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peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 2593 From: Registered: Apr 2012	posted February 26, 2013 08:45 PM What would cause this? I'm very guilty. I ll even get crushes on big wigs at work twice my age if they scare me enough. Not the ones who don't though Venus/Saturn? IP: Logged
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6103 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012	posted February 26, 2013 09:03 PM have you tried writing guys on death row? they are scary. IP: Logged
11nahyt Knowflake Posts: 605 From: the future Registered: Feb 2012	posted February 26, 2013 09:11 PM Don't you have heavy Pluto in your chart? I've read many times how Pluto people tend to gravitate towards dangerous or dominant people. Although the "twice my age" stuff sounds like a Saturn thing to me.Saturn is one of my dominants, and I have many times been attracted to men twice my age as well, and they did sorta intimidate me in a way. And some were even alil scary to me.Which i believe, was the main reason I was soo interested in those men lol . Do you by any chance have a Venus/Pluto aspect as well? IP: Logged
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 3150 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012	posted February 26, 2013 09:14 PM A combination of Venus aspecting all of your outer planets with your plutonian qualities. IP: Logged
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 1734 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012	posted February 26, 2013 09:16 PM quote: Originally posted by peachbeigeblue: What would cause this? I'm very guilty. I ll even get crushes on big wigs at work twice my age if they scare me enough. Not the ones who don't though Venus/Saturn? so did i used to intimidate you? IP: Logged
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 1734 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012	posted February 26, 2013 09:16 PM http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/217828.html IP: Logged
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 1734 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012	posted February 26, 2013 09:18 PM If a woman's Mars is in Scorpio, a complicated, dark, powerful, and passionate man is the biggest turn-on. This woman wants a man with "layers"--one who has depth and is complicated enough to intrigue her. She is especially attracted to men who ooze sensuality, who are perhaps a little dark and mysterious (even brooding), and who have a magnetic and powerful aura. Intensity is a turn-on for these women--flighty, superficial, and indifferent types need not apply! These women generally do enjoy a certain level of possessiveness in a man IP: Logged
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 2593 From: Registered: Apr 2012	posted February 26, 2013 09:19 PM OK I don't mean like SCARY like they might kill me. Like dominant kinda scary IP: Logged
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 1039 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012	posted February 26, 2013 09:25 PM ^I know what you mean! Just something about them makes your uncomfortable, maybe your afraid they'll criticize you, or way too attractive etc I think ail is right thou! I'm like opposite of you. My venus aspects only personal planets and I was really imitated by this person who had a crush on me. Like I was freaking out. He grabbed my hand and I was like NOPE and literally ran, I dropped my phone and had to go back and get it from him. shitt... I was like 16 thou.. IP: Logged
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 1734 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012	posted February 26, 2013 09:29 PM quote: Originally posted by peachbeigeblue: OK I don't mean like SCARY like they might kill me. Like dominant kinda scary that's always hot in a man. nobody wants a pu$$y of a man for their lover. IP: Logged
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 2593 From: Registered: Apr 2012	posted February 27, 2013 03:40 AM quote: Originally posted by peregrine: If a woman's Mars is in Scorpio, a complicated, dark, powerful, and passionate man is the biggest turn-on. This woman wants a man with "layers"--one who has depth and is complicated enough to intrigue her. She is especially attracted to men who ooze sensuality, who are perhaps a little dark and mysterious (even brooding), and who have a magnetic and powerful aura. Intensity is a turn-on for these women--flighty, superficial, and indifferent types need not apply! These women generally do enjoy a certain level of possessiveness in a man Idun have mars in scorp. U do though right? IP: Logged
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 2593 From: Registered: Apr 2012	posted February 27, 2013 03:45 AM quote: Originally posted by 11nahyt: Don't you have heavy Pluto in your chart? I've read many times how Pluto people tend to gravitate towards dangerous or dominant people. Although the "twice my age" stuff sounds like a Saturn thing to me.Saturn is one of my dominants, and I have many times been attracted to men twice my age as well, and they did sorta intimidate me in a way. And some were even alil scary to me.Which i believe, was the main reason I was soo interested in those men lol . Do you by any chance have a Venus/Pluto aspect as well? This makes a lot of sense. I have Pluto conjunct my Asc, also my chart ruler. It's opposite my moon and sq my sun. Anyhow, maybe the mixture of Pluto and Venus opp Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune. I have a Scorpio rising friend born a month before me with the same Venus sign and aspects and I know he's gotten crushes on strong women who are or should be unattainable. Like he legit has had a crush on my mom. Which is funny bc when we were teens I had a crush on his dad. Twins. I think if I was better spoken I would have said crushes on men who are powerful and intimidating. IP: Logged
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 2593 From: Registered: Apr 2012	posted February 27, 2013 03:46 AM quote: Originally posted by ail221: A combination of Venus aspecting all of your outer planets with your plutonian qualities. IP: Logged
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 2593 From: Registered: Apr 2012	posted February 27, 2013 03:51 AM quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: ^I know what you mean! Just something about them makes your uncomfortable, maybe your afraid they'll criticize you, or way too attractive etc I think ail is right thou! I'm like opposite of you. My venus aspects only personal planets and I was really imitated by this person who had a crush on me. Like I was freaking out. He grabbed my hand and I was like NOPE and literally ran, I dropped my phone and had to go back and get it from him. shitt... I was like 16 thou.. I think what you mean is different, I don't think I described it well. I wouldn't really like a guy that I thought would personally criticize me. as a Leo and all. I don't like when guys come on to ME strong. It puts me off. I know, I'm weird and confusing. Your story sounds cute though. I probably would have left my phone for dead or asked them to mail it to me. (I've done stuff like that before when I've wanted to avoid someone) IP: Logged
Doux R�ve Moderator Posts: 2524 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted February 27, 2013 04:04 AM quote: Originally posted by peregrine: If a woman's Mars is in Scorpio, a complicated, dark, powerful, and passionate man is the biggest turn-on. This woman wants a man with "layers"--one who has depth and is complicated enough to intrigue her. She is especially attracted to men who ooze sensuality, who are perhaps a little dark and mysterious (even brooding), and who have a magnetic and powerful aura. Intensity is a turn-on for these women--flighty, superficial, and indifferent types need not apply! These women generally do enjoy a certain level of possessiveness in a man That's so not true for me. I don't know why, I used to be attracted to that type of guy before but not now. It's too boring. I don't wanna spend my time trying to figure someone out. I think I'm growing more attracted to my Sag DSC. Maybe it's also cause I have progressed Sun & Mars (significators for the man in a woman's chart) in Sag. And I'm not really attracted to Sag energy but usually some strong Jupiter does it for me. * On topic: Yeah that's definitely Saturn + Pluto. Especially if they rule the 5th, or are in a "romance" house or otherwise aspect relationship planets. Maybe you're attracted to this type if man because they represent a part of you that you don't/can't (overtly?) express: it can be hard for a woman to express the more "masculine" side of herself, especially when it comes to Saturn and Pluto. So maybe you seek that energy out in a man who consciously expresses it and can manifest it more fully for you. IP: Logged
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 1734 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012	posted February 27, 2013 05:36 AM quote: Originally posted by peachbeigeblue: Idun have mars in scorp. U do though right? yeah... If a woman's Mars is in Aries, she is often attracted to a strong, independent, and forthright man, perhaps athletic in appearance, but more importantly, direct, confident, and straightforward. Ultra sensitive or shy men are not usually the most attractive men to these women, as they tend to prefer strong and independent types. Men who don't beat around the bush, who state what they want, and who display a certain level of confidence are ideal. i haz theory about strong mars women and how they likey. i have only had fellow mars in scorp tho. to do list: cap and aries mars. IP: Logged
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 1734 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012	posted February 27, 2013 05:40 AM quote: Originally posted by Doux R�ve: That's so not true for me. I don't know why, I used to be attracted to that type of guy before but not now. It's too boring. I don't wanna spend my time trying to figure someone out. I think I'm growing more attracted to my Sag DSC. Maybe it's also cause I have progressed Sun & Mars (significators for the man in a woman's chart) in Sag. And I'm not really attracted to Sag energy but usually some strong Jupiter does it for me. * it's what keeps me glued to someone. i'm like a trashy chick into sexy, broody, a-holes that may or may not play drumbs and not bathe! except i'm a man and it's a sexy broody rocker model dyke with short blonde hair and a hot pink ducati. IP: Logged
Doux R�ve Moderator Posts: 2524 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted February 27, 2013 06:38 AM dude! Nah actually I don't think I have a type. I can be attracted to anyone who's interesting enough to me, it doesn't really matter what their traits are as long as they're not too dumb or unexpressive. IP: Logged
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4906 From: Registered: Oct 2011	posted February 27, 2013 07:56 AM I break office phones for fun. Once I was so mad I put a hole through the wall and the office cabinet. That's how my wife remembers me anyway. I was yelling into the phone so loudly that the whole floor heard. But you can't do that until you run the floor. Being dominant at work isn't always fun but it's sometimes necessary. I do notice the young associates at work looking my way in bemusement and silent admiration whenever I face down some jacka$$ at work. But behaving like a mobster at work has to be counterbalanced by gentle diplomacy. Speak softly and carry a big stick! IP: Logged
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 1734 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012	posted February 27, 2013 07:56 AM ^maybe i'll send u the pic of the dyke. she sent me her pic of her on her bike. so the pink ducati isn't something i came up with! #wearefriends she anounced a gig and it was so freakin far and i creepily showed up! we were pit against each other at work. the game was so stupid. it was pronunciation. she is one of the few good english speakers i suppose on her team. it was how to pronounce brands. ima taurus she's a libra. but she is masculine i am feminine. i won that lol!she plays base guitar. i'm not musical so i dunno how awesome base is but ted from how i met your mother wants a chick that plays base guitar. IP: Logged
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 1225 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012	posted February 27, 2013 08:51 AM Somewhat, when I have a chat with younger women, sometimes I guess I just intimidate them and they turn into little girls. Which for me is not very attractive as I prefer confidence in my romantic interests which sort of does give off the vibe of not being particularly attracted to them. Could lead to what peachbeigeblue describes as being more attracted to me in a sort of circular as I'm not into that large an age difference. IP: Logged
inaworldofsong Knowflake Posts: 175 From: Registered: Nov 2012	posted February 27, 2013 11:37 AM quote: Originally posted by Doux R�ve: On topic: Yeah that's definitely Saturn + Pluto. Especially if they rule the 5th, or are in a "romance" house or otherwise aspect relationship planets. Maybe you're attracted to this type if man because they represent a part of you that you don't/can't (overtly?) express: it can be hard for a woman to express the more "masculine" side of herself, especially when it comes to Saturn and Pluto. So maybe you seek that energy out in a man who consciously expresses it and can manifest it more fully for you. Ha! According to Pullen, I'm heavily Pluto dominant followed by Saturn. Scorpio Pluto in the 7H, tightly conjunct Jupiter and Mercury and loosely conjunct my Sag Sun in the 8H. Saturn is square my Sun, trine Scorp Venus, and loosely opposing Leo Mars. I imagine my Scorpio Venus/Leo Mars combo might have to do with the attraction to the powerful and intimidating types, too. Intimidating is sexy, even if it's not necessarily long-term relationship material. @peregrine: Add Mars in Leo ladies to that list. IP: Logged
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 3150 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012	posted February 27, 2013 11:42 AM As long as your not writing creepy love letters your fine. IP: Logged
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 1456 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011	posted February 27, 2013 12:10 PM Dominate, scary men are sexy indeed. But only if they are like the Piscean kind of scary. or the Cancerian kind. I have Mars in Cancer and Cancer DSC, Scorpio men and Aries men do not turn me on. Too intense and rough. :/ IP: Logged
Little Doe Knowflake Posts: 85 From: Registered: Feb 2013	posted February 27, 2013 12:10 PM I think women are drawn to them purely sexually because that�s the law of nature. They have the healthiest genes, physically speaking. We�re programmed to crave it. It�s like men are programmed to look at meny women and want to spread their genes. It�s not their fault. that�s just the cards they�ve been dealt.. It�s not about the chart, but I have noticed that women with alot of scorpio like complicated /scary men. IP: Logged

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