posted April 03, 2013 10:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
"THE HOUSE RULED BY THE SIGN OF VENUS (FOR MEN) OR MARS (FOR WOMEN)."

My Mars is in Sag, so 9th house; 9th house contains Leo and all of Virgo for me.
HE is a Sag, with a Mars-Jupiter-conjunction in Virgo.

His Venus is in Cappy,s o 10th house for him; his 10th house is in Sag.
my Venus is in Cappy, but my Sun is in Sag, conjunct his MC.

"THE HOUSE RULED BY THE SIGN ON THE DSC."
Gemini on my DESC; 3rd house has Aquarius and Pisces and Jupiter is in there.
He has Pisces ASC, and a stellium of personal planets including Sun and Moon in Sag.

Virgo on his dESC (Libra intercepted); 6th house has Leo and Virgo, with a Mars-Jupiter conjunction in there.
While I do not have Leo or Virgo placements, I have a first house Sun and Mercury in conjunction; plus I am a Mars-Jupiter-girl. ASC in Sag conjunct Mars, square Jupiter.

"lways look to 4th, 5th, 6th, 7th, or 8th,"
only some higlights from the top of my head:

my 4th house ruler conjuncts his 4th and 7t house ruler (4 degrees)
his 4th house ruler conjuncts my ASC and NN (2 degrees and exactly).

my 5th house ruler is in a wide trine to his Mars-Jupiter-conjunction (4-5) and also trines his Chiron (3), thus completing a GT.

his 5th house ruler is conjunct my Sun and Mercury (DESC-ruler): 2-3 degrees

my 6th house ruler is the same as my 5th house ruler.
his 6th house ruler conjuncts my Sun and Mercury (DESC-ruler) (one degree orb)

my 7th house ruler conjuncts his Sun, Moon and MC (one to three degrees)

his 7th house ruler conjuncts my ASC (2), NN (0), Neptune (0)

my 8th house ruler trines his 8th house ruler (4)
his 8th house ruler squares my Vertex exact, and my Sun/Moon-mp
his traditional 8th house ruler opposes my ASC-ruler exactly

My Mars-ASC-NN also falls into his 8th house.

"Also Sun conjunct Moon and vice versa are nice aspects to have."
His MOon conjuncts my Sun by 2-3 degrees.

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Hi Ceri,

I always feel somewhat vindicated when you have ‘hits’. Probably because I really respect your astrological opinion on things, so thanks for the response.

I find it particularly interesting that you’re drawn to his Virgo placements in your 9th house (ruled by your Sag Mars), and his Pisces Asc in your 3rd house (your secondary Dsc).

My primary focus is the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses, the Vertex Axis, and Juno (more and more I’m starting to see that this asteroid is actually quite influential in our choice of partners).

Whenever the above synastry connections seem to be lacking in a comparison, I’ll check the secondary Dsc, and the houses ruled by the signs of Venus and Mars (for women and men respectively)… It’s amazing how many hits I’ve been able to pull from these. Along with the secondary 5th and 8th houses sometimes.

It’s like there’s an echo, or energy current that circulates through our charts using sign/house relationships. The same house or planet theme will repeat itself several times over in our charts in different ways. The more a certain sign or planet is repeated in a theme ‘circuit‘ (pathway pattern), the more attracted we are to this energy in that area of life.

I use this technique primarily for romantic synastry, but really you could use it for anything in the chart.

posted April 04, 2013 07:40 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Per Lotis White:

THE HOUSE RULED BY THE SIGN OF VENUS (FOR MEN) OR MARS (FOR WOMEN).

The first trick I use is the house of Venus for men, and the house of Mars for women. This is not the house that Venus or Mars are actually in, it’s a bit more abstract then this. It goes like this… Each sign is said to rule a house, Aries rules the 1st house, Taurus rules the 2nd house, Gemini rules the 3rd house, and so on. Well, if a man has Venus in Gemini, or a women has Mars in Gemini, then you look at the 3rd house for more details on your ideal masculine or feminine image. If you have Venus in Taurus (for men) or Mars in Taurus (for women), then check the 2nd house for extra details on what you find attractive about the opposite sex. Mars and Venus have a lot to do with what type of gender roles we find attractive.

THE HOUSE RULED BY THE SIGN ON THE DSC.

This uses a similar method to the Venus/Mars thing. For extra information on the type of partner you look for, check out the house ruled by the sign on your Dsc. For example, I’ve got a Gemini Dsc, Gemini rules the 3rd house, so the 3rd house will show extra detail about the type of partner I’m attracted to…. I’ve got Aquarius on the 3rd house cusp ruled by Uranus in Scorpio. It’s true. I find people with personal planets in Aquarius and Scorpio fascinating and I am intrigued by, and attracted to them.

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Always look to 4th, 5th, 6th, 7th, or 8th, houses. I mention 4th and 6th because family, and everyday issues are apart of marriage - no?

Also Sun conjunct Moon and vice versa are nice aspects to have.

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Wow this is really helpful! Thank you so much, sorry i havnt replied earlier!

posted April 04, 2013 09:23 PM            

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THE HOUSE RULED BY THE SIGN OF VENUS (FOR MEN) OR MARS (FOR WOMEN).

The first trick I use is the house of Venus for men, and the house of Mars for women. This is not the house that Venus or Mars are actually in, it’s a bit more abstract then this. It goes like this… Each sign is said to rule a house, Aries rules the 1st house, Taurus rules the 2nd house, Gemini rules the 3rd house, and so on. Well, if a man has Venus in Gemini, or a women has Mars in Gemini, then you look at the 3rd house for more details on your ideal masculine or feminine image. If you have Venus in Taurus (for men) or Mars in Taurus (for women), then check the 2nd house for extra details on what you find attractive about the opposite sex. Mars and Venus have a lot to do with what type of gender roles we find attractive.

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I never looked at it this way.

So let us try.

He has Cap-venus and looking at the 10th his Venus conjunct Neptune in there.
Which would mean he likes a Venus/Neptune girl. Well yes, I have an exact Venus/Neptune trine in my natal.

The house ruled by my Aqua-Mars (to stay in the context of the quote above) is the 11th in which we find my Venus trine Neptune in 4th. So in fact, I'm searching for the same as he is, a Venus/Neptune vibe, and yes I found that.

So in this case, what we search for is also what we actually *are*.

The same for his Venus/Nept. conjunction which in aspect to his Jupiter/Vesta.
My Venus/Nept. also to my Jupiter/Vesta.

A bit of the same energy is what I conclude. Do we really need houses for this?

posted April 04, 2013 10:29 PM            

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Originally posted by ELoveCherishEndure:
I need help see...
I have a weak Venus (8th in delineation) and a Mars that is in detriment (6th in delineation) so the question is, will there be any hope in the love department? I mean what would be a good match... a strong Venus to counter mines. I also have a Moon and Venus square but due to my even weaker moon, (10th in delineation) so what can I do because this is sad to me, very sad to me... I mean, here comes the pessimist again smh but does delineation really matter when looking at what goes best with you?

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