posted March 14, 2013 10:57 PM            

The other guys I liked were most definitely NOT water. I don't really bang with the over-sensitivity of dudes who are in water signs. I just don't get it. I am water through and through but don't see what is up with all the shenanigans that comes with a guy who is in a water sign. Maybe it is just me.

Someone, please make this more than just me talking.

Thanks.

posted March 15, 2013 07:57 AM            

Connecting with other water signs leaves me feeling inundated with water. I'm already sensitive and indecisive enough, no thanks!! xD
>_<

But then there's that rare iccasion where you meet one and you actually connect, and there's a sympathy there that doesn't exist as much with other people. It's happened to me with a few water suns. It's heavenly to feel that much sympathy/empathy for/with someone.

It takes a lot of work to stay in a cheerful mood together and not depress each other with moods and an inability to have a huge sense of humor about everything. That's why I usually connect better with non-water signs. But when you do find a couple water sign people who you do connect with, it's very very nice trust me, because you're both dreamy and sensitive and so similar and finally you feel like someone understands you. <3

posted March 15, 2013 01:16 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I totally understand.

Connecting with other water signs leaves me feeling inundated with water. I'm already sensitive and indecisive enough, no thanks!! xD
>_<

But then there's that rare iccasion where you meet one and you actually connect, and there's a sympathy there that doesn't exist as much with other people. It's happened to me with a few water suns. It's heavenly to feel that much sympathy/empathy for/with someone.

It takes a lot of work to stay in a cheerful mood together and not depress each other with moods and an inability to have a huge sense of humor about everything. That's why I usually connect better with non-water signs. But when you do find a couple water sign people who you do connect with, it's very very nice trust me, because you're both dreamy and sensitive and so similar and finally you feel like someone understands you. <3

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posted March 15, 2013 05:10 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I totally understand.

Connecting with other water signs leaves me feeling inundated with water. I'm already sensitive and indecisive enough, no thanks!! xD
>_<

But then there's that rare iccasion where you meet one and you actually connect, and there's a sympathy there that doesn't exist as much with other people. It's happened to me with a few water suns. It's heavenly to feel that much sympathy/empathy for/with someone.

It takes a lot of work to stay in a cheerful mood together and not depress each other with moods and an inability to have a huge sense of humor about everything. That's why I usually connect better with non-water signs. But when you do find a couple water sign people who you do connect with, it's very very nice trust me, because you're both dreamy and sensitive and so similar and finally you feel like someone understands you. <3

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Oh my... I feel that. And especially in my case with people born on Nov. 10th. I don't know why but it is that specific day that I'm friends with people.

posted March 15, 2013 05:11 PM            

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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
oooh venus is sag and mars in cancer, that must be interesting for you.

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posted March 15, 2013 05:15 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I have a 5 planet Cancer stellium in 11H and like to be around air signs the best. An air sign with a water or earth singleton would be perfect...I have an air singleton..

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posted March 15, 2013 05:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety:
I find scorpios a bit abusive

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I think we most def can be overbearing...
One of my friends has a Cap Moon with a Scorpio Sun... BLAH!!!!!!!!!!! She is so damn overbearing it kills me. I feel bogged down by her completely. She is like a drill sargeant but I don't even think she realizes it.

I have a Pisces moon (29 degrees which is a whole diff story) and it feels like my emotions pivot so often because my Scorpio instincts tell me one thing while my Pisces energy tell me another.

posted March 16, 2013 02:14 PM            

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Originally posted by ELoveCherishEndure:
LOL is it????
I always feel a push/pull no matter what I do. It is like I hate being overly romantic but I like being romantic. It is very funny.

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i have a venus in pisces, mars in sagittarius. i completely understand lol

Just because sagittarius is so physical and love being playful and joking around but cancer is so about serious emotional strength and expression (in my opinion obviously), that i could see it being a difficult combination. How do you feel your mars in cancer expresses itself when combined with such an active venus?

posted March 17, 2013 04:15 PM            

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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
i have a venus in pisces, mars in sagittarius. i completely understand lol

Just because sagittarius is so physical and love being playful and joking around but cancer is so about serious emotional strength and expression (in my opinion obviously), that i could see it being a difficult combination. How do you feel your mars in cancer expresses itself when combined with such an active venus?

Sorry this is off-topic. I can ask in a different thread or something, honestly I'm just curious because I'm crushing on someone with a cancer mars and a venus in gemini. lol

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Sorry for the late answer... I am crushing on someone with a Gemini Mars lol.

posted March 17, 2013 06:17 PM            

Scorpio is a whole different kind of Water.. and it's quite difficult to satisfy a Plutonian gal. It's not easy to find a guy who's strong enough to "measure up". I've seen the same thing happen to several Scorpio women where they would just "eat" someone alive with their passion and intensity lol.

I think Fire signs are more interesting (not personally but generally speaking for Scorpios).

posted March 17, 2013 06:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
ELove, I agree with you and RAS.

Scorpio is a whole different kind of Water.. and it's quite difficult to satisfy a Plutonian gal. It's not easy to find a guy who's strong enough to "measure up". I've seen the same thing happen to several Scorpio women where they would just "eat" someone alive with their passion and intensity lol.

I think Fire signs are more interesting (not personally but generally speaking for Scorpios).

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posted March 17, 2013 09:55 PM            

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Originally posted by ELoveCherishEndure:
Sorry for the late answer... I am crushing on someone with a Gemini Mars lol.

Mars Cancer can be very possessive, pushy, and aggressive. In other words, once you're with the person sexually, it changes everything. Once you lay with them, you want them to be all yours and it is hard to allow them to be with someone else. Like, you value them a little too much sometimes. It can be a challenge. I have a water trine with Sun in Scorpio, Moon in Pisces, and Mars in Cancer so I guess it makes it all but more intense than some people but I think when it comes to the active energies of air in Venus, people with Mars in Cancer have to be very careful not to allow sex to cloud the lover in them. This is a reason why they won't just have sex with just anyone when they're thinking but when they are in their Venus, they can take their flirtiness a bit too far which can cause a lot more harm than good.

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posted March 17, 2013 10:06 PM            

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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
thanks for that. It's nice to hear actually that he has the potential to be aggressive, everything i've read says how passive and non-confrontational they are, and i definitely don't mind a little bit of possessiveness. If you choose to be with someone, then you should have already decided that you full-on want to be with them, or at least that's the way i look at it.

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Freebrainstorms, I agree on the last part and I just want to tell you that the reason that they display passivity more openly is because of the maternal influence of the lunarian Cancer. It is this maternal instinct that can throw off Mars' natural tendency to be naturally aggressive. Again, we VALUE sex and the home. Therefore, when someone tries to devalue either one, we get aggressive. I would say not to take advantage of the aggressive side of this position by being unfaithful EMOTIONALLY. It is most important with a Cancer Mars to be emotionally faithful because it is that emotional faithfulness that leads to commitment for them. We subconsciously seek loyal people in sexual affairs and on the homefront. But, balancing the energies of the air sign and water sign are essential here. If you want to keep his love and faithfulness, entertain him with things that'll stimulate him mentally. Be engaging as he is to you. And also be flexible because of his own flexibility. Just make sure you're careful about having mutual consideration for him because the carefree Venus will be overshadowed by the stormy Mars in Cancer's weakness and duality if you aren't.

posted March 18, 2013 01:23 AM            

however just to confirm, what would be define being emotionally unfaithful as? cheating obvious but i just want to make sure we're on the same page.

posted March 18, 2013 01:31 AM            

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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
thanks! that was SUPER helpful, and made me very optimistic. i don't know that i'm possible of being emotionally unfaithful, i either put everything on the table or nothing at all. my little picsces-affected heart/chart (hehehe) is way too sensitive for anything else, that would tear me up so much that i'd probably be more upset than he would be.
i know i can mentally stimulate him, i'm an aquarius lol

however just to confirm, what would be define being emotionally unfaithful as? cheating obvious but i just want to make sure we're on the same page.

sorry for diverting the thread mods, i didn't mean to but i don't want to stop hehehe

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Piscean energy is good for that lol. What I mean is when you become emotionally unavailable to him. Like, you start talking to another dude more than him. Or not balancing out your life outside of him with time with him. In short, respect emotional boundaries initially but as soon as he opens up, he will open up. There may be tons of emotional baggage so be prepared for it. But do make sure that you are always understanding of him. Or moreso you attempt to be because your love language is much different than his. Right? What are your Mars and Venus?

posted March 18, 2013 05:57 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I have a 5 planet Cancer stellium in 11H and like to be around air signs the best. An air sign with a water or earth singleton would be perfect...I have an air singleton..

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Yeah i have an air singleton...jupiter in gemini and tho im all fire and water except libra rising and the three outer planets, i get along best with air signs. 3 of my close friends are air suns, and the other 3 close friends i have are pisces, leo, and virgo. I am drawn to fire signs but usually find them too self-centered and insensitive. I def like people who are sweet, happy, and people-oriented like air suns.

posted March 18, 2013 06:32 PM            

Even though my two closest friends are Virgos, one has Scorpio and the other cancer moon. Maybe this is because my chart is so water heavy. I would say air is the element I get along with least. Gemini is my least dominant sign and even the house that it is on the cusp of, is intercepted in my chart.

Fire wise I love Leo women and count at least two as good friends. But it's still water signs I feel most "at home" with.

posted March 18, 2013 07:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Maelstrom:
I have generally always bonded more with fellow water signs. The conncection is almost instant, there's an understanding that i dont always feel with the other elements.

Even though my two closest friends are Virgos, one has Scorpio and the other cancer moon. Maybe this is because my chart is so water heavy. I would say air is the element I get along with least. Gemini is my least dominant sign and even the house that it is on the cusp of, is intercepted in my chart.

Fire wise I love Leo women and count at least two as good friends. But it's still water signs I feel most "at home" with.

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