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somethingexcellent
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posted March 24, 2013 09:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm amorous. I get infatuated really easily. But that's beside the point of the topic.

My ideal relationship with a girl would probably be lots of aesthetics. I'd want to be seen as the attractive or fashionable couple. Go out lots. Socialites. Have a wide circle of friends between the two of us. Buy each other stuff...
A Venusian couple? Maybe with a bit of Sun thrown in. A Solar-Venusian couple.

With a guy, I'd want some badass, tall, strongly built guy. I'd want to be more independent, but at home, I wouldn't mind being particularly close ( ) all the time. Or maybe we could go out lots, but keep to ourselves.
Neptune for sure. Pluto and Neptune.

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starfairy
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posted March 24, 2013 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starfairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ooh, well, I'd have a really hot, tall, lanky guy. I'd like him to be very intellectual, polite, humble, successful, FUNNY, and not overly-emotional or clingy. I like family-oriented men. Chauvinistic men are dead to me, so he definitely has to believe in gender equality! Oh, and my beliefs are of utmost importance to me, so I'd like someone with similar beliefs as mine.

Oh, and he should have an extremely strong sex drive. A healthy and plentiful sex life is VERY important to me. He'd have to be very open to experimentation.

I definitely value my independence, so he'd have to give me space, and I'd do the same for him.

Most importantly: he has to be someone I can trust.

Ideally, we would travel a lot together.

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Kerosene
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posted March 24, 2013 10:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm so bad at this.
I hate fantasizing about perfect relationships that always depresses me and I stay away from things that depress me.

Someone who loves to travel, someone who's spontaneous and surprises me everyday. Someone that would try gross foods with me. They have to be random and willing to have strange conversations and not be weirded out. I need space, and not needy lover that texts me a billion times a day.

Is that too much to ask? jeez

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Kerosene
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posted March 24, 2013 10:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by starfairy:
Ooh, well, I'd have a really hot, tall, lanky guy. I'd like him to be very intellectual, polite, humble, successful, FUNNY, and not overly-emotional or clingy. I like family-oriented men. Chauvinistic men are dead to me, so he definitely has to believe in gender equality! Oh, and my beliefs are of utmost importance to me, so I'd like someone with similar beliefs as mine.

Oh, and he should have an extremely strong sex drive. A healthy and plentiful sex life is VERY important to me. He'd have to be very open to experimentation.

I definitely value my independence, so he'd have to give me space, and I'd do the same for him.

Most importantly: he has to be someone I can trust.

Ideally, we would travel a lot together.


OMG <33333333333 Ours is so similar I did not even see yours when I was thinking of mine!!!!

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k e p h x i
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posted March 24, 2013 10:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for k e p h x i     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by starfairy:
Ooh, well, I'd have a really hot, tall, lanky guy. I'd like him to be very intellectual, polite, humble, successful, FUNNY, and not overly-emotional or clingy. I like family-oriented men. Chauvinistic men are dead to me, so he definitely has to believe in gender equality! Oh, and my beliefs are of utmost importance to me, so I'd like someone with similar beliefs as mine.

Oh, and he should have an extremely strong sex drive. A healthy and plentiful sex life is VERY important to me. He'd have to be very open to experimentation.

I definitely value my independence, so he'd have to give me space, and I'd do the same for him.

Most importantly: he has to be someone I can trust.

Ideally, we would travel a lot together.


This.

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starfairy
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posted March 24, 2013 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starfairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
OMG <33333333333 Ours is so similar I did not even see yours when I was thinking of mine!!!!

Aww it so is!! I need a guy like youuuuuuu.

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starfairy
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posted March 24, 2013 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starfairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
k e p h x i: OMG HAHAHAHHAH!!

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Vradec
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posted March 24, 2013 10:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vradec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hm, a man who understands me and connects with me intellectually, and who is superior to me in terms of intellect. Someone who is mature and artistic, in music or art or literature. I need someone who is good with words: poetic. I need someone magnetic and mature, who is strong and is his own man. Someone who rebels and goes against the flow. Someone who will love me unconditionally and will stick by me no matter what.

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Jkitty
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posted March 24, 2013 10:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jkitty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's been different at different points in my life. In the past, I was more influenced by expectations of others (read traditional marriage), now I tend to think more for myself. What IS marriage about? I think it's supposed to be about commitment and sexual exclusivity, but with the divorce rate so high and people who cheat on spouses, current trends like "freinds with benefits", I'm likely to try for a different approach. Maybe I'd be better off getting a guy to just tatoo "____'s toy" above his penis? Now THAT's more likely to result in sexual exclusivity!

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nove731
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posted March 24, 2013 11:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nove731     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Honestly, I don't think that I could put my ideal relationship into words any better than Beach Fossils did in their song Golden Age...so I'm not going to try.
http://youtu.be/yoyTJQk4Les

(Definitely feeling my Pisces Venus/DSC with this one, haha)

In terms of the guy himself...I really like men who are both very artsy-fartsy (an artist? a musician? hmmmm, hah), but also very traditional, with a strong family background (perhaps from a prominent/established family?)...and maybe even somewhat of what some might consider a "bro". I also really value men that are witty and intellectual, but also very assertive (but not controlling or ego-centric). In terms of looks, I love men that are classically attractive.

I feel like this is an awfully awkward (even impossible) conglomeration of "wants". (Must be Moon in Sag square Venus, haha)

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Lunae
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posted March 24, 2013 11:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lunae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My ideal guy should be well-balanced-- personality, intellect, looks. I want someone whom I can feel a connection.. someone whom I can be comfortable being myself and who can accept me for who I really am.

Hmm. That must be my Libra Venus and Pisces moon talking. XD

Does a guy like that even exist in real life nowadays? XD

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I'm so cappy
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posted March 24, 2013 11:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He's a Nordic alien and he gets me out of here.

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freebrainstorms
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posted March 25, 2013 01:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for freebrainstorms     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
Someone who loves to travel, someone who's spontaneous and surprises me everyday. Someone that would try gross foods with me. They have to be random and willing to have strange conversations and not be weirded out. I need space, and not needy lover that texts me a billion times a day.

THIS. Yeah, a random weirdo who loves to talk about humanity and the universe, must want to travel, respects my independence and gender equality and feminism, respects his family (provided they deserved his respect), must love animals and nature, must care about the world/social justice/human rights/the environment, must be passionate about music, has to be artsy in some way (visual artists and musicians get bonus points), and be into the exploration and expansion of the mind through stimulants.

EDIT: haha i guess that's not really a scenario.... i want someone to go an adventure with: a physical adventure both sex and traveling, a mental adventure (amazing conversation and mind expanding experiences), spiritual adventure (sex, drugs, and a soul connection? lol)

(venus in pisces, mars in sagittarius)

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k e p h x i
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posted March 25, 2013 01:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for k e p h x i     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Honestly? People who show slave-ish devotion.

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Lotis White
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posted March 25, 2013 02:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/215311.html

Here's a thread that's similar to this one. I'll all about what people would do if they were to write themselves into their own love story.

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somethingexcellent
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posted March 25, 2013 02:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^Wow cool thanks a lot for that!!!!!!!!!!!

Edit: I feel bashful so I'm not gonna post in it, but thanks lmfao!!

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virgolotus
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posted March 25, 2013 03:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgolotus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I have Venus in LIBRA SQUARE NEPTUNE
so I idealize relationships a lot.
80% of my mind is full of scenarios/dreams of being in love.

I also like drama, raw emotion. I want to feel! Feel the uncontrollable passion whether good or bad, but also the weakness and vulnerability it brings. And at the end of the day we will still know we love each other deeply and express that in the bedroom. But most of all, I want to merge with the person.

But that's just me idealizing lol

I'm too fickle though so.. Idk how this would ever happen.

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blondiepowers
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posted March 25, 2013 05:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blondiepowers     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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KarkaQueen
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posted March 25, 2013 06:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by starfairy:
Ooh, well, I'd have a really hot, tall, lanky guy. I'd like him to be very intellectual, polite, humble, successful, FUNNY, and not overly-emotional or clingy. I like family-oriented men. Chauvinistic men are dead to me, so he definitely has to believe in gender equality! Oh, and my beliefs are of utmost importance to me, so I'd like someone with similar beliefs as mine.

Oh, and he should have an extremely strong sex drive. A healthy and plentiful sex life is VERY important to me. He'd have to be very open to experimentation.

I definitely value my independence, so he'd have to give me space, and I'd do the same for him.

Most importantly: he has to be someone I can trust.

Ideally, we would travel a lot together.


For me, looks don't matter, I can go for a goofy looking guy with a hot personality all the time. He has to have brains and deep thinker (Mercury in 7h, Venus in Gemini). I don't mind short men, I like it actually (5"5-5"8). I like overly emotional and clingy men, like them to be possessive over me and show it well. Can't stand detachedness. Chauvinistic men are attractive. He has to have a good sex drive I guess, maybe slightly strong, not extremely though. we should be dependent and clingy to each other, i love clingy emotional men damn it. I admit it (Cancer Sun, Mars, and DSC)

but he has to be smart , witty and funny too, I expect my boyfriend to be my whole life well main support (sun conjunct descendant)

i want him sexually for me and always, i like a dominate man but he can be a sweet lover too. i want to cuddle with him all the time too and i want him to do that with me too.

Now lets see how many women will hate me, I know, because I'm not a typical "post-feminist" modern woman.

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KarkaQueen
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posted March 25, 2013 06:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh yeah he has to be eccentric and a freak in his mind, gotta share everything with me if he hides anything or leaves me alone for a few hours i just go nuts.. o_o no joke. lol.

my boyfriend is like this, but he has venus and mars in gemini and an air dominate so he can be a little.. aloof and cold to me sometimes.. and snarky when he is mad.

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KarkaQueen
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posted March 25, 2013 06:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i want him to be all over me, and constantly show how much he loves me.

yes im a nut, and i admit i am insecure too, but then my chart shows this is my nature, and I'm a Moon dominate which isn't common on LL at all. so maybe its just my genes

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PixieJane
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posted March 26, 2013 07:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Chauvinistic men are attractive. He has to have a good sex drive I guess, maybe slightly strong, not extremely though. we should be dependent and clingy to each other, i love clingy emotional men damn it. I admit it (Cancer Sun, Mars, and DSC)

Don't hate, but I have to share this (this is humor and you're invited to laugh WITH)...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JCV6Q5W06rQ

She likes the same type of guy (Draco) you do, and yet he's not sweet so she goes after Luna (which reminds me of your being moon dominant) to fill in that gap on the side (inspiration should you find the same common problem of a chauvinistic, clingy guy not being sweet enough).

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