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Topic: 7th house people; how do others perceive you?
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ueharaa Knowflake Posts: 553 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 25, 2013 07:19 PM
Either if you have planets in the 7th house or know some people who do, do you find that it adds a flavour to how people perceive you? If it is so do you think it only applies to planets aspecting the ascendant from the 7th house?I'm still confused about how one owns and projects their 7th house, especially when there are planets here. IP: Logged |
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posted February 25, 2013 08:44 PM
a good friend of mine said about my sun and venus in h7 produced a love bug. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 4714 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 25, 2013 09:48 PM
I thought the 7th house is what we perceive in other people and our ASC and 1st house is how others perceive us. If you have planets in there (7H) I thought this is the type of people we meet. I have Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune in my 7H. Your 7H is also a picture of traits that fulfill your needs somewhat. Kind of like your other half.IP: Logged |
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posted February 26, 2013 12:06 AM
i would meet people that are self centered and pretty then lol. sounds about right. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 2381 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 12:09 AM
what kind would I meet then?I have stellium of sun,venus,mercury,saturn in H7.. 7H threads is my fav Everything revolves around my 7H, it's like I don't have an identity of my own except it is through my 7H IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 9347 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 26, 2013 12:45 AM
I have a planet in my 7th but it's also opp my Asc. It colors at times how I interact with people/how I'm perceived, but this wasn't always the case. It took a while to grow into it (own it) and I struggled a lot with that part of my chart in my mid-teens because something was just not -right-. I didn't know enough about my chart then at all to be able to read it. But later on, I thought, wow, that one was really a sore spot.IP: Logged |
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posted February 26, 2013 12:46 AM
self centered, pretty, intelligent, and old! #onlyjokingIP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 2009 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 12:51 AM
Somewhat accurate for me, have 7th house Libra and it is supposed to mean it will be a long time before I settle down.Very true, so much so I'll have female friends ask me why I never got married..was engaged 3 times though..practice practice practice.. IP: Logged |
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posted February 26, 2013 12:59 AM
i'm supposed to have a nice h7. Sun conjunction Venus: calls out the artistic side of the nature, making the person fond of music, art and poetry; it strengthens the love nature and if the configuration occurs in the Seventh House it is a positive testimony of unalloyed marital bliss. but pluto, saturn, and mars oppose things in the first. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 2381 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 01:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by peregrine: self centered, pretty, intelligent, and old! #onlyjoking
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FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 803 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 01:34 AM
Idk I think with my 7th house sun I try to understand my own identity through the perception of others, thus I'm also more open to having things projected onto me.. I mean really that's what I dislike about being a 7th house sun, good or bad people will find a way to identify their own traits and ideas/beliefs with me (or I guess it could be the other way around ha), and I just kinda let it happen cause I'm like "yeah well I suppose I can be a bit of everything at one time or another" lol. So that's good in a way because I can really become friends or find a way to relate with a wide variety of people, but it's like usually people are only seeing fragments of who I really am, and it's not that I'm intentionally being deceptive or trying to hide anything, I just don't have that strong sense of self most people have to present the world with.. Neptune conjunct my DSC doesn't help with that either.. People tend to see what they want to see in me and I do the same I suppose, although I do think the upside is I can be very intuitive and pick up on the hidden emotions or agendas of others quickly.. Saturn and NN in 7th used to make me very inhibited in social situations preferring to just keep to myself but I feel like the older I get the more I'm growing out of that.. I envy people who also have Venus here as I've read that means you've been "promised" a very Libra like partner; sophisticated, elegant, etc.. So yeah idk 7th house is complicated lol IP: Logged |
Lotis White Knowflake Posts: 1088 From: USA Registered: Dec 2010
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posted February 26, 2013 03:07 AM
The Asc is how you appear to others, and colors your general self-expression.The 7th house is the type of people we attract for one on one relationships... And also how we behave when we're in 'relating mode', as in when we're trying to please people, charm, negotiate, and find agreement. When we act out our 7th house, we are in the process of consciously trying to establish a connection to another person. It's relegated to this specific life-area. However, we act out our Asc most of the time, and across all life situations in a more generalized sense. The 1st house is the Aries house, it's how we act spontaneously without much conscious thought. We don’t need to put any effort into acting out our 1st house, it happens automatically and naturally. Our Asc is how we instinctively respond to all immediate circumstances as they happen in life. It’s like our factory default response to the world at large. The 7th house is the Libra house, it’s how we consciously behave when reaching out to others, and it requires effort and conscious thought. When we’re acting out our 7th house it’s usually because on some level we have decided that we want to connect with another, or at least be civil to them. Along with Venus, our 7th house is part of the ‘Tool Set’ that we use for establishing one on one relations. When people act out their 7th houses it’s deliberate and calculated, in the sense that their moving to secure a diplomatic advantage in the social arena. However, acting out the 1st house is effortless because it’s the natural mode for our self-expression, and it’s how we are when we’re just ‘ourselves’ and spontaneously respond to life. The 1st house is about ‘Me’ going out into the world and doing what I want, when I want, regardless of other people. The 7th house is about creating an ‘Us’ with someone else, working in a partnership, and consciously acting to maintain this relationship. Planets conjunct the Dsc are interesting. They are in the 7th house and they are aspecting our Asc with an opposition. In these cases, part of the very nature of our spontaneous selves, is to is to act with regard to relationships in some way.
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FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 803 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 03:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lotis White: The 1st house is the Aries house, it's how we act spontaneously without much conscious thought. We don’t need to put any effort into acting out our 1st house, it happens automatically and naturally. Our Asc is how we instinctively respond to all immediate circumstances as they happen in life. It’s like our factory default response to the world at large.The 7th house is the Libra house, it’s how we consciously behave when reaching out to others, and it requires effort and conscious thought. When we’re acting out our 7th house it’s usually because on some level we have decided that we want to connect with another, or at least be civil to them. Along with Venus, our 7th house is part of the ‘Tool Set’ that we use for establishing one on one relations. When people act out their 7th houses it’s deliberate and calculated, in the sense that their moving to secure a diplomatic advantage in the social arena. However, acting out the 1st house is effortless because it’s the natural mode for our self-expression, and it’s how we are when we’re just ‘ourselves’ and spontaneously respond to life. The 1st house is about ‘Me’ going out into the world and doing what I want, when I want, regardless of other people. The 7th house is about creating an ‘Us’ with someone else, working in a partnership, and consciously acting to maintain this relationship. Planets conjunct the Dsc are interesting. They are in the 7th house and they are aspecting our Asc with an opposition. In these cases, part of the very nature of our spontaneous selves, is to is to act with regard to relationships in some way.
Lotis White I love your analysis on things Just curious though since I find this whole 1st house/7th house polarity very interesting since it's definitely highlighted in my chart.. What would you say about someone with DSC in Capricorn Conjunct Neptune and Sun? Also with Sun somewhat widely conjunct Saturn/NN in 7th? Would this give the Sun a more "Libra" characteristics even though Cap is much different originally? It just all seems very conflicting lol. Uranus is also conjunct my DSC but in the 6th house and by 6 degrees. Sorry to hijack this thread with a personal question though, I'll edit it out if necessary.. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 2381 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 04:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lotis White: The Asc is how you appear to others, and colors your general self-expression.The 7th house is the type of people we attract for one on one relationships... And also how we behave when we're in 'relating mode', as in when we're trying to please people, charm, negotiate, and find agreement. When we act out our 7th house, we are in the process of consciously trying to establish a connection to another person. It's relegated to this specific life-area. However, we act out our Asc most of the time, and across all life situations in a more generalized sense. The 1st house is the Aries house, it's how we act spontaneously without much conscious thought. We don’t need to put any effort into acting out our 1st house, it happens automatically and naturally. Our Asc is how we instinctively respond to all immediate circumstances as they happen in life. It’s like our factory default response to the world at large. The 7th house is the Libra house, it’s how we consciously behave when reaching out to others, and it requires effort and conscious thought. When we’re acting out our 7th house it’s usually because on some level we have decided that we want to connect with another, or at least be civil to them. Along with Venus, our 7th house is part of the ‘Tool Set’ that we use for establishing one on one relations. When people act out their 7th houses it’s deliberate and calculated, in the sense that their moving to secure a diplomatic advantage in the social arena. However, acting out the 1st house is effortless because it’s the natural mode for our self-expression, and it’s how we are when we’re just ‘ourselves’ and spontaneously respond to life. The 1st house is about ‘Me’ going out into the world and doing what I want, when I want, regardless of other people. The 7th house is about creating an ‘Us’ with someone else, working in a partnership, and consciously acting to maintain this relationship. Planets conjunct the Dsc are interesting. They are in the 7th house and they are aspecting our Asc with an opposition. In these cases, part of the very nature of our spontaneous selves, is to is to act with regard to relationships in some way.
I would like to ask your opinion. When the ascendant ruler is in the 7th house,does it mean that the person can truly relate to people when he/she is in some sort of partnership? Like the true colors of the person are better perceived when he enters into a comfortable relating mode to people around him/her? The reason am asking you, is my ascendant ruler saturn is found in the 7H moon, saturn opposes cappy ascendant. It means it conjunct DSC right? I have a strong feeling that I come across as the person I truly am when I enter in my 'relating mode' than if I stay aloof from people.people don't normally initiate contact with me and I like it that way, but lately I was surprised that I started wondering how I appear to people in general, what's their first impression of me when before it wasn't much of consequence to me whatever people think about me. Also what do you think when the ruler of the natural 7th house Libra-venus is positioned in the 7th house and conjunct saturn ascendant ruler? The part when you said acting out planets in the 7th houser requires much more effort than planets found in the ascendant makes a lot of sense, since the ascendant is where we are more at ease with who we are, but what if we don't have planets in the asc? and all our planets is found (or associated with) in the 7th house, would you say that this person place too much emphasis on their relationships? gee, that was a long post, do hope am making sense IP: Logged |
hikoro Knowflake Posts: 769 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 26, 2013 04:15 AM
i seem totally different in relationships vs. friendships, vs. acquaintanceship...relationships: a kitten... friendships: super, but still...not as vulnerable as in relationships everything else, aloof and good-looking, pleasant, calm, sunny disposition also, is it true that 'we do better' when partnered? and, that many of our lessons occur when partnered? IP: Logged |
rhia Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 26, 2013 04:37 AM
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also, is it true that 'we do better' when partnered? and, that many of our lessons occur when partnered?[/B]
That sounds like something that would have originally been said by one of those smug people who are in a relationship!!! I have cancer moon in the seventh, but I find it hard to tell what effect this has. IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 9347 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 26, 2013 04:41 AM
You didn't know you were just half of a human wandering around did'ya IP: Logged |
andstuff Knowflake Posts: 1713 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 08:50 AM
Hm I'm not sure 7h placements have a bearing on how we present ourselves I've got Neptune in there, sun as well acc. if one uses porphyry, but how is that supposed to manifest itself? I've for mars in pisces for a somewhat neptunian demeanour, so hard to tell Perhaps I've got idealistic vibes of a capital L-lover, but still like.... do they come from my 7h? IP: Logged |
anno_lucis Knowflake Posts: 837 From: one extreme to the other, no room for practical ;) Registered: Mar 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 10:02 AM
i got h7 mars, merc and venus. asc and dsc rulers in 7th. 7th cusp is aries lol. i seem to always be in a long term relationship. my longest is 4 years. 2 of my exes have aries venus aswell, those ones ended as quick as they started. i would say i have put too much energy into relationships. that was damaging to other areas of my life. venus/merc are opp asc and i attract and am attracted to virgos, libras and taurus but i think geminis must just see me coming from a mile off and run the other way...no idea why...
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anno_lucis Knowflake Posts: 837 From: one extreme to the other, no room for practical ;) Registered: Mar 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 10:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by peregrine: a good friend of mine said about my sun and venus in h7 produced a love bug.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y-Qf_dC59Iobiggest uk garage hit from the 90's...classic!
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inaworldofsong Knowflake Posts: 188 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 12:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: I would like to ask your opinion. When the ascendant ruler is in the 7th house,does it mean that the person can truly relate to people when he/she is in some sort of partnership? Like the true colors of the person are better perceived when he enters into a comfortable relating mode to people around him/her? The reason am asking you, is my ascendant ruler saturn is found in the 7H moon, saturn opposes cappy ascendant. It means it conjunct DSC right? I have a strong feeling that I come across as the person I truly am when I enter in my 'relating mode' than if I stay aloof from people.people don't normally initiate contact with me and I like it that way, but lately I was surprised that I started wondering how I appear to people in general, what's their first impression of me when before it wasn't much of consequence to me whatever people think about me.Also what do you think when the ruler of the natural 7th house Libra-venus is positioned in the 7th house and conjunct saturn ascendant ruler? The part when you said acting out planets in the 7th houser requires much more effort than planets found in the ascendant makes a lot of sense, since the ascendant is where we are more at ease with who we are, but what if we don't have planets in the asc? and all our planets is found (or associated with) in the 7th house, would you say that this person place too much emphasis on their relationships? gee, that was a long post, do hope am making sense
I have the same thing in my chart! I'm a Taurus ASC with my Venus in Scorpio conjunct my DSC. (I've even got the empty 1H, too!) It's a very specific placement, and unfortunately I haven't been able to find anything about it. The best I can find is ASC ruler in the 7H or the planet opposite ASC. There's nothing I've found that takes both into consideration at once. As for the rest of the 7H... I can't really tell how others perceive me because I'm a little paranoid about it, to be honest. I have Venus conjunct my DSC (though it could also be interpreted as 6H Venus), North Node in the 7H, a really tight conjunction between Jupiter, Mercury, and Pluto, and my Sun on the 7/8H cusp. All of that (except for my Sun) is in Scorpio. I think I'm a little too suspicious of people, and I analyze what I say too closely so if I screw up I will remember it FOREVER, even if the other person wouldn't think twice about it.
Add that to 11H Saturn square my Sun and I have some difficulty socializing with new people and making friends. (At least on my own: like Jessica suggested, I'm suddenly a social butterfly when even a single person I know well is around. I need someone as backup, I guess!) IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 4714 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 26, 2013 12:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lotis White: The Asc is how you appear to others, and colors your general self-expression.The 7th house is the type of people we attract for one on one relationships... And also how we behave when we're in 'relating mode', as in when we're trying to please people, charm, negotiate, and find agreement.
Oh jeeze then... I must certainly be "colorful" to some then! Thank you for clearing that up. quote:
The 7th house is the Libra house, it’s how we consciously behave when reaching out to others, and it requires effort and conscious thought. When we’re acting out our 7th house it’s usually because on some level we have decided that we want to connect with another, or at least be civil to them. Along with Venus, our 7th house is part of the ‘Tool Set’ that we use for establishing one on one relations. When people act out their 7th houses it’s deliberate and calculated, in the sense that their moving to secure a diplomatic advantage in the social arena.Planets conjunct the Dsc are interesting. They are in the 7th house and they are aspecting our Asc with an opposition. In these cases, part of the very nature of our spontaneous selves, is to is to act with regard to relationships in some way.
Is there a site we can see what aspects are made to our DSC? I don't think I have absolutely any to mine, but the grid on astro.com also doesn't list the DSC either. IP: Logged |
lotus_flower Knowflake Posts: 243 From: New York Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 26, 2013 12:54 PM
I have mercury, jupiter, and neptune in the 7th in Sagittarius. People see me as bubbly--I have gotten this on many occasions and I am really very shocked when I do (b/c i am always aware of how serious my thoughts are). Also, I have gotten that I have a poetic way of speaking as well. I always thought the 7th house also dealt with the energy we attract from others. Since we are attracting this energy--we could also assume that it is something others see in us as well--especially in terms of like attracts like. This "bubbly" personality is definitely due to the Gemini ascendant as well... IP: Logged |
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posted February 26, 2013 06:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by anno_lucis: i got h7 mars, merc and venus. asc and dsc rulers in 7th. 7th cusp is aries lol. i seem to always be in a long term relationship. my longest is 4 years. 2 of my exes have aries venus aswell, those ones ended as quick as they started. i would say i have put too much energy into relationships. that was damaging to other areas of my life. venus/merc are opp asc and i attract and am attracted to virgos, libras and taurus but i think geminis must just see me coming from a mile off and run the other way...no idea why...
oh hey i am a taurus sun , in the libra house, in the virgo decan. must be y u find me so hot! IP: Logged |
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posted February 26, 2013 06:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by anno_lucis: [QUOTE]Originally posted by peregrine: [b]a good friend of mine said about my sun and venus in h7 produced a love bug.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y-Qf_dC59Iobiggest uk garage hit from the 90's...classic![/B][/QUOTE] i thought u wuz gangsta? IP: Logged | |