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Topic: Saggie+Cancer?
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Jessica2407
Knowflake Posts: 857
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 06, 2013 12:14 PM
  
And if you worry about putting your foot in your mouth at crucial moments, just don't speak, bite your tongue or something, let the 'serious moment' pass then you can crack your jokes, the lobster will prolly take the good humor with immense affection  IP: Logged |
Yin
Moderator Posts: 3201
From:
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 06, 2013 12:16 PM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
... the lobster will prolly take the good humor with immense affection
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shybaby187
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: jersey city, nj Usa
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 06, 2013 12:17 PM
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Originally posted by Yin:
I'm not a man, but I think that I can appear as an insensitive jerk to my S/O sometimes. Cancer = sensitive
Sag = foot in the mouth Communication is needed both ways but where a Sag will extend an olive branch 3 seconds after they realize they've said something hurtful, Cancer will sit in the corner and pout FOR HOURS.
This is true in a way. Me being a lady cancer i may take somethings to heart depending on whats said. Now i definitely will come back with a comeback on the spot but will never pout over it. Im very witty so a comeback will never be an issue. I can relate to the foot in mouth syndrome that saggis do u have but after the back and forth ill get over it and laugh with him or her. I do tend to analyze everything from how he/she said it was it intentiona was it sarcastically said get my drift. I personally like to read my horoscope so if u would have asked me to read ur horoscope i would have read it after i came back with a comeback just to get on the same level, i can be a douche too lmao :-P but that's really nothing major. Communication is main key with these two signs the cancer wants more than the flighty sag is willing to give, u have to start off as friends imo qell at least from my relationship with a sag its COMPLICATED IP: Logged |
ail221
Moderator Posts: 3208
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 06, 2013 12:30 PM
Actually I agree I don't pout I just hit them where it hurts. Gemini moon  IP: Logged |
shybaby187
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: jersey city, nj Usa
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 06, 2013 12:43 PM
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Originally posted by ail221:
Actually I agree I don't pout I just hit them where it hurts. Gemini moon
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PhoenixFire
Knowflake Posts: 1322
From: The Crossing
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted March 06, 2013 01:16 PM
This pairing can work with a lot of patience and understanding. I totally get where Jessica is coming from, because my Sag olive branch offerings do not alwayas immediately coax my Crab man out of his shell. Sags tend to bounce back from disagreements quickly, our fires fan intense but burn out fast.My Crab can simmer in hurt/anger for hours on end /: Frankly, I have learned to just give him space during those times and eventually he will peek out of his shell. Pushing the olive branch before he is ready to accept, gets me nowhere and only adds frustration/impatience. General temperment differences require lots of compromise. I am action, change, adventure, direct. He leans towards passiveness, indecision, staying within comfort. I have had to learn to be more patient and feel out his ebbs of feeling, he has learned to try coming out of his box more. IP: Logged |
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