Lindaland
  Astrology 2.0
  Do I focus on his Cap or his Aqua? (Page 1)

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone!
This topic is 2 pages long:   1  2 
next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   Do I focus on his Cap or his Aqua?
bullseye
Knowflake

Posts: 59
From:
Registered: Jun 2012

posted February 12, 2013 11:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bullseye     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun Aquarius
Moon Capricorn
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Capricorn
Mars Sagittarius
Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio

If I'm focusing on his Aqua, the whole "Im going to pay attention to other people but really in the back of my head/corner of my eye there's always this one person" makes sense. The consistent texts explaining why he hasn't been communicating due to being swamped or depressed or whatever make sense. But if I'm focusing on his Cap...none of this makes sense. None of this coming and going but always being there to tell me that he likes me, to explain what he's going through, to start a conversation and always let me know why he didn't get the chance to reply or whatever. It doesn't make sense at all.

Why pretend you care so much about someone. Actions speak louder than words to me and the action just isn't there. I mean, the texts are, but...you'd think he would drive here (its a 2 hour drive that he's done before) or that he would have seen me when I was 30 minutes away instead of making excused about his work (which is stressful and he's always doing something related to that but he could make the time right...)

Are caps like this? Why are all the Caps/Aqua's in my life going haywire right now?

IP: Logged

I'm so cappy
Knowflake

Posts: 387
From: Poland/Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012

posted February 12, 2013 11:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He might be struggling with the feelings for you, if they are any at all.

------------------
Do you have some chocolate?

IP: Logged

anonymidarkness
Knowflake

Posts: 688
From:
Registered: Aug 2012

posted February 12, 2013 11:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pluto maybe transiting all those cappy planets,he maybe having a hard time.Focus on his cappy placements,there are 6 of them,his aqua sun wont stand a chance against them.

IP: Logged

bullseye
Knowflake

Posts: 59
From:
Registered: Jun 2012

posted February 12, 2013 11:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bullseye     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
He might be struggling with the feelings for you, if they are any at all.


Would a Capricorn tell someone they liked them, that they cared for them, etc, if they didn't? I mean, he called me on New Years, he told me that he was happy to have met someone like me and that I was different. He made it clear that he liked me. I was under the impression that they didn't, but I'm not a Cappy so what do I know. Hahah.

IP: Logged

anonymidarkness
Knowflake

Posts: 688
From:
Registered: Aug 2012

posted February 12, 2013 11:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Caps are direct,they will tell you if they like you,they dont play games.

IP: Logged

I'm so cappy
Knowflake

Posts: 387
From: Poland/Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012

posted February 12, 2013 11:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe he really likes you and found the courage to admit it but what he's gonna do with it - that's a different story. If he's focused on his career, I'm afraid you're screwed. Unless you are very determined. And really his type.

------------------
Do you have some chocolate?

IP: Logged

somethingexcellent
Knowflake

Posts: 317
From: A Lion Pride
Registered: Nov 2012

posted February 12, 2013 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
holy f!ck talk about Capricorn

IP: Logged

ueharaa
Knowflake

Posts: 424
From:
Registered: Sep 2011

posted February 12, 2013 11:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by bullseye:
Would a Capricorn tell someone they liked them, that they cared for them, etc, if they didn't? I mean, he called me on New Years, he told me that he was happy to have met someone like me and that I was different. He made it clear that he liked me. I was under the impression that they didn't, but I'm not a Cappy so what do I know. Hahah.

What's his ascendant?

Anyway, no, if a cap moon were ever to lie about his/her feelings it would more likely to say they don't like you while they do rather than pretend to like you when they do.

IP: Logged

I'm so cappy
Knowflake

Posts: 387
From: Poland/Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012

posted February 12, 2013 11:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's not our fault we're so complex Poor guy is more Saturnian than me. I can feel his pain.

------------------
Do you have some chocolate?

IP: Logged

ueharaa
Knowflake

Posts: 424
From:
Registered: Sep 2011

posted February 12, 2013 11:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Caps are direct,they will tell you if they like you,they dont play games.

They don't play games,that's for sure. But being direct? Cap moon are very closed off. They rarely if ever talk about the feelings they have for you (I know I don't)

Also caps have the tendency to look like they run hot and cold. It's not games though. I guess it's a defense mechanism to remain stoic and in control of themselves.

IP: Logged

I'm so cappy
Knowflake

Posts: 387
From: Poland/Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012

posted February 12, 2013 11:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Also caps have the tendency to look like they run hot and cold. It's not games though. I guess it's a defense mechanism to remain stoic and in control of themselves.

EXACTLY.


bullseye, just don't tell us he has a Virgo rising and Capricorn 5th house

------------------
Do you have some chocolate?

IP: Logged

bullseye
Knowflake

Posts: 59
From:
Registered: Jun 2012

posted February 13, 2013 12:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bullseye     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
It's not our fault we're so complex Poor guy is more Saturnian than me. I can feel his pain.


Explain! I'd love to have some light shed on what you guys feel. His career is kicking off, it really is, he travels a lot for it too and he has a bunch of fans. He's such an upstanding human being, I'm really proud of what he's accomplished so far. He was in the middle of this whole career when he started talking to me though. Thats what I don't get.

IP: Logged

bullseye
Knowflake

Posts: 59
From:
Registered: Jun 2012

posted February 13, 2013 12:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bullseye     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
EXACTLY.


bullseye, just don't tell us he has a Virgo rising and Capricorn 5th house


I don't know his time of birth so I can't tell you that Hahah.

How quickly do things change for Caps? He called me on New Years, he asked me out on dates, but he genuinely hasn't tried to initiate much in that sense. He continuously says that hes taking me out, that he needs to see me, etc but the action isn't there. He gets upset when his fans get angry with me, it makes him "sick to his stomach" that I'd think he was ever talking to one of them. I dont know though. That was a month or two ago. Things DO change. If he's constantly liking pictures of the same two girls...that means something right? His eyes are elsewhere.

IP: Logged

bullseye
Knowflake

Posts: 59
From:
Registered: Jun 2012

posted February 13, 2013 01:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bullseye     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by ueharaa:
They don't play games,that's for sure. But being direct? Cap moon are very closed off. They rarely if ever talk about the feelings they have for you (I know I don't)

Also caps have the tendency to look like they run hot and cold. It's not games though. I guess it's a defense mechanism to remain stoic and in control of themselves.


The other night he opened up to me about how he was feeling depressed and how he knows I'll just say "its fine" in regards to him not communicating well or keeping in touch, and then he said "yeah things are weird for me right now." I couldn't tell if that was his way of putting me off, letting me down easy, telling me he can't handle talking right now, or if that was his way of opening up and showing me that he trusts me (in a way, I know caps are super closed off and don't trust many.) We've had some pretty deep conversations, we've definitely connected on a level (in my opinion) that is different. We think the same a lot. I get him, or get what he lets me understand for the most part. I just don't get his actions (or inactions for that matter).

IP: Logged

sharpei
Knowflake

Posts: 204
From: london
Registered: Jan 2013

posted February 13, 2013 05:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sharpei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
this is just like a guy i like but swap aqua sun for sagitarius sun- i feel a sag sun is a much much warmer placement and easier to work with though.

for me i just message him from time to time and he messages me from time to time- he is not effusive like i am - but that is fine- he sends messages with perfect grammar which i find amusing, mine are somewhat more scatty.

i say make him feel secure - be his rock or like a safe little cave he can come to to relax so that he trusts you and slowly slowly comes to rely on you, once a capricorn needs you you are in a very strong position.

IP: Logged

bullseye
Knowflake

Posts: 59
From:
Registered: Jun 2012

posted February 13, 2013 01:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bullseye     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by sharpei:
this is just like a guy i like but swap aqua sun for sagitarius sun- i feel a sag sun is a much much warmer placement and easier to work with though.

for me i just message him from time to time and he messages me from time to time- he is not effusive like i am - but that is fine- he sends messages with perfect grammar which i find amusing, mine are somewhat more scatty.

i say make him feel secure - be his rock or like a safe little cave he can come to to relax so that he trusts you and slowly slowly comes to rely on you, once a capricorn needs you you are in a very strong position.


Thats what I'm doing. I just don't want to be taken for granted, ya know. I know they don't speak about how they feel so it would all essentially be in my head anyway. He could rely on me but I'd never know, ya know? I don't want to be the person he ignores and then just comes to when he needs a little pick me up. As much as I like him, I don't want to be one of those girls.

IP: Logged

sharpei
Knowflake

Posts: 204
From: london
Registered: Jan 2013

posted February 13, 2013 03:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sharpei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hmm i def do not think of myself as one of ''those girls'' and i know what you mean -the girl who is only the shoulder to cry on type rather than the fun roll in the hay.

i mean it is mostly online you are interacting with him right? i dont know i think you just have to reel a man in- i do not bother with men unless i feel i am reeling them in, however slowly- i am cap though i am happy to take things slow- i mean i would not bother with a man unless there was instant chemistry but i dont mind a delay between finding out there is chemistry and something coming of it SO LONG as i know things are moving in the direction i wnat it to be going- somehow you can just feel it when you have a man where you want him- even if it is online.

alot of women fear being the shoulder to lean on but im not sure they should- look at blake lively she was all nicey nice to ryan reynolds whilst he was divorcing scarlett- all sweet and apparently baked him cookies to help him get over it, watched him have a few rebound relationships, then BOOM when the time is right she went in thre and got him to put a ring on it

IP: Logged

I'm so cappy
Knowflake

Posts: 387
From: Poland/Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012

posted February 13, 2013 11:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
His career is kicking off, it really is, he travels a lot for it too and he has a bunch of fans. He's such an upstanding human being, I'm really proud of what he's accomplished so far. He was in the middle of this whole career when he started talking to me though. Thats what I don't get.

You mean he works in show business?

quote:
Explain! I'd love to have some light shed on what you guys feel.

What can I say...It's tough living on Saturn. Nothing is simple here I don't date, he runs hot and cold for some reason. Romance can be a nightmare for us. And the others involved as you already know hehe. I think he's either not that into you but likes you enough to want to be in touch with you or he doesn't know what to do. If you can't take it anymore and are ready to risk scarying him away, be direct and tell him what you expect. That should make things clear unless he's just a player.

------------------
Do you have some chocolate?

IP: Logged

GrlyGirl200
Knowflake

Posts: 103
From:
Registered: Jun 2012

posted February 14, 2013 05:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by sharpei:
this is just like a guy i like but swap aqua sun for sagitarius sun- i feel a sag sun is a much much warmer placement and easier to work with though.

for me i just message him from time to time and he messages me from time to time- he is not effusive like i am - but that is fine- he sends messages with perfect grammar which i find amusing, mine are somewhat more scatty.

i say make him feel secure - be his rock or like a safe little cave he can come to to relax so that he trusts you and slowly slowly comes to rely on you, once a Capricorn needs you you are in a very strong position.


I agree with this as a Cap Moon myself. Be someone they can rely on, and make them feel secure.

IP: Logged

sharpei
Knowflake

Posts: 204
From: london
Registered: Jan 2013

posted February 14, 2013 05:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sharpei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^ what are your other placements out of interest?

IP: Logged

GrlyGirl200
Knowflake

Posts: 103
From:
Registered: Jun 2012

posted February 14, 2013 05:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by bullseye:
Sun Aquarius
Moon Capricorn
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Capricorn
Mars Sagittarius
Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio

If I'm focusing on his Aqua, the whole "Im going to pay attention to other people but really in the back of my head/corner of my eye there's always this one person" makes sense. The consistent texts explaining why he hasn't been communicating due to being swamped or depressed or whatever make sense. But if I'm focusing on his Cap...none of this makes sense. None of this coming and going but always being there to tell me that he likes me, to explain what he's going through, to start a conversation and always let me know why he didn't get the chance to reply or whatever. It doesn't make sense at all.

Why pretend you care so much about someone. Actions speak louder than words to me and the action just isn't there. I mean, the texts are, but...you'd think he would drive here (its a 2 hour drive that he's done before) or that he would have seen me when I was 30 minutes away instead of making excused about his work (which is stressful and he's always doing something related to that but he could make the time right...)

Are caps like this? Why are all the Caps/Aqua's in my life going haywire right now?


Hun...you're freaking out. First off calm down lol!!! Secondly have you told this guy you like him, or have you told him that you want more than friendship? You're analyzing way too much. Again I'm sure he does in fact care about you, the thing is with Aquas things tend to be on their terms. He may like you till the cows come home...but me may not really want someone (ie a relationship). Have you told him it bothers you to see that (him liking girls pics)? They can't read minds. If you tell an Aqua (and Cap influenced person) something one time they'll keep it in mind. And minimize it (if they care and don't want to hurt you back). I suggest all the things you are saying on here you tell him, in an email (to avoid emotionally overloading him). Just say all that you have said and that you're confused, and hurt. I guarantee if he truly cares for you he will change his behavior (he won't say it verbally...neither Aqua or Cap are big on emotional expressions), but things will change. Also have you thought for a sec that you are judging him based upon what you think he should do if he likes someone. Aqua's are def not one to follow the beaten path. And just because they like you doesn't mean they are going to behave in a way you think they should. But I say just say how you feel...and that you care about him and let it go from there (but check in periodically so he knows you care).

IP: Logged

RMChex
Knowflake

Posts: 452
From: England
Registered: Apr 2011

posted February 14, 2013 06:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RMChex     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow that's some amount of Capricorn going on there!!

IP: Logged

bullseye
Knowflake

Posts: 59
From:
Registered: Jun 2012

posted February 14, 2013 01:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bullseye     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
I agree with this as a Cap Moon myself. Be someone they can rely on, and make them feel secure.

How do you make someone feel secure without bothering them though? I feel as if hes going through stuff right now and I don't want to be a bother by messaging him. I even wanted to say something for Valentines day today, but I cant bring myself to do so because I know Caps get freaked out really easily (or so I've been told.) I'm genuinely at a standstill.

IP: Logged

bullseye
Knowflake

Posts: 59
From:
Registered: Jun 2012

posted February 14, 2013 01:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bullseye     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm so emotionally exhausted by this. I feel unbelievably silly, and I just want to ignore him and make things end. But I'm so drawn to him. I like him so much. I don't want him to be upset, I want to support him and be there for him. But the back of my head is constantly full of thoughts of overwhelming him, even though I know I'm not.

Im so scared he's going to forget about me. Or already has. And this is what I'm noticing. The communication isn't there not because he's upset but because he's moved on or I did something that turned him off and he used that as an excuse to get out of this.

Sigh.

IP: Logged

I'm so cappy
Knowflake

Posts: 387
From: Poland/Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012

posted February 14, 2013 01:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you always so dramatic?

------------------
Do you have some chocolate?

IP: Logged


This topic is 2 pages long:   1  2 

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright © 2013

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a