posted February 14, 2013 01:28 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Are you always so dramatic?

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posted February 16, 2013 11:25 AM            

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Originally posted by bullseye:
I'm so emotionally exhausted by this. I feel unbelievably silly, and I just want to ignore him and make things end. But I'm so drawn to him. I like him so much. I don't want him to be upset, I want to support him and be there for him. But the back of my head is constantly full of thoughts of overwhelming him, even though I know I'm not.

Im so scared he's going to forget about me. Or already has. And this is what I'm noticing. The communication isn't there not because he's upset but because he's moved on or I did something that turned him off and he used that as an excuse to get out of this.

Sigh.

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Again we talked about this. YOUR Gemini Moon needs CONSTANT communication. He does NOT. Yes he is an Aquarius Sun...but everything else is in Earth (obviously I have no idea what the house placements and rising are). You seriously need to chill the heck out. And you should have just said something for Valentine's day. Hey I got my Aqua/Virgo friend a gift for Valentine's day and his birthday (and called him on Valentine's Day. He can think whatever he wants about me...but at my core I know I did it because I care.

You should be the same way. Know that you care, are confident in that; and however he responds is the way he responds. And not to be mean but you really shouldn't be as emotionally exhausted as you are by this. Esp since you haven't even dated the guy. As a Cancer I tend to not want Cancer (esp Venus and Moon in Cancer...oooh it ALWAYS ends up bad) types involved with Aqua's or ppl with heavy Aqua and Cap (unless the two have something similar as they are both similar in elements or signs in some way or another). I personally love Aqua with Cap (esp if they have water somewhere). You guys aren't all that similar and I think that you because you aren't all that similar its making you go into over analytical mode. Also why don't you tell him what you just said...that you want to be there and support him. You feel bad he feels bad etc. Even he he doesn't feel the same way, I'm sure he'd def appreciate you caring for his well being and would want to be friends.

posted February 16, 2013 12:47 PM            

im a girl btw haha

but yah i think just try and calm yourelf down- you obviously like him alot but when we are nervous we make mistakes that we would not otherwise make so try and go with the flow- let him know you like him- cap men like WOMEN not delicate little girls who get flustered as a libra man might so try and be mature and sound sure of yourself when you express that you like him.

capricorn dominant men like trophies in life in whatever form they might take- he needs to see you as something hard to get that any man would be lucky to spend any time with and that you are the type he can introduce to other people and they will go away thinking ''wow he did well there''

he is also aquarius a social sign- worth remembering traditionally aquarius is also ruled by caps ruler saturn, some aquarians can be surprisingly traditional albeit in a less stodgy way.

so let him know you are socially graceful and can mingle easily, talk about your successes in life, mention casually how close you are to your friends and how loyal you are, mention any charity or volunteer work you have done.

if you REALLY want to nail him like if you have decided he is the one you want for marriage etc well this is what i would do- i would find out exactly what he likes in a woman and give it to him- does he like women who are charitable? volunteer at a soup kitchen. women who cook? do a course.

posted February 16, 2013 01:11 PM            

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Originally posted by sharpei:
well i saw your pic bullseye and you def have that classy groomed elegant prettiness that capricorn type men go for- like your face is not soft and doughy aka kate upton but looks more grown up and sophisticated with lovely striking eyes- i think at least looks wise you are what a cap dominant guy would go for and if you also dress well and are reasonably toned then well lucky boy

im a girl btw haha

but yah i think just try and calm yourelf down- you obviously like him alot but when we are nervous we make mistakes that we would not otherwise make so try and go with the flow- let him know you like him- cap men like WOMEN not delicate little girls who get flustered as a libra man might so try and be mature and sound sure of yourself when you express that you like him.

capricorn dominant men like trophies in life in whatever form they might take- he needs to see you as something hard to get that any man would be lucky to spend any time with and that you are the type he can introduce to other people and they will go away thinking ''wow he did well there''

he is also aquarius a social sign- worth remembering traditionally aquarius is also ruled by caps ruler saturn, some aquarians can be surprisingly traditional albeit in a less stodgy way.

so let him know you are socially graceful and can mingle easily, talk about your successes in life, mention casually how close you are to your friends and how loyal you are, mention any charity or volunteer work you have done.

if you REALLY want to nail him like if you have decided he is the one you want for marriage etc well this is what i would do- i would find out exactly what he likes in a woman and give it to him- does he like women who are charitable? volunteer at a soup kitchen. women who cook? do a course.

i dunno im capricorn myself so i have a good idea how cap men work and they want you to go ALL OUT- they want you to be secure in your own person but ultimately they expect you do go all out for them and put their needs first- that does not mean not being strong and having your own opinions it just means if he is working late you have dinner on the table when he comes back, if he wants to spend xmas with his family and you want to go visit yours you suck it up and visit his. he needs to see this kind of sacrifice and devotion to take you seriously

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"if you REALLY want to nail him like if you have decided he is the one you want for marriage etc well this is what i would do- i would find out exactly what he likes in a woman and give it to him- does he like women who are charitable? volunteer at a soup kitchen. women who cook? do a course."

I def DO NOT recommend doing this for anyone!!! This is manipulation, and not only is it impossible to keep up a role when dating someone it also would make an Aqua/Cap type lose respect for you (I think most men it would turn them off and QUICK)...and plus it seriously reeks of desperation of you find out a guy likes a woman who does such and such and then you decide to take up that hobby.

posted February 16, 2013 01:28 PM            

I would definitely say he's a workoholic for sure.

Aquas are pretty detached and intellectual and can be oblivious to the feelings of others, while cap is withdrawn and reserved. The fact that he told you he likes you is good. As a Venus cap, I can't tell you how difficult it is to tell someone I like them. We have a strong fear of rejection and getting hurt. Venus caps require a lot of time to figure out whether we like someone; we keep our distance until we are sure. Even then we aRe pretty cool and distant. We do not waste our time on those we don't like.he needs to know you are a responsible, respectable, loyal person before allowing himself to commit to you.

What kind of Uranus aspects do you share in synastry?which planets aspecthis Venus?

posted February 16, 2013 01:59 PM            

if he loves toned girls why not hit up the gym more often? or he really finds highlights hot, why not get some blonde highlights put in your hair?

i dont mean doing something you hate and goes against your principles- i would never want to dye my hair for instance because i have pretty long dark hair and it would ruin it but i dont see anything wrong with adapting to someone you really love IF it is something long term and you are super serious about him- relationships are about give and take.

i am definitely no pushover and will make it very clear if i am not happy to do something but with other things i am happyto do things taht make the other person happy.