posted January 24, 2013 04:59 PM            

I think there are better things in store for you in the future.

posted January 24, 2013 05:17 PM            

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Originally posted by bella_taurus:
Met a Sag ...gave me his number, totally hit it off on the first date, then he became a jerk when I refused to sleep with him

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Would this be a bad time to let you know that many men are this way regardless of their sign?

(ETA: And I know a Sag woman who has sworn herself to celibacy when it comes to men because of so many men being jerks about sex.)

posted January 25, 2013 01:26 AM            

thank you for your thorough reply. I think it was very personal and I admire your courage and your strength.
it made me sad and angry to read what you have to go through, and every fibre in my being wants to suggest to you to get out there as soon as you can.
(not that you even asked me; that is one of the downsides being a Sag with mercury conjunct Sun; I never can keep my mouth shut, even if it is not my place to say something).

However, in your special situation I can understand that it is probably not possible to do so.

so I can only emphasize how much I admire your strength and sending a virtual hug your way.

Let me know if I shall erase what I wrote here, in case you don´t want anyone to read it.

It`s interesting btw the most guys I have met who were real jerks were usually Libra, Taurus and occasionally Virgo.

But I really think it cannot be limited to just the Sun-sign, and not even a stellium in a particular sign. People, even though belonging to one of the 12 signs, are still individuals, with a very individual astrological chart.

posted January 25, 2013 06:28 AM            

Ironically enough my biggest problem with him is dishonesty and being generally false in his behaviour... false smiles, false pre-rehearsed speeches, false apologies, false promises... impersonating other people/characters on TV shows and so on..... false false... just false.

I'm an Aries btw

I am not blaming his Sun sign for his false behaviour though as I know many honest/confident Sag people.

posted January 25, 2013 06:59 AM            

This is not one of the typical 'flaws' you read about in Sag descriptions though... but it could make sense.

For example sexually.... as starfairy was saying..

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But anyway sags see sex as a sport and find it difficult to settle down...

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That's the horse side of Sag.

That same guy might give you a two-hour speech over dinner as to how morally wrong adultery is and how people treat sex too casually these days. (which would be the philosopher/'man' side to the sag symbol)

Is it just me?

:edit: And it's not that they are necessarily dishonest. I mean the 'typical' Sag would not proclaim over dinner that he has never/will never engage in casual sex or cheating... BUT he'd happily blabber on about how morally wrong it is...
*shrug*

This is also why they admit to being jerks as your Sag did, bella-taurus!
Because they are very aware of their own actions. But they are still completely out of control :\

posted January 25, 2013 08:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
hmmmm I was thinking just now.. maybe the duality of Sagittarius (the half man-half horse/ centaur symbol) can make them seem hypocritical.. (as a negative personality-trait).

This is not one of the typical 'flaws' you read about in Sag descriptions though... but it could make sense.

For example sexually.... as starfairy was saying..

That's the horse side of Sag.

That same guy might give you a two-hour speech over dinner as to how morally wrong adultery is and how people treat sex too casually these days. (which would be the philosopher/'man' side to the sag symbol)

Is it just me?

:edit: And it's not that they are necessarily dishonest. I mean the 'typical' Sag would not proclaim over dinner that he has never/will never engage in casual sex or cheating... BUT he'd happily blabber on about how morally wrong it is...
*shrug*

This is also why they admit to being jerks as your Sag did, bella-taurus!
Because they are very aware of their own actions. But they are still completely out of control :\

It's like "I know how morally wrong this is... but Hey!! I'm half-horse.. Have you seen the size of an average horse's pee pee?.... *YOU* try to control this thing in my pants!!!!!"

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Lmao @ the part I left bold. A new topic in sweet peas? Funny enough, a Sag Moon guy who is near and dear to my heart is, uhm, blessed with that attribute and the drive to use it lol sagittarius does rule the hips after all

@the OP: Don't swear off all sagittarius guys just bc of 1! Maybe just look for a sag with a fixed moon, Venus, or mars. It would probably suit your taurean needs and wants a little better. I'm a Taurus Moon myself so I sort of understand...but my Sagittarius Mars conjunct Uranus and Aries Venus make me a little more... ”I want what I want and I want it right now” so I kind of understand his side too (I'm female btw) I've got a whole mess of planets and asteroids and even my vertex in Sag.. You may have wounded his pride. While the least showy of the fire signs when it comes to displays of anger bc of hurt pride, it's still there. didn't get what he wanted, maybe a bit of a bruised ego...he is/was lashing out with his ”jerkiness”

posted January 25, 2013 09:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
It's like "I know how morally wrong this is... but Hey!! I'm half-horse.. Have you seen the size of an average horse's pee pee?.... *YOU* try to control this thing in my pants!!!!!"

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posted January 25, 2013 09:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Xiiro:
I'm a Sag and my experience with Taurus is the same as yours with Sag. Can't get enough sex and when I was not interested or in the mood, he treated me like I was starving him while licking chocolate cake off my fingers.

I think guys in general can be this way. Sag just doesn't have any qualms about saying, "Well that's why I'm here, so let's not waste any more of each other's time". Would you have preferred he draw the whole thing out until you were willing to get it on and then leave? Count your blessings you didn't have to deal with someone that shallow for long.

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posted January 25, 2013 09:36 AM            

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Originally posted by bella_taurus:
Met a Sag I used to attend high school with, gave me his number, totally hit it off on the first date, then he became a jerk when I refused to sleep with him.

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The same thing happened with my ex's bandmate. He was his bandmate (shared the same birthday too so also double Sag) and he hit on me aggressively within a month of my ex of 3 years and I breaking up.

posted January 25, 2013 09:36 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
But y no interested in teh seks. Taurus no understan..

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posted January 25, 2013 09:55 AM            

The "good side" of Saggie energy can be quite, nice, though - it'd be a shame if you entirely gave it up.

Who'd be there to come bouncing in to make you gaffaw when you're feeling blue otherwise?