posted February 20, 2013 06:34 PM            

I finally got frustrated and told him exactly how I felt and asked him if I was crazy to think we had a connection and to have these intense feelings his response was 'crazy? exactly the opposite' and in response to me saying I felt left outside his affection ‘no, you are not’; then nothing. I asked him a few more times to just talk to me but radio silence.

The next day I posted a quote about not regretting the things you do but you'll regret the things you don't. I meant it of course in reference to being honest with him; I stand by what I did because if I hadn't I'd always wonder and I just don’t have time for head games-I’m direct and honest, go bold or go home. And whaddaya know- he 'liked' it. I realize I’m probably overanalyzing but it’s in my nature.

I have no idea at this point if he likes me, if he does he clearly has a green light but he’s moving like its yellow or not moving at all. My intuition has never been this off. I'd appreciate any nice input- even if it's 'he's not into you'. Just please no negativity, I feel too lost to handle it and yes I realize I’m might be wasting a whole bunch of energy. Believe me I’m a practical gal, I’ve never bought into the whole ‘he’s just intimidated by you’ or ‘he picks on you because he likes you’ philosophy. Men go for what they want and if he picks on you it’s because he’s a jerk lol. For the record, we have not had sex despite an obvious mutual attraction; there’s not been time for it we are just getting to know each other and I’m not that kinda girl

Me: CapSun 8th House, Virgo Moon. Sag Venus, Gemini Rising

posted February 20, 2013 10:11 PM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
I think he likes you.Wait for a while,dont jump to conclusions.He could’ve simply ignored you when you posted that quote,its a game,play it for a while.

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posted February 20, 2013 10:43 PM            

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Originally posted by CapSun8thHouseMarsScorp:
I've been lurking and reading on here for a while and feel confused still about Scorpio moons. I like this guy, things were moving forward nicely and then he went all distant on me. Sometimes he'll text me and says he's overwhelmed and feels like he's going to break under all the pressure (he's on a book tour) but then I don't hear from him for a while directly except on a daily basis he will like a bunch of things on my FB page and sometimes leave a comment.

I finally got frustrated and told him exactly how I felt and asked him if I was crazy to think we had a connection and to have these intense feelings his response was 'crazy? exactly the opposite' and in response to me saying I felt left outside his affection ‘no, you are not’; then nothing. I asked him a few more times to just talk to me but radio silence.

The next day I posted a quote about not regretting the things you do but you'll regret the things you don't. I meant it of course in reference to being honest with him; I stand by what I did because if I hadn't I'd always wonder and I just don’t have time for head games-I’m direct and honest, go bold or go home. And whaddaya know- he 'liked' it. I realize I’m probably overanalyzing but it’s in my nature.

I have no idea at this point if he likes me, if he does he clearly has a green light but he’s moving like its yellow or not moving at all. My intuition has never been this off. I'd appreciate any nice input- even if it's 'he's not into you'. Just please no negativity, I feel too lost to handle it and yes I realize I’m might be wasting a whole bunch of energy. Believe me I’m a practical gal, I’ve never bought into the whole ‘he’s just intimidated by you’ or ‘he picks on you because he likes you’ philosophy. Men go for what they want and if he picks on you it’s because he’s a jerk lol. For the record, we have not had sex despite an obvious mutual attraction; there’s not been time for it we are just getting to know each other and I’m not that kinda girl

Me: CapSun 8th House, Virgo Moon. Sag Venus, Gemini Rising

Him: SagSun 2nd House, Scorpio Moon, Sag Venus, Scorpio Rising

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In my opinion as a scorpio moon, dont let his moon placement confuse you.

I have been watching how guys behave and I think the best thing for you to do is act cool and reciprocate in kind. Dont do anything more than he would. If he likes your posts, like some back after a couple days. If he says, *Hey....* and doesnt get back to you after a couple days. Then reply to that hey in a couple days with a hi or something.

I know it is lame, but if you give too much of yourself to any guy, then they feel so in control and might abuse that power. As in, they might not really care if you get hurt or have the best intentions. Again this applies to any guy not just scorpio moons.

In his case, you told him how you felt. And that hopefully will be a appreaciated by him. You kinda went out on a proverbial limb to tell him something that might have even made you look stupid. He knows now. And yes, you did the right thing. Be straight but dont be too vulnerable or unrealistic.

Guys like their ego stroked as do women. If you put soo much attention on him and focus on what he meant with minor things such as a like on your facebook, it will backfire.

Little things are icing on a cake......only when you have a cake.

These little things dont count for much so dont read into it. If he has enough guts, courage and desire to be with you....trust me he will make it happen.

He doesnt want to lose you to someone else right? But that mindset will only be present if he wants you in a romantic way.

Anyway, I wish you luck.
Mind games suck.

posted February 20, 2013 10:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:

Little things are icing on a cake......only when you have a cake.

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posted February 20, 2013 11:13 PM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
I think he likes you.Wait for a while,dont jump to conclusions.He could’ve simply ignored you when you posted that quote,its a game,play it for a while.

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posted February 21, 2013 09:17 AM            

Goatcat
Him: SagSun 2nd House, Scorpio Moon, Sag Venus, Scorpio Rising

posted February 21, 2013 09:49 AM            

We met a few months ago, moved into same building and really hit it off. I observed quietly for a couple of months and I thought I'd gathered enough evidence to suggest it was mutual. He noticed/ remembered the tiniest things I said/ did/ liked and generally seemed really interested. Suggested doing things just the two of us etc. I thought I'd gathered enough info to convince myself I wasn't imagining it, so I told him I liked him. As casual as possible, didn't put him on the spot for a reply etc.

Couple of days later he got in touch and said he was so glad I had said something because he wasn't proactive, he felt the same but had been hurt in past so bit wary etc, would like us to get to know each other. Then that was it - I didn't see him or speak to him for about three weeks. A little odd, since we live in the same flat. Sent him a message once about ten days in, no reply. I tried to leave him to it to have time to come around.

It's conflicting signals that are confusing - I am pretty straight and sensible, not into game-playing - I tell it like it is and I am quite happy on my own so I was in no way looking for something. I was so convinced that my intuition was right, but I think that if he was interested - ok he might not be one to make a move - but surely you would have some sort of an encouraging response?

We finally caught up a couple of days ago, and I am still convinced I was right, but what use are feelings if you're not going to do anything about them! He, like yours, is really busy and stressed about work at the moment so perhaps that is it. Shrug! Why can't people just say what they think. I thought I'd have some understanding being a Scorpio sun but I'm not a game-player. I'm either interested or I'm not, and even though I'm shy I'd still go out on a limb for something that I thought was worth it.

posted February 21, 2013 09:57 AM            

Anyway just sharing. Thanks for the support around here

posted February 21, 2013 04:19 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
WOW! I felt like I was reading my own life story in your post! I am currently going through the same thing with a Sag/Scorpio combination guy. I'm much like you as well - not that kind of girl, practical, believe men go after what they want. In the past whenever I've interacted with Sag/Scorp or Scorp/Sag guys... there's a certain air of immaturity about them, and yet not. From what I've seen they tend to be kind of...basic. They seem to be more direct and upfront with someone they share a superficial connection with, and step sideways or go all over the place with someone they're attracted to emotionally. They're also a bit "emo" and lack self-awareness (sorry!). I have yet to see this sign combination be one of those "Hey, I like you. We should date." forward type people.

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posted February 21, 2013 04:32 PM            

Here´s why I think that.

Scorpio moon is so intense that when they love you, you will KNOW. Yes, we will TRY to push you away, but we will do it in a way that is mean and obnoxious, and obvious. Almost like a borderline thing. It´s a test.

If we push you away indifferently, or politely, in a discreet way, and we´re still nice to you - then we are not that into you, and you´re better of without us.

Scorpio risin and moon will make the ones they love either love or hate them. There is no other way. That´s our kind of love. And most people aren´t up for it.
I think even the normal, healthy scorpio moons have a dark pit somewhere in their hearts and their love will always be mixed with pain, but the secret is THEY will feel the pain as much as you, or more, if they love you.

The problem is that scorpio moon does not talk, we can´t describe oyr feelings in words. That´s why the ones that will be compatible with us must know how to read our minds, lol. (J/k, but not really)....