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Topic: Standing up to Capricorn men...
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stellar_moon Knowflake Posts: 169 From: Canada Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 01:25 PM
I had a weird on and off relationship with a capricorn male. He went cold, broke it off, then I moved away. I'd come back to visit and he would call me up, we'd hook up and then I'd leave again. We rarely talked in between those times. I met Libra and we were together for a bit but then when my Libra and I broke up for three months, Cap must have seen my relationship change on FB and txtd me and drove 17 hours to come and visit me over Thanksgiving. I didn't want anything serious. I hadn't been with any guy besides my ex I had spent a year with and I got tested after him. Capricorn accused me of giving him an STD a day after he left and was being really mean to me, it was weird. I was pretty ****** off and told him I'd go get tested again, so I did and I was fine. We haven't spoken since because I deleted him and cut him off. IP: Logged |
AriesKat Knowflake Posts: 817 From: Brooklyn, NY USA Registered: May 2011
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posted January 23, 2013 09:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: I think only Capricorn gets Capricorn. Everyone else, when they talk about us, is just bumbling around in the dark. No offense intended, I just think it takes one to know one.
Every sign says that.....were so misunderstood they scream. IP: Logged |
AriesKat Knowflake Posts: 817 From: Brooklyn, NY USA Registered: May 2011
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posted January 23, 2013 09:50 PM
My first experience with a Cap was my first bf and boy o boy. He was extremely sensitive and would flip on anyone who he thought had slighted him, paranoia. Always angry and extremely defensive. We argued almost every day but that was mainly because he was a habitual liar , but he also cursed out my cousin and friend over a perceived slight, all in his head. He attempted to get me to submit to him but it didnt work so we constantly went at it. IP: Logged |
AriesKat Knowflake Posts: 817 From: Brooklyn, NY USA Registered: May 2011
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posted January 23, 2013 09:51 PM
he went through a whole lot though it made him bitter. IP: Logged |
AriesKat Knowflake Posts: 817 From: Brooklyn, NY USA Registered: May 2011
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posted January 23, 2013 10:06 PM
O and he basically used me the whole relationship, totally took advantage seeing as he was almost 10 years older than i. My other Cap ex friend I feel like she used myself and my leo friend when she first moved to ny. She didnt know many people so we became cool once she moved on to another job that was it. She invited me to her grad party and didnt even acknowledge me so I asked her about and she cut me off, tried to reconcile and she became cold as ice as if we were never tight. idk but it doesnt look good for these peeps in my my book. I have two stories about cappy moons but ill spare ya.IP: Logged |
bluesky Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 02, 2017 11:08 AM
Ugh, they're awful. And Capricorn Venus is no better. Male or female, they really rub me up the wrong way. Grouchy, self-obsessed, me me me - not even Aries is such a show-off. If we say we're the best, it's usually because we ARE genuinely the best, rather than that we BELIEVE we're the best. Aries/ Gemini individuals are better off sticking with Leo, or the "younger" half of the zodiac - not so much emotional baggage, so to speak! IP: Logged |
Sikanda Knowflake Posts: 932 From: 28080 Registered: Aug 2015
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posted March 02, 2017 05:50 PM
I think it all depends on the compatibility between signs and energies. As a Virgo I am pretty compatible with Capricorns. They are the only ones that get my gloomy mood from time to time and my criticism. Their sarcastic remarks sometimes make me laugh too and they are often cultured people who know what they are talking about. Their being ambitious is not a problem for me; it's an inspiration. I have a Capricorn Mars and I can be snappy and stubborn when angry (almost verbally abusive) and I will definitely do anything that I can to be respected and feel 'in power' again. As for the Capricorn energy... You'll like it or not according to your own. It's difficult to be objective here, because each sign has haters and lovers. For instance, I often have a love-hate relationship with Gemini and Sagi, and that is because we simply are not compatible in many aspects; that doesn't mean that you won't be.IP: Logged |
Selenite Knowflake Posts: 1375 From: Lyra Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 02, 2017 07:40 PM
this is funny because i definitely feel the need to stand up for myself with my boyfriend and he's a cap rising and mars. in fact just now he asked 'how are you' and i said 'sleepy' and he said 'you're always sleepy,' to which i replied, 'i'm not always sleepy!' (because i'm not! actually quite manic much of the time but ironically we have this conversation almost every day so.. he's right in a sense). his mars squares my aries moon and i just feel like a child around him sometimes. he has zero empathy with my emotions even though the emotions are lighthearted and not meant to be taken so seriously.. such is the struggle between cap and aries. but it doesn't bother me because we are loving towards each other. now, the cap people who weren't romantically involved with me (or who just didn't love me very much), were a different story because when they get like that, there's no underlying love, just coldness. which is just not nice. IP: Logged |