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Topic: Venus in Sagittarius and commitment issues ?
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Plutonic Capricorn Knowflake Posts: 176 From: Quirky Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 05, 2013 07:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by SilverFeather: So guys, new updates I'm currently dating another Sag Venus/Mars guy and things look good so far.
ewa lmao SF haha, you are right.. two venus in sag works well.. a venus in sag with a venus in a water sign doesnt work? unless the latter has moon or other personal planets in sag. its really hard for me to go further than the initial dating if i find out that the girl dont have ''sagittarian'' interest. so yeah, sagittarius or 9th house and aries is important to me. i wonder how it would be like if i met someone with venus jupiter neptune in gemini 9th house, since mine are in sagittarius 3rd house. and notice Aries in the word ''sagittARIAN'' just like in ''librARIES'', signs which appeal to me naturally. IP: Logged |
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 994 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 05, 2013 07:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn: ewa lmao SF haha, you are right.. two venus in sag works well.. a venus in sag with a venus in a water sign doesnt work? unless the latter has moon or other personal planets in sag. its really hard for me to go further than the initial dating if i find out that the girl dont have ''sagittarian'' interest. so yeah, sagittarius or 9th house and aries is important to me. i wonder how it would be like if i met someone with venus jupiter neptune in gemini 9th house, since mine are in sagittarius 3rd house. and notice Aries in the word ''sagittARIAN'' just like in ''librARIES'', signs which appeal to me naturally.
Since we share the same Venus sign/house placement, I would like to make you know that I met this Sag guy I'm dating the very day Transiting Venus conjuncted my Natal Jupiter EXACT so watch out for that transit. Btw, he is a fire/Earth mixture. those are his main placements : Ascendant in Virgo Sun in Sag Moon in Virgo Mars and Venus in Sag Mercury, Pluto and Jupiter in Scorpio IP: Logged |
Plutonic Capricorn Knowflake Posts: 176 From: Quirky Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 05, 2013 07:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by SilverFeather: Since we share the same Venus sign/house placement, I would like to make you know that I met this Sag guy I'm dating the very day Transiting Venus conjuncted my Natal Jupiter EXACT so watch out for that transit.Btw, he is a fire/Earth mixture. those are his main placements : Ascendant in Virgo Sun in Sag Moon in Virgo Mars and Venus in Sag Mercury, Pluto and Jupiter in Scorpio
i dont really pay attention on transits. am not that really aquainted with astrology on that matter. when or how often do such a transit you talk about occurs? IP: Logged |
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 994 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 05, 2013 08:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn: i dont really pay attention on transits. am not that really aquainted with astrology on that matter. when or how often do such a transit you talk about occurs?
This transit is quick, it lasts from one to two days. Watch out for your Venus transits specially conjunctions to personal planets or the rulers of your 7th House, 5th House, even the 8th in some cases. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 5703 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 05, 2013 09:25 AM
I always really like Venus in Sag or Venus in Scorpio men.I think the key to winning Sag's hearts is moving very slow and not putting pressure on them, which guys tend to do because they're hunters and they want to go in for the kill when they know what they want. However, I've concluded you have to be pretty secure with being by yourself for awhile while you get to know them. When they trust you don't need them, they start giving more of themselves to you. IP: Logged |
Lily Knowflake Posts: 178 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 05, 2013 10:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by SilverFeather: It's often said that a woman's life partner is reflected through her chart by certain indicators which are mainly : - SUN ( represents the husband for a woman) - Venus - FIFTH HOUSE - SEVENTH HOUSE - JUNO - MARS - North NodeOkay, I'm going to see what I will end up with : - SUN : it's in Sagittarius in third house - VENUS : Also Sag in third House - Fifth House : ruled by Saturn - Seventh House : ruled by Neptune - Juno : in Libra second House - Mars : in Sagittarius 4th House - N.Node : in Sagittarius 3rth House. So, I'm going to end up with a well-off intellectual Sagittarius with some Saturnian/Neptunian traits. now go figure ..
Without seeing your chart, you may want to try a gem person. You have a lot in the 3 rd house so a gem might be perfect for you. They're usually pretty interesting but not too claustrophobic.
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 5703 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 05, 2013 10:51 PM
SilverFeather, in traditional astrology Jupiter can also represent a woman's husband.  IP: Logged |
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 994 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 06, 2013 10:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: SilverFeather, in traditional astrology Jupiter can also represent a woman's husband. 
I know, also in Vedic, same concept. I have Natal Jupiter in Scorpio,ruler of my entire Sag Stellium. IP: Logged |
Lianee Knowflake Posts: 221 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 06, 2013 11:21 AM
I had a really close friend (male) with this and sag mars and he actually wants to have wife, kids and all of that, he ain't commitment phobic at all, maybe it's his libra/taurus thing but still...IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 5703 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 06, 2013 11:30 AM
^ Exactly. I wanna see a chart. I feel the same way at times although it got better as I matured. A lot of it is a fear of trusting in someone, and not being sure I want what I have once I have it. IP: Logged |
Tofu addict Knowflake Posts: 401 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 06, 2013 01:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I always really like Venus in Sag or Venus in Scorpio men.I think the key to winning Sag's hearts is moving very slow and not putting pressure on them, which guys tend to do because they're hunters and they want to go in for the kill when they know what they want. However, I've concluded you have to be pretty secure with being by yourself for awhile while you get to know them. When they trust you don't need them, they start giving more of themselves to you.
Great insight, it opened my eyes.Thanks
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 278 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 06, 2013 02:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by SilverFeather: Wow ! that's a lot of Sagittarius in there  Here are my placement :Ascendant in Virgo Sun in Sagittarius in 3rd House Moon in Libra in 2nd House Mercury in Sagittarius in 3rd House Venus in Sagittarius in 3rd House Mars in Sagittarius in 4th House Saturn in Aquarius in 6th House Neptune in Capricorn in 4th House Uranus in Capricorn in 4th House Pluto in Scorpio in 3rd House Jupiter in Scorpio in 2nd House North Node in Sagittarius in 3rd House I do have a very busy 3rd house apparently 
I think a gemini or aquarius influenced person would be good for you... a gemini sun would definitely appeal to your 3rd house placements, and you know - the opposite attracts! And your aqua saturn would be conjunct someone with aqua sun...it would be nice too... I know many sagittarius who didn't seem to have nice relationships until they found an aquarius who just completely made their heart melt...have you ever been interested in an aqua? I think a taurus is like the WORST sign you could have dated, no wonder why this didn't work... many people says that sun-sign combination isn't anything, but I really think it is important that the sun signs can get along... sags can be ok with virgos and pisces, but not taurus and capricorn, I've never seen this working out between anyone IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1114 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted October 06, 2013 05:53 PM
Venus in sags are a nightmare.IP: Logged |
Plutonic Capricorn Knowflake Posts: 176 From: Quirky Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 07, 2013 04:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Venusian Moon: Venus in sags are a nightmare.
why would you find so in your experience?
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Plutonic Capricorn Knowflake Posts: 176 From: Quirky Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 07, 2013 04:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I always really like Venus in Sag or Venus in Scorpio men.I think the key to winning Sag's hearts is moving very slow and not putting pressure on them, which guys tend to do because they're hunters and they want to go in for the kill when they know what they want. However, I've concluded you have to be pretty secure with being by yourself for awhile while you get to know them. When they trust you don't need them, they start giving more of themselves to you.
what makes you always like venus sag? IP: Logged |
Plutonic Capricorn Knowflake Posts: 176 From: Quirky Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 07, 2013 05:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by SilverFeather: This transit is quick, it lasts from one to two days. Watch out for your Venus transits specially conjunctions to personal planets or the rulers of your 7th House, 5th House, even the 8th in some cases.
you know ive no clue what that means but thanks. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 5703 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 07, 2013 05:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn: what makes you always like venus sag?
I just click with them honestly. I don't even know they're Venus in Sag 'til a lot later on. I like that they make me feel important without sending out a "pressure" vibe. And they're funny, and we tend to like the same things. And for some reason the way they "love" is very attractive to me. They value friendship as I do too and can talk about anything, without judgment. It's funny because people with Venus in Aquarius always really like me, and I consider the signs Aquarius and Sagittarius twin / best friend signs, but while Venus in Aquarius "chases" me, I tend to chase Venus in Sag. Oh well. Still like 'em. Oh, I also have Venus in Aries. In the 11th house. IP: Logged |
Plutonic Capricorn Knowflake Posts: 176 From: Quirky Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 07, 2013 05:59 PM
im a venus sag, so r u going to chase me? lmao. look, you are right about friendship, i even value this much more in the relationship. cant stand when the relationship gets formal. r u a arian woman?
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I just click with them honestly. I don't even know they're Venus in Sag 'til a lot later on. I like that they make me feel important without sending out a "pressure" vibe. And they're funny, and we tend to like the same things. And for some reason the way they "love" is very attractive to me. They value friendship as I do too and can talk about anything, without judgment. It's funny because people with Venus in Aquarius always really like me, and I consider the signs Aquarius and Sagittarius twin / best friend signs, but while Venus in Aquarius "chases" me, I tend to chase Venus in Sag. Oh well. Still like 'em. Oh, I also have Venus in Aries. In the 11th house.
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 5703 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 07, 2013 06:15 PM
^ Aha and this is where me and Sags "clash" so to speak. I've grown into a straightforward / serious personality and sometimes find them too lighthearted (I have a Taurus Moon. Trine. Saturn.)but yeah I am. Sun, Mercury, and Venus in Aries. Gemini ASC.IP: Logged |
Plutonic Capricorn Knowflake Posts: 176 From: Quirky Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 07, 2013 06:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: ^ Aha and this is where me and Sags "clash" so to speak. I've grown into a straightforward / serious personality and sometimes find them too lighthearted (I have a Taurus Moon. Trine. Saturn.)but yeah I am. Sun, Mercury, and Venus in Aries. Gemini ASC.
thats alotta aries placements you got there and you talk about lighthearted? you are generally for may guys probably hard to handle in relationship but great fun for friendship. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 5703 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 07, 2013 06:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn: thats alotta aries placements you got there and you talk about lighthearted? you are generally for may guys probably hard to handle in relationship but great fun for friendship.
Lol! Actually that's very true. I AM lighthearted, but in relationships with Sags as much as I try to play the "We're just friends, so I'm going to treat you like a friend" role, I get possessive over them. Especially when the consistency starts to veer off, it drives me nuts! But they are forgiving and I need that in a partner / friend IP: Logged |
fireopal09 Knowflake Posts: 92 From: Dallas,TX, Us Registered: Oct 2010
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posted October 07, 2013 07:09 PM
Venus Sagittarius at 0 degree conjunct Scorpio IC & Sagittarian Neptune. Neptune squares my 7H Pisces which opposes my Virgo Asc. Oh, my Venus sextiles my 5H Aquarian Jupiter. THEN I have a 2H Libra Sun- Uranus conjuction. I UNDERSTAND. ------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST IP: Logged |
Faith Moderator Posts: 5805 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 07, 2013 09:24 PM
@hannarama, I just stumbled on an article the other day about a study that gave scientific proof astrology. The researchers took over a thousand celebrity couples and analyzed their relationships for patterns that show why they stayed together so long...Venus trine sun was the top indicator for a couples' longevity. It happened so frequently it couldn't have been random, it was statistically very significant. I think 73% of the couples had sun trine Venus. I've been thinking about it because my Sag Venus is tightly trine my Leo husband's sun, his Virgo Venus is loosely trine my Cap sun (9 degrees.) Anyway, according to that study it is probable that Sag Venus will like your Aries sun...sounds like they do...astrology proves consistent once again.  Edit: Found the article! http://astrologynewsservice.com/articles/unique-study-links-venus-to-romantic-choices-people-make/
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 5703 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 07, 2013 10:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: @hannarama, I just stumbled on an article the other day about a study that gave scientific proof astrology. The researchers took over a thousand celebrity couples and analyzed their relationships for patterns that show why they stayed together so long...Venus trine sun was the top indicator for a couples' longevity. It happened so frequently it couldn't have been random, it was statistically very significant. I think 73% of the couples had sun trine Venus. I've been thinking about it because my Sag Venus is tightly trine my Leo husband's sun, his Virgo Venus is loosely trine my Cap sun (9 degrees.) Anyway, according to that study it is probable that Sag Venus will like your Aries sun...sounds like they do...astrology proves consistent once again.  Edit: Found the article! http://astrologynewsservice.com/articles/unique-study-links-venus-to-romanti c-choices-people-make/
Warm fuzzies all over I just love Venus in Sags. I don't mind Sun Sags either but I think I like November Sags better than December ones. IP: Logged |
Faith Moderator Posts: 5805 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 07, 2013 10:37 PM
Good luck with the Sag Venus guys!I see Sag Venus is not universally loved, to say the least so it makes me happy that you're a fan. I never dated a Sag sun guy, always thought they were just plain silly, but I have new respect for them now, after I'm married and it's too late to try dating one. Figures. IP: Logged |