posted January 25, 2013 04:05 PM            

I have dated three Scorpios and have worked with quite a few. It seems to me if they are really interested in you they go after you full force, they usually came after me which is different because I usually pursue. The ones with alot of Scorpio placements in their chart don't mess around, they want all or nothing. There is no in between for them, that concept just doesn't do it for them. In short some of them merge hard with their partners. They are intense people and they want the same from a partner, they want that passion in every aspect of the relationship. They seek out strong commitment with loyalty. If you show them in the beginning with a personality of a slapdash or outrageous flirt, then they won't take you seriously. Then there are certain Scorpios that like the game of manipulation and control with a partner (cue my Scorpio ex), and just to see how far they can toy with you. Those you should just avoid as they won't ever change.

posted January 25, 2013 04:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Thanks to you two. These two responces are so interesting! I do side with librachoice in that if a Scorpio is interested- they go full trottle ahead and get whatever they want. The games proly start later, when the victim is already entangled into the scorpio web.

The Scorpio in question has a cluster of planets on his Scorpio ASC - all in Scorpio if course - Scorpio Sun, conj. Pluto, conj Saturn, conj Mercury, all that conjunct his
Scorpio ASC within 0-2 degrees.

Libra, why did you separate? Seems like he was really into you.

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The reason we separated was because he was too controlling and we would get into many fights over it, sometimes I would be home a few minutes late from work and he would question me where I was or who I was "doing". It just got old after awhile, there was one incident in the middle of the night where we were arguing pretty bad and he ended up throwing a new dress I bought out the window of our apartment, and then out of anger I grabbed some his stuff and tossed it out the front window... it was crazy, and the person that lived down below us shouted out at us if we didn't knock it off they were going to call the cops on us. Combined with the fact that most our clothing ended up on their front porch. We were either fighting or making love, that was the relationship most of the time.

posted January 25, 2013 05:53 PM            

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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Water is simply irrational. Not everything can be defined or put into reason. It's impulse, it's nature, but why don't they do the rational, reasonable thing and not obey their impulses and nature? as t
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posted January 25, 2013 05:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Libra,
how your synastry looks like? How did you aspect his Scorpio planets?
How did you manage to break the rwlationship? They usually dont take a rejection well.

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We actually had some good synastry between us, some aspects...

Mars conjunction Venus(he was the Mars)
Venus conjunction Pluto(he was Venus)
Venus conjunction Neptune
Moon opposite Moon
Saturn opposite Sun
Saturn square Mars(this aspect is aweful)

His Sun was in my 5th house, and his Moon fell in my 7th house. My Venus fell in his 6th house.

And we also had a karmic aspect Saturn opposite Node in our synastry, which made me feel obligated to him, which in the end took its toll. It wasn't easy breaking it off with him, as he kept trying to come back to me, even though I told him several times it wasn't going to work anymore between us. Eventually I had to move along with changing my number and email.

posted January 25, 2013 06:47 PM            

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted January 25, 2013 07:10 PM            

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Would a scorpio in venus fall into this category?

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posted January 25, 2013 07:16 PM            

Could be he maybe thinks he is coming on to strongly up until now and may be annoying you in the process?

posted January 25, 2013 07:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Water signs seem to do it alot when they get overwhelmed. I suggest dating a Scorpio rising or mars because they don't do disappearing acts.

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posted January 25, 2013 07:44 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
Idk about that. I am Scorpio rising and mars. I disappear on everyone.

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Scorpio ppl need to come here and testify.

posted January 25, 2013 08:00 PM            

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posted January 25, 2013 08:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
would you disappear on someone you care about? why? Whats your thought process? Arent you afraid that you will lose those that you care about. Or do you simply not care?
Scorpio ppl need to come here and testify.

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I think it's a water sign thing like red says. Can't explain. I do it to everyone. Part of me simply does not care.

posted January 25, 2013 08:25 PM            

I am gratefull to everyone that responded. Hopefully more Scorps will chim in.

Thanks, Moonfish and Sand. Such enigmas, nontheless.

posted January 25, 2013 08:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
I have no idea. i wish that was the case but i doubt it. He disappeared so suddenly. He is very intense, albeith his strong scorpio Chart.

i hate him already.

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If he said "I need to give you some space"

What do you think, he would think, you thought?

"If I say that she will think I'm dumping her better to not say anything and see what happens, she knows how I feel"

posted January 26, 2013 12:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:

This is so interesting.

I am gratefull to everyone that responded. Hopefully more Scorps will chim in.

Thanks, Moonfish and Sand. Such enigmas, nontheless.

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