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Topic: Venus square Saturn natal, what's it like?
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Got Gemini??
Knowflake Posts: 591
From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 29, 2013 03:42 PM
  
Venus square Saturn natal. How's that play out for those with this aspect? Do you still feel it out to 10°? How does it effect your love life? Please list what sign your Venus and Saturn are in and how many degrees the square is. I know someone with Venus in Sag square Saturn in Virgo. It's a 10° degree square. (Edit, I rechecked and its a 10° square)
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Yin
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posted January 29, 2013 03:49 PM
I have it! 4 Sag Venus square 0 Virgo Saturn.
Gives me low self esteem and makes me constantly doubt my femininity. My least favorite aspect.IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
Knowflake Posts: 591
From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 29, 2013 04:09 PM
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Originally posted by Yin:
I have it! 4 Sag Venus square 0 Virgo Saturn.
Gives me low self esteem and makes me constantly doubt my femininity. My least favorite aspect.
Oh wow! Thats gotta be very d difficult to experience! How does it make you feel in love relationships? IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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From: UNITED STATES, BABY
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 29, 2013 04:20 PM
[Venus Saturn square makes love relationships difficult to enter and endure. Because think about it, the entire time the person is self concious, cautious, trying extra hard to be this perfect being , which we all aren't. So whats the point of even trying? I feel like a Venus Square Saturner should realize that, or should date someone, who basically has a body which makes them feel secure and confident. OR, someone with low standards and a personality thats similar.
I love how you compared this aspect to an 8 ball. With this aspect, you win or you lose, but ultimately the choice is yours with how you're going to go about things.]IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted January 29, 2013 04:30 PM
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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
Oh wow! Thats gotta be very d difficult to experience! How does it make you feel in love relationships?
Just imagine dating a woman with a low self-esteem. At first you think you can help it by showering her with compliments. Then you realize that she's unhappy with herself and the love has to come from within.
It's a hard lesson in self love for the Venus-Saturn person. I'm still learning how to be good to myself and not project all that insecurity onto my partner. IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted January 29, 2013 04:36 PM
What Desiring Shadows said.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 29, 2013 04:36 PM
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On the positive side at least he'll never have to worry about you cheating or leaving.. IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted January 29, 2013 04:37 PM
Hahahaha. That's just sad, Kerosene.  IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
Knowflake Posts: 591
From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 29, 2013 05:00 PM
Do you think a person would feel it all the way out at 8° wide? She's VERY attractive and would really have no reason to be insecure but you never really know what people feel internally. I know she's had realty rough love relationships in the past.------------------
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aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 29, 2013 06:02 PM
about a year ago i was "talking" to a beautiful sag girl who had venus square saturn and she definitely had tons of insecurity... she was tall, had a nice body and beautiful blue eyes, she could be a model imo, but she didnt see herself that way. also she had a good personality and didnt even need to wear makeup to be pretty.. but she didnt see herself as pretty and said she didnt deserve a relationship.IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted January 29, 2013 09:52 PM
GG, I've never met a shy Sco woman before. One meager Venus-Saturn won't be able to stop those forces of nature.IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
Knowflake Posts: 591
From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 29, 2013 10:06 PM
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Originally posted by Yin:
GG, I've never met a shy Sco woman before. One meager Venus-Saturn won't be able to stop those forces of nature.
She's not shy but she's not the type to just go up to random strangers and start conversations either, like me lololol. Plus its an 8° square so maybe she doesn't feel it so much. That's something I'm gonna ask her. ------------------
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starfairy
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From: los angeles, california, USA
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted January 29, 2013 10:14 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
about a year ago i was "talking" to a beautiful sag girl who had venus square saturn and she definitely had tons of insecurity... she was tall, had a nice body and beautiful blue eyes, she could be a model imo, but she didnt see herself that way. also she had a good personality and didnt even need to wear makeup to be pretty.. but she didnt see herself as pretty and said she didnt deserve a relationship.
did that make her more or less attractive to you? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 29, 2013 11:18 PM
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Originally posted by starfairy:
did that make her more or less attractive to you?
neither,my feelings didnt change one bit, i was still attracted to her physically and emotionally...however her insecurities were soo bad it stopped a potential relationship from forming because she said she didnt deserve a relationship.
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Got Gemini??
Knowflake Posts: 591
From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 29, 2013 11:41 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by starfairy:
[b] did that make her more or less attractive to you?
neither,my feelings didnt change one bit, i was still attracted to her physically and emotionally...however her insecurities were soo bad it stopped a potential relationship from forming because she said she didnt deserve a relationship.
[/B][/QUOTE] Dank that's gotta be terrible for a person to have to feel about their self.
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5530
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 29, 2013 11:44 PM
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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
Dank that's gotta be terrible for a person to have to feel about their self.
it was ridiculous too! i dont mean to sound like a broken record but she was hot!! and she had a great personality and was really funny....
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hannaramaa
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posted January 29, 2013 11:50 PM
Venus square Saturn. Well, I think it's both positive and negative. On one hand, I won't settle unless I am 110% sure about someone. Say someone has about 60% of my must-haves, but smokes and is narrow-minded. I won't compromise. However, I often write people off too soon and this is due to the fearful nature of my Saturn. I don't know if other people experience it the same. I also go through phases where I feel utterly worthless and unworthy of love and self-loathing. Luckily though I have an Aries stellium. BUT. It's in the 11H and squaring my Capricorn stellium in the 7H. In particular my Venus in Aries (18 dg.) is squaring Saturn in Capricorn (13 dg.) IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
Knowflake Posts: 591
From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 29, 2013 11:53 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Venus square Saturn. Well, I think it's both positive and negative. On one hand, I won't settle unless I am 110% sure about someone. Say someone has about 60% of my must-haves, but smokes and is narrow-minded. I won't compromise. However, I often write people off too soon and this is due to the fearful nature of my Saturn. I don't know if other people experience it the same. I also go through phases where I feel utterly worthless and unworthy of love and self-loathing. Luckily though I have an Aries stellium. BUT. It's in the 11H and squaring my Capricorn stellium in the 7H. In particular my Venus in Aries (18 dg.) is squaring Saturn in Capricorn (13 dg.)
Interesting. So you definitely feel it out at 5°? ------------------
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hannaramaa
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posted January 30, 2013 12:17 AM
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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
Interesting. So you definitely feel it out at 5°?
I don't know how you calculate it down to only one degree like that (but would like you to tell me, lol) but yes I feel it. Very strongly. I think it's also because my Saturn is in Capricorn, plus it squares Venus which is the equivalent to having Venus in Capricorn, then Saturn is only strengthened by being in it's home sign Capricorn, PLUS Saturn is in Venus' natural 7H. IP: Logged |
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