posted January 13, 2013 12:06 PM            

I never paid attention to astrology until I came across this scorpio woman.
When we met she was always using half-truths and so on and I could clearly see what were her real intentions.
One day I decided to tell her that she shouldnt speak to me in half-sentences and I clearly explained her why and we had a big argument about that. She said some nasty things to me but I remained firm in my convictions and told her over and over again in a very calm mode with she shouldnt do that.

Since then she started to stare at me (this was the first time I came across the famous Scorpio stare) and things between us became very intense even when she just crossed somewhere.It's undescriptible! I never felt such a thing!

I dont know what happened but I started to care for her and offer her small gifts, flirt with her and tell her small jokes and I told her that I even liked her.I felt the need to be around her all the time.

When i realize that I was falling at her feet like a small bird I couldnt believe it! She has someone and I, after telling her that what was going on didnt made any sense to me and that I was very confused, decided to talk with her just when necessary, usually in front of common friends.

She became sad and now she totally ignores me. When we are together with friends she pretends I'm not there (she is very good at this) and when I tried to talk with her about this she said that its because stare at her! I have never stared at her, it was always her at me!

Now I know she stares at me discretly because a friend of mine told me and I sense her very sad. I have a feeling that its due to this situation.

posted January 13, 2013 01:35 PM            

so, be happy.

posted January 13, 2013 01:56 PM            

Okay in my opinion, you should just let it go because 1)she's with someone and 2)she hasn't shown obvious signs of interest..or has she? Either way, I doubt she's going to leave her bf to be with you, let's get real.

So.. if I were you, I'd just move on.

posted January 13, 2013 02:14 PM            

She has a lack of character with the half truths. I personally cannot stand the staring, and I once had a Scorpio girlfriend which did exactly what you described. Unfortunately for Scorpios, my bite is even more painful than that silly stare, and I do the stare down even better thsn them. I dropped the old girlfriend like dirty laundry, and I suggest you do the same. I like Virgos. I'm a Capricorn.

posted January 14, 2013 11:53 AM            

i think that it is more than sun signs in order to find a suitable partner. some virgos and scorpios get along, others dont...it is very relative.

honestly, im still confused by the story. imo, im only getting one side of the issue, and ive seen the same behavior displayed by other people, non-scorpio and scorpio alike....so, who knows....

posted January 14, 2013 01:15 PM            

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Originally posted by ManCee:
She really makes my heart pump fast.
I would say we are a good match if we could overcome the communication problem we are having or if I could get an insight of what she is feeling/thinking...

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she can make your heart pump fast all you want...but, are you sure you are not just projecting?
im not trying to criticize you but...i guess im trying to be more objective instead of cherry-picking.

for example had this situation been gender-inversed, imo, more likely than not, more people would see him (remember, gender-inversed) as not being into you, virgo female...
but, here, she being a scorpio...the stereotype of mind-game playing is the first thing thing that pops out in people's minds...and she is the one "at fault"

thus far, in your op, you were the one who was always initiating things, confronting her...giving her gifts.

i dont see anything concrete that shows she has initiated anything. she is not even talking to you, it seems.
i dont know of other scorps, but, scorps can be true chasers when they want someone...

posted January 14, 2013 01:26 PM            

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Originally posted by ManCee:
Thanks, this was a very good reply.

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and by the way, with any female that is already with someone else. dont go there, i recommend.
find yourself someone who is available.
go where you are loved.

im a scorp, by the way.

posted January 14, 2013 02:09 PM            

Then all this mind games started playing and what does your intuition say now? If you can't think straight or can't even contact your intuition, something is wrong.

posted January 15, 2013 12:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Baizzatbari:
The positives of a relationship with scorpio woman for a virgo man are-
Loyalty till death, mutual passion, similar interests because both represent masculine energy(which Virgo subdues to do something practical and Scorpio shows to get emotional satisfaction), a happy marriage as both are family oriented, excitement, similar sense of humour (this is my personal experience with scorpio male and female friends), complementary attributes such as virgo's practical ambition with scorpio's resourcefulness, scorpio's need for luxuries and virgo's sound financial ability, virgo's need for privacy and scorpio's ability to hide everything
On the negative side
Some scorpio's particularly the scorpion type are selfish, filthy, foul mouthed, addicts, mean, hurtful and vengeful. These type are more common.
Advice- Either go full speed ahead or break it and run away.
The intensity of a virgo's feelings for particularly some attractive libran and scorpion women is much higher than the temp of a forge.
This relationship will either reward you immensely or leave you exhausted and in a wretched state.
IT DEPENDS on which type of female you are dealing with. This is nuclear power dont toy with it because Vulcan's destructive effects are not known to me yet. So how will you counter Scorpio's effect is up to you.
But dont mess with her. P.s. I am a virgo male and I have never commited to a relationship mainly because I dont want a Scorpio female. Otherwise occurrence of Scorpio women in my life as potential partners has been FAR more than any other female.
Even Charlie Sheen (virgo male) has had far more relationships on screen with female Scorpios than any other type. Just saying as an example. But I have not met a Scorpio woman since 2009 so I dont know the effects of Vulcan on Virgo's relationships.

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posted January 15, 2013 01:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Baizzatbari:
The Sun rules 85% of our traits. It is basically our character.

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posted January 15, 2013 02:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Baizzatbari:
The Sun rules 85% of our traits. It is basically our character. Venus and Mars rule how we express our emotional and physical love respectively and specifically. No affliction or planet not even apollo which is believed to be larger than the Sun by astronomers can ever dilute the 85% influence of the Sun.
Any human being can cheat and Scorpios who are dissatisfied with their love might cheat. But no scorpio will ever take matters of life and death as a joke ever. Also my emphasis was on Virgo-Scorpio relationship not any other relationship. Being a Virgo and meeting a lot of Scorpios ManCee I have first hand experience and I am not joking. But if you want you can consult a qualified professional astrologer about your synastry with this particular Scorpion.

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I don't actually agree with this. I'm act more Libra like than Virgo even though I have a sun in Virgo. Lots of Scorpios are deceitful and lack morals, so you shouldn't generalise because it really depends on an individual's chart.

Sun counts for at most 25-30% of our personality, the moon is just as important if not more so.

And he won't ruin his life, the woman appears confused and plays games. Doesn't seem like a catch to me.

And Charlie Sheen has had relationships with Scorpios because his Mars is in Scorpio...With a Venus in Libra, so I expect the Scorpio women often have Libra and Sag placements which would therefore work well with his placements. It's not essentially because he's a Virgo.