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Topic: attraction to people who intimidate you.
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Odette
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posted February 13, 2013 04:37 PM
  
I don't feel intimidated either lol
Maybe it's a Cap Mars thing....I think it's due to my spiritual beliefs though because I don't feel like anyone is 'over and above' anyone else. I have at times felt scared of certain people though, due to their overall vibe.. if they seem very nasty or violent. In that case I am completely not attracted at all. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted February 13, 2013 04:40 PM
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No afraid of any woman. I guess I'm too much of a macho hard a$$
Why do you emphasise 'woman'?
Are there men who you feel intimidated by? I generally don't feel intimidated by anyone, regardless of gender. IP: Logged |
anno_lucis
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posted February 13, 2013 04:45 PM
for some reason pisces guys have this affect on me aswell, in a major way. i would roll my eyes at the admittance, but instead i will tell the story of the last major crush i had, in my final year of uni. a piscean cypriot, he just lit up the whole room when he walked in. great great guy and just all round good person. volunteered with kids, spoke at interfaith schools etc. anyway i get back after year in work placement, and find out i share a number of classes with him etc. he often smiles and says hello to which i mostly mumble and trip over my own feet. i'd honestly never known such self conscious hawkwardness around a guy before. but he was incredibly warm and friendly to everyone including me and always smiling. i never, ever saw him in a bad mood, or frowning even. anyway the last time i ever saw him he waved to me from across a waitrose carpark as i drove in. my heart skipped from the gesture as usual but i didn't think anything more of it. a few weeks later we graduated (i didn't go to the ceremony tho,  )and i find out soon after that he has been murdered in cold blood in the street around the corner from where he lives. i literally watched his face appear that night on the 6 o clock news. couldnt believe it. devastated. he had graduated with a first with honours, and was just about to start his new job. sooo many people turned out to commemorate. the street was filled with flowers, he touched so many lives. the moral to this is, i wish i hadn't been so intimidated, cos i missed a great opportunity to get to know a great person, through what basically boiled down to my own self indulgence/importance. and i'm not big on regrets, but that one will always stick with me. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted February 13, 2013 04:47 PM
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feel like i have to step up to the plate
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leo/ capricorn influence. maybe.
This sounds more like - they inspire you to be the best version of yourself..
Did you mean -- "step up to the plate" as in - you are challenged to be the best you can be? I like people who challenge me in this way for sure. I think it's the competitive nature of Leo, Aries and Capricorn that is challenging the people around them to 'step up'. IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
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From: Under the Sea
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 13, 2013 04:57 PM
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Originally posted by anno_lucis:
for some reason pisces guys have this affect on me aswell, in a major way. i would roll my eyes at the admittance, but instead i will tell the story of the last major crush i had, in my final year of uni. a piscean cypriot, he just lit up the whole room when he walked in. great great guy and just all round good person. volunteered with kids, spoke at interfaith schools etc. anyway i get back after year in work placement, and find out i share a number of classes with him etc. he often smiles and says hello to which i mostly mumble and trip over my own feet. i'd honestly never known such self conscious hawkwardness around a guy before. but he was incredibly warm and friendly to everyone including me and always smiling. i never, ever saw him in a bad mood, or frowning even. anyway the last time i ever saw him he waved to me from across a waitrose carpark as i drove in. my heart skipped from the gesture as usual but i didn't think anything more of it. a few weeks later we graduated (i didn't go to the ceremony tho, )and i find out soon after that he has been murdered in cold blood in the street around the corner from where he lives. i literally watched his face appear that night on the 6 o clock news. couldnt believe it. devastated. he had graduated with a first with honours, and was just about to start his new job. sooo many people turned out to commemorate. the street was filled with flowers, he touched so many lives. the moral to this is, i wish i hadn't been so intimidated, cos i missed a great opportunity to get to know a great person, through what basically boiled down to my own self indulgence/importance. and i'm not big on regrets, but that one will always stick with me.
OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!! DON'T EVER EVER TELL SOMEONE A STORY LIKE THIS! *bursts into tears* Oh my god!!! :'( IP: Logged |
RMChex
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Registered: Apr 2011
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posted February 13, 2013 04:59 PM
That's a difficult question.I would turn it upside down - I am intimidated by my feelings sometimes, rather than by the actual person. It may seem like I'm intimidated by them, but it is purely the strength of my feelings that would intimidate me. When men have a crush on me they say my magnetism, and my eyes and smile are 'intimidating' which then somehow attracts them more - but if someone isn't attracted to me then apparently I'm not intimidating at all. So perhaps it is true that its the feelings that are intimidating not the person?
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anno_lucis
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posted February 13, 2013 05:08 PM
@pisces-sweetyi know hun, it broke my heart too. he really was an angel
http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/44062000/jpg/_44062298_evren_anil.jpg  IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
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posted February 13, 2013 05:12 PM
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Originally posted by anno_lucis:
@pisces-sweetyi know hun, it broke my heart too. he really was an angel
http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/44062000/jpg/_44062298_evren_anil.jpg
I'm sorry I can't open the link. I don't want to. I don't mean any disrespect but I can't. I'm so sorry.. <\3 I don't know what to tell you. *hugs you tightly* Anna, how long was this? IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted February 13, 2013 07:05 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Isn't it just amazing how every good thread comes from sand's need for sand?  #MirrorMirror
As to OP's Q - Pluto is the culprit. Conneted to various attraction factors in the chart. As always,either high way to hell or bottom pit,when it comes to Pluto's workings.
disirius i'm right here!  besides it's not such a bad face to mirror.  and y is everybody still calling me sand?  IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted February 13, 2013 07:08 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I guess I'm too much of a macho hard a$$. And I guess I'm too much of a chauvanistic pig to lay a hand on any woman, but I'll kick the a$$ of any female wrestler. I don't care which one. Sorry I'm a degenerate male pig but wrestling or whatever doesn't intimidate me.
umm... good to know. IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted February 13, 2013 07:12 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
This sounds more like - they inspire you to be the best version of yourself..
Did you mean -- "step up to the plate" as in - you are challenged to be the best you can be?I like people who challenge me in this way for sure. I think it's the competitive nature of Leo, Aries and Capricorn that is challenging the people around them to 'step up'.
sure they're all jumbled there with emotions. whatever they are intimidation, fear, nervousness, respect, admiration. what's important to me is i feel something. mostly i am a flatline going about my day that dgaf. i would say you stir up similar feelings in me (and VDS, capmoons here and irl heh) but i know exactly y. it's coz i'll never know where i stand and it's not something i am used to. so i wasn't plainly talking about maneaters and alphafemales... there are other things... it also kinda dissappears which might be related to my testing/ pushing thread... Sexual 8 - Seeking Intimacy/Intensity
Udit Patel Taking Charge (Ichazo's "Possessiveness") Sexual Eights are charismatic and emotionally intense: they seem to "smolder." These Eights seek intensity through relationship, and the ups and downs of their lives are often seen in terms of relationship. The Sexual Eight wants to "imprint" their significant other, to leave their mark. Whether they are dealing with love interests or are engaged in other activities, they enjoy the thrill of intense stimulation and can become addicted to adrenaline rushes. They often adore the people they are in love with, but they can develop problems from thinking of the other as a child that they want to shape and develop. Much of this comes from wanting the partner to be strong enough so that the Sexual Eight can relax and surrender themselves. Thus, they may provoke their loved ones in the effort to test their strength or to build it up. Similarly, they like to be challenged by the other, but this can deteriorate into a struggle for dominance in the relationship. They may resort to arguments or verbal sparring as a way of stimulating intensity in the relationship. Sexual Eights can also feel as though they "own" their intimate partner—that they have a right to satisfaction whenever they need it. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted February 13, 2013 07:15 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Why do you emphasise 'woman'?
Are there men who you feel intimidated by?I generally don't feel intimidated by anyone, regardless of gender.
You are correct. I stand corrected. I was only responding to sand and his post about female wrestlers pinning down. I'm intimidated by nobody. For most situations, there is diplomacy and reason. For everything else, there are more persuasive methods.
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AriesKat
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Registered: May 2011
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posted February 13, 2013 10:10 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Intimidate.... seriously?I guess I'm too much of a confrontational hard a$$. My answer is, No, I'm not intimidated by any female. Seriously, anyone who lays a hand on me would be taken out. That's why I crack up at the S&M thing - I would wh00p whichever "dominatrix" tries that crap on me. If I were ever intimidated by somebody, I wouldn't be interested.
lmfao
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anno_lucis
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From: merging into speeding traffic with the truckstop plastic cheap sunglasses
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posted February 14, 2013 08:32 AM
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Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety:
I'm sorry I can't open the link. I don't want to. I don't mean any disrespect but I can't. I'm so sorry.. <\3 I don't know what to tell you. *hugs you tightly* Anna, how long was this?
thx hun -it's just his pic. sorry didn't mean to distress anyone. it was 2007.IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
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posted February 14, 2013 01:05 PM
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Originally posted by anno_lucis:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety:
[b] I'm sorry I can't open the link. I don't want to. I don't mean any disrespect but I can't. I'm so sorry.. <\3 I don't know what to tell you. *hugs you tightly* Anna, how long was this?
thx hun -it's just his pic. sorry didn't mean to distress anyone. it was 2007.[/B][/QUOTE] 2007 was a very terrible year for a lot of people. Didn't mean to yell at you or anything. I just got very upset at this. IP: Logged |
anno_lucis
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From: merging into speeding traffic with the truckstop plastic cheap sunglasses
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posted February 14, 2013 01:49 PM
^no, it's ok  i'm not trivialising. what upsets me most is that the boys that did it would be free already, they only got 4 years. we have a totally incompetent justice system. this is just a small part of the reason i have no desire to stay a uk resident for any longer than necessary. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 14, 2013 04:13 PM
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VenusDiSirius: Isn't it just amazing how every good thread comes from sand's need for sand? #MirrorMirror
Does he even know of a world outside himself?  I feel intimidated by some people, yes, but I like it! I like the authority and power they command. Maybe it's a self-preservation thing, I don't know, but I'll listen to them if it means they'll spare me haha! IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted February 14, 2013 06:03 PM
If I feel inferior to someone then I'll automatically dislike that person to the point of ignoring their existence.Sun opposite descendant. Also I'm not attracted to people I feel superior to... LOL I'm not really intimidated by anyone
thats probably mars in aries confidence.
If someone thinks they can challenge me I'll give one death stare and they'll look away and ignore me.
Gotta insert ya dominance. IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted February 14, 2013 08:41 PM
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Does he even know of a world outside himself?
wtf??? #backlash first cute personality only now conceited? IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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posted February 14, 2013 09:12 PM
You can be both, IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted February 14, 2013 09:26 PM
pfft... i'm going to look for someone to praise me now. *goes through black book* A..
B..
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E... there we go Egofood! IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted February 16, 2013 03:05 AM
Not intimidated by men, Sagittarius Lilith in the 5th, sextile Mars.
I generally think women are more powerful, Moon/Venus/Pluto,
Venus rules my Mars/Saturn/Pluto stellium.
Most men don't seem man enough to me #noteasilyimpressedIP: Logged |
inaworldofsong
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posted February 16, 2013 11:32 PM
Intimidation = sexy? Definitely. Which is kind of messed up, but... whatever I suppose.As far as my "intimidating" definition goes, it's not really a physically imposing kind of thing (because I'm tiny and that's not too hard to achieve), it's more of an aura of total control that the person has. They never loose their cool, they've always got things under control, and they go for what they want. A little dark, mysterious sexiness doesn't hurt the concoction. It's not necessarily the relationship type, but it is the "Heck yeah, I'd hop into bed with that" type. Taurus ASC, Taurus Lilith 1H.
Scorpio DCS conjunct Scorpio Venus.
5H Leo Mars
Mercury/Jupiter/Pluto Scorpio 7H stellim.
Sagittarius Sun on 7/8H cusp conjunct the Merc/Jup/Pluto stellium. IP: Logged |
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