posted February 17, 2013 12:10 PM            

Venus and Mars placements in signs and houses
Your 8th house ruler
Where Uranus, the natural 8th house ruler, is placed
Your ascendant

Are there any others? And which ones would be key?

posted February 17, 2013 12:38 PM            

However, leaving synastry aside, which brings even more influences into play re how your relate to another, an individual is inclined towards finding certain types/styles attractive according to their natal charts. But as there are many influences, it is all a little confusing.

For starters, this guy has:
Venus and Mars in Virgo - likes women simple, clean with room for improvement. He likes attention to detail, loves to serve, and is constant, loyal
Ruler of 8th - Taurus - appreciates classy, strong, stable woman
Scorpio Asc - loves deeply and passionately
Uranus in Leo - is inconstant in love

posted February 17, 2013 01:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
Thanks YTA.

However, leaving synastry aside, which brings even more influences into play re how your relate to another, an individual is inclined towards finding certain types/styles attractive according to their natal charts. But as there are many influences, it is all a little confusing.

For starters, this guy has:
Venus and Mars in Virgo - likes women simple, clean with room for improvement. He likes attention to detail, loves to serve, and is constant, loyal
Ruler of 8th - Taurus - appreciates classy, strong, stable woman
Scorpio Asc - loves deeply and passionately
Uranus in Leo - is inconstant in love

So, confusion!! And should we be looking at the moon as well?

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House placement changes the way Venus and Mars signs are expressed. Not even including if your Venus or Mars aspects another planet or angles.
Ex. I have a Venus in Gemini but its in the 2nd house which Has a more Taurus/venusian vibe to my romance style.
The same goes for my Mars in Taurus the 12th which carries Piscean influence and my Mars trines Neptune and Uranus in the 8th.

posted February 17, 2013 10:06 PM            

If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Libra

you are . . .

The Embarrassed Extremist

You are the Mars in Aries Lover who needs love most of all and this puts you in an extremely poor bargaining position. You throw yourself into the pursuit of your Beloved, exposing all your weakness and, thus, positioning yourself for every kind of hurt. You idealize the people you love, ignoring their faults, exaggerating their strengths and giving them your absolute devotion. This capacity for unqualified affection and loyalty is perhaps your most winning trait. Of course, it can also be your most troublesome trait on those frequent occasions when you pursue the wrong person.

Consistency is also a problem for you. Your tendency to idealize the person you love can turn ugly if and when that person fails to live up to your expectations. At such time your disappointment can cause you to lash out, to turn cold and to generally behave badly toward your Beloved. You fly easily between extremes of love and hate, blind sexual passion and clinical criticism. Of course, once you find the right person, the person who is truly deserving of your unquestioning devotion, these extremes of your sexual temperament will be greatly mollified.

CELEBRITY EXAMPLES OF THE EMBARRASSED EXTREMIST

This is also a rare combination and relatively few celebrity examples. Perhaps the most famous of them is the American poet e. e. cummings (born Oct. 14, 1894. adb,)

Cummings spent years as the secret lover of the wife of a wealthy friend and benefactor. When this couple finally divorced, the poet immediately married the woman of his dreams and almost just as quickly the relationship went sour.

posted February 17, 2013 10:10 PM            

If you have Mars in Scorpio with Venus in Taurus

you are . . .

The Voluptuous Powerhouse of Passion

You are gifted with a lush sensuality and a quiet, unhurried eroticism that tends to get noticed whether you want it to or not. Mostly you'd rather it didn't. You are very straightforward in your approach to sex and you make no excuses for your substantial physical desires but you firmly believe that sex is a private matter between you and your Beloved. Your partner will not only be challenged to keep up with you physically, he or she will also have to meet your very high standards of confidentiality.
Because your response to sex is so physical it is easy for you to think of your sexual needs in purely bodily terms. But nothing could be further from the truth. For you sex always involves deep and complex psychological issues like power, security and control. These complexities don’t necessarily detract from your concern for sensation, but they will make it more difficult for you to manage your sex life in the neat, practical fashion that you prefer. It’s the emotions that get you in trouble. Of course, it’s the emotions that also make it all worthwhile.

CELEBRITY EXAMPLES OF THE VOLUPTUOUS POWERHOUSE OF PASSION

As might be expected with a combination that is both rare and conservative, our examples of The Voluptuous Powerhouse of Passion are rather sparse. We do have two famous writers both of whom enjoyed very active sex lives despite the fact that they were relatively unattractive physically. The first is playwright and political activist Lillan Hellman (born June 20, 1905 wik,) who was considered homely by many but managed to become the protégé, lover and longtime companion of the master mystery novelist Dashiell Hammett.·
The second is French novelist and existential philosopher Jean-Paul Sartre (born June 21, 1905 adb.) Sartre is notable because in order to keep his long relationship with Simone de Beauvoir on the most philosophical and modern basis he insisted on “transparency.” He proudly confessed to her the details of all his sexual dalliances which were many, despite his rather frog-like appearance. Unfortunately, later in the relationship, when de Bauvoir began having affairs of her own Sartre was far less enthusiastic about their vow of “transparency.”

posted February 17, 2013 10:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
5th house too

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posted February 17, 2013 10:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Link me sandy^
I want to see my combo
nvm I just googled it lol
wtf that astrologer only has mars in scorpio combinations... ew be consistent..

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If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Gemini

you are . . .

The Crafty Extremist

You are a shrewd Mars in Aries Lover. You go through the motions of putting it all on the line and swooping headfirst into love but you still manage to maintain a sense of intellectual distance between yourself and all the crazy things you are doing. To some degree this makes you a supremely enjoyable Lover who blends all-out intensity with plenty of fun. But there is also an element of duplicity in your sexual nature. In your drive for extreme experiences you are prone to promise much more than you intend to deliver.

You may be the most restless of the Mars in Aries Lovers and the most easily distracted. Plus, you have a taste for immediate gratification that often outweighs your Mars in Aries loyalty. However, physical sex is always a secondary allurement for you. It is ideas that really turn you on. The partner who wishes to hold your attention, and your loyalty, must be prepared to continually stoke the fires of your imagination.

CELEBRITY EXAMPLES OF THE CRAFTY EXTREMIST

Among The Crafty Extremist we have three notable women. Mary Wollstonecraft (born Apr. 27, 1759 wik) was an early feminist and author of A Vindication of the Rights of Women who, despite several youthful infatuations, did not start her sex life until she was in her 30s and began living openly with her American lover in Paris during the French Revolution.· Ruth Westheimer (born June 24, 1928 adb) gave advice on sex on radio and TV where her diminutive stature and cute German accent allowed her speak frankly about sex without seeming at all dirty. Golda Meir (born May 3, 1898 wik) rose from poor, working class roots to become the Premier of Israel while enjoying several discreet affairs with high-powered political figures who shared her Zionist beliefs and maintaining a troubled marriage to a man who did not.

Another Crafty Extremist was the Viennese painter, Gustav Klimt (born July 14, 1862 wik.) Klimt became famous for his decorative murals which frequently featured female figures in the grips of sexual ecstasy. Though he maintained a long-standing relationship with clothing designer, Emilie Flöge, Klimt had no use for matrimony and made free use of the starving young women from the poorest sections of Vienna who gathered daily in his studio to serve both as models for his lascivious nudes and as sexual partners. Other examples of this type are the combative Australian actor Russell Crowe (born April 7, 1964 wik) and the assassinated San Francisco politician Harvey Milk (born May 22, 1930 wik.)

posted February 17, 2013 10:20 PM            

"despite several youthful infatuations, did not start her sex life until she was in her 30s and began living openly with her American lover in Paris during the French Revolution."

posted February 17, 2013 11:09 PM            

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peregrine: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zi5-vPsSmEI

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posted February 18, 2013 12:07 AM            

"Mars in Leo with Venus in Scorpio you are...

The Maestro of Mystery

You are the naughty Mars in Leo Lover. You are a very sexy Lover with a knack for bombast and display, and you occasionally enjoy upsetting people whose ideas about sex and relationships are prudish and complacent. Many will find your approach to sex too bold and a little intimidating and that’s just the way you like it. Still, no one should assume that you sexuality is ever out of control, even when you are behaving badly. You are essentially a very conservative Lover who rarely does anything in the realm of love or sex that is not carefully planned and thought out.

Nothing excites you quite as much as the mixture of sex with power. You are Lover who takes more pleasure in a battle of wills than a simple tussle in bed. At your worse you can use your dark and often devious sensuality to entrap and dominate other people. At your best your complex and power-driven sexuality will serve to winnow out weaker and less worthy partners and leave you with only those strong enough to give your willful sexual nature a little competition."

Bolded that part because it's probably the most accurate and succinct description!

posted February 18, 2013 12:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
hmm? that's not a MA song
Help me with Lilith in Sadge like you got for PIsces? o nm found it

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yeah i know. forgot the artist tho and that's how i found it...

on another forum i made a thread asking if lilith was how you did it... at least those readings seem to have a martian tint to it.