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peregrine
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posted February 02, 2013 05:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peregrine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just bumped into 2 today at the same shopping mall! Jeez! Thankfully I looked like I just stepped out of one of those ads for Italian cashmere! #fyeah

Anyway I jet outta there as fast as I can. I am not on speaking terms with most. I know 3 taurean women born around the same time as me that do the same. 1 is even paranoid of always seeing exes. Also both of them do not explain or give closure. They just stop talking and communication.

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somethingexcellent
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posted February 02, 2013 06:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Depends. Depends depends depends...

Are we on speaking terms? If no, I do not talk. Hardly even acknowledge. I'll talk about them, to other people who ask, but not to them. I don't exactly care about leaving the scene - if I'm there, then I'll be there! They can leave, or enjoy the show, ya kno?

Mean Scorpio Venus, didn't give the bad exes a chance once I decided I wanted out.

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Doux Rêve
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posted February 02, 2013 06:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There's no turning back.
So if it's over, it's over for good and I don't want to talk to them/see them any longer.
If I randomly come across them in the street, I may stop to say hi but that's it.

Scorpio Sun - I think most of us are the "no contact" type of people (unless there's heavy Aqua/Uranus or Air in there).

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somethingexcellent
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posted February 02, 2013 06:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^I'm an Aquarius Moon + Libra Mercury, but maybe the Leo influences in me are what make me the "what's done...IS DONE!" type.

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posted February 02, 2013 06:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pisces-Sweety     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yuck! I hope that NEVER happens.. EVER! If I did, I'd pretend not to see them and if they talked to me, I wouldn't talk to them. I'd just give them half a smile and keep walking. If I do more than that, I'll be giving them the green card and make them think they can talk to me.

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posted February 02, 2013 08:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
no doubt it's extremly awkward, but I embrace the divine me and smile with a short subtle eye contact.
No doubt it's over, but hey! We were intimate at a point, and I can't NOT appreciate that.

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AriesKat
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posted February 02, 2013 09:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dont say ish...if i even acknowledge them its a quick glance and im gone.

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charlie
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posted February 02, 2013 09:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am best friends with all my ex's!! GO STELLIUM IN 11H YAY!!!! Love for all!!!!

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posted February 02, 2013 09:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im still, well.. inflated by my first ex.
A lot of drama happened so we broke up around senior year of high school.
I don't know, there was not closure. Not the kind I need..
Every time I vist my parents we run into each other in public.
Sparks fly and there strong chemistry between us.
Its that moon conjunct asc and mars conjunct venus synastry I swear
Shitt..
I'm not going to cave in thou!!!

Besides that situation I'm cool with most of my exs, I try to stay on good terms with. I've dated a lot of people for short periods times so its never been dramatic lol

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posted February 02, 2013 10:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
pretend i dont notice them or see them and hope they do the same.

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posted February 03, 2013 01:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm very friendly/nice with exes. I usually don't leave things unresolved & I try to be friends with most ppl.. I'm very Aries-like in this sense - not much scares me.

The only ex I avoid is my first love. Huge moron!

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posted February 03, 2013 01:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
charlie - I have Sun & Venus in 11th! I'm basically the same Although not "best" friends.

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posted February 03, 2013 02:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peregrine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
The only ex I avoid is my first love. Huge moron!

Yeah I could have sworn she was steering her guy away from the area I was at. Like omg douchebag alert!

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posted February 03, 2013 02:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm really good friends with one of mine, but for the others, I've lucky enough not to have bumped into them so far. Two are in other areas and another moved overseas due to a job promotion so *crosses fingers*

It's just too much awkwardness I don't wanna handle lol.


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posted February 03, 2013 05:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peregrine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted February 03, 2013 08:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Evolved1     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I say hey whats up!!! It doesnt bother My..Moon, merc, venus and rising in Aqua..I'm cool with all my exes. Well maybe 1 doesn't get the privilege to be my friend but the others all good..

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posted February 03, 2013 10:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am friendly towards them.

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charlie
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posted February 03, 2013 01:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
charlie - I have Sun & Venus in 11th! I'm basically the same Although not "best" friends.

Sometimes I scare myself with the ease I just move on! I can literally date someone one day, end things and be their friend the next day! Is this even "normal"??

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a_may_gemini
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posted February 03, 2013 01:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for a_may_gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i never bumped into any of them, because i don't "date" and the relationships i've had have wouldn't randomly bump into them.

it would have to be a pretty small dating pool/world for exs to keep bumping into each other.

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posted February 03, 2013 06:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sorcha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer Sun and Venus, Taurus Moon and Scorp NN.

I really dislike bumping in to exes but if I do I'm always friendly. I can be a bit paranoid about it though for at least a year after a break up if I was really in luuuurve. For example, I have gone out of my way to run my errands at odd times so I do *not* run in to my most recent ex. It just helps me to move on more easily.

Having said that, if it was going to happen, I admit that I too would want to look like I had also just stepped out of an ad for Italian cashmere

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posted February 03, 2013 07:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Always friendly. We were probably still talking anyway. If we bumped into one another we'd probably go out for a drink, shoot the sh*t and catch up on things.

I almost always remain friends with my exes, or at least friendly towards them. It wouldnt be weird to me, because when it's over it's over, but the bond was usually tight enough that it wouldnt be awkward.

The last guy I broke it off with I hope to never see again, but that was a rare case of bad judgement on my part. I shouldnt have ever dated him, and I knew that from the get-go, but didnt listen to my gut.

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peregrine
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posted February 03, 2013 07:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peregrine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sorcha:
Having said that, if it was going to happen, I admit that I too would want to look like I had also just stepped out of an ad for Italian cashmere

Scuzi?

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posted February 04, 2013 11:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How do you react when you bump into exes?

I don't react.I wear my poker face and that's it. Till now, my poker face has proven to be very efficient.

When I close a chapter, it's closed and locked.I cut them off and moved on. I think it's moon sq pluto.

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Desiring Shadows
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posted February 04, 2013 11:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, um.... this is awkward. *sweat dop*
nUn

I don't think it would matter. MY own personal philosophy is once a relationship has officially ended and you've like come to terms aka accepted its ended you can't just go back to it. Thats like, ressurection **** . It just doesn't happen with the same body...! xD

Plus you can only move forward in life. It's unfair to do that to yourself or to the partner. Because theres a reason for everything thats happened. And if he or you treated someone badly it is most likely to happen again...

I guess I would be friends with an ex, I dun care. And you should see my parents they fight sooooo much. Well not now but throughout my entire life they've been married they've had some serious fights where I'd question why they were still together. I guess with marriage its good because you grow together? I dunno. I really don't want to get married though, and if I do he's going to have to avoid fighting with me because I don't want to deal with being stuck in something so murky.
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posted February 04, 2013 12:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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