posted March 06, 2013 02:52 AM            

Not a personal reading per se.

Top of the list is this:

Gorgeous friend doing NYT crossword puzzle from local paper

So being a Saggie...just have to ask

"What is your Horoscope prediction"?

She is a Cancer...this won't work..or will it?

We have the same interests but it sounded like a door slamming shut when she said she is a Cancer

posted March 06, 2013 03:22 AM            

Fastest disengagement I've ever experienced, sort of the bottom dropping out so to speak

Guess my spirit just is not into Cancer..not at all, just no.

posted March 06, 2013 04:11 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
So you dont want to date her bc she's a cancer?

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Honestly do not know, we down so to speak it's just I took a page from the female members of the forum and was like:

"..so read your horoscope..then read mine"

And..just wow, my di rokan just went cold as a stone.

Which is very odd for me, normally I "know" how to ask for a date or what have you.

This has never happened to me before, perhaps God/The Universe is telling me:

"..uhm..she is not for you like that..."?

Is there some chemistry issue going on here?

Apologies of course, my posts on this subject seem like a Douche, just really like this girl and have never had the bottom drop out like this.

posted March 06, 2013 11:40 AM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
Maybe because she was doing something more mentally stimulating and you asked her what's her horoscope prediction without even knowing if that's her interest.....

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Ahaha, ail, are you my S/O?

posted March 06, 2013 11:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
Honestly do not know, we down so to speak it's just I took a page from the female members of the forum and was like:

"..so read your horoscope..then read mine"

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ummm, did she read it?

posted March 06, 2013 11:50 AM            

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Originally posted by shybaby187:
Im a cancer female just a quick question what do u mean when u say "the bottom drop" if i stated correctly...you can help me n i can help. Im currently seeing a saggi man for over a year now

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I'm not a man, but I think that I can appear as an insensitive jerk to my S/O sometimes.

Cancer = sensitive
Sag = foot in the mouth

posted March 06, 2013 11:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Yin:

Tact is not Saggies' strong side. We are not as aware or perceptive as Cancers are.

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IMHO, they are clueless of how tactless they are. Pi$$es me off big time.

posted March 06, 2013 11:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
IMHO, they are clueless of how tactless they are. Pi$$es me off big time.

<<<< cancer moon.

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posted March 06, 2013 11:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
I'm not a man, but I think that I can appear as an insensitive jerk to my S/O sometimes.

Cancer = sensitive
Sag = foot in the mouth

Communication is needed both way but where a Sag will extend an olive branch 3 seconds after they realize they've said something hurtful, Cancer will sit in the corner and pout FOR HOURS.

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posted March 06, 2013 11:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
Ahaha, ail, are you my S/O?

Tact is not Saggies' strong side. We are not as aware or perceptive as Cancers are. We can both laugh it off though. And try harder next time.

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Yeah, I have noticed that. If you can laugh it off with one another that's great, comedy seems to be a good connect for both Cancers and Sagittarius to relate to.

posted March 06, 2013 11:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
because the way they will extend that olive branch will be like ''why are you making a mountain out of a molehill? I messed up and am sorry okay?"

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posted March 06, 2013 11:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
We're sorry.

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I know

posted March 06, 2013 11:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
because the way they will extend that olive branch will be like ''why are you making a mountain out of a molehill? I messed up and am sorry okay?"

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posted March 06, 2013 12:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
Um, what are they supposed to say?

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SEE what I mean???

You are clueless!! LOL

posted March 06, 2013 12:01 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
LMFAO Yup. I didn't talk to a sag friend for a entire year until they "got it".

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Oh, man, that's just cruel. We don't get it, we really, really don't! A little talking to goes a long way though.

"Listen, dear, you appear to not be listening or taking this seriously. Please stop for 5 seconds and pay attention. No, you can't talk over me. We can take turns talking. If you can't remember what you wanted to say, write it down."

posted March 06, 2013 12:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
SEE what I mean???

You are clueless!! LOL

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No, I mean it. What ARE we supposed to say?
Besides "sorry" or "please accept my apologies, I didn't mean to hurt you and I'll try harder to think before I speak next time"

???

posted March 06, 2013 12:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Yin:

"Listen, dear, you appear to not be listening or taking this seriously. Please stop for 5 seconds and pay attention. No, you can't talk over me. We can take turns talking. If you can't remember what you wanted to say, write it down."

You have NO IDEA how well we can be trained with stuff like that.

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LOL

I know, that's why sags guys both infuriate me and makes me feel they are really really genuinely trying to understand WHERE they went wrong and one got to appreciate the effort, I mean if they really care about you.

posted March 06, 2013 12:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
No, I mean it. What ARE we supposed to say?
Besides "sorry" or "please accept my apologies, I didn't mean to hurt you and I'll try harder to think before I speak next time"

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BTW, thinking before speaking is SUPER HARD for us, so please, appreciate the effort.

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well you could just say, I never meant to hurt you, please don't say the part " I'll try harder to think before I speak next time'' You'll FAIL right there sista!! It proves that you will be thinking about it in your head but you won't be forthright next time, not so great to hear

posted March 06, 2013 12:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
Oh, man, that's just cruel. We don't get it, we really, really don't! A little talking to goes a long way though.

"Listen, dear, you appear to not be listening or taking this seriously. Please stop for 5 seconds and pay attention. No, you can't talk over me. We can take turns talking. If you can't remember what you wanted to say, write it down."

You have NO IDEA how well we can be trained with stuff like that.

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posted March 06, 2013 12:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
well you could just say, I never meant to hurt you, please don't say the part " I'll try harder to think before I speak next time'' You'll FAIL right there sista!! It proves that you will be thinking about it in your head but you won't be forthright next time, not so great to hear

You could wear a sombre face, and make it sound really serious matching the tone of Mr Cancer showing him that you REALLY feel sorry. You have to make him FEEL it not only words that are spurting out of your mouth cause Mr Cancer will be watching closely if you mean it.

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All excellent points!