posted March 06, 2013 06:14 AM            

it's like i don't even get mystery from them coz i'm not teased enough. u know like they'll just be tight lipped about things. instead of saying "you're gonna have to find out...(wink wink)" it's total omission lol!

i have dated 3. 1 cancer sun/ scorp ascendants and 2 libra sun/ scorp ascendant. i also never know what i do wrong coz of the omission. it's like it runs hot to cold but i don't know why.

posted March 06, 2013 08:03 AM            

True, we´ll never tell you what you did wrong, but you´ll know you DID.

(Seriously though, we´re not the best communicators). I personally have a very dark, sexual soul, but I hide it. That´s the whole point of being mystrious, hiding your mystery! If you saw me you´d think I´m a virgo.

Do the rest of you scorpio rising ladies have a dual personality like me? It´s like one side of me is on fire, totally sexual and crazy, even evil or demonic, while the other side of me is fighting the dark urges and wishes to be selfless, pure and even non-existent in a way, in order to merge with everything nd dissolve into love?

posted March 06, 2013 08:28 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Little Doe:
Descriptions of scorp ascendants are WAyyy exagerated. We´re much more subtile than that. We´ll have a sweet look, with a little edge to it.

True, we´ll never tell you what you did wrong, but you´ll know you DID.

(Seriously though, we´re not the best communicators). I personally have a very dark, sexual soul, but I hide it. That´s the whole point of being mystrious, hiding your mystery! If you saw me you´d think I´m a virgo.

Do the rest of you scorpio rising ladies have a dual personality like me? It´s like one side of me is on fire, totally sexual and crazy, even evil or demonic, while the other side of me is fighting the dark urges and wishes to be selfless, pure and even non-existent in a way, in order to merge with everything nd dissolve into love?

That´s how I feel (But I have 4 other planets in scorpio too, so..)

---

Yes i totally agree with you on this its a facade i put on. I love to be a mystery to some. I will also agree i am bad at communicating especially when it comes to emotions my bestfriend tells me im an avoider, which is true. I dont know why im like this. I do want to be pure innocent at all times so i totally agree with you on this.

posted March 06, 2013 09:05 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by peregrine:
victims lol! my taurus sun stands no chance... no chance at all...

---

I seriously pity men who fall in love with scorpio rising (and sun ad moon and venus) ladies, unless they know how to read minds..

It´s not even like we´re playing mind games on purpose, it just happens automatically.

posted March 06, 2013 09:07 AM            

Shy is So the right word! But I think we hide it (at least I do).

posted March 06, 2013 10:02 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by shybaby187:
I also have venus in gemini so its weird my asc makes me very mysterious i tell people wat they need to know or what they want to kniw my secrets stay with me UNLESS i trust you enough i like it but i hate it at the same time. My sun in cancer wants LOVE LOVE LOVE at all times im very giving and wear my heart on my sleeve and will go the xtra mile put my man on a pedestal type of love most men can not handle ny love. Than there is my venus in gemini who wants the relationship but still wants to be in control not controlled uugh and my moon gosh now that's in virgo haha so the line of innocence and purity i can agree with the lovely lady above. All in all im a loyal woman if you are loyal to me. Now ladies what do u think of men with venus in scorpio or there asc in scorpio?

---

venus in scorpio men are the sweetest! I think they are our best match, but for some reason I attract mars in scorpio men. Their mars conjunction our ascendant makes them attracted maybe, and vice versa.

posted March 06, 2013 10:25 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Piscesmoongirl:
I don't know any scorpio rising men but i know a guy who has his venus in scorpio and is EXACTLY conjunct my ascendant.

---

If his Venus in Scorpio exactly conjuncts his Asc, then he is a Scorpio Rising.

posted March 06, 2013 10:34 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by shybaby187:
I also have venus in gemini so its weird my asc makes me very mysterious i tell people wat they need to know or what they want to kniw my secrets stay with me UNLESS i trust you enough i like it but i hate it at the same time. My sun in cancer wants LOVE LOVE LOVE at all times im very giving and wear my heart on my sleeve and will go the xtra mile put my man on a pedestal type of love most men can not handle ny love. Than there is my venus in gemini who wants the relationship but still wants to be in control not controlled uugh and my moon gosh now that's in virgo haha so the line of innocence and purity i can agree with the lovely lady above. All in all im a loyal woman if you are loyal to me. Now ladies what do u think of men with venus in scorpio or there asc in scorpio?

---

posted March 06, 2013 10:36 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Little Doe:
look awkward in public.

---

posted March 06, 2013 11:00 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Little Doe:

venus in scorpio men are the sweetest! I think they are our best match, but for some reason I attract mars in scorpio men. Their mars conjunction our ascendant makes them attracted maybe, and vice versa.

As for scorpio asc men, I don´t know any, but I suspect that they are the quiet guys who keep in the background and look awkward in public. They would probably make great friends and lovers.

---

posted March 06, 2013 11:02 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by peregrine:
gurl u so wrong!

---

Oh yeah? Well, as I said, I don´t know any. It was just a guess. I´ll take your word for it!

posted March 06, 2013 01:03 PM            

But the games are pretty bad. I´ll play games even with myself to the point where I have no idea what my real intentions are. It´s crazy.

I´m so afraid of rejection that I won´t even admit to myself that I like someone. I´l brainwash myself into thinking that I don´t care or despise them. Untill one day I either go nuts, or meet someone else who I fall harder for and then the brainwashing starts over again.

I´ve been protecting myself from rejection and feeling powerless this way for meny years..

posted March 06, 2013 05:02 PM            

I am.

I just need to be secure and feel like the person sitting across from me is a good soul and not some random nut case that would take my info and use it against me or to hurt me.

Im protective of myself.

I think we do have a dual personality.

I am a lot different with strangers, loved ones and then the guys I love.

I ...honestly change a lot personality and lookwise so that might add to the mystery.

: / We all evolve right? Nothing is ever set in stone.

But I dont find it cute that people have such huge egos that they need to play those dumb games like...*hey babe, look at me Im sexy....muah.* Bull. Just seems insecure and really dumb.

If that is a scorpio rising trait, I dont have it. lol

Oh and about being tight lipped...I always think that I want a guy who understands me. Not everything ought to be explained. Like if a guy is online flirting with a girl and says...*What? Are you upset? Mad? Sad? Did I do something?* I think....*Yes idiot you did.* But I say *No.* And if he presses me more....I just feel like why should I have to tell him that he is being an A ** hole? It defeats the purpose of getting to know the REAL person he is if I keep changing and directing him to be the guy I want. It never works that way. So why do we ever attempt to change another? So I dont see the point in telling him...*Hey yeah, you are being a jerk....maybe you should change.* He should already know that some things are stupid and to not do them.

I basically just keep a silent tally, and when I have had it, I have had it.

I tried that whole....explain to him how to treat you and letting him know all the things that hurt me. Open communication. It didnt work. I would never waste my emotion, time and energy doing that again. All I got was a guy, who eventually didnt give a damn. lol...He would change at first and not do those things but you can never change something unless it is from deep within...and unless you have the interest, desire and awareness that it is not a good trait to have yourself. People only ever change for themselves ....never for someone else. Even if they change it is temporary...

So why bother right? hehe.

I think that is where the tight lipped and secretive nature comes in.

Also...I know that I am more sensitive (Scorpio moon in first house too). But ...also I would think that most scorpios have walls because we are so emotional and when we give we give our whole hearts and purely. So when someone hurts us ...at least for me...it is excruciating. Though....we pretend it doesnt affect us. I cant tell you how many times I have cried post breakup....and for how many hours...but I wont show anyone...not even the guy, family nor friends. I have some pride...hehe

Eventually I do resent the person who hurt me. If a person hurt me in such a vulnerable state and then wanted to get back with me....omg....he would have some major work to do. The second time around it gets harder for the other people to win us over...we are totally on attack mode, have a lower tolerance and stronger walls.

I am not ashamed to say that ....I would like to see a person who hurt me badly suffer the same consequence. I would. Karma? Idk but to know that person might be suffering makes me feel better. That is not a benevolent position I know,...but neither was the other persons stance when they hurt me. So...fair game, I say.

I know that I *can* be manipulative, vengeful, cold-hearted...scary. I can strike hard and make it really painful for the other person. They might think that they are on good terms with me but....no. lol

So if someone was a major enemy, yeah I would give that person hell,....but...even those that have hurt me...so far...I have never hurt or had to strike back with my full potential.

But again I know I can.
I have a cancer sun too. lol

Gosh...I wish I were more libra...aquarius... Life would be light and happier.

Also dont get me wrong if you dont promise us loyalty, genuine love, compassion and are just a random person we chit chat with....we are very light hearted. We dont really care and know from teh get go that it isnt going to take much of our efforts...Just to people, who promise us love, care and loyalty....we expect that you hold your end of the bargain.

So....dont promise us anything and we wont expect anything and then....nothing happens...
Again our bad side probably comes out when our deepest core has been touched and then hurt. I think that goes for any human being though.

And with a scorpio anything you will rarely get to that place of touching their core.

And I think the good aspects though are....if we say we love you...we truly do. If we say we will be loyal we truly will.

We have a lot of care, compassion, love for those we hold dear. We will do almost anything for you.

Yes we are sexual. Yes we go all out romantically. And I think if you have a scorpio friend...those are the best kind. They will not ditch you or ever backstab you.

We are very servant like...when it comes to caring for someone. We would walk barefeet for miles with you on our backs if that made you happy. lol...

posted March 06, 2013 05:17 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by shybaby187:
He is the first scorpio asc ive met i mentioned in my other post "i cant read him" he has this unnerving affect over me not sure if i like it or what. I think in my Lil mind he may be my husband one day lol. Sounds crazy right? :-P

---

This is so true, my Scorpio Venus just can make women act weird.

Just a glance and they'll be like "what?!?!" When I did not mean a single thing by it, just looking around.

Not sure if it holds true for Scorpio influenced women, but the saying is

"A Scorpio will look at you, and you know you are in trouble..and they're not even your parent"