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Topic: Is this trait of mine really that bad?
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 349 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 19, 2013 11:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by chocogold:
I do not have many friends, I am very picky when it comes to friendships. However, I adore talking and getting to know people. For example, if I go to a restaurant with friends, acquaintances, etc. I am usually the one who ends up meeting folks outside of the group, striking a conversation with strangers, etc.This happened at a restaurant and after we left, someone of the group told me she didn't like this very much. She implied something along the lines of how 'I was meant to be with them, the group.' O_O I think she felt as if I had left the group behind. As she said, "I talk to everybody." Figures, she has a lot of fixed planets. What are your friend's placements? Sun, moon, venus, mars, asc? Are you also the type who will follow the beat of her own drum? For example, I often find myself annoying some folks because I do not stick to the group. I am very curious about everything. If I am going to visit a city, I want to see what I can and whatever I find interesting. So, I do tend to go on a detour when we go out. As to my friends, they are like, following a plan. Me, if I see something, I just go. Which, is one of the reasons I rather go out on my own for certain types of activities.
Is your friend a scorpie? ha
She's a Cap Sun (figures) and leo moon and Scorpio asc. I suppose she does not like my spot light . The problem with leo's they only use their natural magnetism to attract people, unless they have more diplomatic signs in their chart like Libra or Gemini. My dads a Leo sun with a Libra moon, he has a VERY attractive personality people just swoon over him and like give him freaking gifts, its pretty amazing. This really weird but when he left his job his coworkers just gave him money and threw him a party 0_0. I was like you accepted it, and he literally could not refuse... IP: Logged |
chocogold Knowflake Posts: 206 From: USA Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 19, 2013 02:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Is your friend a scorpie? ha
Touche! She is a very early scorp, and has plenty of libra. Perchance, that leo moon of that friend of yours is feeling slightly.....envious? quote: This really weird but when he left his job his coworkers just gave him money and threw him a party 0_0. I was like you accepted it, and he literally could not refuse...
Where is his jupiter? IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 349 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 19, 2013 07:54 PM
^Scorpio Hmmmmm?IP: Logged |
chocogold Knowflake Posts: 206 From: USA Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 19, 2013 08:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: ^Scorpio Hmmmmm?
And my Taurus friend just mentioned this trait of mine last night. But I love these taurus and scorpio folks. They are very pack-oriented and loyal. I can handle them.  The scorp will defend me till the end. The reason I asked the jupiter placement is because I have met people with lucky jupiter placements in their natal chart, and, they tend to get gifts, even by random strangers, and things of that nature.
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watermonkey Knowflake Posts: 65 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 20, 2013 03:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: First of all I'm a Gemini, and when I mean gemini have 85 percent of my chart is in Gemini. I think the lack of fixed signs is causing this.I don't if know if this makes me "fake", I don't mean to this. My personality changes around different types of people, which usually allows me have a wide variety of acquaintances.. I behave more street in the inner city, or flamboyant if I'm around that crowd. I think its a defense mechanism, or my intuitions "sorting hat", If a genuinely start to care for someone I'll slowly let them in.. A good friend noticed that and gave me soo much crap for it. Instead of being honest or "real". I behave like myself around people I can trust. Although you can say this would not allow me to have any meaningful friendships, I'm just really selective about who I call a friend. A few true friends is good enough for me, I just like to have fun and meet/ experience life with all types of people. Can anyone else relate to this, am I really a fake person?
If you are refering to social situations,imo you're not fake, to me being fake is when you are aware of what you are doing/going to do. If you subconsiously change to adapt being around different kinds of people that is your level of versatility which is a good trait! that obviously different people would see it differently and those "stable" ones would often perceive you as being superficial. ------------------ Just a water monkey(hour ruled by the dragon), gemini guy IP: Logged |
mockingbird Knowflake Posts: 1009 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 20, 2013 08:10 AM
I think you'll like this post: http://www.sagittarianmind.com/2009/05/gemini-two-of-kind.html?m=1 You're just a lovely, lovely Gemini. Keep being you. ------------------ If I've included this sig, it's because I'm posting from a mobile device. Please excuse all outrageous typos and confusing auto-corrects. IP: Logged |
earthypisces Knowflake Posts: 174 From: South Carolina Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 20, 2013 09:59 AM
I don't think that makes you fake at all. I'm the same way, and I do have some Fixed Placements (Ascendant, Mercury, and Mars).------------------ Pisces Sun Capricorn Moon/Venus Taurus Ascendant Aquarius Mercury Leo Mars IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 349 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 20, 2013 01:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by chocogold: And my Taurus friend just mentioned this trait of mine last night.But I love these taurus and scorpio folks. They are very pack-oriented and loyal. I can handle them.  The scorp will defend me till the end. The reason I asked the jupiter placement is because I have met people with lucky jupiter placements in their natal chart, and, they tend to get gifts, even by random strangers, and things of that nature.
My soul mate has as scorpio moon. I love lunar scorpios so much, by far my fav moon sign. I love their character and everything, although they can have a lot of issues or baggage. I think thats why its debilitated. I'm not into scorpio suns they actually have an incredible ego that can even rival leos
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 349 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 20, 2013 01:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by earthypisces: I don't think that makes you fake at all. I'm the same way, and I do have some Fixed Placements (Ascendant, Mercury, and Mars).
Maybe its the pisces sun, they're pretty freaking charming in my experience. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 349 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 20, 2013 01:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by mockingbird: I think you'll like this post: http://www.sagittarianmind.com/2009/05/gemini-two-of-kind.html?m=1 You're just a lovely, lovely Gemini. Keep being you.
Ooooo sand mentioned this site but I never read this article, thank youuuuuuu! IP: Logged | |