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Topic: Venus in Aries
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SaturnineMoth
Knowflake Posts: 2438
From: Gaea's Omphalos
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 18, 2013 08:54 PM
  
aww - I like them too VIRGO_SAGmoon! =x My 8h does backflips for (most) Ariens, my Venus in Sagittarius adores them~ and it seems (with little exception for possible oob opposition) - even my Scorpion Mars-Pluto enjoyed their fire (spirit)!!! My sun and/or Mercury may have to suffer a bit - but I'd make the sacrifice, long as they were Golden (Crius Chrysomallus) Venusian Rams!!! lol *pout* waaaaant!  It doesn't hurt that I equate the Arien placements to... ahem... impressive stamina, vigor... errr... yeah - spirit!!! <333 IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted March 18, 2013 08:57 PM
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Loooooooooooooool
And why'd you find that funny? IP: Logged |
Odette
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Registered: May 2012
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posted March 18, 2013 08:57 PM
happyaskings - I don't know.. because I attract them like flies and I have high self esteem. But I don't get close to them since I reject them.
starfairy -
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His ego shrank considerably in the time we spent together lol I really let him have it!!!
LOL
The thing is .. I really just can't be bothered with this kind of guy. I feel like they should all be shipped off to some 'chauvinists-only' ...deserted, faraway island --- so I don't have to deal with them at all in my everyday life. I don't feel like letting them have it.. because I don't want to bother with them, but maybe it's better to let them know they're jerks.
I literally walk away from them and pretend they don't exist. My Mars is in Capricorn btw... & Venus in Taurus. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 4122
From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 18, 2013 09:01 PM
^Lmfaooooo! I've been loosely friends with a couple Aries Aphrodite people...and my sister is one! But all three of them are female, so maybe it plays out differently... quote:
12thhouser: And why'd you find that funny?
Why do you ask?
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12thhouser
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posted March 18, 2013 09:01 PM
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Originally posted by anno_lucis:
the thing about aries venus is that it rushes in to love. too deep too quick. it's a little sickly sweet. it's not for everyone. i've the rx and that's my take.
Aries Venus hardly strikes me a leader of the pack lol IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 18, 2013 09:01 PM
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They're pretty innocent and guileless, for whatever they do.
loll seriously? They remind of of saddam hussein (fellow Aries Venus *and* retrograde, not surprisingly). IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 18, 2013 09:03 PM
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all three of them are female, so maybe it plays out differently...
uh huh.. In short: females - feminists
males - chauvinists Both hardcore ^^ IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 4122
From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 18, 2013 09:06 PM
Lmfao!!!! You're frightening me!  I've never been romantically involved with this placement, nor have I had any real experience with males with this placement, so your word over mine!IP: Logged |
12thhouser
Knowflake Posts: 1581
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posted March 18, 2013 09:08 PM
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
^Lmfaooooo! I've been loosely friends with a couple Aries Aphrodite people...and my sister is one! But all three of them are female, so maybe it plays out differently... Why do you ask?
I'm curious. IP: Logged |
Astra
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From: Pluto
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 18, 2013 09:27 PM
I have no idea what an venus in Aries male is like, but as a venus in Aries female, I can tell you that I'm very competitive. I'm stubborn, will pursue a goal for many years until I achieve it, and I can shut off feelings for a person in a nanosecond IF they do something that really ticks me off. I don't fall for someone easily at all, which is weird for a venus in Aries. So far I've been fairly good at figuring out when a man is trying to BS. Men never have to guess what I'm thinking because I'm very upfront about what I want. The problem I often run into in relationships is that I'm NOT clingy. You will not catch me sitting by the phone waiting for a man to call me. This doesn't sit well with men for some reason....at least the ones I've dated. If I'm truly interested in someone, I want to learn as much as possible about them so I can quickly decide whether I can see them as a longterm boyfriend. If you haven't figured it out already, I don't like wasting my time! Being in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship has never appealed to me; I have to truly like them. IP: Logged |
idmv
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 18, 2013 09:58 PM
My bf's has Venus in Aries. I have Venus in Scorpio. I've Aries on my 7th house. We get along well, both very intense and extremely emotional though he's more emotional than I am when it comes to loveIP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 18, 2013 11:38 PM
I have have mars in aries, so I've been with quite a few of venus in aries.
They aren't overly romantic except this this pisces with venus in aries was a sweetheart. IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 3431
From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 19, 2013 12:04 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
OH wow... You're really opening a can of worms with that question... But OK .. Here is a list (for the men with this placement):- being inconsiderate
- being immature
- having no understanding of women
- being entirely unable to see something from another person's perspective
- socially inept
- argumentative and aggressive for no particular reason
- huge ego-mania, bordering on narcissism
- expecting the girl to do all the work in every phase of the relationship
- chauvinistic (although whilst behaving like a complete chauvinist... do NOT expect them to be traditional in other, nice ways.. such as opening doors for you or pulling out seats.. It seems when it comes to those things, they are hardcore feminists)
- sexually - all talk no action (they can sure prance around like they are God's gift to women.. and blow their own horn from here to England.. but when it comes to performance... no thank you!!!)
oh boy really I could go on.. but I just can't stand these guys.. and there's no point. I'll be here all day.
I just stay away from them. They have no respect for women. They do not know how to make a girl feel valued and appreciated.
INCREDIBLY selfish!!!!!
And I am an Aries saying this LOL.. so trust me!!! They *like* me. Even with someone they like and are attracted to, like myself - they're still HUGE jerks... let alone towards girls they are not so attracted to. If their Venus happens to be retrograde or afflicted by an outer planet........ take everything I said and times it by 10 (and add a cherry on top).
LOL!. It's refreshing to hear all of this coming from an Aries. Your list of complaints sounds nearly identical to my list when in comes to some Aries sun or Venuses I've dealt with! Were any of those guys Taurus suns? The only "perfect" Aries Venus I've met, was a Taurus sun male. Like he didnt exhibit ANY of these traits, except for the ego thing. But i dug his way of expressing it. We had our Leo moons exactly conjunct. so that could be why hie didnt annoy me? I think his Taurus influence balanced out his Aries Venus. It's just too bad I'm not ready to date  . He's perf IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 19, 2013 12:10 AM
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Lmfao!!!! You're frightening me! I've never been romantically involved with this placement, nor have I had any real experience with males with this placement, so your word over mine!
The gay ones aren't bad, I've met a lot of people with this placement, they aren't so bad...
If his venus is well aspected than these exaggerated stories should not effect you ahah IP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 1180
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 19, 2013 12:42 AM
My daughter has this placement, along with Aries Mercury, add to that a Scorpio moon, Scorpio Mars and a Scorpio Ascendant. Don't cross her!IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 4122
From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 19, 2013 12:46 AM
^Omg little warrior woman.  IP: Logged |
anno_lucis
Knowflake Posts: 994
From: the atman
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 19, 2013 04:49 AM
i have 2 exes with aries venus, one taurus sun, one pisces sun, neither of them were the knuckle dragging dungeon breed being described by odette. well ok, maybe the taurus lol. both of them were perfectly capable of forfilling the venus in virgo list of requirements though. quote:
Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Aries Venus hardly strikes me a leader of the pack lol
when did i say it was? if anything it's inherently backwards, one does not approach love with a sword, just as one does not approach war with a bunch of flowers  IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted March 19, 2013 08:59 AM
I think we're awesome  I'm a female of the breed though.. Pisces Sun, Aries Venus. I know what I want, I know how to get it, and I usually do. I'm not fickle in love, I don't fall in and out quickly.. I do however need excitement, adventure, and probably what most would consider an extravagant amount of attention. But I give it back 10-fold. I can also be very stubborn and egotistical. I don't get offended the way a textbook Pisces does though, by running away and hiding. I get arrogant and aloof. Ignoring a person while making merry with EVERYONE else around me.. Sometimes I wish I could disown my Sun sign. Other times I think it's my saving grace where tact is needed. In love/romance I'm very upbeat and playful and definitely not afraid of telling the object of my affection what I'm after I think an Aries Venus would suit your Sag moon beautifully I actually have this trine with a Leo Sun/Sag Moon friend of mine and it's bliss between us ------------------
Leo ASC, Pis Sun, Tau moon IP: Logged |
JoJo
Knowflake Posts: 548
From: West Linn, OR
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 19, 2013 10:08 AM
I'm a female Pisces sun with Aries Venus and Scorpio Mars. I also have Lilith conjunct my MC and Venus.I agree with everything Astra and LionFish said about us Venus Aries ladies. Can you hear us roar? We're hot (like fire), independent, strong, and sexy. We can go from being one of the boys with a pony tail pulled through a ball cap to rocking a little black dress in heels without blinking an eye. I love my Aries Venus because it's larger than life and so much fun. Here are a couple good links that I think describe Aries Venus quite well: http://jotracey.com.au/?tag=woman-with-venus-in-aries http://cristinalaird.wordpress.com/2012/02/08/venus-in-aries-2012/ IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted March 19, 2013 10:33 AM
This Pisces with Aries venus I know is all talk... he flirts with me at every occasion, but no action.IP: Logged |
SoStellarOne
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From: Charleston,SC, US
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 19, 2013 05:06 PM
I think someone mentioned that Venus in Aries are "sickly sweet"? Oh yes, I experienced that recently. This guy on my job has Venus and Mars in Aries. Mind you, I have 4 planets in Pisces and I cannot seem to take all that sweetness. It's like drinking a glass of Kool-Aid with a whole bag of sugar used to sweetened one glass. OMG! I had to tell him to dial it back about 9 notches because I cannot take all of that at once. It's too overwhelming. It's hard being friends with someone like that, though. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 19, 2013 05:41 PM
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has Venus and Mars in Aries.
That is the only exception to what I have said. I've mentioned this on LL before. For whatever reason when they have *both* Venus and Mars in Aries, specially when conjunct by degree... they are completely different.
It could be because Mars is dignified in Aries - so it makes them more confident and reliable. IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted March 19, 2013 05:58 PM
Do you have a link to your earlier explanations, remember the thread(s), or are you willing to lay it out again?/curious ------------------
If I've included this sig, it's because I'm posting from a mobile device.
Please excuse all outrageous typos and confusing auto-corrects. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
Moderator Posts: 2427
From: PA, USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 19, 2013 09:30 PM
As a Scorpio Venus I have...quite the mixed feelings about this Venus. On the one hand, I appreciate the daring, passionate and intensely forthright approach to love and sex this Venus has because it's like me in the sense that often sooner vs. later we want to dive right in vs. just wallow around with useless flirtations. Only thing that rubs me the wrong way big time is the ego-shallow function of it. They seem to focus more on the foundation of the self in love unless other aspects point to a different approach. Meaning, they might become self-inflated and not want the deep bonding experience with the S.O. that my Venus desires when in love or with someone else. I do know an Aries Venus like this and it seems they are very forthright in love but not too concerned with spiritual bonding which is just a must for me. Fire is fun but, too much and it becomes a self-centered mess that leaves me deep side feeling shunned and neglected, also ****** off. IP: Logged |
deepsea
Newflake Posts: 13
From: ocean deep
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted March 20, 2013 02:23 PM
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Originally posted by VIRGO_SAGmoon:
I want one. What is your input?
I’m a Pisces with Venus, Mars, and Mercury in Aries. I’m very stubborn, very considerate, I’m very upfront, i hate BS, I don’t say sweet things unless I mean it. I can be very sweet and need fairness in relationship (Moon in Libra). When i dont get that fairness, I will be very self-centered. When I don’t like you, or something that you said, i can be really harsh. you’ll know it. I don’t put on diff face, I just ignore you. Sometimes i could say something impulsively, then regret later. I hate my Mars and Mercury in Aries. When I’m with one guy, I’m very loyal and expect the same from my partner. But cross me once, I can burn the whole relationship. It’s done. Kaput. I’m very playful, need excitement, adventure in relationship. I would do anything to make it more vibrant if I feel the relationship’s gone flat.
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