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Topic: How do you keep a Cap Moon/Venus Sag's interest?
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3924 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 07, 2013 10:37 PM
He did say see in people take advantage of others makes him really mad!IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 564 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 07, 2013 11:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: He did say see in people take advantage of others makes him really mad!
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Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 564 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 07, 2013 11:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: He did say see in people take advantage of others makes him really mad!
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sharpei Knowflake Posts: 124 From: london Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 08, 2013 03:04 AM
odette - what you posted about cap mooners is SOOOOO FREKAING TRUE!woah! i was talking to this guy on the internet who is cap moon and as soon as he found out i was not in the country he seemed to lose interest in me- i imagine when i return his interest will be reignited but i dont get the impression he will invest his time talking to me like some guys would just because they like me- no with him there has to be some chance of it coming to something (he also has venus cap) i mean i understand but i dont find it terribly romantic you know? id like a guy who just felt sucha strong connection to me he could not help but talk to me! i tend to get on with capricorn moon men though- the yare reliable- my friends ex husband was cap moon, gemini sun and honestly you noticed his moon sign more - i really disliked him but he really liked me because i am quite conservative unlike most of my friends other friends. even though im capricorn if i like someone ill invest my time in them even if it may not come to anything- i mean i wont invest like years of my life on the off chance a man MIGHT marry me but i would def see where things were heading. hannaramma - well you have not met him yet so its hard to pick up subtle signals like one can when one meets someone in person. still if you sense something MAY be important to someone or something drops subtle hints then it is worth listening to that inner voice rather than just plowing ahead regardless you know? you dont need to ask outright you can just intuit and see how he responds when you do something you think he *might* like- if he is appreciative you know it is working but if he does not respond fine. i still can't find what his sun sign is? sun sign is a pretty big one even though i know its not the only influence it is pretty much the biggest influence people have over their lives. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3924 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 08, 2013 09:46 AM
Sorry sharpei, I thought I mentioned it somewhere! He has Sun in Sag. Also, someone asked about where his Jupiter is - it's in Aries. I have to say even though we haven't had deep philosophical discussions or anything, it's irksome not to hear from him! Last night we didn't talk at all... IP: Logged |
sharpei Knowflake Posts: 124 From: london Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 08, 2013 09:52 AM
no worries i think i misread the title- i took it to be he is capricorn moon sag venus but i think its he is capricorn both moon and venus and sun sag!in which case im interested in someone with a similar configeration so im interested to hear what happens! how do you feel the sun in sag influences him? eta AND the guy has scorpio mars! def not the same one though as his jupiter is in a different placement IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 680 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 08, 2013 09:56 AM
Have a strong backbone. Don't be a yes girl. Don't take BS from them or anyone else.Have opinions and vast knowledge. Be LAIDBACK! Both Caps and Sags like the girl next door types, someone chill who isn't high maintenance, demanding, temperamental. Be independent, do you own thing, give them lots of breathing space. Be active and outdoorsy! Someone who is gets out and does things. Be openminded and good listeners. Both signs likes someone who is compromising actually listens. Don't be so quick to reveal your cards, hold back and go alittle mysterious at times (nothing to do with game playing though) and show you have more than a pretty face. Show you're a go getter and have a strong will. Scorpio mars are usually quite intense so you got to show you can stand along side somebody with these placements. Be honest, reliable, consistent. They'll also like someone who is upbeat and doesn't let things get them down. Someone who isn't easily phased when sht hits the fan .
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3924 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 08, 2013 10:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by sharpei: no worries i think i misread the title- i took it to be he is capricorn moon sag venus but i think its he is capricorn both moon and venus and sun sag!in which case im interested in someone with a similar configeration so im interested to hear what happens! how do you feel the sun in sag influences him? eta AND the guy has scorpio mars! def not the same one though as his jupiter is in a different placement
Here's his placements! Sag Sun Capricorn Moon Mercury in Scorpio Venus in Sagittarius Mars in Scorpio Jupiter in Aries He kind of confuses me. I think he likes me on some level but is afraid to bring it up, and I also don't think I'm the only one he likes or anything. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3924 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 08, 2013 11:02 AM
LOL Hapless... I think you're absolutely right. If we were to look at this on a bigger scale I think I keep meeting these types to develop my Ariesness! In person I'm very Aries but communicatively I want to talk all the time just like girlfriends, and guys in general definitely aren't like that!!! We didn't talk last night like we have been and it threw me off, but I'm making myself promise to not text him today and wait for him to text me first if he wants to talk. We also have nothing in common. We can make each other laugh and some of the stuff he likes is funny but I don't watch it or listen to it regularly. The stuff we have in common is more about who we are you know? But that's kind of hard to relate to since it's already the same.IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 280 From: los angeles, california, USA Registered: Jul 2010
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posted February 08, 2013 11:10 AM
Do NOT BE CLINGY. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3924 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 08, 2013 11:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by starfairy: Do NOT BE CLINGY.
LOL OKAY starfairy!!!!!! If I don't even live in the same state as him, what's considered clingy? Because there's times where I won't text him back 'cause I assume the conversation is just "eh." You know, and then he'll text me an hour later like "Sooo...." IP: Logged |
sharpei Knowflake Posts: 124 From: london Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 08, 2013 11:15 AM
im not surprised he confuses you! he probably confuses himself with those placements!i mean look at how contradictory they are - he is emotionally reserved and conservative (cap moon) but looks for sparky independant girls (sag venus) yet communicates in an intense way (merc in scorpio) and is sagitarius sun which means his life direction is more breath than depth. phew! good luck there girl but seriously he is a guy you speak to online- best not to take it toooo seriously- i mean you just dont know online- people give false impressions and it is not as cementing or as much of an emotional investment to speak to someone online as it is to talk in person. IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 280 From: los angeles, california, USA Registered: Jul 2010
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posted February 08, 2013 11:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: LOL OKAY starfairy!!!!!! If I don't even live in the same state as him, what's considered clingy? Because there's times where I won't text him back 'cause I assume the conversation is just "eh." You know, and then he'll text me an hour later like "Sooo...."
The Sag/Cap combo is definitely difficult. People have a hard time understanding me, too.. Because we're very passionate, confident, flirty, adventurous people, but can be quite emotionally reserved and cold. Just don't overload him with texts. If I ever feel too "smothered" by someone, it's a big turn-off, even if they live far away from me. We need our space. I think not texting him back when the conversation is "eh" is a good idea. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3924 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 08, 2013 11:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by sharpei: im not surprised he confuses you! he probably confuses himself with those placements!i mean look at how contradictory they are - he is emotionally reserved and conservative (cap moon) but looks for sparky independant girls (sag venus) yet communicates in an intense way (merc in scorpio) and is sagitarius sun which means his life direction is more breath than depth. phew! good luck there girl but seriously he is a guy you speak to online- best not to take it toooo seriously- i mean you just dont know online- people give false impressions and it is not as cementing or as much of an emotional investment to speak to someone online as it is to talk in person.
EXACTLY! I got caught up for a second but I'm becoming rational again lol. He's kind of weird anyway. I mean you're a graduate student and you type "I'm at workkkkkkk" < s'nnoying. IP: Logged |
sharpei Knowflake Posts: 124 From: london Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 08, 2013 11:30 AM
starfairy - what are your placements exactly like moon, sun venus etc?i kind of like this guy who i only speak to online- he approached me then i responded and then...nothing - i would very much like to speak to him again but i feel like he is the type who initiates things if he is truly interested so i am going to wait it out - ive often found with men they speak to you a few times initiate contact then dissapear for a bit and suddenly come back when they are ready and i DO NOT want to seem too desperate. so what do you tink starfairy since your placements are pretty similar to his sun- sag moon venus saturn uranus and neptune cap, (i know right!) mars scorpio. should i start up another conversation with him or just wait for him to start one (he contacted me through a site so i added him to fb and i started a very short literally hi how are you conservation and he has not started another conversation since...)
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starfairy Knowflake Posts: 280 From: los angeles, california, USA Registered: Jul 2010
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posted February 08, 2013 12:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by sharpei: starfairy - what are your placements exactly like moon, sun venus etc?i kind of like this guy who i only speak to online- he approached me then i responded and then...nothing - i would very much like to speak to him again but i feel like he is the type who initiates things if he is truly interested so i am going to wait it out - ive often found with men they speak to you a few times initiate contact then dissapear for a bit and suddenly come back when they are ready and i DO NOT want to seem too desperate. so what do you tink starfairy since your placements are pretty similar to his sun- sag moon venus saturn uranus and neptune cap, (i know right!) mars scorpio. should i start up another conversation with him or just wait for him to start one (he contacted me through a site so i added him to fb and i started a very short literally hi how are you conservation and he has not started another conversation since...)
I'm Sag Sun/Asc; Aries Moon; Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, Neptune in Cap; Mars Aqua Sorry, his planets are what? Sag Sun, then Cappy Moon, Venus, Saturn, and Uranus? I just want to confirm before I say anything... IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 340 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 08, 2013 06:46 PM
I have a Cap Moon and a VERY easily bored Venus in 11H (slightly square Neptune in Sag...)There are only 2 rules to follow: don't F with me and don't take me for granted. ooops!! Forgot 1 rule: Do. Not. Ever (!). Be. Clingy. Wanna see a Goat run 10 miles in 23 minutes flat?? Be clingy.. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3924 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 08, 2013 08:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: I have a Cap Moon and a VERY easily bored Venus in 11H (slightly square Neptune in Sag...)There are only 2 rules to follow: don't F with me and don't take me for granted. ooops!! Forgot 1 rule: Do. Not. Ever (!). Be. Clingy. Wanna see a Goat run 10 miles in 23 minutes flat?? Be clingy..
I think I'm alright clingy wise. I've never blown up a guy's phone like Aquaguy described in my other thread, and if he doesn't text back I don't rant to him about it or anything. I mean really why am I even making this an issue!?!!?! That's what crazy people do who've never even met someone they're talking to. must. stop. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 1404 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted February 08, 2013 08:21 PM
I didn't realise that about clinginess... Cancer is supposed to be the clingiest sign - and since it is the opposite of Capricorn, there is often an attraction there.I think clinginess upsets fire and air signs most of all - because we need space to breathe. For Cap Moon - I have to go back to what I said earlier... just be *consistent*! If a guy in my life was kind of clingy - then suddenly changed his personality and became extra detached.. It would seriously pi*ss me off.. because I would feel like: "Who the hell is this new person and what did they do with the old person??" Or vice versa if they seem detached - and suddenly become clingy. So hannarama - whatever you have been doing so far.. he would kind of know your personality by now..... so just keep being yourself. Don't *change* in some weird way. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3924 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 08, 2013 08:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette:
So hannarama - whatever you have been doing so far.. he would kind of know your personality by now..... so just keep being yourself. Don't *change* in some weird way.
LOL you mean don't all of a sudden twist my neck around 360 degrees and demand to know his social security number, and blood type? IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 703 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 09, 2013 02:26 AM
If I text or call you, and you are taciturn or do not answer, I have no patience for that. The first time is okay, the second time I notice a pattern. By the 3rd time I'm hard pressed to hit the send button even after a week or two has passed. And if I think you are being taciturn on the third time, I'll take it as a sign that you aren't interested and will never contact you again. I won't even bother to ask why you were being taciturn. I'm a Gemini, I like to communicate. I'm not clingy with it at all though. Miss Scorpio is a Scorpio Sun, Libra Moon, Sag Mercury Rx, and Sag Venus. We talk a few times a week. If anything, I could probably initiate communication more with her. She's not clingy at all. ------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 564 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 09, 2013 02:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by starfairy: Do NOT BE CLINGY.
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sharpei Knowflake Posts: 124 From: london Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 09, 2013 04:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by starfairy: I'm Sag Sun/Asc; Aries Moon; Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, Neptune in Cap; Mars AquaSorry, his planets are what? Sag Sun, then Cappy Moon, Venus, Saturn, and Uranus? I just want to confirm before I say anything...
sorry ill be more clear sag =sun scorpio=mars capricorn=venus moon saturn uranus neptune im cap sun gemini ascendant aries moon aquarius venus pisces mars
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VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 4793 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 09, 2013 05:30 AM
Nothing you can't handle with your Cardinal Aries energy vs his Capricorn and your Saturn squares to match the Scorpio "depth". Maybe there are Aries/Sag trines?As far as these emo Cap Moons go.. Well,they should be tested in vitro IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 4793 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 09, 2013 05:31 AM
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