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ElizabethO
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posted March 03, 2013 08:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ElizabethO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And GO!

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posted March 03, 2013 09:19 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
but what if one didn't want the open relationship and because of that it never happened?

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posted March 03, 2013 09:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starfairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uranus.

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posted March 03, 2013 10:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusInParticles     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Moon or Venus in Gemini or Aquarius bring polyamory to my mind. Uranus in Libra or Scorpio implies a quirky relationship. Jupiter in Aries, Leo or Scorpio makes me think of lots of sex

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posted March 03, 2013 10:39 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You are trying to give Venus in Aquarius such a bad rap...Aquarius is fixed. Fixed signs don't like change. Aquarius rules the 11th house of friendship...any successful relationship for a Venus in Aquarius is friendship. "My best friend & my lover". Any fixed sign won't like change...mutable signs are infamous for being for being able to be with more than one person but if they have personal aspects to Saturn, they may want to be just with one person that displays certain qualities of their Venus sign. Of course, there are many different considerations to take into place besides the natal chart...morals & upbringing come to mind.

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posted March 03, 2013 10:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a very much one man woman with a Gemini moon & Venus Aquarius 😀

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posted March 03, 2013 11:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have an Aqua Venus and I could never be in an open relationship.

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posted March 03, 2013 11:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon/Venus in Gemini here- and I would never be interested in polyamory. I also have uranus inconjunct them both, and still: nope. Not for me.

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posted March 04, 2013 12:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gemini placements seriously, mixed with libra I think. Maybe Sag moons or mars?
For eg, my boss is a fixed sun but my God does he flirt alot, especially with me. It gets abit explicit, and it's all in good fun according to him but he's taken so I personally think it's just inappropriate (not to mention he's the boss so...?). So I usually just laugh it off bc it is funny but still ... At times. A Gemini Venus ex cheated and from what I see, the men with tht placement are just over the top flirtatious.

He has Leo sun, Sag moon, Gemini Venus, Libra mars.
I have a Libra stellium and Aries rising.

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posted March 04, 2013 12:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a Gemini Moon and Libra Venus and Jupiter in Scorpio in the 8th.

Nope.

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posted March 04, 2013 12:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ isn't that alittle double standard ish if you would be cool with an open one but actually refuse for the guy to be doing the same thing?

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posted March 04, 2013 12:27 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon in venus in gemini.
I had an open relationship once because I wanted to try it out for myself.
I said to myself I'll probably never have sex with person so I just broke it off.
It could of worked thou because he could get sex from else where and I would not have to do anything LMAOOO.
Maybe I should given it more time LOL

I did try it so thats saying something!

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posted March 04, 2013 12:33 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Orange:

Forgot to mention - the open relationship concept only applies to me, he is never alliwed to even look at another female specimen.


Do have like lilith in your 7th house or something? LMAO
What kinda guy would agree to that thou, where are all these dickless guys hiding thats what I want to know?
My lilith Venus/ moon is very interested.

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posted March 04, 2013 12:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Lilith in 7th house Libra and I don't see the point of an open relationship. Either stay single, serial date and flirt or whatever, or be with someone and be committed. It's pretty straight forward imo.

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posted March 04, 2013 12:44 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've had friends who've done it. They have pretty strong relationships. Open relationship has romantic undertones but obviously if someone wants to lead astray it could be done with the partners knowledge and consent.
(lets be real we've all been cheated on even if we never found out)
If you're too jealous well then hey good luck with monogamy.

Anyways the concept is not different from swingers.

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posted March 04, 2013 12:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Do have like lilith in your 7th house or something? LMAO
What kinda guy would agree to that thou, where are all these dickless guys hiding thats what I want to know?
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Yes! Lilith is dead on my Sun and DSC.
I dont share :-d


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posted March 04, 2013 12:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm heavily Uranian/Aquarian and the thought of polyamory absolutely sickens me.

Actually, I know a triad (don't hang out with them much, I liked the couple better back when they were normal) and they consist of a Capricorn, Taurus, and a Pisces. But the Capricorn, who started it all, has a Gemini moon.

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Yes! Lilith is dead on my Sun and DSC.
I dont share but i want be able to roam. :-d

i bet my Gem Moon is on your Moon. tickle, tickle....


Whats the degree?

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posted March 04, 2013 12:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
^ isn't that alittle double standard ish if you would be cool with an open one but actually refuse for the guy to be doing the same thing?


Yes, it is

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posted March 04, 2013 12:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I have an Aqua Venus and I could never be in an open relationship.



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posted March 04, 2013 12:58 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
being closed minded is very saturnian also ruled by aquarius.

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posted March 04, 2013 01:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh gosh..someone mentioned a TRIAD..

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posted March 04, 2013 01:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
being closed minded is very saturnian also ruled by aquarius.


That doesn't strictly speaking, make any actual sense. Aquarius is ruled by Uranus and co-ruled by Saturn. Aquarius is a sign; it doesn't rule anything.

But yes, personally speaking, I don't know if I would attribute it to fixed qualities or Saturn co-rulership or simply being socialized properly. All I know is that the thought of polyamory/swinging makes me wanna vomit all over my keyboard.

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posted March 04, 2013 03:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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but i always end up with Scorpios who, naturaly, would rather cut their arm than share the s.o. .

this is to true.


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Umm seems like Gemini wins, so far!


And all the people who have strong Aqua somewhere, probably have some serious 8th house/Pluto/Saturn stuff going on. Cause usually Aquas are all up for the "different thing" and experimenting.

I think it makes sense that Air signs would (generally) be more comfortable with the concept of open relationships because they can put things into perspective and not get too emotional about things. They have this ability to detach and simply observe, without getting in too deep.

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posted March 04, 2013 03:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for miranda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
I'm heavily Uranian/Aquarian and the thought of polyamory absolutely sickens me.

Actually, I know a triad (don't hang out with them much, I liked the couple better back when they were normal) and they consist of a Capricorn, Taurus, and a Pisces. But the Capricorn, who started it all, has a Gemini moon.


Back when they were ... normal?

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