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Topic: attraction to people who intimidate you.
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peregrine
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posted February 13, 2013 05:11 AM
  
I find it exciting. But i fear very few. Majority are very sweet save the really frigid ones and those never work out.  what to do what to do. My lilith is in 5th. That must be it. I read lilith is the sign we fear as well. Itch in pisces. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted February 13, 2013 05:52 AM
*me thinking out loud* what is the topic actually? IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted February 13, 2013 06:49 AM
 the title. whether or not u r drawn to people the evoke that feeling in you...the lilith part was me thinking out loud where it came from lol! but pisceans are not intimidating to me. i don't feel like i have to step up to the plate or anything. leo/ capricorn influence. maybe. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted February 13, 2013 07:04 AM
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Originally posted by peregrine:
the title. whether or not u r drawn to people the evoke that feeling in you...
ohhh okay! On topic then, if they don't intimidate me, I'm not attracted to them. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted February 13, 2013 07:57 AM
Intimidate.... seriously?I guess I'm too much of a confrontational hard a$$. My answer is, No, I'm not intimidated by any female. Seriously, anyone who lays a hand on me would be taken out. That's why I crack up at the S&M thing - I would wh00p whichever "dominatrix" tries that crap on me. If I were ever intimidated by somebody, I wouldn't be interested. IP: Logged |
sharpei
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posted February 13, 2013 08:02 AM
yah it can be nice to be somewhat intimidated by a man- not toooo much- he has to still have a vulnerable side but i guess for me its less being intimidated by a man and more being in awe of one- i like that feeling  IP: Logged |
Maelstrom
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posted February 13, 2013 08:10 AM
My Lilith is in Leo in the 1st house, conjunct my ascendant. Not too sure what that means....Interesting....I dont find Leo men particularly intimidating, infact my ex was one. To be honest I cant really think of any Leo men who I have been really attracted to (apart from the actor Jason Momoa, but that's a celebrity crush  ). I get on really well with Leo women, I seem to attract them into my life but Leo men...not so much. IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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posted February 13, 2013 10:13 AM
I don't think you "get" Lilith, mon ami. lol
(3 of my Liliths are in Pisces btw (cnj my dsc node & Ceres, Bilkis, square my IC/MC), one is in Libra (cnj Metis, Latona, Artemis, and Atlantis h2) and another in Taurus (h9 cnj PoF, Sedna, Sappho, Juno) I'm attracted to someone who may "appear" intimidating, but they don't and won't know they have this effect on me, because that just ruins it... lol an intimidating person to me is wise and confident, but not vain or pompous about it... somehow they end up being fellow Capricorns, Aquarians, Leos, and Taureans quite often... (not just the menfolk! I should state that, and I don't mean I romantically/sexually find them alluring only, either... but that they've possessed something in their manners that had caused me to be taken back, and turn "sheepish", and flustered easily around them...) I don't like actual intimidation tactics... or people who flaunt that they are "oh so superior"... can't stand that, to be honest. The attraction is one out of respect and admiration, kinda how Sharpei put it. ^^ It's a casual experience, on both parts~ If someone is too intimidating, by force of habit, or as a front, I would quickly lose that respect and admiration... so it's a fine line. But, usually they're that way because they truly are intellectuals and they'll be wise and evolved enough to know they have this effect over people in general... so they won't abuse that pseudo-gift. ^^ I'm not easily intimidated though... being so short, having been mocked and bullied for my size allowed me to grow a steel spine, and forced me to rely on my own modest yet sufficient intellect and humour to get pass those who would have otherwise been intimidating, or were intimidating to others. So by appearing intimidating without being aware of that, or intentionally going for that look, they come off as being fiercely capable and confident... and that is extremely sexy, imho. These people (IME) are born leaders, and educators, and guardians, so it's really a respect issue first, and an attraction second. The last person who intimidated me was a Scorpio... I wonder who that was... hmmm???   IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted February 13, 2013 10:20 AM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Intimidate.... seriously?I guess I'm too much of a confrontational hard a$$. My answer is, No, I'm not intimidated by any female. Seriously, anyone who lays a hand on me would be taken out. That's why I crack up at the S&M thing - I would wh00p whichever "dominatrix" tries that crap on me. If I were ever intimidated by somebody, I wouldn't be interested.
i meant it figuratively. i didn't mean i was turned on by female wrestlers coz the could pin me down to the ground in a heavily oiled greco roman wrestling match. IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted February 13, 2013 10:32 AM
@mothberg y don't i get lilith i just read on about it lol?IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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posted February 13, 2013 10:37 AM
...you missed out on the discussion we had, and material ail posted on it awhile back, no? ~ revisit H&H sometime if you're interested, I think it's still there.grease wrestling = turkish wrestling BTW!!!!
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peregrine
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posted February 13, 2013 10:40 AM
^y do u know these stuff?IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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posted February 13, 2013 10:51 AM
sweetie, I studied anthropology and archaeology very seriously, with full intent on claiming my citizenship to Greece and working in the archaeology field there.... I've dedicated countless hours (my life goal) to learning everything I can on classical archaeology and Egyptology... the ancient Mediterranean civilizations are my one true passion. XD It's not really that unusual... eh only that I failed in going to uni and owning up to my huge ambitions. lol *suchawaste* ; ; IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted February 13, 2013 10:54 AM
you're like ross on friends!  ...JK i know he is a paleontologist! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted February 13, 2013 11:39 AM
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Originally posted by peregrine:
the title. whether or not u r drawn to people the evoke that feeling in you...the lilith part was me thinking out loud where it came from lol! but pisceans are not intimidating to me. i don't feel like i have to step up to the plate or anything. leo/ capricorn influence. maybe.
i was about to say if you are afraid of pisces you would be afraid of all signs haha... i've kinda gotta pisces/neptunian thing going on in my chart and i gotta say its not intimidating energy at all..IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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posted February 13, 2013 11:56 AM
Hmm... I don't fear anyone to be honest, except for mad murderers n criminals running loose cos they have already losing their minds or are in states of desperation, to which i can't win. One can't fight against a mad mind or a desperate soul. I have Lilith-mars-pluto all in the 1st house. It drives my bosses mad sometimes i live by my rules. I fear not performing well and I totally dislike being overworked but i do not fear them. I don't see ppl by their title or power dressing but really by how they interact with ppl in general and how good they are to me. I am attracted by the smallest act of kindness sometimes that they don't even notice cos it is part of their way of life. It's their kindness towards me that matters... I honestly get really shy n demure n sweet when i am with guys i like. I don't know why. It's just I become really soft and sweet and blind.. I am attracted to ppl who stimulate my curiosity mostly... someone who interest me enough to want to know how he ticks... cos he is oh-sooo-strange. Moon in aquarius in 5th house, Venus in Gemini in 9th house. IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted February 13, 2013 12:20 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by peregrine:
[b] the title. whether or not u r drawn to people the evoke that feeling in you...the lilith part was me thinking out loud where it came from lol! but pisceans are not intimidating to me. i don't feel like i have to step up to the plate or anything. leo/ capricorn influence. maybe.
i was about to say if you are afraid of pisces you would be afraid of all signs haha... i've kinda gotta pisces/neptunian thing going on in my chart and i gotta say its not intimidating energy at all..[/B][/QUOTE] simple really itch coz u have never been seduced by one. it's not that they are scary but that you'd lose control. 1-THE SIREN
A man is often secretly oppressed by the role he has to play-by always having to be responsible, in control, and rational. The Siren is the ultimate male fantasy figure because she offers a total release from the limitations of his life. In her presence, which is always heightened and sexually charged, the male feels transported to a world of pure pleasure. She is dangerous, and in pursuing her energetically the man can lose control over himself, something he yearns to do. The Siren is a mirage; she lures men by cultivating a particular appearance and manner. In a world where women are often too timid to project such an image, learn to take control of the male libido by embodying his fantasy. IP: Logged |
sharpei
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posted February 13, 2013 12:34 PM
i the siren representative of pisces then?funny i know a girl who is pisces who is super rich,(daddies money) attractive and basically sees herself as the ultimate ''seductress'' i kinda feel bad for her htough because she is a bit of a onetrick pony and i think she is now finding it hard to find men who will take her seriously but she is too arrogant and stuck in her ways and stuck with this vision of herself to try to change. like you can be seductive but still come across as wifey/longterm girlfriend material- i think she JUST comes across as the seductress- i hope she learns because if she does not i dont see a good future in store for her... IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted February 13, 2013 12:36 PM
it's just an archetype i associate with fishies. certainly not only applicable to their sign. but yes pisces, siren, mermaid...The Siren is the most ancient seductress of them all. Her prototype is
the goddess Aphrodite—it is her nature to have a mythic quality about
her—but do not imagine she is a thing of the past, or of legend and his¬
tory: she represents a powerful male fantasy of a highly sexual, supremely
confident, alluring female offering endless pleasure and a bit of danger. In
today's world this fantasy can only appeal the more strongly to the male
psyche, for now more than ever he lives in a world that circumscribes his
aggressive instincts by making everything safe and secure, a world that offers
less chance for adventure and risk than ever before. In the past, a man had
some outlets for these drives—warfare, the high seas, political intrigue.
http://infothread.org/Pick%20Up%20Artist/The%20Art%20of%20Seduction.pdf IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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posted February 13, 2013 01:43 PM
^ these people never saw the actual image of a Grecian Siren, ne?    oh yeah~ so so smexy!!!  (and this... from one strange bird to another) ^^ Sirens couldn't swim btw... It's really odd when they're embodied as mermaids, which they were clearly not... they were scavengers of the sea and luring sailors to the rocks (they lived in cliffs above) and overboard so they could easily scoop them up by their Harpy-like talons was their preferred feeding method. ^^; When Orpheus bested them in song they leapt into the sea to their deaths... In earliest myth they shared the same parentage as the Gorgons, and the Graiai (Grey)... it's likely that because of their parents association with the serpent/fish tailed mammals/monsters of the sea, and their siblings being lameia, they became associated with "mermaids", even though they were not the same. Gorgons were like Amazons of the sea, described as ugly, the Lameia/Grey were also described as ugly, but Sirens had the face and voice of beauties, which hid their predatory lower-half. ^^; Anyway, they're technically sea-daimons (serving to punish/lure astray bad/weak mortals) Greek merfolk were often illustrated as serpentine whereas the Sumerians used the fish-like tails... (Dagan)... the fish bodies were not used in any of the known Siren tales or tails. ^^; Dagan is sometimes related to Capricorn though, but I fancy this all goes back to the earlier matriarchal Serpent culture being driven out by mostly patriarchal civilizations of the middle east, so again... Grecian mythology all comes back to snakes, and the Sirens as you hear of them being associated/described today, are not the same as the ones recognized in antiquity. Anyway --- I wouldn't want to be associated with a Siren anymore than a Harpy... >.>; I dig swans and sea fowl, but... not that much.... hahahaha Pisces women are beautiful top to bottom, gifted by Neptune, Venus, and Eros... not scorned by them/cursed (as children of Phorcys and Ceto were). ~though it's of little consequence to those who want to see them as such now... just felt like mentioning the distinction. IP: Logged |
sharpei
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posted February 13, 2013 01:51 PM
i think pisces is a nice nice sign, i wish i were pisces - but i dont mind too much being capricorn- i just would not want to be gemini or aquarius (no offence) or taurus- i like taurus and the men are sweet i just would not want to be THAT grounded personallyIP: Logged |
Faith
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posted February 13, 2013 02:11 PM
Great thread!@peregrine quote:
i meant it figuratively. i didn't mean i was turned on by female wrestlers coz the could pin me down to the ground in a heavily oiled greco roman wrestling match.
@aquaguy Pisces can be VERY intimidating, they command the Force, after all.... @Saturnine, love your info on ancient cultures!  LOL, who knew the siren was so...not cute! @Sharpei quote:
i guess for me its less being intimidated by a man and more being in awe of one- i like that feeling
I agree. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted February 13, 2013 02:35 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Great thread!
Isn't it just amazing how every good thread comes from sand's need for sand? #MirrorMirror
As to OP's Q - Pluto is the culprit. Conneted to various attraction factors in the chart. As always,either high way to hell or bottom pit,when it comes to Pluto's workings.
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted February 13, 2013 04:20 PM
quote:
Originally posted by peregrine:
i meant it figuratively. i didn't mean i was turned on by female wrestlers coz the could pin me down to the ground in a heavily oiled greco roman wrestling match.
Figuratively or literally. Not intimidated by any females.
Yeah. By the Mrs. but that's a different story: its out of respect, not out of fear lol No afraid of any woman. I guess I'm too much of a macho hard a$$. And I guess I'm too much of a chauvanistic pig to lay a hand on any woman, but I'll kick the a$$ of any female wrestler. I don't care which one. Sorry I'm a degenerate male pig but wrestling or whatever doesn't intimidate me. IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
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posted February 13, 2013 04:31 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Intimidate.... seriously?I guess I'm too much of a confrontational hard a$$. My answer is, No, I'm not intimidated by any female. Seriously, anyone who lays a hand on me would be taken out. That's why I crack up at the S&M thing - I would wh00p whichever "dominatrix" tries that crap on me. If I were ever intimidated by somebody, I wouldn't be interested.
I'm almost like you. I do get intimidated by people (Like my gemini colleague because he's so intelligent) but I always see people as my equal. I do admire and get attracted to people like this but you know, I don't think there's any barrier between me and them when I speak to them. I usually respect them, but if that person don't respect me then I'll drop them altogether. No matter how intimidating they are, if that person doesn't respect me, then (for a lack of an ethical term) F*ck them.
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