posted March 23, 2013 04:35 PM            

I've been friends with someone of nearly every sign (though not a balanced lot) but I don't have an noticeably extreme gaggle of one sign that likes me or has liked me in my life.

posted March 23, 2013 05:11 PM            

Anyway, I think the fact that you are an Aries, and therefore like the chase, definitely plays a part (just like you said).

posted March 23, 2013 05:15 PM            

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Originally posted by starfairy:

Do you think you're oblivious, though? Like Odette said, perhaps you don't read signals well? Maybe as an Aries, you expect a very direct, aggressive approach from men, whereas lots of men aren't as direct?

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I think you're absolutely right about the 8th house. The 8th house should simply be described as people that get under our skin, not necessarily ones we're devoted to.

posted March 23, 2013 05:45 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I think you're absolutely right about the 8th house. The 8th house should simply be described as people that get under our skin, not necessarily ones we're devoted to.

And yes I think you're right, but it ****** me off because how many signals did I miss? How many opportunities did I have that I just didn't realize they were there? I joke that for me to realize a man is interested he would have to club me over the head and drag me to his cave. The only thing is I'm half-joking.

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Oh yeah, check me in to the 8th house hotel! Yup, Sagittarius is on my 8th house cusp, and I go buck wild if their n.Sun or n.Moon lands in my 8th.

posted March 23, 2013 06:01 PM            

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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
Its not just an Aries thing, I have had a hard time in the past noticing if a guy was attracted to me or not. If they werent up front with me I just assumed there was no attraction on their end. I have Aqua in 8th house, and its usually Aqua men that expressed the least interest in me and vice versa...its not that I don't like them, its just they are very hard to read people, and that frustrates me.

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posted March 23, 2013 06:03 PM            

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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
Oh yeah, check me in to the 8th house hotel! Yup, Sagittarius is on my 8th house cusp, and I go buck wild if their n.Sun or n.Moon lands in my 8th.

Like you, I'm Aires too, and yup! I can't read a signal from a guy to save my life. They have to be direct and probably clubbing me over the head would help a little too. Maybe it's just an Aries thing? We're not traditionally good with ambiguity.

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LOL but wouldn't all Sag suns or moons end up in your 8th house if Sag rules ir?

posted March 23, 2013 06:08 PM            

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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
You are so right about the Aqua guys. They're almost impressionistic in their communication, and I can't tell if they're interested or not. Thing is, so many of them (not all!) seem to figure if you can't pick up their signals, then you're not interested. But their signals are soooo hard to read!! What's' a girl to do??

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posted March 23, 2013 06:14 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
LOL but wouldn't all Sag suns or moons end up in your 8th house if Sag rules ir?

I wonder if that's because Sun in Aries give WOMEN a more masculine mindset, and so when we're associating with guys we come off more like a friend or they see us as friends and therefore think we know them better than we do and we would pick up on their interest sooner? Or because we think more along the terms of how men think it's the same affect as two negatives or two positives, you know what I mean? Parallel instead of intersecting like X and Y are supposed to do.

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Yup! A lot of Sag Suns and Moons fall into my 8th. I'm not attracted to all of them, but it seems more often than not to get my antenna up at least.

posted March 23, 2013 06:19 PM            

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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
Yup! A lot of Sag Suns and Moons fall into my 8th. I'm not attracted to all of them, but it seems more often than not to get my antenna up at least.

Yeah, I don't know what it is, but I get what you're saying. We're too much like them, so we don't get it when they treat us like they would other women. We're not like other women, we're Aries women. We don't usually fit the girly-girl mold. Or something like that! Gosh, I don't know what you do to get around it. My ex-Aries boyfriend had no problem at all getting across to me when he was interested. Maybe stick with other Aries?

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Maybe. I met a Leo with Aries rising and I feel like he'd be the most direct about his interest, but he had a Libra moon and I still couldn't tell if he was just analyzing me, or interested! He wasn't sweet or anything but we had a lottttt in common and he was asking me if I was going to keep talking to an a-hole that was upsetting me. He was really sweet and seemed like he genuinely cared about my problem. However, he hasn't kept up contact so I'm like "Okay, guess not." Shrug.

There was an Aries guy with Sag rising who I thought liked me but he always completely drops me once he gets a new girlfriend, so I guess I must be a back burner girl.

Hmm. Just noticed the fire-fire patter! And one of my best friends is a Sag ASC with Aries Sun and Aquarius moon!!!

posted March 23, 2013 06:28 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Aquas are not subtle , atleast im not.

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Oooh! Ok, help me out, then. By the way, I did stress in my post that not *all* Aquas are subtle!

Ok, so, there was this Aqua who was kind of subtle, but there was just enough there for me to tell he was interested. Well, through a bunch of other confusing signals, we wound up not getting each other's info. Then I saw him, but he didn't know I saw him. I saw him watching me from a window from his office. I thought that was a good sign, and there was an event I knew he was going to be at. I went there, hoping to set things straight. He very clearly wanted nothing at all to do with me. Fine. I left it at that.

Then another time, I saw him while I was in my car. He didn't recognize me at first, and was super-nice. Until he saw it was me. He was so shocked, he tripped and fell in front of my car. Frankly, after the way he treated me at the event, I didn't get out of my car to help him, but I did stay to make sure he was all right. After he got up and it was clear he was fine, he started to come to my car. Scared the BEJESUS out of me! He looked SO mad, that I panicked, and took off.

Months later, I saw him again. It was at his office window, and I could see him watching me. By the way, his offices are in an area I have to routinely walk past. I've walked past his offices dozens of times, but he never saw me. Suddenly, he started to see me, and it was clear he was looking at me from the window. One day, I turned right in front of the window and went the other way. I did that on purpose, just to make sure he was looking, because with an Aqua, I JUST HAD NO IDEA AT ALL IF HE WAS TRULY LOOKING AT ME OR NOT!

Okay, so, I turned, and he was watching me. I knew for sure then that he could see me from the window. The next time I went by, I was all set to wave, and make some sort of contact. Instead, when he saw me, he got all disgusted, and turned his back at the window, that sort of thing. Agggghhh!!!

Now see, this is what I mean. He could have done something--ANYTHING--earlier at that window. He could have waved, tapped on the glass, opened the window and called out. SOMETHING!! Instead, he stood there, just staring down at me, and I had NO CLUE if it was good, or bad! I had to do something in my own mind to sort it out, but I guess he took that the wrong way, and now he's all ****** off. What is UP with THAT???

posted March 23, 2013 06:33 PM            

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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
He didn't recognize me at first, and was super-nice. Until he saw it was me. He was so shocked, he tripped and fell in front of my car. Frankly, after the way he treated me at the event, I didn't get out of my car to help him, but I did stay to make sure he was all right. After he got up and it was clear he was fine, he started to come to my car. Scared the BEJESUS out of me! He looked SO mad, that I panicked, and took off.

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OMG ahahahhaahahaha!

posted March 23, 2013 06:36 PM            

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Originally posted by starfairy:
OMG ahahahhaahahaha!

That's hilarious. Right out of a movie.

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Oh, yeah, it was cute!

Really, if it had been anyone else, I would have jumped out of my car to help, but after the way he was so angry earlier, I just didn't dare. I didn't think he wanted my help.

posted March 23, 2013 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
sounds like a psycho. where do you L.L women meet these freaks? lol

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posted March 23, 2013 06:40 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
So people are always talking about "This and this sign is really attracted to me." But I can only say that confidently about one sign (Leos.) Everyone else in my life I feel I've been attracted to, and that I've found them. Is this because I'm an Aries or I have Mercury in Aries so I look at everything as a chase? What are other Aries opinions on this?

In case the above post was confusing I'm basically saying I don't attract anything to me. I more so am the one attracted and go towards what I want and like and wondered if other Aries felt the same way.

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I don't do anything by sun signs... some people have stronger ASC or Moons. Unless the sun sign is exceptionally strong... it's just one of many influences for a person. For instance I am Aries rising, much more than I am Aquarius sun.