posted March 07, 2013 08:31 PM            

Every single sign and placement is effected by our own free will. Every aspect gives us the ability to learn or utilize strengths to act in loving ways that create love and happiness.

It has been one of the hardest lessons of my life to draw boundaries with men, even after they have acted horribly. I am not one to hold grudges, but I keep forgetting the part about people walking the walk and being willing to show through their actions that they have changed. Now, it is all about actions for me.

The only way to get to this point is to be able to value yourself enough to not allow people to treat you in this manner. Once someone has shown you who they are, and you put up with it, your done. They will do it as long as they can get away with it. I won't do it anymore, and it has taken me until my forties to start to get it.

posted March 07, 2013 08:32 PM            

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Originally posted by rosedl:

If he is treating you in a way that hurts you, it really doesn't matter what the planets say....

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posted March 07, 2013 08:41 PM            

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Originally posted by hikoro:
meh....
i may be biased but here it goes...

he has virgo moon, venus in aries and mars in leo.

i will tell you this, too much work for you.
he is the king and you the knight in shining armor....get what i mean?
find yourself someone who is more likely to do 50/50, that is, someone who will cater to you and you shall cater to.

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Why does it seem like most Venus in Aries men NEED women to chase them? I've dated quite a few with this placement and it was always the same thing, they chase you for a bit then pull back and need you to go after them and when you don't they get all sulky. Are they that insecure lol?

I've actually dated someone with the same Venus/Mars placement and he ALWAYS needed to be on a pedestal (his Moon in Leo probably added to this) and in a way expected me to mother him. That got old quick!

posted March 10, 2013 07:54 PM            

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Originally posted by BlackPhase:
I am twenty three. I am not a very outgoing person and don't really enjoy the company of the majority of people. Makes it difficult for me to meet new people, which i guess is why am hung up.. and the mystery. I can't help but be intrigued.

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posted March 10, 2013 09:30 PM            

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Originally posted by hikoro:
meh....
i may be biased but here it goes...

he has virgo moon, venus in aries and mars in leo.

i will tell you this, too much work for you.
he is the king and you the knight in shining armor....get what i mean?
find yourself someone who is more likely to do 50/50, that is, someone who will cater to you and you shall cater to.

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posted March 10, 2013 09:44 PM            

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Originally posted by andrewinthestars:

you can't judge somebody by where the stars were. Using that logic the poor guy won't have a chance with anybody.

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nope...you have misread.
she has a certain romantic style, he has his own.
he will def. have a chance...but...with someone who will suit his style...
she does not suit his style.

is that clear?

posted March 10, 2013 10:16 PM            

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Originally posted by BlackPhase:
So this is a hopeless pursuit and i should just give up?

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posted March 10, 2013 10:26 PM            

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Originally posted by BlackPhase:
Thank you for being honest. That's what i want to hear. I truly want someone who is as caring as i am, Why am i so compelled to him if we are completely unalike?

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