posted February 27, 2013 12:43 AM            

''I have the same thing in my chart! I'm a Taurus ASC with my Venus in Scorpio conjunct my DSC. (I've even got the empty 1H, too!) It's a very specific placement, and unfortunately I haven't been able to find anything about it. The best I can find is ASC ruler in the 7H or the planet opposite ASC. There's nothing I've found that takes both into consideration at once.''

yes I agree it is a specific placement, asc ruler in the house of partnership and opposing ascendant,conjunct DSC. It seems like getting in any kind of partnership will be a real challenge for the person. I have sun conjunt saturn, at 4 degree orb. I used to have lots of blockages with regards to socializing, was a little bit awkward and unsure of myself when I was younger, but since I have lots of Leo influences, I would pretend to be always confident, and believe it or not it actually helped, because people are attracted to confident people.

posted February 27, 2013 09:33 AM            

I love how you bring all the pieces together, I relate so much with everything that you said.

I read your response to Firemoon

'' A way of saying this is that you’ll act out 7th house activities in a Capricorn like style''

It's true I act out my 7th house activities in a very leo like style. Am very warm, have a big heart,very generous,caring, attentive to people I have some sort of partnership with, be it a close friend, or someone I used to have a connection with but lost contact but to people in general I'll probably be described as aloof,strict and serious, the no fun types. There is a large disparity between the person I show to the world to the person I am in my private relationships, now I know why! But the thing is I'm attracted to the same trait in guys. The ones who LOOK serious but are full of energy,positivity and cheerfulness once you get to know them. I don't know may be that's how my 7th house plays out for me.

''With Sun in the 7th house you may feels as if you become more ‘alive’ and invigorated by when you’re relating, as if you are truly connecting to the heart of who you really are. So yes, the feeling of ‘being more yourself’ when comfortable in established partnerships would be a common experience for you.''

So true. I look for the one person that will make me feel good inside, like I have a purpose.Not that I don't have an identity of my own but it's more like enhancing my personal characteristics by being able to act out my true potential that could only happen when I'm in a relationship.Even the relationship I have with my little doggie makes me feel important!LOL I like feeling important when I'm in a relationship, like am needed. Am sure everyone must feel the same way,who wouldn't want to feel they are important and needed by the other person however for me it's like you said a distinct definition of who I am, of who I can be.

posted February 27, 2013 12:13 PM            

People percieve me as sensitive, vulnerable, emotional, weird, strange, psychic, smart-assy, even wild or insane. Lots of people dont like me tho

posted February 28, 2013 09:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Hi Fire Moon,

Planet in the 7th house just naturally exert themselves in the arena of relationships. So, whatever planets you have in the 7th house will come ‘out to play’ while you are in relationship mode. And the more planets you have in the 7th house, the more often you’ll actually be in ‘relationship mode‘, since this life-area would be the focus of a lot of your energy…

With Sun in the 7th house, there would be a Libra-like interest and focus on relating, in terms of your sense of purpose and identity. The Sun rules who we really feel we are at our ‘core’ underneath the external mask of the Asc. If the Asc is the surface layer of our personality, the Sun is our ‘heart’ so to speak. At your heart, you’d feel a strong pull towards 7th house stuff… Relating, negotiating, finding agreement with others, and having a strong need for a partner. You may feel you ‘come alive’ more when you are relating, and comparing. However, the house only defines the life-area that your Sun and other planets are preoccupied with, you’ll still act out these planets in the style the signs that they’re in…. A way of saying this is that you’ll act out 7th house activities in a Capricorn like style…

The planets in the 7th will have an effect on how you do this too. With Neptune/Sun on the Dsc you’ll feel a strong compulsion to act out your sense of compassion, fantasy ideals, and awareness of the otherworldly (Neptune), in relationships, along with a sense of glory, romance, and fun (Sun)… With Saturn here too, you’ll be you realistic about things as well, even if part of you is in dreamy lovey dovey land. Having Sun/Neptune opposite the Asc means that part of your natural spontaneous reaction to the world is to relate using your Sun/Neptune, and defining yourself in relation to others, is part of your way of dealing with your immediate environment.

You’d be the type of partner/friend who’d offer a caring and compassion whenever needed. When you see a loved one in pain, your instinct is to sooth them with your Neptune/Dsc. With your Sun/Dsc, you are also positive and encouraging towards others, and you’d naturally want to build up your loved ones confidence by letting them know they are special. You’d expect some of the same in return as well… And with these placements in Capricorn, you’d be level-headed and firm in your approach to relating. You’re supportive and caring, but if someone consistently does dumb irresponsible things, despite what you’ve expressed to them, your patience may eventually wear thin.

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Thank you for the feedback Lotis White!

All of that seems very true of me. It is a sort of balancing act between my Cancer ASC opp Neptune and Sun which makes me want to be nurturing and idealistic about people, and then Saturn that tells me to be level headed or even cautious. But overall I definitely am loyal to the people I'm close with and want to do anything I can to be there to encourage or build them up.. But as you said this eventually comes with a limit if it's ignored or taken for granted continuously..