posted March 14, 2013 07:59 PM            

I know who I am all my flaws/vices and know exactly what I want in this lifetime.
People say 10-15 years are more at my level emotionally.
I may not have life experience but that will come with time.

posted March 14, 2013 08:22 PM            

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Originally posted by mockingbird:
^ Generalizing: When they're good, they're very very good.
When they're bad, they're awful

What's your gut say about him?
That Moon of yours should have something to say on it.

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posted March 14, 2013 11:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Ummm You should find out his birthday.
Maybe even ask him his birth time, You can just bring it up in a conversation.
You can make a synastry chart and really see some pros can cons, things to avoid and look forward to.
I do this to everyone Im seeing.
I don't have experience with older scorpio so I can't really help :P

saturn conjunct descendant shows why you attract older men.
Men who are dominant and reserved,
Very saturnian.

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posted March 15, 2013 12:58 AM            

So I attract older men? This is something I've wondered about for a couple years! Because I know some older men have liked me, and they all were loners and I felt like I made them feel dominant in a positive way.

posted March 15, 2013 01:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:

traditionally saturn in the 7th house always means an older suppose

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Thank you!

posted March 15, 2013 09:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I actually have to disagree not every young person is emotionally immature.
Relationships with my own age group is rare because the lack of maturity.
I can't romantically connect with them because they're still finding themselves.. I don't want to guide my lovers.

I know who I am all my flaws/vices and know exactly what I want in this lifetime.
People say 10-15 years are more at my level emotionally.
I may not have life experience but that will come with time.

This is probably because moon is in trine with saturn.

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Absolutely.

If nothing else, we've all known 50-year-olds who were just saggy adolescents and 19-year-olds who could carry the weight of the world without blinking.
Life experience and one's own attitude and sense of self have a huge impact.

But a given person at 30 has a few more war wounds and scarred-over rough patches than that same person at 20 - and they'll have even more at 40.

I didn't mean to imply that swampys (or any young adult) doesn't have the resources and the right to make their own decisions; but that some of the older responders, knowing the contrast between themselves at 19 and their present selves, worry for the hurt that she might have.
They see their own scars and know that they wouldn't wish them on another - and perhaps worry that a much older man may cause hurt without even necessarily meaning to, simply by forgetting that his own jagged pieces may tear another.

But, all that being said, this is swampys' life, no one else's, and the experiences ahead of her are hers to have.

Swampys, re: Saturn on the Desc: It can also indicate a desire to find stability or maturity, not necessarily someone older (though oftentimes those two things mean that).

Re: Scorpios: This is a broad generalization, but remember that once a Scorpio gives his attention, you have it.
Much like an Aquarian's intellect is a stable force of nature, a Scorpio's passion is a Force. This can have different connotations depending upon his being a Scorpion, an Eagle, or a Pheonix.
If you tempt him, make sure you really want want you'll be getting - because it'll be yours.

posted March 15, 2013 01:08 PM            

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Originally posted by mockingbird:
Swampys, re: Saturn on the Desc: It can also indicate a desire to find stability or maturity, not necessarily someone older (though oftentimes those two things mean that).

Re: Scorpios: This is a broad generalization, but remember that once a Scorpio gives his attention, you have it.
Much like an Aquarian's intellect is a stable force of nature, a Scorpio's passion is a Force. This can have different connotations depending upon his being a Scorpion, an Eagle, or a Pheonix.
If you tempt him, make sure you really want want you'll be getting - because it'll be yours.

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Thank you!

posted March 15, 2013 02:12 PM            

I was a mature 19 year old, but I can say that in the last 3-4 years (I'm a late 89er) I've changed and grew a great deal.

19 year olds are still starting their life, it's probably best to find somebody of a more suitable age.
If you're 23+ then it doesn't matter as much, but you're 19. You only graduated high school a year ago...You have so much to see and do, don't get tied down.