posted February 13, 2013 09:42 AM            

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Originally posted by sharpei:
i agree gemini- i dont see that type of love as very deep at all- it seems to be gettingmore and more common that kind of ''hes not just my boyfriend he is my BESTFRIEND!!!'' to me its like eurrgh.

and yet, and yet i have this placement myself haha- i dont really like many people and am quite standoffish- i find small talk almost physically painful.

i could summarise my attitude to people as- if i dont want to sleep with you i probably dont want to talk to you either...

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Lololol, that's a good POV

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted February 13, 2013 12:35 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Aqua Venus is cool

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posted February 13, 2013 12:39 PM            

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you are pretty cool urself

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Interesting joke

posted February 13, 2013 01:03 PM            

there's no arguing with a Sagittarius Venus cnj Uranus...

she insists on Aqua something when she can't get another fire placer! XD So bossy sometimes... sheesh~ Uranus influence... lol

I have 5-6h with Aquarius ruling 6h, and my Vertex.

I believe it's a combination of these aspects... Vertex conjunction, and aspects to either/both Venus-Uranus by their Venus and with that, the square (tension) for better or worse, from my Mars-Pluto when they contact my Vertex. ^^;

Aquarius truly is my fatal attraction sign~ lol that's why I went to Aqua rehab!

posted February 13, 2013 01:40 PM            

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Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:

I've not met a cold type Aqua... ftr... I still can't understand that Aquas are often described as these cold and distant people nowadays... the only Aquas in my family, friends circle, and dating portfolio were either very thoughtful, wise ("the thinker" Saturn-Uranian types), or very cheerful, and gregarious ("airy-sunny type") ^^;

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I know I said such a thing, that aquarius vensuis cold and detached placement. I have an aqua venus and that's how I come off to others (hopefully I believe my stellium in the 7th makes up for the huge amount of saturn in my chart)
What you said is true though. It's just that at the end of the day, people will rather be "acquaintance" to an aqua venus person than good friends. They can be well liked, appreciated and such, but it just seem a bit complicated and it takes a little more time to create a "connection" with someone. That's what I meant by distant This is based on my experience only so I don't want to generalize this.

Also I have aqua in my 7th house and on my 8th house cusp. So it is supposed to be one of the sign I connect deeply with, and I should be attracted to them but I'm not. I prefer libras and geminis.

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
Well, you don't necessarily associate the way your best friend treats you, with romantic love and romance. The love between friends is platonic. That's how an Aqua Venus love style comes across. It's deep to them but to someone else, it comes across as platonic.

The more friendly they are to you, the more they are showing their love for you. And if Pluto is aspecting their Venus, they'll treat you like you are the best and closest friend. However, the recipient of their love style may receive that as a non-emotional connection. But in the mind of the Aqua Venus person, it IS deeply emotional for them.

Every Venus sign has the capacity to show love in their own deep way. Its just how the recipient receives it that shows if their styles are compatible.

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posted February 13, 2013 01:46 PM            

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Originally posted by ueharaa:
Well yes, I can really identify with what you said. I had a feeling an aqua venus would only come across as such if s/he is not sure of how the other person feels like. I know I do that when I try to convey interest, I only end up being more friendly so the other person just feels like I consider us to be "just" friends, which kills the attraction.

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posted February 13, 2013 02:36 PM            

well your chart is REALLLLY similar to mine and i can promise you i have almost never attracted either virgos or capricorns- usually it is water or fire signs i attract. you do also have an earth moon but that just means you are more grounded than me (not hard) and so unlike me will not require a partner to ground you which means you are even more likely to attract non earth types.

BUT when you feel contempt for certain aspects about yourself and project it onto other people you can end up attracting what you least like.

the guy i like now is sag but has waaaay more capricorn than me in all the other placements haha- i like it though- i need someone to ground me- before him i seemed to attract alot of fire and water signs with cap moons but not much else earth in their chart- just the moon.

posted February 13, 2013 03:33 PM              

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Maybe you mistake coldness with reserve.

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posted February 13, 2013 03:37 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Aqua Venus is cool

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Yes, they are

posted February 13, 2013 03:38 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Aquarius Venus is too cold for me, even for my Gemini Venus.

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Really? Interesting, I didn't know that. Tell me more

posted February 13, 2013 04:00 PM              

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Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety:
Really? Interesting, I didn't know that. Tell me more

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posted February 13, 2013 04:03 PM              

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Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety:
Really? Interesting, I didn't know that. Tell me more

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Plus I use to know this Capricorn Venus Aquarius Sun boy who was cold and hated my affection I gave to him, I use to have a crush on him He didnt start liking me until I ignored him and showed disinterest.. I didn't really like him afterwards.. meh

posted February 13, 2013 04:08 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Hey I'm just curious what sort of people are likely to fall in love with Venus in Aquarius people and want to be with them? Who finds them desirable and owing to what qualities?

And yeah, how are they generally perceived/viewed?

Cheers

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posted February 13, 2013 04:19 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Plus I use to know this Capricorn Venus Aquarius Sun boy who was cold and hated my affection I gave to him, I use to have a crush on him He didnt start liking me until I ignored him and showed disinterest.. I didn't really like him afterwards.. meh

Venus in Aquarius are too general and not intimate enough 4 me

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posted February 13, 2013 04:24 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
I need lots of attention and an extremely clingy man who is also emotional. I have Cancer Sun and Cancer DSC so I am an exception. My boyfriend is clingy too for a Gemini Venus AND Mars but he has Pisces Moon and Cancer sun

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