posted February 19, 2013 01:33 PM
I´m curious what you have to say on the subject.I have it both natally and in synastry with my ex husband of eight years, as well as my new crush/obsession whom I´ve known for a year. I´m venus iand they are chiron.
My experience with this in natal is that it really messes with your self-worth. I´ve never felt attractive or lovable, and I´ve never felt feminine. I also feel socially awkward, and rejected. I compensate my lack of lovable-ness and social ability by trying to be extremly helpful. And it puts me in trouble.
In synastry when I´m the venus I feel like the chiron sees me as vain, self-centered, shallow and too flirty. I feel like he resents me being friendly to people, and flirting - unless it´s with him.
My ex-husband (chiron) told me (venus) that he finds my friendlieness with people distasteful. He also felt like all my values were wrong. I ended up leaving him and hurting him so bad, that apparently he wanted to comit suicide.
Do you think this aspect affects chiron more? I personally feel very hurt myself, both by my ex-husband and my new crush.
What´s your take on this?