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Topic: Older Scorpio Men (like 38+ years old)
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swampys
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From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
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posted March 14, 2013 12:31 AM
  
I don't know his Moon or anything but I'd like to know as much about older Scorpio men as I can!How well would I be with an older Scorpio man?
 He's very intellectual and inelligent and I greatly admire that! He's obsessive. He's introverted. He approves of being an intellectual. He was staring at me so much and that's how I know he likes me even though I've only seen him once before! He really values privacy and hates when people are late. I think he's somewhat embarrassed by his parents. He likes when people stay on subject. He dislikes loud people. I think he'd be dominant. And I'm on my phone, so sorry about any typos! IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 14, 2013 12:38 AM
Ummm You should find out his birthday.
Maybe even ask him his birth time, You can just bring it up in a conversation.
You can make a synastry chart and really see some pros can cons, things to avoid and look forward to.
I do this to everyone Im seeing.
I don't have experience with older scorpio so I can't really help :P saturn conjunct descendant shows why you attract older men.
Men who are dominant and reserved,
Very saturnian. IP: Logged |
swampys
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posted March 14, 2013 12:41 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Ummm You should find out his birthday.
Maybe even ask him his birth time, You can just bring it up in a conversation.
I do this to everyone Im seeing.
I don't have experience with older scorpio so I can't really help :P saturn conjunct descendant shows why you like older men.
I do it, too!!!!!! I was just too shy around him!  and I don't see him again until next month! 
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Kerosene
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posted March 14, 2013 12:41 AM
Do you chat with him online?
Just find out if you want answers about a potential relation.IP: Logged |
swampys
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posted March 14, 2013 12:43 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Do you chat with him online?
No!  oNly person I don't! IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 14, 2013 12:44 AM
progressed Venus is in your 7th house with your descendant
Its a good time for romance!IP: Logged |
swampys
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posted March 14, 2013 12:46 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
progressed Venus is in your 7th house with your descendant
Its a good time for romance!
How can you tell? :O IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted March 14, 2013 12:48 AM
Hes probably a bit more reserved with his placements.
I am 30. But when i was 21 i dated an older scorpio man. He was 40 at the time lol!
But he was hot.
Leo asc and leo venus.
I pushed him away.
I was going through a pet loss at the time.
My dog had died and my whole world crumbled.
I shut myself off.
By the time i came back he had moved on.
Ended up marrying a beautiful russian woman.
Hes argentienian american.
Has 2 daughters now.
We never saw eachother again.
We were never physically intimate.
We still talk 9 years later.
If i have a problem i can call him and he will always pick up.
We always plan a friendly dinner but it never happens lol!!! ------------------
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Kerosene
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posted March 14, 2013 12:49 AM
Descendent/7th house rules relationships etc. Venus signifies romanace and relationships.He could be very controlling thou because saturn is also with venu you should still get to know him also find out his birth data. IP: Logged |
swampys
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posted March 14, 2013 12:52 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Descendent/7th house rules relationships etc. Venus signifies romanace and relationships.He could be very controlling thou because saturn is also with venu you should still get to know him also find out his birth data.
I will! I think he was trying to impress me tonight! IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted March 14, 2013 01:05 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
Descendent/7th house rules relationships etc. Venus signifies romanace and relationships.He could be very controlling thou because saturn is also with venu you should still get to know him also find out his birth data.
My desc is in capricorn.
Im not attracted to them though.
My venus is in taurus.
My 5th house is in scorpio.
I always attract them lol
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swampys
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posted March 14, 2013 01:13 AM
I didn't find him pushy tonight but he was really asking me questions and trying to figure things out about me. I guess I was taken out of my comfort zone. But do you think based on my natal chart that Scorpio may get answers out of me? Or do they do this with everyone? Really! I'm sorry I don't have his chart! I'm usually never shy enough to ask someone their birthday and birth time... Could making me shy be part of Scorpio? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted March 14, 2013 01:35 AM
Awesome news and I am so glad!!!IP: Logged |
7thGuardian
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posted March 14, 2013 04:15 AM
...O_O! swampys, aren't you like... 16... just don't do something that you'll regret latter (deeply) - I've seen cases like this before... and it never ends well, even the experience in between can be really awful. Trust me on this one - years from now when you'll look back... you'll be like "what was i thinking?!" You're still young - and i don't mean this in a childish way... you do seem more mature for your age - but "in terms of understanding and life experience". If you were around 25+ ...then yes, at that point you might have had your share of experiences with life - and older man like 38+ doesn't make much difference if you're in to that but - don't date someone that could be your father... cause usually that's one of the causes behind this "issue" - your own father not being a real father to you (maybe being absent or some abuse... you know better )... So, don't look for a replacement... a father figure. If you've experienced a deep emotional pain - in time... you'll get to a point when you'll experience the opposite - deep levels of happiness. So, aim for that - don't lower yourself to the gloomy side of life - trying to find happiness in chaos... cause there's very little happiness there - and a lot more pain... IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 14, 2013 04:31 AM
I think she 19 or 20IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted March 14, 2013 05:06 AM
I agree with 7th, here.You're way too young (you can't be older than 19.. your Pluto is like at the end of Scorpio..).
I'm not against age gaps at all, but here it's just too much. You're a teenager and he's a grown-up man.
He'll just use you for his own pleasure and leave you dry.
That's my opinion.
Be careful.
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7thGuardian
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posted March 14, 2013 05:37 AM
5 years from now - you'll change your points of view considerably... 10 years from now you'd barley recognize the one you used to be - a time when the good times from the past can make you nostalgic - while the bad, especially the mistakes - feel like deep scars that are still trying to heal, the bigger the mistakes the deeper the scars. You can't see the mistakes when you're that young - a time when feels more natural to go with the flow than looking on the bigger picture. It's not about intelligence - it's about wisdom... the kind you gain from dealing with life... and we do learn things from experience - from mistakes, but in situation such as this one - it's better to learn from other people's mistakes than your own (seems big enough to be regretful). IP: Logged |
swampys
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posted March 14, 2013 08:23 AM
I'm nineteen! I grew up in an environment around older people. I do not get along well at all with people my own age. I've met someone who has one of the same problems as me in relationships; we both want things to happen really quickly. Also, younger guys are likely to take advantage of me, too, right? I prefer older men not only because, yeah, they can be father figures. But I like someone who can teach me things. He's very intelligent and I'd have a lot to learn from him intellectually. Also, because he values his privacy I didn't want to say this, but I'm pretty sure he's very sexually repressed. He may even be a virgin. I'm waiting until I'm married, and he seems like the kind of person who could respect this and not pressure me. I've been with someone closer to my own age (5 years older than me) and I regretted that much more than being with any of the older men I've been with. We were so incompatible and would argue a lot. He made me feel repressed. He was Leo-Virgo cusp Sun and Aries Moon. Younger guys and I just lack an emotional connection. I feel weird around them. I feel more comfortable about myself around older men. Older men also have a better sense of humor to me. Older men give me security and younger men make me feel guilty for wanting security. IP: Logged |
swampys
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posted March 14, 2013 08:37 AM
This just happened!
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Venusian Moon
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From: Nyc
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posted March 14, 2013 06:37 PM
quote:
Originally posted by swampys:
I didn't find him pushy tonight but he was really asking me questions and trying to figure things out about me. I guess I was taken out of my comfort zone. But do you think based on my natal chart that Scorpio may get answers out of me? Or do they do this with everyone? Really! I'm sorry I don't have his chart! I'm usually never shy enough to ask someone their birthday and birth time... Could making me shy be part of Scorpio?
Doesnt hurt to try. When i had asked the scorpio man for his birthdate he immediately and got excited and said ur gonna do my chart??!!!! Lol
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swampys
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posted March 14, 2013 06:39 PM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Doesnt hurt to try. When i had asked the scorpio man for his birthdate he immediately and got excited and said ur gonna do my chart??!!!! Lol
Really! I ask people their info all the time on OkCupid and they're always like "why?" Some of them know I want to do their chart already because of my profile but they don't believe in astrology and they want to be stubborn cuties. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted March 14, 2013 06:39 PM
Shes 19. Let her make her own choices.------------------
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swampys
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posted March 14, 2013 06:40 PM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Shes 19. Let her make her own choices.
Thank you! I saw my therapist today and asked her about it and she didn't think it was bad! IP: Logged |
Swift Freeze
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posted March 14, 2013 06:50 PM
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Originally posted by swampys:
Thank you! I saw my therapist today and asked her about it and she didn't think it was bad!
Of course not, when the relationship ends, you two will have a lot more to talk about. It is ultimately your choice, and I fully respect and encourage you to make the decision you want to. Just know that people don't reach full emotional maturity until around 30. The reason why older men give off that security and maturity vibe? Because they've been around and done most of the things they want to, discovered who they are. Age is just a number, but I don't understand why you are interested in a super private, sexually repressed, potential virgin. These are not inherently negative things. Personally i'm just not sure this relationship would be healthy for you. Tread carefully. ------------------
Learn lots. Don't judge. Laugh for no reason. Be nice. Seek Happiness. Follow your dreams. IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted March 14, 2013 07:02 PM
swampys - I don't really have any good advice on this one, but know that those who're older and do have advice aren't trying to talk down to you.They've just been there - they've been 19, and now that they're older they wish that they could go back and protect their 19-year-old-that-was.
No matter how mature they were then, they see the person that they were as so much more vulnerable, so much less experienced than they are now.
If nothing else, those over 30 see you and see someone not quite as hardened by Saturn as they. You can only gain experience through your own trials - and you're an adult. Make your decisions as you may.
But know that the advice offered is well considered and well intentioned. ------------------
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