posted February 09, 2013 09:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
Its okay, I'm recently separated. Married for ten difficult and unhappy years.

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Hope things improve for you all now.

posted February 09, 2013 09:26 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha there wont be any temptation for me

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posted February 09, 2013 09:27 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i especially hate the earliest stages of dating ... i'm wondering" is she gonna flake?, where am i gonna take her?,am i texting too much/too little,is she interested? etc" when i was more inexperienced getting a girls number was an exciting thing, but now i realize getting a number doesnt mean anything... my experience has been that over 60% of girls will flake before the first date. just the other night i got a hot girls number and i havent texted her yet and i'm not excited.. i'm expecting her to flake out on me,is that sad? lol

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Tell me about it! I learned a long time ago to instead of asking a woman for her number, I'd just give her mine. That way if she was interested, she'd call and if not she wouldn't. That cut down on a lot of the wondering if she was into me or not. Everyone hates rejection!

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posted February 09, 2013 09:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Hope things improve for you all now.

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Thank you :-)

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posted February 09, 2013 09:29 AM            

First email from me:

posted February 09, 2013 09:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
Tell me about it! I learned a long time ago to instead of asking a woman for her number, I'd just give her mine. That way if she was interested, she'd call and if not she wouldn't. That cut down on a lot of the wondering if she was into me or not. Everyone hates rejection!

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posted February 09, 2013 09:38 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
[b] Tell me about it! I learned a long time ago to instead of asking a woman for her number, I'd just give her mine. That way if she was interested, she'd call and if not she wouldn't. That cut down on a lot of the wondering if she was into me or not. Everyone hates rejection!

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yea.. i dont understand why people give their number to people they are not interested in. if a girl i was not into asked for my number,i would come up with an excuse to soften the blow on her, i might say: i'm already seeing someone or i'm gay #suddenlybecomesmoreanimated. [/B]

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posted February 09, 2013 09:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[b] [QUOTE]Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
[b] Tell me about it! I learned a long time ago to instead of asking a woman for her number, I'd just give her mine. That way if she was interested, she'd call and if not she wouldn't. That cut down on a lot of the wondering if she was into me or not. Everyone hates rejection!

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yea.. i dont understand why people give their number to people they are not interested in. if a girl i was not into asked for my number,i would come up with an excuse to soften the blow on her, i might say: i'm already seeing someone or i'm gay #suddenlybecomesmoreanimated. [/B]

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posted February 09, 2013 09:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Hmm! If I were single and met a guy I liked, I would hope we'd exchange email addresses. "I'll give you mine, you give me yours." That doubles the chances of one of us having the nerve to initiate contact, plus it's easier to figure out what to say over email.

First email from me:

"Soooooo when's your birthday??"

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An equal approach like that is always welcome and even preferred! But some women of my generation where im from are heartless narcissists who only seek to have their egos boosted by guys asking for their numbers.

They take your number, show it off to their friends, and when you call they act like you're bothering them!

In my best Doc from back to the future poised voice: Faith, youre a shining example of contact info exchange etiquette.

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posted February 09, 2013 09:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
An equal approach like that is always welcome and even preferred! But some women of my generation where im from are heartless narcissists who only seek to have their egos boosted by guys asking for their numbers.

They take your number, show it off to their friends, and when you call they act like you're bothering them!

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posted February 09, 2013 09:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
An equal approach like that is always welcome and even preferred! But some women of my generation where im from are heartless narcissists who only seek to have their egos boosted by guys asking for their numbers.

They take your number, show it off to their friends, and when you call they act like you're bothering them!

In my best Doc from back to the future poised voice: Faith, youre a shining example of contact info exchange etiquette.

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posted February 09, 2013 09:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
If sb gives me their number and says call me, I think they do that to everybodyyy and aren't into me and are lazy because al ost all guys will make a move eventually if interested.

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posted February 09, 2013 10:01 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
well what if i said girls are lazy if they dont take somewhat of an initiative with me?

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posted February 09, 2013 10:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Initiative can be taken but we like a guy who makes that first step forward that's why I always date guys guys who somehow has a placement in Aries *drool*

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posted February 09, 2013 10:12 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
well thats not what i'm talking about, i dont mind making that first move, but afterward it needs to become a tennis match so to speak.. for example: if i call/text she needs to call/text me sometimes, if i ask her out she should let me know she had a good time and suggest we meet up again(if she is interested)... lots of women say"well its a mans job to do all that?" isnt that kind of sexist?lol what if i had the expectation that a woman had to cook me dinner and clean my house because she is a woman lol. this is the 21st century and dating and relationships need to be a 50/50 thing

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posted February 09, 2013 10:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
No I agree! I have a libra stellium, I love me some equality gets my juices flowing.
You are just coming across self entitled princess complex chicks. There are alot of girls who are independent, have intellect, are caring and look good...Just keep searching yeah.

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posted February 09, 2013 11:44 AM            

I attributed this to my moon trine Pluto, heavy activity in my 7th house, the fixed stellium (fixed means "wants stability" and after all...) or even as unlikely as it sounds, the earth singleton. I read that people who are low in earth are often inclined to stay in relationships for the stability they can provide since we don't feel grounded and stable within ourselves.

posted February 09, 2013 11:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:

First email from me:

"Soooooo when's your birthday??"

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posted February 09, 2013 12:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:

In my best Doc from back to the future poised voice: Faith, youre a shining example of contact info exchange etiquette.

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posted February 09, 2013 01:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
The book that I'm referring to says first decan Aqua is in a bind because they love that predictability...AND they love wandering, too.

The Aquas I referred to above who got divorced really didn't want the divorce.

Not trying to accuse you of anything...but don't be surprised if you settle down...and then aren't feeling settled.

Trying to be helpful, honest.

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