posted March 26, 2013 08:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Hi Lunae,

Your 5th house says you are attracted to sociable, charming guys who are also emotional, intense, and direct. This is in the beginning stages of a relationship especially. Guys like this are the first to catch your attention.

Libra is the sign on your 5th house cusp also ruled by Venus in Libra in the 4th house. Libra energy tends to be mellow and easygoing, but… You also have a Pluto/Mars/Sun all conjunct in Scorpio also in the 5th house… Some raw intensity mixed in with the charm would be appreciated and admired by you.

Your 7th house says you like guy who are opinionated, idealistic, positive, unafraid to be different, fun, dreamy, and compassionate, as well as practical, together, and realistic for the most part. This sounds like a contradiction but your 7th house itself is a contradiction, and sometimes people are too. The type of person you end up with will probably embody this type of contradiction.

Having Sagittarius on the 7th house cusp, plus crazy creative planets like Neptune and Uranus in the 7th house makes you attracted to the dreamy, innovative, crazy, fun types…. While your Dsc ruler Jupiter is in the earth sign Virgo in the 3rd house, so you want a mate who is also practical and responsible, with a sharp mind, and good communicative abilities. A large amount of Capricorn falls into your 7th house, adding to the need for solidarity in your relationships.

Your 8th house says that in the intimate, private sides of your relationships, you need stability, trustworthiness, and material support from a partner. This urge is very strong in you because Capricorn is on the 8th house cusp and it’s ruler Saturn in Aquarius is also in the 8th house. You crave a type of firm, steadiness from a partner, and also someone who will treat you fairly, be a good friend to you when you need it, and who will respect your privacy.

Having the 8th house ruler in Aquarius in the 8th means that you very much value someone who you can privately confide in who is friendly and open towards you, and doesn’t judge you for your personal weirdness. Your chart shows you are highly emotional, so you also appreciate a mate who can offer you an objective, non-biased observation of things (as long as the they are also understanding towards you).

In terms of synastry, Venus rules your 5th house, Jupiter rulers your 7th house, and Saturn rules your 8th house…. So there’s likely to be fireworks in the chemistry department when a love interest aspects your Venus, Jupiter, or Saturn.

Libra, Sagittarius, and Capricorn are on your 5th, 7th, and 8th, houses. So look at the 9th house for more details on what you need in a partner, and the 10th house for what you need in terms of the private intimacy that you have with that partner. With Libra on the 5th house cusp, the 7th house shows more about what you find romantically exciting, but since we’re going to be looking at the 7th house anyway in terms of official partnership/ marriage and affectionate liking there’s no need to rehash all of that. Lets just say that Libra (which rules the 7th house) on the house of romance means that you tend to also fall in love with the type of person that you’d want to partner with… This might sound obvious but with some it actually isn’t.

Your secondary 7th house is the 9th house (because your Sag Dsc rules the 9th house). You have Aquarius on the 8th house cusp ruled by Uranus in Capricorn… Again, a friendly nature and a realistic outlook in a love interest make you feel secure, and willing to commit to them.

Your secondary 8th house is the 10th house (because of the your Cap 8th house cusp rules the 10th house). You have Pisces on the 10th house cusp ruled by Neptune in Capricorn. This reinforces that along with the firmness and objectivity of your original Cap/Aqua 8th house, you also need a streak of compassionate understanding, and to be able to feel your partner’s real outpouring of love for you.

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WOW. Just wow! This is all SO accurate! Thank you so much, Lotis! *Bow* *Salute*

posted March 26, 2013 09:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:

With the 8th house maybe you could check the sign that Saturn is in, or focus on your 8th house Jupiter and Sun (Leo and Sag), if you have a phobia about Caps.

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Sag I like, I have a fair bit of it in my chart. Leo not massively.

I don't have a phobia as such. I just feel like other things are objectively better, so I must have them as opposed to what seems second rate to me.

Saturn is the last planet I would ever look at, because I think it deserves to be blown up

posted March 27, 2013 05:51 PM            

Ruler Venus in the 12th. I often bond with them somewhere quiet or privately.

2nd house: Scorpio, again no overlap. Pluto sits here. Getting closer to them definitely feels transformative to me. They make me feel more independent, confident and in control of my life.