it when someone makes certain claims when they have no ability to back it up. Especially when someone gets semi personal and gets alittle worked up when they clearly never even read my post properly.

Anyway, I'm not here to argue, but you really rubbed me the wrong way with your post.


Chillax....
Besides, you have committed similar faults as baizz. Your post was not very clear either.
Interesting, you always claim that it is the 'other' who gets personal. But, it seems to me that you are the one who holds to being offended instead of letting things go, and you def. wear your heart on your sleeve. (Reminds me of watery sign folks and plutonic folks I know.)
You know, it is the internet, a public forum. There is no need to get so riled up. If anything, it may have been a big miscommunication among all of us.
Cheers.


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posted January 16, 2013 11:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Baizzatbari     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry. I would never intentionally hurt a woman if I can help it. I am not as well versed with astrology as you are HaplessChild. But all the data I stated was from Linda Goodman's Sun Signs, Relationship Signs and the Virgo man-Scorpio woman section of Love Signs. So I apologize again but since I do not have any formal training in astrology unlike you I cant match your reasoning. But Linda Goodman is a prophet of Astrology and we should respect her opininion. In her prologue she writes that Sun sign rules 80% approximately of our being. If the Sun wasnt that important she would not have bothered to write a book on it. Sorry again

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posted January 17, 2013 10:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Baizzatbari     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
here's my chart acc. to planetary position charts in Linda Goodman's Relationship Signs
Sun-Virgo conjunct Mercury and Jupiter
Venus-Leo
Mars-Scorpio conjunct Pluto
Saturn-Aquarius
Uranus-Capricorn conjunct Neptune
Moon-Sagittarius
Ascendant-Sagittarius
In real life my character is based on fastidious Virgo. My emotions and my way of expression on Sagittarian truthfulness and
bluntness. My ability to reinvent and physique on a Scorpio. My delusions and erraticness based on surprising Capricornian capriciousness. You fill in the rest but never has one planet interfered with the working of another. The Sun's effect can never be diluted. It's the source of all life and is the second biggest after yet to be discovered Apollo in our solar system. So it is never small or tiny.
ELSE LINDA WOULD NOT HAVE BOTHERED TO WRITE A BOOK ON SUN SIGNS IGNORING THE REST PLANETS. What do you think? Btw what is a dominant? and are my venus and saturn afflicted? Any good books on astrology besides Linda Goodman's? or Richard Sterling's?

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posted January 17, 2013 11:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I actually meant you. You assumed certain things about me but when I asked you to elaborate you just meant silent. Anyway peace.
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Chillax....
Besides, you have committed similar faults as baizz. Your post was not very clear either.
Interesting, you always claim that it is the 'other' who gets personal. But, it seems to me that you are the one who holds to being offended instead of letting things go, and you def. wear your heart on your sleeve. (Reminds me of watery sign folks and plutonic folks I know.)
You know, it is the internet, a public forum. There is no need to get so riled up. If anything, it may have been a big miscommunication among all of us.
Cheers.


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posted January 17, 2013 11:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I believe you act like a Virgo because your mental processes are Virgo like hence it accentuates the Sun energy. of course the Sun's our core, but alot of people have a strong Moon or Venus and they are thus more complex. I think Linda Goodman wrote the book to help everyone, as it'd be too complicated to do other placements too? I'm not sure.h I read her book and found that her description of a Cancer guy wasn't really like my ex, and her description of a Virgo wasn't really like me? My uncle is a Virgo who has alot of Leo so he acts like a Leo most of the time, he's even in the entertainment industry and use to love performing.

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Originally posted by Baizzatbari:
here's my chart acc. to planetary position charts in Linda Goodman's Relationship Signs
Sun-Virgo conjunct Mercury and Jupiter
Venus-Leo
Mars-Scorpio conjunct Pluto
Saturn-Aquarius
Uranus-Capricorn conjunct Neptune
Moon-Sagittarius
Ascendant-Sagittarius
In real life my character is based on fastidious Virgo. My emotions and my way of expression on Sagittarian truthfulness and
bluntness. My ability to reinvent and physique on a Scorpio. My delusions and erraticness based on surprising Capricornian capriciousness. You fill in the rest but never has one planet interfered with the working of another. The Sun's effect can never be diluted. It's the source of all life and is the second biggest after yet to be discovered Apollo in our solar system. So it is never small or tiny.
ELSE LINDA WOULD NOT HAVE BOTHERED TO WRITE A BOOK ON SUN SIGNS IGNORING THE REST PLANETS. What do you think? Btw what is a dominant? and are my venus and saturn afflicted? Any good books on astrology besides Linda Goodman's? or Richard Sterling's?


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posted January 17, 2013 11:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chocogold     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Baizzatbari:
here's my chart acc. to planetary position charts in Linda Goodman's Relationship Signs
Sun-Virgo conjunct Mercury and Jupiter
Venus-Leo
Mars-Scorpio conjunct Pluto
Saturn-Aquarius
Uranus-Capricorn conjunct Neptune
Moon-Sagittarius
Ascendant-Sagittarius
In real life my character is based on fastidious Virgo. My emotions and my way of expression on Sagittarian truthfulness and
bluntness. My ability to reinvent and physique on a Scorpio. My delusions and erraticness based on surprising Capricornian capriciousness. You fill in the rest but never has one planet interfered with the working of another. The Sun's effect can never be diluted. It's the source of all life and is the second biggest after yet to be discovered Apollo in our solar system. So it is never small or tiny.
ELSE LINDA WOULD NOT HAVE BOTHERED TO WRITE A BOOK ON SUN SIGNS IGNORING THE REST PLANETS. What do you think? Btw what is a dominant? and are my venus and saturn afflicted? Any good books on astrology besides Linda Goodman's? or Richard Sterling's?


Mars conjunct pluto in scorpio? Sexy.
I know someone who has a virgo stellium and he also appreciates scorpios a lot.
Yes, I do think the pair could work. I find that virgos and scorpios are very much alike, do you?

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posted January 17, 2013 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chocogold     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I actually meant you. You assumed certain things about me but when I asked you to elaborate you just meant silent. Anyway peace.

It is fine. Besides, it is obvious that you are very sensitive to constructive criticism.
That is understandable.


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posted January 17, 2013 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Baizzatbari     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Btw what is a dominant? and are my venus and saturn afflicted? Any good books on astrology besides Linda Goodman's? or Richard Sterling's?
Are my venus and saturn afflicted due to opposite signs or are they afflicted because they are in positive signs and my Sun is negative sign? What are nodes? Will my career and love life be in conflict because of the adverse placement of saturn and venus?

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posted January 17, 2013 12:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Baizzatbari     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what is a stellium? Most of the people who were my friends or are at present are Scorpios.In fact no. of scorpio friends=no. of all other friends. Some evolved ones are very helpful but others are just mean.
But with all types of Scorpios I get well and we share a common sense of bawdy humour and joke like clowns. Anyone can be a target of our jokes and we often put the antics of a Sagittarian to shame just by poking fun at others.
I also read astrology at yahoo or some site (cant remember) which stated the following facts about sun sign pairs who protect each other when the going gets tough and share a sense of humour-
Virgo-Cancer
Virgo-Scorpio
Virgo-Pisces
Capricorn-Pisces
Leo-Sagittarius
Although in practice this is not 100% tru

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