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Topic: Would it be better to have no moon contacts or hard ones?
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39936 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 26, 2013 10:51 AM
I would love your opinion and experience. Thanks!------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 2289 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 11:09 AM
Hmmmm.... there are no balancing good aspects with the hard ones?IP: Logged |
TaurusInParticles Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 26, 2013 11:10 AM
I've come to agree with Clare Martin, author of Mapping the Psyche, that trines, sextiles and semi-sextiles manifest spiritually and aren't necessarily positive. Oppositions, squares and quincunxes manifest as matter and aren't necessarily negative. It's important to see the negative and positive in any aspect in order to make it work for you. For example, a singleton Moon implies an emotionally self-sufficient individual; this person might not need others to make him feel needed or nurtured, but he may feel like a loner at times. A Moon with heavy aspects implies an individual whose emotional well being depends on circumstances that are out of her controlIP: Logged |
7thGuardian Knowflake Posts: 673 From: Transylvania Registered: May 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 11:12 AM
You mean - the way the Moon is aspected, having no aspects or having hard aspects?Hard to say - with no aspects the Moon would fit the exact description in a certain sign - with hard aspects the description could be less accurate... the feelings are still there, but the one in question can deal with blockages (like that from a square) - which differ from a planet (same goes for ASC - if not especially) to another. ------------------ [☼ ► ♊ ... ☾ ► ♈ ... Ⓐsc. ► ♋] New Skins/Themes for Linda-Goodman forum IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 804 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 11:13 AM
Hard ones are tough, difficult and tumultuous. Emotions are exaggerated, you come across as ''too intense'' or ''too emotional'' I dunno, I think it would be better to have flowing contacts like trines than hard ones.IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 5597 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 26, 2013 11:18 AM
I`d rather have hard aspects instead of no aspects, especially in synastry.If there are just no aspects, it often can mean that you donīt really connect emotionally. (of course it dpends if the other person`s Moon is unaspected as well; or what is going on in the composite). IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 385 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 11:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: Hard ones are tough, difficult and tumultuous. Emotions are exaggerated, you come across as ''too intense'' or ''too emotional'' I dunno, I think it would be better to have flowing contacts like trines than hard ones.
*nods head*....my moon is square pluto, as is my sun and mercury and I am "too intense. too probing. too emotional. too cold". Nothing is ever just balanced.
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its_aqua Knowflake Posts: 244 From: Mars Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 11:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by TaurusInParticles: A Moon with heavy aspects implies an individual whose emotional well being depends on circumstances that are out of her control
EXACTLY! IP: Logged |
7thGuardian Knowflake Posts: 673 From: Transylvania Registered: May 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 11:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: Hard ones are tough, difficult and tumultuous. Emotions are exaggerated, you come across as ''too intense'' or ''too emotional'' I dunno, I think it would be better to have flowing contacts like trines than hard ones.
That happens with positive aspects like Trines ^^ - where the flow is so good that it intensifies the influence... with hard aspects like squares we're talking about blockages - people that have a hard time in dealing with emotions (especially when they're young/younger), aiming for an independent lifestyle in their early years. ------------------ [☼ ► ♊ ... ☾ ► ♈ ... Ⓐsc. ► ♋] New Skins/Themes for Linda-Goodman forum IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39936 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 26, 2013 03:05 PM
I am sorry! I am talking about synastry! I mean being with a person, with whom you have no moon contacts vs a square or an opposition. Thanks and sorry again, for not being clear.------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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LovelyKitty Knowflake Posts: 146 From: Always Sunshine here :heart: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 10:23 AM
when no Moon contact ( although good venus contact), I think maybe you can't feel your partner get in to your heart. You may have affection ,fun ,happiness together but can't have deep emotional binding?When hard moon contact ...you 're gonna be insane.. I think I choose no Moon contact, when it couldn't last , maybe it's end better than hard moon. When you have hard moon contact , it's like you want to stay because others planet drawn you to stay but you also can't bare with the un-comfortable energy it's create , when it's end you feel some part of you was loss with your loss partner (except Uranus-Moon contact). Just m2c. IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty Knowflake Posts: 146 From: Always Sunshine here :heart: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 10:45 AM
In synastry with my fiance , my moon is.. - wide conjuncted by his saturn - square by his pluto - trine by his Uranus - square by his venus My 4th,8th,12th is empty but I feel him deeply.IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth Knowflake Posts: 1985 From: Gaea's Omphalos Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 10:47 AM
Extremely conflicted with this subject~ I can't remember any time where I had no lunar contacts with someone, not even mutual... But, usually there aren't hard aspects that outweigh the easy. Husband and I have the opposition of our Moons, but it seems to be a difficult sort. I think he benefits from it on some level, and sometimes I may as well... even though they oppose. There are no beneficial/supporting aspects that really speak to me. But, he does have Jupiter on the same degree, and my Moon is in the 9th house... so his emotional gaiety can at times be of comfort...BUT... at others, it just comes of as harshness and insensitivity... very unbalanced here. Couple that with his Chiron being exactly cnj to my Moon, and my Chiron being in the same degree as his conjunction on the opposite pole... so where there is hurt and lessons, the healing always ends up being dealt from my end of the spectrum... again, thee's a lack of balance here... (mind my Sun trine to his Chiron then too). If I could ever get him to lay off on the emotional games, and stop relying on me solely, and leaving me to solely deal with everything that is emotionally chaotic in our relationship, I think we could truly, truly, TRULY benefit from this opposition... grow from it... both Chirons are in agreement to our Moons here, and we both clearly need this on some level... the lessons and the healing... but, it will never work with just my support. After all these years, it's a miracle the entire world we've built around us hasn't collapsed with just that holding it up. (The Chiron-Moons I mean) I think, if people can recognize the hard aspects for what they are, when they do cause complication or tension, and they do both take a mutual stance to not let them get in the way, and to work with the energies or work around them... that they can be extremely beneficial to both parties... but, there's often an impasse or imbalance... because one or the other party is depended on to change, or give in, or there's some dependency issue... if only one of the two aspected individuals is willing to work with the issues that arise from a negative or even positive aspect (especially for any length of time), the relationship will undoubtedly wear and become strained... In this case, perhaps no contact is better... but it would still depend on the natal contacts for each person... they may have their own issues to work out anyway... - in this case your just as well off with contacts... so it all depends on how you look at it, and how one deals with each aspect they encounter on the natal and synastric levels. (and later composite~ as the relationship is established more as its own identity/creation). I think... lol just my 2 bits. ^^; IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39936 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 27, 2013 10:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyKitty: when no Moon contact ( although good venus contact), I think maybe you can't feel your partner get in to your heart. You may have affection ,fun ,happiness together but can't have deep emotional binding?When hard moon contact ...you 're gonna be insane.. I think I choose no Moon contact, when it couldn't last , maybe it's end better than hard moon. When you have hard moon contact , it's like you want to stay because others planet drawn you to stay but you also can't bare with the un-comfortable energy it's create , when it's end you feel some part of you was loss with your loss partner (except Uranus-Moon contact). Just m2c.
Lovely clear answer, Kitty! thank you!
------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39936 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 27, 2013 10:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: I`d rather have hard aspects instead of no aspects, especially in synastry.If there are just no aspects, it often can mean that you donīt really connect emotionally. (of course it dpends if the other person`s Moon is unaspected as well; or what is going on in the composite).
Please explain about the other person's moon being unaspected. Thanks Ceri! ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 5597 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 27, 2013 11:42 AM
Even if my Moon was unaspected in the synastry, it could be that THEIR Moon had aspects, and that could make for some connection (though it maybe wouldnīt touch my heart and soul as much as theirs).However if there are no aspects to either Moon, no lunar aspects at all, I donīt think this would be emotionally satisfying for me. (though the ruler of the fourth house might modify this, too) IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 3888 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 27, 2013 01:32 PM
Hmm. This got me thinking~ nothing in my husband's chart aspects my moon, except his ASC, nodal axis, and Juno. Do they count?
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ail221 Knowflake Posts: 3150 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 01:58 PM
Hard moon contacts over no moon contacts. The moon is too much of a integral portion of our identity and Psyche. The moon directly relates back to ones 4th house because symbolically it represents our childhood, the most private part of ourselves, our traditions and our mother. Hard aspects are necessary for growth and resolving past conflict. Lack of a emotional connection (moon aspects)doesn't seem like it would result in a lasting relationship or a emotionally satisfying one. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4899 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted February 27, 2013 02:02 PM
Is same moon sign considered a contact? Otherwise I have no contacts at all. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39936 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 27, 2013 02:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: Even if my Moon was unaspected in the synastry, it could be that THEIR Moon had aspects, and that could make for some connection (though it maybe wouldnīt touch my heart and soul as much as theirs).However if there are no aspects to either Moon, no lunar aspects at all, I donīt think this would be emotionally satisfying for me. (though the ruler of the fourth house might modify this, too)
No, I mean no aspects to either person's moon, in the synastry. ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39936 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 27, 2013 02:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Is same moon sign considered a contact? Otherwise I have no contacts at all.
No, it would not be. That is amazing for you, Ian. ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Orange Knowflake Posts: 228 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted February 27, 2013 02:51 PM
My S.O. of many years (a Scorpio with a Taurus Moon) has his Moon completely unaspected by any of my planets in our syanstry. No contact at all. He is attached to me at the hip. He is absolutely co-dependant in our relationship and I wanted to break up with him a few times already, but he won't let me go, ever. Even seeing me slightly detached from him makes him nervous and physically sick. With his Moon making no aspects to my pklanets, his Moon has no boundaries. It usually flies high. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4899 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted February 27, 2013 03:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: No, it would not be. That is amazing for you, Ian.
I don't quite understand. So there's absolutely no moon contacts between my wife and I. Wouldn't that be highly unusual? Wouldn't that signal incompatibility? IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms Knowflake Posts: 772 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 27, 2013 05:04 PM
What is it called again when signs are side by side? I'm trying to look up the synastry between moon signs that are side by side but I'm having a hard time looking it up without the right term? Thoughts about that synastry?IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 797 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 27, 2013 06:14 PM
I'd rather have hard moon aspects then none at all in synastry. My Moon is very prominent in my chart so no moon aspects would feel like an empty connection to me.------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |