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Topic: The Astro-Anatomy of an "Open Relationship"
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ElizabethO Knowflake Posts: 597 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 03, 2013 08:56 PM
And GO!IP: Logged |
peregrine unregistered
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posted March 03, 2013 09:19 PM
but what if one didn't want the open relationship and because of that it never happened? IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 814 From: Registered: Jul 2010
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posted March 03, 2013 09:20 PM
Uranus. IP: Logged |
TaurusInParticles Knowflake Posts: 77 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted March 03, 2013 10:25 PM
The Moon or Venus in Gemini or Aquarius bring polyamory to my mind. Uranus in Libra or Scorpio implies a quirky relationship. Jupiter in Aries, Leo or Scorpio makes me think of lots of sexIP: Logged |
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posted March 03, 2013 10:39 PM
You are trying to give Venus in Aquarius such a bad rap...Aquarius is fixed. Fixed signs don't like change. Aquarius rules the 11th house of friendship...any successful relationship for a Venus in Aquarius is friendship. "My best friend & my lover". Any fixed sign won't like change...mutable signs are infamous for being for being able to be with more than one person but if they have personal aspects to Saturn, they may want to be just with one person that displays certain qualities of their Venus sign. Of course, there are many different considerations to take into place besides the natal chart...morals & upbringing come to mind. IP: Logged |
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posted March 03, 2013 10:42 PM
I'm a very much one man woman with a Gemini moon & Venus Aquarius 😀IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 03, 2013 11:09 PM
I have an Aqua Venus and I could never be in an open relationship.------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 6865 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 03, 2013 11:38 PM
Moon/Venus in Gemini here- and I would never be interested in polyamory. I also have uranus inconjunct them both, and still: nope. Not for me. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 1631 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 04, 2013 12:12 AM
Gemini placements seriously, mixed with libra I think. Maybe Sag moons or mars? For eg, my boss is a fixed sun but my God does he flirt alot, especially with me. It gets abit explicit, and it's all in good fun according to him but he's taken so I personally think it's just inappropriate (not to mention he's the boss so...?). So I usually just laugh it off bc it is funny but still ... At times. A Gemini Venus ex cheated and from what I see, the men with tht placement are just over the top flirtatious.He has Leo sun, Sag moon, Gemini Venus, Libra mars. I have a Libra stellium and Aries rising. IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 2107 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted March 04, 2013 12:24 AM
I have a Gemini Moon and Libra Venus and Jupiter in Scorpio in the 8th. Nope. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 1631 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 04, 2013 12:26 AM
^ isn't that alittle double standard ish if you would be cool with an open one but actually refuse for the guy to be doing the same thing?IP: Logged |
Kerosene unregistered
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posted March 04, 2013 12:27 AM
Moon in venus in gemini. I had an open relationship once because I wanted to try it out for myself. I said to myself I'll probably never have sex with person so I just broke it off. It could of worked thou because he could get sex from else where and I would not have to do anything LMAOOO. Maybe I should given it more time LOLI did try it so thats saying something! IP: Logged |
Kerosene unregistered
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posted March 04, 2013 12:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by Orange:
Forgot to mention - the open relationship concept only applies to me, he is never alliwed to even look at another female specimen.
Do have like lilith in your 7th house or something? LMAO What kinda guy would agree to that thou, where are all these dickless guys hiding thats what I want to know? My lilith Venus/ moon is very interested. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 1631 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 04, 2013 12:38 AM
I have Lilith in 7th house Libra and I don't see the point of an open relationship. Either stay single, serial date and flirt or whatever, or be with someone and be committed. It's pretty straight forward imo.IP: Logged |
Kerosene unregistered
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posted March 04, 2013 12:44 AM
I've had friends who've done it. They have pretty strong relationships. Open relationship has romantic undertones but obviously if someone wants to lead astray it could be done with the partners knowledge and consent. (lets be real we've all been cheated on even if we never found out) If you're too jealous well then hey good luck with monogamy.Anyways the concept is not different from swingers. IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 2107 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted March 04, 2013 12:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Do have like lilith in your 7th house or something? LMAO What kinda guy would agree to that thou, where are all these dickless guys hiding thats what I want to know? M
Yes! Lilith is dead on my Sun and DSC. I dont share :-d
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Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 3088 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 04, 2013 12:50 AM
I'm heavily Uranian/Aquarian and the thought of polyamory absolutely sickens me.Actually, I know a triad (don't hang out with them much, I liked the couple better back when they were normal) and they consist of a Capricorn, Taurus, and a Pisces. But the Capricorn, who started it all, has a Gemini moon. IP: Logged |
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posted March 04, 2013 12:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: Yes! Lilith is dead on my Sun and DSC. I dont share but i want be able to roam. :-di bet my Gem Moon is on your Moon. tickle, tickle....
Whats the degree? IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 2107 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted March 04, 2013 12:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by Haplesschild*: ^ isn't that alittle double standard ish if you would be cool with an open one but actually refuse for the guy to be doing the same thing?
Yes, it is
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Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 3088 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 04, 2013 12:53 AM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: I have an Aqua Venus and I could never be in an open relationship.
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Kerosene unregistered
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posted March 04, 2013 12:58 AM
being closed minded is very saturnian also ruled by aquarius.IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 2107 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted March 04, 2013 01:00 AM
Oh gosh..someone mentioned a TRIAD..IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 3088 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 04, 2013 01:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: being closed minded is very saturnian also ruled by aquarius.
That doesn't strictly speaking, make any actual sense. Aquarius is ruled by Uranus and co-ruled by Saturn. Aquarius is a sign; it doesn't rule anything.
But yes, personally speaking, I don't know if I would attribute it to fixed qualities or Saturn co-rulership or simply being socialized properly. All I know is that the thought of polyamory/swinging makes me wanna vomit all over my keyboard. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9265 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 04, 2013 03:34 AM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: but i always end up with Scorpios who, naturaly, would rather cut their arm than share the s.o. .
this is to true. -
Umm seems like Gemini wins, so far! And all the people who have strong Aqua somewhere, probably have some serious 8th house/Pluto/Saturn stuff going on. Cause usually Aquas are all up for the "different thing" and experimenting.
I think it makes sense that Air signs would (generally) be more comfortable with the concept of open relationships because they can put things into perspective and not get too emotional about things. They have this ability to detach and simply observe, without getting in too deep. IP: Logged |
miranda Knowflake Posts: 31 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 04, 2013 03:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka: I'm heavily Uranian/Aquarian and the thought of polyamory absolutely sickens me.Actually, I know a triad (don't hang out with them much, I liked the couple better back when they were normal) and they consist of a Capricorn, Taurus, and a Pisces. But the Capricorn, who started it all, has a Gemini moon.
Back when they were ... normal? IP: Logged |