posted February 03, 2013 11:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety:
The reason I want to work with him is because he's very very good at what he does. He can be a hardworker and do an even better job than me if he puts his mind to it. He has several degrees from prestigious universities and he's very detail oriented and can do an excellent job. I've seen some of his work, amazing is an understatement. I know we can be a very great team but I don't know what's wrong with him.

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Ah, that's too bad. Another person on this thread wrote that you're the one with the problem, while you're saying he's the one with the problem. It's not the fault of any one person; there's just a mismatch in personalities. You seek hard-working, dependable people, so it's not surprising you're annoyed with a scattered, flighty person! If you ask him, he might say you're too rigid and strict.

You're definitely going to have to learn to work with him, not against him. It'll be hard with such discordant energies in your charts.

"Virgo and Gemini’s approaches to life are seemingly so different that mutual acceptance can be hard to come by — especially since Virgo tends to be so critical and exacting. Gemini strains against! Virgo’s ultra-practical stance in the world, and Virgo tires quickly of Gemini’s flighty ways. They do have much to teach one another, however. Virgo can help Gemini to be more involved in life and to see the depth of ideas rather than simply the surface. Gemini can help bring fun and excitement into Virgo’s life."
http://www.astrology.com/love-compatibility-virgo-gemini/2-d-lvmt-virgo_gemini

^LOL how perfect

Anyway, I just read a bit about Virgo/Gemini business partnerships, and it says that while you do not appreciate each other's approaches, you can make a fabulous team. Gemini is full of ideas, while Virgos have the work ethic and practicality to put those ideas into action.

posted February 03, 2013 11:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
Hey Pisces-Sweety, are you attracted to this guy? (Innocent question!)

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I have a love\hate thing with him. He's so charming and friendly and VERY intelligent(even academically which is a huge plus for me).. but the more he does things like this the more I feel like I would probably kill him if he does something like this to me personally (if we ever have a relationship).

posted February 03, 2013 11:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety:
Okay so next week I have a meeting with the gemini man I work with. It's a meeting for work. After the last emails we exchanged, things became awkward because I called him out on his behaviour towards me. I don't know how I should behave when I see him. I'm very anxious. The last email he sent was almost like an indirect apology(He showed regret for how he behaved but never actually said I'm sorry for how I behaved and that's fine.) And even though I appreciated his reply (it was big of him to show a sign of regret even if it was indirect) he put me through hell with his behaviour for months and I'm also scared that if I show him that I'm okay with him now, i'll be giving him the green card to repeat his awful behaviour, and at the same time, I don't want to come off as an unforgiving mean person. He has a very friendly helpful nature(Sometimes I end up smiling like a moron at the things he says even if i'm mad at him.. he's very charming). I don't know what to do. Advice? Please? Thank You.

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Hmmm, so right now u are trying to decide howto behave when you see him? whether to forgive him or not?? Sorry i am just trying to find your purpose..

posted February 03, 2013 11:58 AM            

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Libra Moon
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Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted February 03, 2013 12:13 PM            

Not about forgiving. Look, I don't hold grudges but I admit, his behaviour did get to me because it also affected my performance(along with his) and I just want to try to show him that " You're not allowed to repeat what you did again". I want to set limits. Sum people.. just from the way they look.. you respect them(they look intimidating). and others.. from the way they look and behave.. they dont demand respect(just like for ex. some nice people). So I want to behave in a way that will show him that there is a line and u will not cross it.

posted February 04, 2013 07:23 AM            

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Originally posted by watermonkey:
Dayyum i accidentally backspaced a essay i wrote in reply to you that took me half an hour lol. nvm i will just sum it up now-mind games and i really mean mind games that will get him intrigued and you really have to detach yourself being a pisces female x2 emotional vs a older gemini male superior with experience,power and a mercurial mind. So really you have to be really badass to fight him lol.

Oh! I hate when that happens! Anyway, I don't know how(Not really into mind games, they exhaust me.. mentally) But i'll try.

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posted February 04, 2013 08:34 AM            

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Originally posted by watermonkey:
@ pisces-sweety use your piscean psychic intuition to read his mind than, they are really good at it.

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